Twin Flames and Soulmates
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Do Twin Flames and soulmates exist?
How would you know?
If you have experienced this, please share. (It's interesting)
How would you know?
If you have experienced this, please share. (It's interesting)
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderThank you
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
Posted by LoverOfTheSeaYes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.Posted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?click to expand
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
I'm starting to believe in it. Definitely have a sketchy situation going on right now. All the indicators in the synastry and composite chart. Like literally all the boxes checked out.
Yes! I truly believe they exist. I experienced what I believe was my twin flame several years ago. It was a very brief encounter and he exited my life just as quickly as he entered. However, it felt as if we knew each other through several lifetimes. He felt like home to me and I felt so at peace. It is very hard to describe. When he left it was the most extreme heartbreak I’ve ever experienced. No one has ever come close to that experience and the way he made me feel and I often wonder if anyone ever could?
I know somethings and yet I know others . Knowing which is real is impossible.
Posted by WarAngel79If you shared here on DXPNET somewhere, Can you share it. I don't mind if you send it by message, I'm curious.
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
Appreciate it.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.click to expand
Quote: He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
That makes sense
Posted by xyzabcI know exactly what you mean by "he felt like home". That's so beautiful
Yes! I truly believe they exist. I experienced what I believe was my twin flame several years ago. It was a very brief encounter and he exited my life just as quickly as he entered. However, it felt as if we knew each other through several lifetimes. He felt like home to me and I felt so at peace. It is very hard to describe. When he left it was the most extreme heartbreak I’ve ever experienced. No one has ever come close to that experience and the way he made me feel and I often wonder if anyone ever could?
Question: Did you experience telepathic images or thoughts?
Posted by TuriyaYes, sometimes I'll test it.
I know somethings and yet I know others . Knowing which is real is impossible.
When I have the Feeling of knowing, that's when I know it's real. This does not happen often.
Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
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i want to hear your romance,click to expand
I don't believe in twin souls, but in reincarnation. Your soul may recognise another soul from another life and react to it.
Or it's "just" your subconscious mind recognising similarities to someone that was important to you in this life. Or it's "just" astrology and a match made in heaven of energies.
Anyway, I believe the consensus is:
-twin flames= unfulfilled potential, usually one-sided infatuation gone wrong
-soul mates= great connection, easygoing relationship.
Or it's "just" your subconscious mind recognising similarities to someone that was important to you in this life. Or it's "just" astrology and a match made in heaven of energies.
Anyway, I believe the consensus is:
-twin flames= unfulfilled potential, usually one-sided infatuation gone wrong
-soul mates= great connection, easygoing relationship.
"Being with a twin flame is like constantly being confronted by yourself, namely the parts of yourself you may not like. It can be incredibly challenging, but it's facilitating major growth for both of you."
^^^^Found this online.
However, I personally don't feel like if someone is having (or just "mocking") my bad traits would make me change. My bad and good traits are part of who I am. If good or bad, it's also relative to the situation: what is considered bad in one setting could become essential in a different one. My life's lesson, if there is one, is to be true to myself, no matter what.
^^^^Found this online.
However, I personally don't feel like if someone is having (or just "mocking") my bad traits would make me change. My bad and good traits are part of who I am. If good or bad, it's also relative to the situation: what is considered bad in one setting could become essential in a different one. My life's lesson, if there is one, is to be true to myself, no matter what.
The way I understand it - your soul has a blueprint (from God). There have also been other souls created that have a blueprint that are out there in the world or in other places that immediately will lift your vibration - and you'll feel it on some level. Ultimately all souls have to return to their source - God.
The more spiritually advanced one becomes the more intense will be this soul-mate recognition. The One has become many but must return to the One.
The more spiritually advanced one becomes the more intense will be this soul-mate recognition. The One has become many but must return to the One.
In a short answer, yes I believe they exist and yes, due to personal experience
Posted by WarAngel79You say "now" like it ever actually ends 😂 it's eternal, not even just for this lifetime 😂
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
Posted by LoverOfTheSeaPeople become attached to the person and assume they must mean something vs what work is being brought to the surface. And while I do have a close and intense connection with him I can easily do those things with anyone nowadays.Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
Quote: He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
That makes senseclick to expand
Posted by Bumboklaat
I'm starting to believe in it. Definitely have a sketchy situation going on right now. All the indicators in the synastry and composite chart. Like literally all the boxes checked out.
@loverofthesea
This.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
Posted by UndineThank you for sharing.
"Being with a twin flame is like constantly being confronted by yourself, namely the parts of yourself you may not like. It can be incredibly challenging, but it's facilitating major growth for both of you."
^^^^Found this online.
However, I personally don't feel like if someone is having (or just "mocking") my bad traits would make me change. My bad and good traits are part of who I am. If good or bad, it's also relative to the situation: what is considered bad in one setting could become essential in a different one. My life's lesson, if there is one, is to be true to myself, no matter what.
(hearts) I don't know how to make a heart emoji here.
Posted by mirthyQI like this...thank you
The way I understand it - your soul has a blueprint (from God). There have also been other souls created that have a blueprint that are out there in the world or in other places that immediately will lift your vibration - and you'll feel it on some level. Ultimately all souls have to return to their source - God.
The more spiritually advanced one becomes the more intense will be this soul-mate recognition. The One has become many but must return to the One.
Posted by IWANTTOWIN
i fall in love easily, im a sag venus so all my love at first sight were scams
That person is somewhere out there for you. It's all timing.
Posted by LostthoughtsThank you both @Bumboklaat and @LostthoughtsPosted by Bumboklaat
I'm starting to believe in it. Definitely have a sketchy situation going on right now. All the indicators in the synastry and composite chart. Like literally all the boxes checked out.
@loverofthesea
This.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.click to expand
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsI know you care, don't give up. (sending hugs)
I really don't give a fuck anymore.
Posted by TheGreenFairieIt will eventually. Souls have an expiration date.Posted by WarAngel79
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
You say "now" like it ever actually ends 😂 it's eternal, not even just for this lifetime 😂click to expand
Posted by LoverOfTheSeaNo, I'm done sharing my story. Those people who matter to me, they know. They've seen me come full circle from when I first showed up here.Posted by WarAngel79
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
If you shared here on DXPNET somewhere, Can you share it. I don't mind if you send it by message, I'm curious.
Appreciate it.click to expand
Posted by LoverOfTheSeaYes I that does not happen often . Strangely I see these days people are so casual or the knowing happens and fades every second day and for every second person .Posted by Turiya
I know somethings and yet I know others . Knowing which is real is impossible.
Yes, sometimes I'll test it.
When I have the Feeling of knowing, that's when I know it's real. This does not happen often.
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i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
Posted by LostthoughtsYeah I've actually been reading an excerpt from an old astrology book. It's posted on Linda Goodman website. So accurate and obvious can't even make it up.Posted by Bumboklaat
I'm starting to believe in it. Definitely have a sketchy situation going on right now. All the indicators in the synastry and composite chart. Like literally all the boxes checked out.
@loverofthesea
This.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.click to expand
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/011184.html
Most times people confuse their own strong desire for someone with twin flame connection. People also like to stay in their head and have an imaginary love story . For them in the world full of dissatisfaction something at least is deep and intense , even if it’s just in their head.
Posted by IWANTTOWINSag Venus and I come home from the supermarket with a new twin flame everytime
i fall in love easily, im a sag venus so all my love at first sight were scams
Posted by serenidadI agree with you on not wasting time looking for it. I have a hard time believing that this is real. I was curious if anyone experienced such things. I'm grateful to those who shared with me. I wanted to compare to see if this is what I am going through and not even know it.
i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
I don't have any romantic feelings for anyone at the moment.
I started sensing and feeling.....feelings and I knew they were not mine. It would happen when I was busy working on something. This is why I posted. I'm not sure if it is a twin flame or soulmate. I was trying to figure out why I was picking up energy and who's energy it is. I don't know who or what it is.
Confusing
Posted by BumboklaatI quoted the wrong post. Unless you both have a genuine interest and falls within your life path, Anyone with a twin should avoid relying on astrology for said relationship.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Bumboklaat
I'm starting to believe in it. Definitely have a sketchy situation going on right now. All the indicators in the synastry and composite chart. Like literally all the boxes checked out.
@loverofthesea
This.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
Yeah I've actually been reading an excerpt from an old astrology book. It's posted on Linda Goodman website. So accurate and obvious can't even make it up.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/011184.html
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It's a soul level connection. Defining and limiting it the relationship itself based off of biased interpretation can actually gaslight and restrict said relationship.
Think the matrix. You are restricting and definitely a relationship beyond the system by the very system it trancebdes
After watching the documentary on "TwinFlames" on Netflix I'm good.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.
Posted by LoverOfTheSeawhat do you mean by sensing and feeling?Posted by serenidad
i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
I agree with you on not wasting time looking for it. I have a hard time believing that this is real. I was curious if anyone experienced such things. I'm grateful to those who shared with me. I wanted to compare to see if this is what I am going through and not even know it.
I don't have any romantic feelings for anyone at the moment.
I started sensing and feeling.....feelings and I knew they were not mine. It would happen when I was busy working on something. This is why I posted. I'm not sure if it is a twin flame or soulmate. I was trying to figure out why I was picking up energy and who's energy it is. I don't know who or what it is.
Confusingclick to expand
like, sensing someone’s presence out of nowhere?
sensing that someone might be entering your life soon?
i wanna tell you something interesting that might happen before you meet a soulmate.
this might not happen in every single case so take it with a grain of salt but
you might see or meet a stranger who looks exactly like them or share very similar features with them like a few months before the soulmate actually enters your life. this actually happened to me. you’ll be looking at this stranger’s face and thinking, “why is this face so darn familiar?”
you also might meet someone who has the same birthday as them too. also happened. i met a girl who had the same birthday as my spouse a few months before i met him. it was a friendly platonic brief encounter.
so yeah you might have brief encounters with someone who looks like your soulmate or has the same birthday as your soulmate a few months prior to meeting them. but you won’t realize until after the fact because 1) you don’t know your soulmate’s birthday yet 2) you don’t know what they’re gonna look like until you meet them
so you’ll only go “hey, wait a minute” after the fact.
i’m bad at explaining but hope this kinda helps.
a soulmate could be a lover, spouse, a friend of the same gender….anyone.
also, it’s better to let go of the notion that things will be smooth sailing all the time with our soulmates.
they’re human too with a whole spectrum of emotions. from being happy to sad to being pissed off (lol) ,to being anxious and back to being happy again lol etc.
they’ll have their bad days and good days just like any of us. but things will generally be pretty peaceful between you. lots of joking around, fun times. being there for each other through thick and thin.
Posted by LostthoughtsI really enjoy reading what you write. I would love to hear some of things you went through some day. Thank you for your time and being so open.Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.click to expand
You remind me of my Virgo best friend. I'm not sure if you are a Virgo, but you smell like one. hehe
Posted by SeaLion(laughing) I like this
After watching the documentary on "TwinFlames" on Netflix I'm good.
Posted by serenidadI think you might be on to something. It's possible that I will be meeting someone. This could be preparing me for what's to come. I'll keep busy until it does.Posted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by serenidad
i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
I agree with you on not wasting time looking for it. I have a hard time believing that this is real. I was curious if anyone experienced such things. I'm grateful to those who shared with me. I wanted to compare to see if this is what I am going through and not even know it.
I don't have any romantic feelings for anyone at the moment.
I started sensing and feeling.....feelings and I knew they were not mine. It would happen when I was busy working on something. This is why I posted. I'm not sure if it is a twin flame or soulmate. I was trying to figure out why I was picking up energy and who's energy it is. I don't know who or what it is.
Confusing
click to expand
what do you mean by sensing and feeling?
like, sensing someone’s presence out of nowhere?
sensing that someone might be entering your life soon?
i wanna tell you something interesting that might happen before you meet a soulmate.
this might not happen in every single case so take it with a grain of salt but
you might see or meet a stranger who looks exactly like them or share very similar features with them like a few months before the soulmate actually enters your life. this actually happened to me. you’ll be looking at this stranger’s face and thinking, “why is this face so darn familiar?”
you also might meet someone who has the same birthday as them too. also happened. i met a girl who had the same birthday as my spouse a few months before i met him. it was a friendly platonic brief encounter.
so yeah you might have brief encounters with someone who looks like your soulmate or has the same birthday as your soulmate a few months prior to meeting them. but you won’t realize until after the fact because 1) you don’t know your soulmate’s birthday yet 2) you don’t know what they’re gonna look like until you meet them
so you’ll only go “hey, wait a minute” after the fact.
i’m bad at explaining but hope this kinda helps.
a soulmate could be a lover, spouse, a friend of the same gender….anyone.
also, it’s better to let go of the notion that things will be smooth sailing all the time with our soulmates.
they’re human too with a whole spectrum of emotions. from being happy to sad to being pissed off (lol) ,to being anxious and back to being happy again lol etc.
they’ll have their bad days and good days just like any of us. but things will generally be pretty peaceful between you. lots of joking around, fun times. being there for each other through thick and thin.
click to expand
It's always a pleasure talking to you.
Thank you for warning me on possible imposters.
Posted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.
I really enjoy reading what you write. I would love to hear some of things you went through some day. Thank you for your time and being so open.
You remind me of my Virgo best friend. I'm not sure if you are a Virgo, but you smell like one. heheclick to expand
Lol like what?
How I relied on astrology to understand what's going on instead of build a relationship by actually talking to her in a meaningful way? Granted a lot was spot on it's just not how you go about things.
Or how about how about not being a true friend and giving her a heads up about something out of spite ... granted it was her choice and she is her own person but a real friend opens there damn mouth.
Too rapped up in my own feelings to be there the way she needed from me?
Lmao I've got a lot of good things too and a whole bunch of wild experiences involving her that would blow your mind. Right now though I'm in a really bad mindset and I'm having trouble focus on the positives.
She is ficjing awesome in my book.
Posted by BadderBunnyAre you a Sag Venus or you keep trying to date them?Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by IWANTTOWIN
i fall in love easily, im a sag venus so all my love at first sight were scams
Sag Venus and I come home from the supermarket with a new twin flame everytime
click to expand
This explains why things never work out for me with Sag venus. lolclick to expand
Posted by LoverOfTheSeai think “feeling safe” is key.Posted by serenidadPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by serenidad
i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
I agree with you on not wasting time looking for it. I have a hard time believing that this is real. I was curious if anyone experienced such things. I'm grateful to those who shared with me. I wanted to compare to see if this is what I am going through and not even know it.
I don't have any romantic feelings for anyone at the moment.
I started sensing and feeling.....feelings and I knew they were not mine. It would happen when I was busy working on something. This is why I posted. I'm not sure if it is a twin flame or soulmate. I was trying to figure out why I was picking up energy and who's energy it is. I don't know who or what it is.
Confusing
click to expand
what do you mean by sensing and feeling?
like, sensing someone’s presence out of nowhere?
sensing that someone might be entering your life soon?
i wanna tell you something interesting that might happen before you meet a soulmate.
this might not happen in every single case so take it with a grain of salt but
you might see or meet a stranger who looks exactly like them or share very similar features with them like a few months before the soulmate actually enters your life. this actually happened to me. you’ll be looking at this stranger’s face and thinking, “why is this face so darn familiar?”
you also might meet someone who has the same birthday as them too. also happened. i met a girl who had the same birthday as my spouse a few months before i met him. it was a friendly platonic brief encounter.
so yeah you might have brief encounters with someone who looks like your soulmate or has the same birthday as your soulmate a few months prior to meeting them. but you won’t realize until after the fact because 1) you don’t know your soulmate’s birthday yet 2) you don’t know what they’re gonna look like until you meet them
so you’ll only go “hey, wait a minute” after the fact.
i’m bad at explaining but hope this kinda helps.
a soulmate could be a lover, spouse, a friend of the same gender….anyone.
also, it’s better to let go of the notion that things will be smooth sailing all the time with our soulmates.
they’re human too with a whole spectrum of emotions. from being happy to sad to being pissed off (lol) ,to being anxious and back to being happy again lol etc.
they’ll have their bad days and good days just like any of us. but things will generally be pretty peaceful between you. lots of joking around, fun times. being there for each other through thick and thin.
I think you might be on to something. It's possible that I will be meeting someone. This could be preparing me for what's to come. I'll keep busy until it does.
It's always a pleasure talking to you.
Thank you for warning me on possible imposters.click to expand
if you don’t feel “safe” with someone, he or she isn’t your soulmate. if you feel unsettled or disturbed in any way when you’re in their presence , it’s not a good sign. just going off personal experiences.
Posted by WarAngel79As much as I agree with you on, I'll agree to disagree there. At least with how I'm interpreting that. I certainly don't know anything for certain, however I don't think we just "expire" or reach a final end. Perhaps we reach an end to incarnations, and simply return to the universal energy, but I wouldn't consider that an expiration, rather, a transmutation.Posted by TheGreenFairiePosted by WarAngel79
Yes, twin flames do exist.
I know because I'm going through it right now.
It's a long story and I don't feel like repeating it here. Not very good at typing anyway.
You say "now" like it ever actually ends 😂 it's eternal, not even just for this lifetime 😂
It will eventually. Souls have an expiration date.click to expand
Posted by LostthoughtsI can't seem to get my phone to agree to only delete a portion soooooPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.click to expand
Pray for the day you can laugh at those things with yourself. I can't quite put this while shebang into words that make sense, but finding that kind of peace with it...thats goals (I get moments, which are getting longer and longer).
I find the whole concept of Twin Flames to be delusional poison.
Posted by BadderBunnyDon't give upPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by IWANTTOWIN
i fall in love easily, im a sag venus so all my love at first sight were scams
Sag Venus and I come home from the supermarket with a new twin flame everytime
click to expand
This explains why things never work out for me with Sag venus. lol
Are you a Sag Venus or you keep trying to date them?
I'm an aqua venus who keeps trying to date them lol.click to expand
Posted by TheGreenFairiePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.
I can't seem to get my phone to agree to only delete a portion sooooo
Pray for the day you can laugh at those things with yourself. I can't quite put this while shebang into words that make sense, but finding that kind of peace with it...thats goals (I get moments, which are getting longer and longer).click to expand
Lol Shebangs?
Posted by Lostthoughts😂 I just haven't heard that word used recently and was feeling like it shouldn't be lost to evolving dialect 😂Posted by TheGreenFairiePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Twins Flames are rare and not always a romantic connection, the term has by highjacked by commercial spiritualism to get money from codependent people.
Twin Flames are real
Soul Mates are plutonic and romantic, it's just your soul tribe. It doesn't mean anything special just that you've shared timelines.
Catalyst soul mates are people we have certain soul contracts with, also you can decide how you want to engage.
Ultimately none of this shit matters, either you show up healed and mature or you choose unhealthy patterns and people.
Thank you
I'm trying to figure out what I am experiencing. I get strange sensations. It's a little hard to describe since this is my first time going through this.
I call them energy pulses or energy waves. I get them once in a while. I don't know who's energy it is.
Have you heard of anything like this?
click to expand
Yes, when I had my spiritual awakening it was triggered by someone coming into my life. The telepathic connection was insane.
Point being, I'm not with him. He was a catalyst to my awakening and healing, don't give the person too much credit.
click to expand
Fyi phone screen broken.
loverofthesea
This. This is the one I meant to quote.
That's a good summary to stick to. Avoid going further defining anything about the relationship out side actually experience because because the nature of the relationship and purpose varies. Also between you two your have more flexibility to change yourself and life then most people realize is possible.
P.S not to throw shade but I'm unawares who has achieved a productive meaningful relationship with a tf on this site.
. Many have had this experience tho
Lmao Personally the best I can do is tell you about my many ficj ips and how bizarre and eye openings things have been.
I pray to God the day comes were I can laugh at all that with her one day🤦
I can tell you to trust and listen to your self your self . It's the voice that comes without reason and says things not born from rationalization. Be honest with yourself about things and explore yourself with honesty and real self love by your definition of said love and things will go a lot smoother. Be yonest with your self.
I can't seem to get my phone to agree to only delete a portion sooooo
Pray for the day you can laugh at those things with yourself. I can't quite put this while shebang into words that make sense, but finding that kind of peace with it...thats goals (I get moments, which are getting longer and longer).
Lol Shebangs?
click to expand
Posted by serenidadFeeling safe is very important to me. Great reminderPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by serenidadPosted by LoverOfTheSeaPosted by serenidad
i’ve seen people waste years of their lives (i’m talking 5,6 years) chasing a “twin flame” only to end up with nothing but low self esteem and shattered hopes and dreams.
so i feel like you gotta be realistic and reasonable with these things.
is the person returning your love and affections? are they putting forth as much effort as you are? (in keeping the connection alive with you) if not, then you’re only experiencing what’s called unrequited love.
staying in one-sided situations will eventually mess with your self esteem. it will slowly eat away at you.
so it’s wonderful to believe in soulmates and twin flames and all that but you gotta view things with a critical eye and a rational mind at the same time.
just marry the person who put in effort. that’s what i did. i didn’t care about all this soulmate theory. i just simply married the dude who put in the most effort. i also put in hella time, resources, and effort into this relationship with him too 😂
so yeah just don’t ever fall into the trap of idealizing and romanticizing someone who never put in any effort. just cuz you’re “in love”.
I agree with you on not wasting time looking for it. I have a hard time believing that this is real. I was curious if anyone experienced such things. I'm grateful to those who shared with me. I wanted to compare to see if this is what I am going through and not even know it.
I don't have any romantic feelings for anyone at the moment.
I started sensing and feeling.....feelings and I knew they were not mine. It would happen when I was busy working on something. This is why I posted. I'm not sure if it is a twin flame or soulmate. I was trying to figure out why I was picking up energy and who's energy it is. I don't know who or what it is.
Confusing
click to expand
what do you mean by sensing and feeling?
like, sensing someone’s presence out of nowhere?
sensing that someone might be entering your life soon?
i wanna tell you something interesting that might happen before you meet a soulmate.
this might not happen in every single case so take it with a grain of salt but
you might see or meet a stranger who looks exactly like them or share very similar features with them like a few months before the soulmate actually enters your life. this actually happened to me. you’ll be looking at this stranger’s face and thinking, “why is this face so darn familiar?”
you also might meet someone who has the same birthday as them too. also happened. i met a girl who had the same birthday as my spouse a few months before i met him. it was a friendly platonic brief encounter.
so yeah you might have brief encounters with someone who looks like your soulmate or has the same birthday as your soulmate a few months prior to meeting them. but you won’t realize until after the fact because 1) you don’t know your soulmate’s birthday yet 2) you don’t know what they’re gonna look like until you meet them
so you’ll only go “hey, wait a minute” after the fact.
i’m bad at explaining but hope this kinda helps.
a soulmate could be a lover, spouse, a friend of the same gender….anyone.
also, it’s better to let go of the notion that things will be smooth sailing all the time with our soulmates.
they’re human too with a whole spectrum of emotions. from being happy to sad to being pissed off (lol) ,to being anxious and back to being happy again lol etc.
they’ll have their bad days and good days just like any of us. but things will generally be pretty peaceful between you. lots of joking around, fun times. being there for each other through thick and thin.
I think you might be on to something. It's possible that I will be meeting someone. This could be preparing me for what's to come. I'll keep busy until it does.
It's always a pleasure talking to you.
Thank you for warning me on possible imposters.
click to expand
i think “feeling safe” is key.
if you don’t feel “safe” with someone, he or she isn’t your soulmate. if you feel unsettled or disturbed in any way when you’re in their presence , it’s not a good sign. just going off personal experiences.click to expand
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