Wow!!
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Chatz on Sunday, July 22, 2007 and has 23 replies.
OK well I just have to share this with you all - especially those who have helped so much in my understanding of this particular Libran creature!!
Things are going really well and I went to his place last night - OMG he was the perfect host, and he was like a little kid bringing a school mate home to show off his toys....so cute!! I think deep down he was as nervous as hell allowing me into his private little world but the ice has been broken - wooohoooo!!! He asked me at least 4 times the day before if I was still "interested"....talk about insecure about it all. Somehow I don't think many people get to see that side of him.
Its been 9 months now and we're getting closer all the time...he truly is my best friend and OMG so sexy on top of it....how lucky can a girl get? sheesh!! The best part is how he wraps himself around me all night long......OMG that is so devine...I have never known anybody so clingy in that way - its yummy!!! And I won't forget the vision of him standing in his doorway with just his jeans on as I drove away this morning....that will NEVER leave my mind....again, yummy!!
OK I had to share it with somebody....Im bursting with joy. Im not scared of losing him to anybody else, Im not worrying if I dont hear from him for a few days...finally I've worked him out (as best as one can I suppose)....he truly just loses track of time and that's all it is but now I know he feels the same way about me as I do him.
Anyway, that's it - sorry to bore you all
Things are going really well and I went to his place last night - OMG he was the perfect host, and he was like a little kid bringing a school mate home to show off his toys....so cute!! I think deep down he was as nervous as hell allowing me into his private little world but the ice has been broken - wooohoooo!!! He asked me at least 4 times the day before if I was still "interested"....talk about insecure about it all. Somehow I don't think many people get to see that side of him.
Its been 9 months now and we're getting closer all the time...he truly is my best friend and OMG so sexy on top of it....how lucky can a girl get? sheesh!! The best part is how he wraps himself around me all night long......OMG that is so devine...I have never known anybody so clingy in that way - its yummy!!! And I won't forget the vision of him standing in his doorway with just his jeans on as I drove away this morning....that will NEVER leave my mind....again, yummy!!
OK I had to share it with somebody....Im bursting with joy. Im not scared of losing him to anybody else, Im not worrying if I dont hear from him for a few days...finally I've worked him out (as best as one can I suppose)....he truly just loses track of time and that's all it is but now I know he feels the same way about me as I do him.
Anyway, that's it - sorry to bore you all
I think he is beginning to realize how much you have helped him and how much you actually care. I have a lot of respect and admiration for how you have gone about all of this. wow.
THat's great, Chatz. As far as their clingyness at night, it is definitely a nice, secure feeling - like you feel safe and the world is how it should be.
And if you get the kiss amd whisper in the ear in the morning, then your day is set!
I'm happy that you've hung around for him. Sounds like he is coming around and realizing just how great you are.
And if you get the kiss amd whisper in the ear in the morning, then your day is set!
I'm happy that you've hung around for him. Sounds like he is coming around and realizing just how great you are.
thanks everybody,....yeah....life is great and HP??? the kiss and whisper?? yup thats it, were you watching?? LOL and OMG you summed it up just perfect re: feeling safe and the world is how it should be....perfect!!
Don't give me all the credit here....YOU all helped me so much in understanding this man....I'd have run so many times if it weren't for you all and your advice.
A HUGE thank you
Don't give me all the credit here....YOU all helped me so much in understanding this man....I'd have run so many times if it weren't for you all and your advice.
A HUGE thank you
Wasn't watching - just sharing a bit of how it is when I'm with my boyfriend (I miss him - still out of state until Tuesday). 
But I'm so very happy for you. Sounds like he's come to his senses.
But I'm so very happy for you. Sounds like he's come to his senses.
OMG watch out boyfriend when he gets back!! Hope he's ready to be pounced on LOL
Thanks HP....I think he has too
Thanks HP....I think he has too
LOL, he called me tonight (he's called me each days he's been gone) and told me that he's having a great time, but misses me and can't wait to see my smile again.
aww...
I replied with "I miss you too...just wait til you get home...you'll be really begging for sleep once I'm done with you!"
aww...
I replied with "I miss you too...just wait til you get home...you'll be really begging for sleep once I'm done with you!"
LOL
Yay!!! Chatz, now you are getting the creme de la Libra we have been telling you about. He finally realizes he almost lost out on a really great person who adores him. Congrats..
Well HP, at least I am not the only person at the moment without my Libra love. You will see yours before me anyway.
Well HP, at least I am not the only person at the moment without my Libra love. You will see yours before me anyway.
OOps, you will see yours before I see mine...
CONGRATS!!!... things will get accelerated soon. 
I do look forward to that, in fact, I cannot wait, and thanks thelibran For all your help and advice...again, priceless!!
For all your help and advice...again, priceless!!Awesome, Chatz! And well deserved (it's all about deserving...)
Has anyone heard from Atom? I am curiously wondering how his dinner date with Libra Girl has gone over the weekend and if Atom put her on the spot somehow.
Has anyone heard from Atom? I am curiously wondering how his dinner date with Libra Girl has gone over the weekend and if Atom put her on the spot somehow.
LOL LEEBRA!!! I dont want to leave...I like it here
O Miss Kitty, I am so jealous! Wot a lucky guy he be.
My dinner date with Libra Girl? Well, I had an advantage: I saw my Leo Girl friend a few hours before hand. That gets sparks flying just cuz we're on that same energy level, fire bursts popping everywhere. She just brings a smile on my face (yah, she's drop dead gorgeous and sweet but we're just friends). So when I went to see Libra Girl it was no big deal. I took her tortellini w/ cheese sauce and a few vegs and wine and told her if she didn't want that I'd take her out for dinner. Well we ate the tortellini and I just let her talk and talk and talk and talk (which I'm sure nic' would agree is the way to a girl's heart). I had done some real estate homework for her, which surprised her, and we went over that (the cerebral thing, y'know---only thing I can think of that MIGHT turn her on. Ha!). Then I noticed she was getting sleepy so I said I was going to take off. She said, "No, I've only seen you for a few hours!" She INSISTED I stay and watch a video---an old Marx Brothers movie---humour----another way to a girl's heart. We touched some, not much. I don't feel like touching much right now. She laughed at the movie. Struggled with making ANY future plans (like what to do on WEDNESDAY---SO FAR AWAY!)----so I just dropped it and told her, "Good night." I've found if I just leave without mentioning ANYTHING about the future, she panics in a few days, calls to see what I'm up to and drops hints like crazy that she wants to see me.
So no punching from her like the last two times. Pretty much time together as usual. I asked my Leo friend what she thought of the whole punching thing and she advised, "Tread lightly." Seems like good advice to me.
The next day this wonderful Gem Girl calls to take me out to coffee. Yeah, she looks like a model too---I get a lot of stares when I'm out on dates, BUT they're not looking at ME! Ha!
I know I'm smitten with Libra Girl for whatever reasons, but it's sure nice to have my gorgeous pals show up to spend time with too.
My dinner date with Libra Girl? Well, I had an advantage: I saw my Leo Girl friend a few hours before hand. That gets sparks flying just cuz we're on that same energy level, fire bursts popping everywhere. She just brings a smile on my face (yah, she's drop dead gorgeous and sweet but we're just friends). So when I went to see Libra Girl it was no big deal. I took her tortellini w/ cheese sauce and a few vegs and wine and told her if she didn't want that I'd take her out for dinner. Well we ate the tortellini and I just let her talk and talk and talk and talk (which I'm sure nic' would agree is the way to a girl's heart). I had done some real estate homework for her, which surprised her, and we went over that (the cerebral thing, y'know---only thing I can think of that MIGHT turn her on. Ha!). Then I noticed she was getting sleepy so I said I was going to take off. She said, "No, I've only seen you for a few hours!" She INSISTED I stay and watch a video---an old Marx Brothers movie---humour----another way to a girl's heart. We touched some, not much. I don't feel like touching much right now. She laughed at the movie. Struggled with making ANY future plans (like what to do on WEDNESDAY---SO FAR AWAY!)----so I just dropped it and told her, "Good night." I've found if I just leave without mentioning ANYTHING about the future, she panics in a few days, calls to see what I'm up to and drops hints like crazy that she wants to see me.
So no punching from her like the last two times. Pretty much time together as usual. I asked my Leo friend what she thought of the whole punching thing and she advised, "Tread lightly." Seems like good advice to me.
The next day this wonderful Gem Girl calls to take me out to coffee. Yeah, she looks like a model too---I get a lot of stares when I'm out on dates, BUT they're not looking at ME! Ha!
I know I'm smitten with Libra Girl for whatever reasons, but it's sure nice to have my gorgeous pals show up to spend time with too.
Thanks Atom...Im also very lucky
I got to thinking about something Mr Libra said on Sunday night as we were watching tv...he said "I'd love to go to New York" and I said "same". Its not the first time he's mentioned travel...last time it was Canada LOL. Im just wondering, as I told him some months ago that I was going to travel later this year, whether he's trying to work it in with me and whether he's trying to perhaps get a hint I'd be interested in going with him...you have to all remember, he's quite shy and I think fear of rejection is a big issue, and he's somewhat unsure of himself. I dunno but I would LURVE to go with him...bit hesitant in putting myself out there again though and really want him to show his hand before I'd offer that...whatchya think?
Atom....I say go with the gorgeous women who WANT to be with you...going out on different dates rocks!!! If it werent for the fact I decided to start dating others again, I'd not have gotten this close to my LIbra....long story but best thing I ever did....
I know you really like Miss Libra but she also needs to know how great you are and not take you for granted the way she does. Reading through the other posts, yes its time to have a talk to her...you have NOTHING to lose and she won't dump you for being honest about how you feel....I did it many times and he kept coming back LOL
Go for it!!! You are a fire sign - use it!!
I got to thinking about something Mr Libra said on Sunday night as we were watching tv...he said "I'd love to go to New York" and I said "same". Its not the first time he's mentioned travel...last time it was Canada LOL. Im just wondering, as I told him some months ago that I was going to travel later this year, whether he's trying to work it in with me and whether he's trying to perhaps get a hint I'd be interested in going with him...you have to all remember, he's quite shy and I think fear of rejection is a big issue, and he's somewhat unsure of himself. I dunno but I would LURVE to go with him...bit hesitant in putting myself out there again though and really want him to show his hand before I'd offer that...whatchya think?
Atom....I say go with the gorgeous women who WANT to be with you...going out on different dates rocks!!! If it werent for the fact I decided to start dating others again, I'd not have gotten this close to my LIbra....long story but best thing I ever did
....I know you really like Miss Libra but she also needs to know how great you are and not take you for granted the way she does. Reading through the other posts, yes its time to have a talk to her...you have NOTHING to lose and she won't dump you for being honest about how you feel....I did it many times and he kept coming back LOL
Go for it!!! You are a fire sign - use it!!
Mrrrrrrrrrrw. Yah. Using fire. I like.
Chatz - the New York comment is a hint.
Hint back and see if he picks it up...
Hint back and see if he picks it up...
OK....I will....wanna get this guy to commit to something!!! I dont particularly want to travel alone so it would be awesome!!
Chatz, the next time he says he would like to travel somewhere, say, me too, we should go sometime and leave it at that. That way he will know that you want to travel with him, just don't dwell on it. Throw it out there smile and change the subject. Works like a charm.
It happened to me, Chatz. It's their subtle hints.
Hey, Chatz, isn't it fun for Fire Signs to try to pick up on SUBTLE things? ('Drives us crazy!).
Yeah Atom, coz we're just so out there....if we want something or want to get a message across we put it out there...well not always (depends on the subject and who its with) but yeah..subtle hints aren't the easiest for us to pick up on. Let's just say Im not totally shy but HE is...he's so unsure of himself but yes I will say what you suggested next time QS coz thinking back now he's done it three times (3 different destinations) in the last few weeks....there's something in that!! I like your hint QS re: saying "we should go sometime" and then smile and change the subject. I've noticed he doesn't miss a single thing I ever say!!! Even though I think he's not really listening or pre-occupied...he DOES listen and then he thinks about it when we are apart (interesting to understand this creature) and I have to say its so amazing that when I do get his time he gives me his undivided attention...he's 100% there, not somewhere else. He remembers EVERYTHING I say, every detail about me, from the day we first met and just little things that I didn't think he'd remember or bother about..but he can rattle everything off..that's just way too much like me coz when Im truly interested in a person whether it be a great friend or a partner, I remember EVERYTHING.
"I personally and I think this is true of many Libras ... fall in love during the spaces"..just picked that up from another thread from LS and OMG how many times I have heard or read that in the past few days from Librans. Just thought I'd throw that one in for good measure
Im learning so much!!!
"I personally and I think this is true of many Libras ... fall in love during the spaces"..just picked that up from another thread from LS and OMG how many times I have heard or read that in the past few days from Librans. Just thought I'd throw that one in for good measure
Im learning so much!!!
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