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Wow @Cancerious20. Your story literally made a quick turn!
She seems to be trying to figure out what she wants in a future mate. Personally, I like dating a guy that has potential as a life-mate (not all virgo women are like this). But I hate "shopping" around for men. I just want one! I think she's try to do the same... settle on one guy.
You seem like a great guy & I hope she sees that. I'm on your team smile