Every TF experience is different ... I know for me and my twin ..... Telepathy is so common with me and him .... it's done 24 hours a day .... we are now in separation (but completely in union)...... I can tell you this.... the connection is not easy .... I know for me there are times I wished he didn't hear my thoughts .... but that is short lived ... bittersweet.... I know me and my TF don't use any form of physical communication in regards to technology..... but he will have fun with my music while I'm driving .... or just anything to make this experience better for me. My bew is really loving .... but it hasn't been all roses ... we fight a lot and make up a lot as .... we have fluid conversations 24 hours a day .... he is in my dreams.... he even wakes me with kisses every morning ... everyone's experience is different of course ..... but my particular (husband) there is no question if he is my twin ... we speak through our hearts ...... my heart throbs when he tells me he loves me ..... it throbs all day long ..... I feel his kisses all day on my lips (tingles on my lips) it really is a beautiful connection when surrender.....
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Jan 28, 2016Comments: 96 · Posts: 1833 · Topics: 28
Twin flames are meant for lessons, everyone is different and therefore some end up being with their twin and others do not.
We are all on our own soul spiritual journeys and between ourselves, us and our twin, the karmic lessons we must learn are gonna be taught come hell or high water whether or not it is learnt right away is another thing.
Without my twin leaving me i would not be where I am today. Yes he left me a mess as I mentioned in the other twin flame thread...but, spiritual I've grown so much I can't recognize myself prior to the dark split. I've grown closer to my God and my angels. I've accepted my spiritual gifts and I intend to put them to good use for the benefits of others. Saturn conjunct Neptune= what we had. Heavy fukin karma, we handled it as good as we could.
Anyways enough about me... bottom line is, you need to see the big picture. Look outside of your intial pain, it sucks, but your life is far from over. Be grateful for what was and open your heart and connect to your higher self. The answers you seek are there. Just ask.
My opinion, I think you need to let him go. What did you learn?
Thanks for the replies. I think I was mistaken about what "Metaphysical" actually means. I'll continue to do my own research on Twin Flame experiences outside of this board.
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Jan 28, 2016Comments: 96 · Posts: 1833 · Topics: 28
You need to understand what purpose twin flames actually serve us. Not many do, and it took me awhile to understand as well. And once I accepted the truth and not only what sounded good to my ears, things became easier. We are all students in the school of life, in some way.
I understand what you were saying, and I hope you take in what I said as well. I'm not about discouraging people, but helping. Remember I've been there. My twin is still prominent in my life but I continue on my soul path.
If you need to pm me, I'm always here.
I think I understand what TF's are about, although of course there's always more to learn. I understand that it's not always to end in some beautiful magical romance. That's not what my OP was about. And I hid them because despite trying to include a lot of detail, I still feel like I was misunderstood. (The OP's were a 1 minute copy/paste job from my online journal btw) I assumed if people felt it too long or uninteresting they would "x" out of the thread & carry on.
My intent wasn't to ask "Hey do you think he's into me?" Because at this point it's irrelevant to me. That's part of my lesson. Lesson being - when you REALLY love someone, you can love them without reciprocation &/or expectation & sometimes that's from a distance. I no longer subscribe to the notion that I will only love someone when they check boxes that I have put in place within a time line that I've imposed but not stated. That's not love. That's a business transaction. It's selfish. That's a "costumer is always right" - "you can have it your way" line of thinking. Very black & white which doesn't take into account everyone's life experiences which shape & mold them into who they are. This has also made me more patient, empathetic, loving & understanding to people in general. I'm not perfect at all of this yet but I think I'm much better. THAT is why I feel more peaceful & THAT is what the tarot reading revealed to me, that I'm on the right path... in letting go & allowing life to flow.
Secondly.... yes, let him go. How do you let go of someone who keeps coming back? I mean, how far does one go to do that? And if it's a TF am I supposed to go to drastic measures to "let go" or is that blocking the lessons we're supposed to be learning? Because I'll tell you this.... In the past I have blocked him from contacting me via phone, text & social media.... for 9 months. Eventually he went so far as to reach out to someone that he knew as my friend, but who he had never met or spoken to, to get in touch with me. This is not me desperately hanging on to a person or an idea, willing the universe to make it so. I have given time & space for us to learn & grow. I fully understand that any lessons we both learn may very well be for the benefit of another person/people entirely.
So pardon me, but implying that I broke up an engagement that ended 3 years ago, not recently & had Nothing to do with Me, or that I'm trying to FORCE someone to be with me (& selling my soul to the devil to boot lol) is such a crock of shit. I would happily take my lessons & go about my way if this person would leave me to do that. Because he keeps coming back, I am only assuming that our work together is not done. Maybe I have more lessons to learn & he definitely does, as he is much more guarded than I am.