How can I create that 'just had sex' feeling?

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VirgoM20
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Firstly, apologies if this is posted in the wrong place - I really haven't a clue which forum to put this topic in!

You know that feeling when you've just had sex... that feeling of absolute relaxation, contentment and perfect calm? Is there a may to 'manufacture' this feeling in oneself via something like meditation? If so, how can this be done?

I find that I am at my most positive, productive, relaxed, happy, contented, creative and clear-thinking in the first few hours after sex, but it isn't practical or realistic to be having sex as and when it is required to maintain this feeling, furthermore I would prefer sex to remain exclusive as a form of intimate expression between my partner and I, not become a tool for achieving something else in my life such that its primary meaning becomes lost. So, how else can I achieve the same sense of calm, contentment and peace?
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Sex is spiritual in nature (which people don't realize), as well as physical .. and YES it is possible to achieve what you seek without losing any of the sacred meaning intimacy has as it should with the wo/man you love.

The goal is to tap into your sexual energies to awaken your erotric consciousness through practiced meditation ... you want to re-channel the orgasm energy back into your body.

My husband and I practice this state of awareness ONLY and don't participate in physical sex.

I suggest you start by getting aroused with your partner and then stopping the session once you are completely primed ... it will be painful, but, worth it in the end. Do this often and make sure that you are not distracted so you can close your eyes, focus on your breathing, while letting your body become COMPLETELY familiar with how tantric feels.

Once you are sure you know how this energy feels inside of your body, then you can start to use meditation to learn how to create this feeling with your mind.

It's possible, and better than the actual act ... I warn you though, you may never want to go back once you begin to realize that you can create the best orgasms you've ever experienced with just your mind.


Good luck and have fun 😉