Finally a proper first date. Here's The Plan. ( Pisces Women Would You....)

Posted by Penguinpants
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Posted by Penguinpants
Wow. That's alot.

I'm a Pisces with a Cap moon and Venus in Pisces. This would be intriguing and fun, but I'm never getting on a plane to Morroco with a secret admirer. Now, a hot guy I'm already into, maybe. I would echo other poster's sentiments about making the "trip" someplace less threatening. Maybe buy her a great dress in her size and leave a note that says "wear this to dinner at x place, x time. Your secret admirer" that's less scary.
I feel like deep down she'll hope it will be me.We've interacted with each other a few times before and I feel like there's something between us.Something different. I don't know how to describe it.

I guess in a way this is my way of figuring out if she's the one. If she is...... if she's been feeling the same way about me as I feel for her.....


She'll get on the plane.

She may well be hoping it's you. She may dream of you nightly, but I'll tell you frankly and honestly, since this is the interwebs, this is terrifying. Allow me to try to explain.

Fish love imagining the grand gesture, but when we get it, if we are goal oriented (sometimes even a touch sharkey), we don't want it. It gets weird because there's just too much.

We may not like you anymore because it's just too grand and that means big love and love is the most terrifying thing on the planet to fish like me (and she's somewhat like me, according to your posts). Love means we get hurt. I'd swim away so fast emotionally.

Good luck though....

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This may have well happened to me with another Pisces woman.

About 10 years ago though I did the grand gesture with someone I was really close friends with and it paid off. What's funny is that the grand gesture doesn't feel like such a grand gesture to the person who is willing to do it. It feels easy...natural.

Like the most logical step to your relationship. It's only afterward people tell you that it is abnormal...or grand.lol