Posted by DastardlyIkr. The thirst is real but there's *something* wrong with every one.
Just have a fling hunny. It's all good.
Posted by enfant_terribleireland bro
I don't know anyone who's surrounded by alcoholics and young boys as much as the op
Posted by sagsagsag
I don't know why but when I clicked this thread I thought :"ted bundy" ?
Posted by LunabeeAre you kidding?
just go with your gut! I"m weird about seeing those numbers too but they have zero power unless we give it.
Him doing cocaine isn't exactly condusive to his request but he WAS honest..
So...... you gonna call him?
Posted by TeenaScorpio sun/Taurus moon club
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.
It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern
Posted by MyStarsShineYayy!Posted by TeenaScorpio sun/Taurus moon club
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.
It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern
Yes it is great i learned to step away!!
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Posted by TeenaPosted by MyStarsShineYayy!Posted by TeenaScorpio sun/Taurus moon club
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.
It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern
Yes it is great i learned to step away!!
It takes time, my Scorpio friend x
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Posted by hydorahI'm sure there's plenty of overlap.Posted by enfant_terribleireland bro
I don't know anyone who's surrounded by alcoholics and young boys as much as the op
everybody who isn't a young boy is an alcoholicclick to expand
Posted by exoNo!
*man at shoppers drug mart checks out two cartons of chocolate milk, his total comes to $ 6.66*
him: "ha ha, maybe i should get something else..."
cashier: *glares*
me: *eye twitch*
him: "ha ha..."
Posted by MyStarsShine
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
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Posted by MyStarsShineCongrats on making a smart decision. No one needs a partner with an addictive disorder. I attract needy types all the time and always have. If they're not fur bearing, (ie. animals), I've learned to pass them by and take care of me.
I met a guy this morning in the supermarket in town....he started to chat to me...seemed nice enough, had a bottle of French Vodka in his hand but didn't seem like an aggressive man. I returned some wood kindling to the store as it was damp and he was explaining it could be a different strain of branch, hence the dampness
Anyway i walked out of the shop and he follows me and we talked of all the famous people that had passed away during 2016 and when he said Bowie, he sang *Ashes to Ashes* . He told me he used to do cocaine and is back on the source again after being on the wagon for 10 years. He asks for my mobile number and i wouldn't give it to him so he gives me his and repeated it a few times, so i wouldn't forget. He kept saying *call me, call me*.
His number is ~
0*7...then... 666 ****
Haha! I had started to eat raw garlic the night before and heard *vampires* in my thoughts...and the word protection. I knew if this guy had gotten my number, he would have been texting me and calling me, so i am glad i held strong. He was very attractive and a lovely guy, but even so he is very needy and i don't want anyone hanging off me that way.
I thought of Arielle's thread and how her husband is having a relationship with his drug.....it made me very wary that if ever i date again, it can't be with an addict.....
When i got home i lit a white candle for him and wished him well
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
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Posted by MyStarsShineWeird my weight for the past two to three times I've weighed myself is 666.
I met a guy this morning in the supermarket in town....he started to chat to me...seemed nice enough, had a bottle of French Vodka in his hand but didn't seem like an aggressive man. I returned some wood kindling to the store as it was damp and he was explaining it could be a different strain of branch, hence the dampness
Anyway i walked out of the shop and he follows me and we talked of all the famous people that had passed away during 2016 and when he said Bowie, he sang *Ashes to Ashes* . He told me he used to do cocaine and is back on the source again after being on the wagon for 10 years. He asks for my mobile number and i wouldn't give it to him so he gives me his and repeated it a few times, so i wouldn't forget. He kept saying *call me, call me*.
His number is ~
0*7...then... 666 ****
Haha! I had started to eat raw garlic the night before and heard *vampires* in my thoughts...and the word protection. I knew if this guy had gotten my number, he would have been texting me and calling me, so i am glad i held strong. He was very attractive and a lovely guy, but even so he is very needy and i don't want anyone hanging off me that way.
I thought of Arielle's thread and how her husband is having a relationship with his drug.....it made me very wary that if ever i date again, it can't be with an addict.....
When i got home i lit a white candle for him and wished him well
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
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Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.
Posted by puhleezeI read peoplePosted by MyStarsShine
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
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But what makes you think he was trying to lean on you? Looks like he was just hitting on you.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.
. Well he was a nice bloke, even though I didn't want to be involved with him. Yes, women have thought you lovely.....your pic shows a fun loving, interesting guy.click to expand
Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11thPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.
. Well he was a nice bloke, even though I didn't want to be involved with him. Yes, women have thought you lovely.....your pic shows a fun loving, interesting guy.
? Thanks much! I appreciate you saying that. Hey so are you British? And that's great you read people, do you get paid?click to expand
Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!
Posted by MyStarsShineLucky you, I've been mindfully practicing, not ignoring mine and it never fails, if I do, I regret it!Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!
Well mine screams at me now
Thankfully
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Posted by TaurusinTexasPosted by MyStarsShineLucky you, I've been mindfully practicing, not ignoring mine and it never fails, if I do, I regret it!Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!
Well mine screams at me now
Thankfully
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