Can you chord cut your Twin Flame?

So i've recently realized that the man I've been dealing with is my twin flame (explains so much). Unfortunately I/we sabotaged our relationship so much that we are no longer in contact. The pain of loss and missing him at times is almost unbearable but I'm doing my best in dealing with it. I went to my local wiccan shop today an built an energy bag of various stones and crystals to both cleanse my energy and help deal with my pain which is REALLY helping. I really hope it lasts. Anyway; I attempted the chord cut a few weeks ago but gave up midway through. Since then I've learned so much about Twin Flames & synastry (turns out we're also star-crossed lovers) so the odds of us ever making a real go of it are pretty slim. But my question is; if a person is your twin flame, can you ever really cut the astral chord between the two people? Is that even possible? Deep down I know that I will love him forever even if not in a romantic way, so I'm unclear as to what the chord would do in the case of twin flames. Any body have any experience or opinions on this?

I chord-cut the shit out of my twinflame. It has offered some temporary relief. Really I think its just an exercise of the imagination that has limited psychological benefit. I'm not sure that anything is happening here on a metaphysical level. If only it were that easy....

@Impulsv my tf is also a taurus (go figure) All this time we've both commented to each other how weird (for lack of a better word) our meeting has been. It's odd to the point of freaky how alike and different we are all at the same time. He used to call me the female him. I really cannot put it into words properly. We could remain in contact right now; there is no real animosity between us. I just know that right now I need to step away and get over my romantic feelings for him so that maybe in the future we can be friends. I'm just filled with a LOT of fear with this guy. And where I NEED to communicate he NEEDS to run when it gets too deep. So for now we need to not be in each others lives. I just don't want to completely ruin his opinion of me with my fear and craziness. I too feel that I've done irreparable damage (taur moon/asc) with my tf at least on a romantic level. And I'm having a hard time not beating myself up about my actions and I'm really hurt that my actions caused me to have to lose him. So how do you cut only certain chords and not others? A part of me is telling me to not even attempt it, to absorb this pain and learn from these fears. I have to say that the stones and crystals i bought have really helped give me clarity of things.

@TLS So what affect if any did it have? When I tried to do a few weeks ago it actually made me feel worse. I guess the point is not to feel immediately better but to let go of the energy that's holding me to him.

I agree wholly...Funny enough I've been having dual thoughts on how to handle this relationship ever since we met. My logical side (ego) which tells me to run and push him away and that these feelings can't be real and CERTAINLY not mutual. And then my gut (soul) which has told me from day one, to calm down relax, this is actually happening, it is a mutual connection (and I'm not talking romance here...its sooo much more than that). It's always told me not to leave him that we need each other, to move past the need to control things and allow us to flourish into whatever it is we're meant to be. Unfortunately I followed logic in the face of him not being able to communicate properly and me feeling that meant it was all in my head. I literally have a journal where I wrote all these thought down so I could come back and see if I was right to be logical or soulful. Then when we started to clash, my gut told me to step back and allow us both time to heal and come back stronger. But he fought that HARD and I didn't really want to leave so I didn't. In the end I both consciously and unconsciously pushed him away. It was like I knew we needed to be out of each others lives but I also knew that neither of us would actually leave. So I would start fights, act overly insecure etc etc. I knew these actions would ruin us but I did them anyway because deep down I know I needed him to leave me even though I really didn't/don't want him to. Well he finally did, started calling less and less. Stop seeing each other as often. Then we talked about where things were and I told him I would not contact him anymore. So yea I'm just doing what I know I should've done a while ago and allow the needed separation to take place. Hopefully as I heal and rebuild the full scope of the lessons I'm meant to learn will unfold.

What happened with your tf? you can pm me if it's too personal

and yea the forgiving myself thing is really proving to be the hardest part. I'm just so upset with myself. I feel like if I would have known about this tf thing sooner I would have handled things better. I know we can still be friends but I hate that I've ruined the chance for us to be more. I know until I forgive myself for this I cannot properly move on. I just don't know how to forgive myself for this...

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@TLS So what affect if any did it have? When I tried to do a few weeks ago it actually made me feel worse. I guess the point is not to feel immediately better but to let go of the energy that's holding me to him.

I felt some pretty immediate relief. I went to a Reiki practitioner and had him cut the chords though. And I would do it over and over after meditation myself. Buuuuuut...honestly? It all comes flooding back when I just see her again.....Chord cutting has been around forever. The imagination is very powerful IMO, psychically/metaphysically; I just don't think its the answer for this. Impulsv knows what she's talking about. We've discussed...Definitely something karmic and a lesson to be learned. She has some good resources to, that I agree with.

Posted by fembot
and yea the forgiving myself thing is really proving to be the hardest part. I'm just so upset with myself. I feel like if I would have known about this tf thing sooner I would have handled things better. I know we can still be friends but I hate that I've ruined the chance for us to be more. I know until I forgive myself for this I cannot properly move on. I just don't know how to forgive myself for this...

Same issues....Hate how I reacted to all this. I was SUCH a child. But that's the lesson for some; it exposes childish fear-based behaviors that you need to shed.

"The imagination is very powerful IMO, psychically/metaphysically; I just don't think its the answer for this."

I agree TLS and I think that's why I can't commit to the chord cutting. Because deep down I know my mind ultimately controls the whether or not the chord gets cut. So long as I allow myself access to those emotions that chord can never fully be cut. Perhaps if I did the cut after going through the process of getting over him (to clean out the residue). But I don't think I could actually remove that chord until my emotions have been dealt with, contained and I'm over him. Until then it's like applying a bandaid to a gunshot wound; it'll stop the bleeding for a moment but it will not heal the wound.

I think my block is that I don't want to accept that my behavior ruined things. Then i'll have to accept that that part of our relationship is over. Once I accept that though then I can begin to grow from those mistakes and ensure that I don't allow my fear to control me like this again. It's all a long painful process, but there is a part of this pain that is a bit poetic.

My answer would be NO. You can not chord cut that which is part of you. The whole idea behind the twin flame theory is that the person is actually your "other half".

I don't know if you can; but ever since I've focused more on myself and my life's purpose; the fact that we hardly communicate doesn't bother me anymore. It's not painful either; I don't obsess, or cry. In fact and rather happy; and have a new level of awareness of thy self.

You can let go of that which isn't serving you in any way; however I don't know about severing the connection; don't know if it's possible.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
You would never want to cut the chord if a TF. This doesn't even make sense to me. Why would you want to do that?

Maybe you aren't dealing with a TF? It would be like cutting your own chord. Imagine a streak of light in the shape of infinity. You are one half your TF is the other. Where do you cut so you don't cut your own chord as well? It can't happen. Just saying.

I don't want to chord cut him. I was just curious if something like that could even be done since a tf is supposed to be the other half of your soul. Having recently learned about the tf connection and knowing what I know about a chord cut, it made me wonder if that's a chord that you could cut even if you tried.

Have I thought about it? ABSOLUTELY! I'm not sure about your experience but my experience so far has been (at times) completely overwhelming to the point that all I would want to do is run and hide until the whole thing just went away. But maybe that's just me...

Posted by Sagittarius2315
I don't know if you can; but ever since I've focused more on myself and my life's purpose; the fact that we hardly communicate doesn't bother me anymore. It's not painful either; I don't obsess, or cry. In fact and rather happy; and have a new level of awareness of thy self.

You can let go of that which isn't serving you in any way; however I don't know about severing the connection; don't know if it's possible.

TBH ever since I finally learned and accepted what this whole relationship really is, it's actually allowed me to just accept...everything about our relationship. Even the fact that we can't now and maybe not ever be together romantically. Oddly enough I'm coming to understand that all of my anxiety wasn't about a commitment from him, it was actually just my extreme need to know that he was feeling the same intensity and overwhelming connection that I was. At times I felt insane to be feeling the way I did and just wanted to know if it was all in my head. As I come to understand what I'm dealing with it's actually removing the burden of the pain I'd been feeling for the past few weeks. I'm ok with us not being together I just needed to know that I wasn't crazy all this time...lol

Posted by fembot

TBH ever since I finally learned and accepted what this whole relationship really is, it's actually allowed me to just accept...everything about our relationship. Even the fact that we can't now and maybe not ever be together romantically. Oddly enough I'm coming to understand that all of my anxiety wasn't about a commitment from him, it was actually just my extreme need to know that he was feeling the same intensity and overwhelming connection that I was. At times I felt insane to be feeling the way I did and just wanted to know if it was all in my head. As I come to understand what I'm dealing with it's actually removing the burden of the pain I'd been feeling for the past few weeks. I'm ok with us not being together I just needed to know that I wasn't crazy all this time...lol

I can very much relate. Do the two of you have a lot of opposing signs in your charts? For example, Leo/ Aquarius, Cancer/Capricorn, etc. in particular planets. I'm just curious.

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Posted by fembot

TBH ever since I finally learned and accepted what this whole relationship really is, it's actually allowed me to just accept...everything about our relationship. Even the fact that we can't now and maybe not ever be together romantically. Oddly enough I'm coming to understand that all of my anxiety wasn't about a commitment from him, it was actually just my extreme need to know that he was feeling the same intensity and overwhelming connection that I was. At times I felt insane to be feeling the way I did and just wanted to know if it was all in my head. As I come to understand what I'm dealing with it's actually removing the burden of the pain I'd been feeling for the past few weeks. I'm ok with us not being together I just needed to know that I wasn't crazy all this time...lol

I can very much relate. Do the two of you have a lot of opposing signs in your charts? For example, Leo/ Aquarius, Cancer/Capricorn, etc. in particular planets. I'm just curious.

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Oddly our charts are strangely similar with the exception of our opposing moons (his scorpio/mine taurus). We both have scorpio in the 7th house with saturn in transit until Oct as well. Which hasn't helped...

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Oddly our charts are strangely similar with the exception of our opposing moons (his scorpio/mine taurus). We both have scorpio in the 7th house with saturn in transit until Oct as well. Which hasn't helped...

Interesting! Same for Sag, they have very similar charts.

I've read conflicting things on this. Some say TF's have conjunct charts and others say opposites. In my case, we have a lot of opposites such that there's a strong attraction but also a strong repulsion factor 😢.

I've also read that if you're sign is in his 4th and/or 7th house and vice versa...this is also indicative of TF's.

Anyway...who knows? Who knows if the whole TF thing is even true? It's just a nice concept to ponder... It explains a lot of the phenomena that most of the people here have described in so much detail... All having extremely similar experiences.

It's kind of like the proverbial "near death experience" where most people describe a strangely similar experience; however there is no scientific proof that it's actually real. I think what matters is the experience not the title. Even if someone came out with concrete evidence that twin souls (or even near death experiences for that matter) don't exist, it would not negate the similar experiences so many people of all walks of life seem to have. For me that in itself is proof that SOMETHING bigger than this reality is going on. It just so happens twin flames is title we're using to describe this experience...

My venus also squares his north node which is a big indicator of star crossed lovers. So I accept that the odds are against a romantic union for us.

Is it impossible for TF's to eventually be together within a lifetime?

Is their relationship doomed despite the incredibly strong bond?

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Is it impossible for TF's to eventually be together within a lifetime?

Is their relationship doomed despite the incredibly strong bond?

Good question...I'm hope that some couple out there has managed it. I'd sure like to read their story. I'm going to do a google search to see if there are any stories out there.

I'm going to check out that book Impulsv...