Best friends...forever? No fuck!
This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Gemitati on Monday, June 17, 2019 and has 41 replies.
I’ve been friends with these Leo couple forever. We had best times in life being inseparable...
Then me and ex opened business and we couldn’t party with them anymore.
They were upset thought they had plenty of other friends...we were like the same...those were occasionally the same...
Today I went to see them alone for the first time after...years.
Yeah...I am with new bf and having a new life and they are still boiling in now sexless marriage of 30 years.
They both ages non gracefully.
Yelling at each other to the point of me being uncomfortable BUT they did before and it was ok but now it’s not ok for me...I was sad. She said he is mostly ok. They live in separate rooms. She is taking orders for food. Serving. Being pissed...arguing about small shit...
It’s always been like that but it was funny.
Now when I am in a different mode - it’s kind of fucked up!
When me and her were both like...our men are fucked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is!
Do these long marriages worth shit?
I don’t know...
I am really upset I even yelled at Uber driver. He was an asshole with a bad phone...whatever...
Then me and ex opened business and we couldn’t party with them anymore.
They were upset thought they had plenty of other friends...we were like the same...those were occasionally the same...
Today I went to see them alone for the first time after...years.
Yeah...I am with new bf and having a new life and they are still boiling in now sexless marriage of 30 years.
They both ages non gracefully.
Yelling at each other to the point of me being uncomfortable BUT they did before and it was ok but now it’s not ok for me...I was sad. She said he is mostly ok. They live in separate rooms. She is taking orders for food. Serving. Being pissed...arguing about small shit...
It’s always been like that but it was funny.
Now when I am in a different mode - it’s kind of fucked up!
When me and her were both like...our men are fucked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is!
Do these long marriages worth shit?
I don’t know...
I am really upset I even yelled at Uber driver. He was an asshole with a bad phone...whatever...
Posted by ItsSupes2I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
Posted by LittleStarThese 2 never will. And I am not asking for it. It just sucks to see them being like...unhappy and stuck after they were spunky and fun! Really sucks! 😭
I think more people are getting divorced 20-40 years into a marriage.
All I know is divorced ppl 40+ are pathetic af. See them flatout wasted on the dance floor in clubs, it's like, "jeez, your kids have more dignity". It's just sad.
Posted by ItsSupes2What else is new? 🤷♀️Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymoreclick to expand
Posted by LittleStarLike I said...it’s a stale pond with no way out because...it’s convenient and mud became their body temperature so they don’t feel no cold no hot no nothing...just breathing is ok enough...Posted by GemitatiPosted by LittleStar
I think more people are getting divorced 20-40 years into a marriage.
These 2 never will. And I am not asking for it. It just sucks to see them being like...unhappy and stuck after they were spunky and fun! Really sucks! 😭
Idk. If they are unhappy then they shouldn’t stay together just because they’ve invested the past.click to expand
Posted by ItsSupes2Not yet. Because I just warned you about shit! So thank me later. And don’t be just THAT kind of couple!Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymore
What else is new? 🤷♀️
Exactly
Should I go kill myself now?click to expand
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
Posted by ItsSupes2What can I say?🤷♀️Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymore
What else is new? 🤷♀️
Exactly
Should I go kill myself now?
Not yet. Because I just warned you about shit! So thank me later. And don’t be just THAT kind of couple!
Thank you for saving my lifeclick to expand
This is just kind of woman I am...
Kill a little. Save a little. So itsball even up at the end...😇
Posted by Phantom_LimboTry pot. It stinks good...
lol
You sound like an ex-smoker who now judges their smoking friends. Which, ya know, I can appreciate. That shit stinks since I quit.
Posted by UnwantedCommentaryGuyYour name is spot on!
Here we have an autistic geriatric Gemini woman who recently removed herself from a longterm sexless marriage, finally start to see some synapses firing..
For all you sitting in the front row, wear eye protection, they havent fired in a long time... fire extinguishers are handy.
However may I ask if you ever considered to try and have rships?
No? See? That’s why you are so fucked up boi.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesIt’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
Posted by GemitatiHow can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?Posted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️click to expand
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Posted by PuzzlePiecesHere they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂Posted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboThat’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
Posted by NemDeuxYeah! When you don’t feel like feeling them next to you its great but it’s pretty fucked up rs!
there is nothing wrong with separate bedrooms.
omg! it´s the best ever.
Plus the anger is just in the air! I was about to leave at one moment but I’ve stayed...
Posted by GemitatiJeez!!!!! They must like being miserable!Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂click to expand
"When me and her were both like...our men are treetrunked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is! "
Maybe your example will spark her desire to break up with old habits and start a new life!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is! "
Maybe your example will spark her desire to break up with old habits and start a new life!
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
Posted by Phantom_LimboMost people miserable in a long term relationship are also miserable when single. That's their personality!
I think it's interesting that if you're in a long-term relationship, people feel free to judge you and assume your level of happiness and decide you're living a lie. No such rules apply to single people. Life is supposed to be perfect if you're in a relationship, and if it isn't, you should immediately dump it all overboard. If you're miserable and single, well, that's fine. Why is that?
Posted by UndineIt is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
Posted by Phantom_LimboI guess you don’t have close friends...Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesBeing younger it was fun but now - not anymore. They are just living their lives. Working and eating...Posted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂
Jeez!!!!! They must like being miserable!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiSurviving not living. That’s sadPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂
Jeez!!!!! They must like being miserable!
Being younger it was fun but now - not anymore. They are just living their lives. Working and eating...click to expand
Guess a lot of people do that. Posted by UndineNo. She is too attached to him since she was 17. I don’t think anything will change that.
"When me and her were both like...our men are treetrunked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is! "
Maybe your example will spark her desire to break up with old habits and start a new life!
Posted by Phantom_LimboWhat’s wrong with talking about that?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.click to expand
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Posted by Phantom_LimboYes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lolclick to expand
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Married for years = just good friends or enemies
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Posted by Phantom_LimboShe said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboIt happens to a lot of couples....same ol same ol....Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.
She said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.
That's pretty sad. I guess it happens.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_Limbo❤️Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.
She said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.
That's pretty sad. I guess it happens.
It happens to a lot of couples....same ol same ol....
Intimacy replaces mystery when you're intimate for a long time. It's true. It's never made my sex life boring, though. If anything, we're freer and more open because we have nothing to prove.click to expand
Do you have children, Phantom?
Posted by PuzzlePiecesWe are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".Posted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.click to expand
Posted by UndineI think those who don’t have sex living life and it’s not life and death matter.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".click to expand
I’ve been on all ends of sex life.
And let me tell you - no bullshit - not having sex with your partner makes union become a warm death...
Those who lost sexual desire are just living...
Those in love are thriving.
Both are livings but different quality.
Posted by UndineI do not find this to be true. Aging creates many different approaches. Feeling normal is not about a dick.. many older women desire being alone to be free, happy and complete but I think love of yourself and love of others ( including expressing it) is all part of it.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".click to expand
Posted by GemitatiMost older couples I know are "in love" but have no desire to rub genitalia (apart from their own, I suppose :-)).Posted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".
I think those who don’t have sex living life and it’s not life and death matter.
I’ve been on all ends of sex life.
And let me tell you - no bullshit - not having sex with your partner makes union become a warm death...
Those who lost sexual desire are just living...
Those in love are thriving.
Both are livings but different quality.click to expand
They thrive by doing many other things together, things which built memories.
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
Posted by UndineWhat about tantric sex?
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
Posted by MyStarsShineIt's sex while half asleep :-)!Posted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?click to expand
Posted by UndineHaha Undine.....sounds like an option especially if they're gruntingPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?
It's sex while half asleep :-)!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNoooo...I'm done with sex. And I'm feeeeeeeeling goooood!Posted by UndinePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?
It's sex while half asleep :-)!
Haha Undine.....sounds like an option especially if they're gruntingclick to expand
I can't believe what I did in my horniest decade, the 40ies! Never again. My body is sacred.
Posted by UndineAnd nowadays there is Viagra and senior citizens ordering it for...silver polishing...😂😂😂Posted by GemitatiPosted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".
I think those who don’t have sex living life and it’s not life and death matter.
I’ve been on all ends of sex life.
And let me tell you - no bullshit - not having sex with your partner makes union become a warm death...
Those who lost sexual desire are just living...
Those in love are thriving.
Both are livings but different quality.
Most older couples I know are "in love" but have no desire to rub genitalia (apart from their own, I suppose :-)).
They thrive by doing many other things together, things which built memories.click to expand
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@Parkourler
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Hi, I've read a lot of posts on here, but this is my first post. I'm a Virgo man & have been in a relationship with a Gemini & Cap man before, but this new one is blowing my mind & confusing me unlike anyone before....
Basically, we've known
@mnelson1943
Joined: Jun 16, 2019 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 1
Or do you?
If you decide it’s not going to work, but still have feelings. How do you handle it?
I want to understand. 🤷♀️
@PuzzlePieces
Joined: May 26, 2019 · Topics: 78 · Posts: 3884
Taureans, when you are slow at making a decision (not an emotional one n not about a relationship) say in your career, or whatever else that really matters to you, do you take that as:
1. Since you're hesitant, then you shouldn't do it anyway?
2. You are
@TxOgal
Joined: Aug 02, 2014 · Topics: 92 · Posts: 2392
So I’ve been seeing this cap for a little over a month & a half. I fell for him hard & he knows this. I told him on Tuesday. Well, I’ve known that this girl who he used to date was still lurking around. He is 32, she is 21 & I’m 35. He owns a
@Ags1
Joined: Jun 16, 2019 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 8
I think if its woman's venus conjunct man's mars then only venus person feels attraction not mars person in my experience it is that way what is your experience.
@Pari23
Joined: Jun 16, 2019 · Topics: 82 · Posts: 189
I think if its woman venus man's mars then only venus person feels attraction not mars person in my experience it is that way what is your experience.
@Pari23
Joined: Jun 16, 2019 · Topics: 82 · Posts: 189
https://youtu.be/kMzJvwG2rsQ
@777
Joined: Sep 13, 2018 · Topics: 245 · Posts: 3009