What are the lessons you have learned from relationships ?
Posted by PootyButtCould be why, true. Good that you can have both perspectives.Posted by CopperDoveI have Neptune in the 7th house....think that might have something to do with my undying devotion to the idea. But I'm a Gemini sun, so I have no problem holding both ideas at once and looking at them and thinking about them.Posted by PootyButtI'm a Scorpio sun and agree with @brianafay. Granted, my sun has an out of sign conjunction with my Sag Mercury, lol.Posted by brianafayThat's your Sag sun talking!
Also, there's more than one option out there for you and no one person is perfect.
People tend to hyper focus on finding "the one" as if there is only one lonely person out there that would be good for you
Just find someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with, gives you good sex, and treats you with respect and kindness (but still calls you on your shit cause you need that)I can't let go of the gut feeling of the soulmate concept no matter how many times my brain tells me it's bogus.
But I was into the one person only/soul mate idea when I was younger. Over time I came to a different way of looking at romantic relatinships, as brianafay describes.click to expand
My Neptune is in my 7th house too, closely conjunct my Sag Mercury also in the 7th.