TAROT: relationship spread interpretation

i did this relationship spread after i broke up with my lover. after months of fighting we had a very big fight. after a week of silence we spoke and he decided he had wanted to leave the relationship.

9 card spread

1 history of the relationship - the pope
i was raised catholic, as was he, and we would attend mass together. we always spoke about the importance of these traditions. we spoke about marriage in our future often and how amazing and spiritual it was we found each other in this big world.

2 where i am - 3 of swords

3 where he is - the sun (rev)

4 how he feels about getting back together - page of wands (rev)
this showed up again in my second reading! hes is younger than me and very immature sometimes. he can also be very insecure. our problem has always been his ambivalence.

5 how i feel about getting back together - king of wands
i've always been more mature and willing to sacrifice for the relationship.

6 what hinders us from reconciling - ten of coins
he is very traditional and one of his biggest reasons for breaking up was he was concerned with the amount of fighting we were going through that we would not have a long term committment. he said he had thought he could marry me but no longer believed that. i suspect he told his family may have advised him to leave our relationship despite the fact he told them i am the best and most beautiful girl he has ever been.

7 what will help us get back together - hanged man
intuitively i thought the best thing for us would be a long and prolonged absence from each other where he would even date other women and would understand what he had with me.

8 why ended - the fool
i believe this represents his folly in leaving the relationship.

9 final outcome - the lovers
yay!

this past sunday, after two weeks, he called me! he left a sad message saying he didn't expect me to call back but he had wanted to see how i was doing. hes a pisces and has been given to wishy washy behavior such as retreating and ALWAYS returning to me before, so i knew there was a chance he would come back but i was surprised it was so soon. i did a quick reading, often i just like to cut cards and ask questions out loud.

i got the following:

what does he think of me right now? the devil (rev)
how does he feel about me right now? page of wands (rev)
what will he do this valentine's week? 4 of cups
what does he want? knight of swords
what does he feel about my silence? six of swords (rev)