Cappie ladies, are you really this forgiving?

Posted by marshmallow
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Never thought it could be true because when i think of myself i know i do not have an ability to forgive people , except for small stuff which i let go after some time. Cheating is a big thing and it not just makes you hurt but takes away your confidence and hampers your self respect . So no i wont be able to forgive and be friends in such a scenario .

Now if i think of it , if there are children involved then may be good parents would ideally want to maintain cordial relationship(atleast on the face of it) for the sake of children ?

Talking about celebrities, Deepika Padukone (Jan 5), i dont know how many people know her here. She is an Indian actor and is on top slot today in India. When she was still new she started dating Ranbir Kapoor (Libra). Now this guy belonged to the most known & influential Bollywood (Indian movies) family . He cheated on her with Katrina Kaif (Cancer ) (funny thing she was also dating a capricorn Salman Khan right before Ranbir Kapoor )

Now when the cheating came out initially they of course broke up and there were few sarcastic and insulting comments Deepika made about Ranbir Kapoor on a talk show and few other places . Fast forward few years they never stopped working with each other and eventually seems or clam to have become friends . Cold war between Katrina and Deepika is much claimed by media here . When i think of it , keeping aside the conversations and efforts that may have happened between the 2 (Deepika and Ranbir) in order to pacify things , I wonder if Deepika was also playing safe to establish her self in the Industry . She was new then and if she would have chosen to never work with him or have sour relationship then she would have missed out on many good opportunities as the industry to think of it is small . There are few people & families who have more hold on the major work happening . Today she is on top . Katrina is nothing more than a pretty face . (Work speaks loudest and is the best revenge)

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hey!! didn't know you were Indian too :-)

I agree about Deepika, she has tried to maintain friendship with Ranbir when she needn't have - she was and is TOP actress today, and Salman too still loves and has maintained friendship with Katrina despite their breakup.. :-)

It's only Cappies both the times who have forgiven and stayed friends with exes... well, except a few girlfriends of Salman :p ..it is said Salman is still friends with Sangeeta Bijlani(Cancer), Somi Ali (Aries - i think she is - she always speaks fondly of him tho).. Katrina also is fond of him.. except Aishwarya Rai with whom his breakup was nasty.


My experience has been, Cappies, if they allow you into their lives that closely will never let you go, no matter how you hurt them, they will take time but will not leave you so easily.

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Posted by marshmallow
@ OP

Never thought it could be true because when i think of myself i know i do not have an ability to forgive people , except for small stuff which i let go after some time. Cheating is a big thing and it not just makes you hurt but takes away your confidence and hampers your self respect . So no i wont be able to forgive and be friends in such a scenario .

Now if i think of it , if there are children involved then may be good parents would ideally want to maintain cordial relationship(atleast on the face of it) for the sake of children ?

Talking about celebrities, Deepika Padukone (Jan 5), i dont know how many people know her here. She is an Indian actor and is on top slot today in India. When she was still new she started dating Ranbir Kapoor (Libra). Now this guy belonged to the most known & influential Bollywood (Indian movies) family . He cheated on her with Katrina Kaif (Cancer ) (funny thing she was also dating a capricorn Salman Khan right before Ranbir Kapoor )

Now when the cheating came out initially they of course broke up and there were few sarcastic and insulting comments Deepika made about Ranbir Kapoor on a talk show and few other places . Fast forward few years they never stopped working with each other and eventually seems or clam to have become friends . Cold war between Katrina and Deepika is much claimed by media here . When i think of it , keeping aside the conversations and efforts that may have happened between the 2 (Deepika and Ranbir) in order to pacify things , I wonder if Deepika was also playing safe to establish her self in the Industry . She was new then and if she would have chosen to never work with him or have sour relationship then she would have missed out on many good opportunities as the industry to think of it is small . There are few people & families who have more hold on the major work happening . Today she is on top . Katrina is nothing more than a pretty face . (Work speaks loudest and is the best revenge)

Her chart :

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hey!! didn't know you were Indian too :-)

I agree about Deepika, she has tried to maintain friendship with Ranbir when she needn't have - she was and is TOP actress today, and Salman too still loves and has maintained friendship with Katrina despite their breakup.. :-)

It's only Cappies both the times who have forgiven and stayed friends with exes... well, except a few girlfriends of Salman :p ..it is said Salman is still friends with Sangeeta Bijlani, Somi Ali..


My experience has been, Cappies, if they allow you into their lives that closely will never let you go, no matter how you hurt them, they will take time but will not leave you so easily.