What are the lessons you have learned from relationships ?

You could know the inner workings of a sign, very well. So much so, that even those of the sign agree with your observations.

Now, you become somewhat of an expert but know this, that has no relevance to the individual in question.

Astrology will not give you the answers to the abuse, bullying, the belittlement, the lack of respect, etc.

Look to the individual, the answer lies there. They are the problem; not birth charts, not synastry, not astrology.