Bs about the friend zone

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by livictori on Thursday, October 8, 2015 and has 12 replies.
I love this perspective because I'm tired of hearing people complain about the friend zone
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good one.
That's the Virgo friend of mine. Very...unsettling, because we have/had a REALLY good friendship. I can't figure out for the life of me what suddenly made this man think that we should bump and grind or that I even WANT to. At this point, he's not taking no for an answer...and that's the part that makes me mad. So, you'd rather ruin (what I THOUGHT was) a bomb ass friendship over some ass that you don't even know whether or not it's good. I would say that he only wants casual sex, but he's really bothered by the fact that I'm in another relationship and not because he's concerned about my emo well being. I guess it's true that some people simply want what they can't have. I'd love to know how I can detour him completely from this train of thought and get back to the friendship that we USED to have.

Cray!!!
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Posted by MsTeeq1974
That's the Virgo friend of mine. Very...unsettling, because we have/had a REALLY good friendship. I can't figure out for the life of me what suddenly made this man think that we should bump and grind or that I even WANT to. At this point, he's not taking no for an answer...and that's the part that makes me mad. So, you'd rather ruin (what I THOUGHT was) a bomb ass friendship over some ass that you don't even know whether or not it's good. I would say that he only wants casual sex, but he's really bothered by the fact that I'm in another relationship and not because he's concerned about my emo well being. I guess it's true that some people simply want what they can't have. I'd love to know how I can detour him completely from this train of thought and get back to the friendship that we USED to have.

Cray!!!

..... sure. Use Jedi Mind tricks. =)
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I only wish it were that simple. I've let him down easy, I've shaken him to the left, I've shown him the exit sign stage right, I've hemmed him up about it...I just don't get it at this point. It's beginning to border on...not really scary, but creepy. I just can't understand how someone is so cool for two damn years and all of the sudden they can't take no for an answer. One thing is for sure...the asshole in this one, strong it is.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974
That's the Virgo friend of mine. Very...unsettling, because we have/had a REALLY good friendship. I can't figure out for the life of me what suddenly made this man think that we should bump and grind or that I even WANT to. At this point, he's not taking no for an answer...and that's the part that makes me mad. So, you'd rather ruin (what I THOUGHT was) a bomb ass friendship over some ass that you don't even know whether or not it's good. I would say that he only wants casual sex, but he's really bothered by the fact that I'm in another relationship and not because he's concerned about my emo well being. I guess it's true that some people simply want what they can't have. I'd love to know how I can detour him completely from this train of thought and get back to the friendship that we USED to have.

Cray!!!

..... sure. Use Jedi Mind tricks. =)

I only wish it were that simple. I've let him down easy, I've shaken him to the left, I've shown him the exit sign stage right, I've hemmed him up about it...I just don't get it at this point. It's beginning to border on...not really scary, but creepy. I just can't understand how someone is so cool for two damn years and all of the sudden they can't take no for an answer. One thing is for sure...the asshole in this one, strong it is.

Because hes waited 2 years to get in those pants lols The patience was strong in this one
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I would agree with you, but I offer him casual sex on the platter like 1-2 months into our friendship. We used to talk almost every single day. Then about week 10 I told him that his window to hit this off was closing, because the friend zone was coming to town. He was like, "I would...be I don't know...I just don't want you to get all crazy, etc" Cool. I closed the window and the friend zone engulfed him. I explained that he was becoming important to me as a friend, so I had to close that offer of casual sex so that things didn't get messy. I also warned him that if he DID accept the offer of casual sex, he'd be disposable. I mean...better to be honest, right?
Shit...I was about to be 40 the following year. I was feeling it and my sex drive was like that of a 20 year old man/boy. I wasn't shy about it either. I also don't regret it. I had SO much daggone fun without hurting people's feelings. On the night of my 40th bday, I actually did have sex with a 20 year old. He put it DOWN for like, 6 hours. That's what I needed and wanted at the time. And...I did not hide it from people either. Everyone who knows me on a friendship level knows that on the night of my 40th bday, I left the banging ass party that three of us three together at this lounge and let a 20 year old dude break me in HALF. Yes Sir.
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That's the Virgo friend of mine. Very...unsettling, because we have/had a REALLY good friendship. I can't figure out for the life of me what suddenly made this man think that we should bump and grind or that I even WANT to. At this point, he's not taking no for an answer...and that's the part that makes me mad. So, you'd rather ruin (what I THOUGHT was) a bomb ass friendship over some ass that you don't even know whether or not it's good. .

Because hes waited 2 years to get in those pants lols The patience was strong in this one

I would agree with you, but I offer him casual sex on the platter like 1-2 months into our friendship. We used to talk almost every single day. Then about week 10 I told him that his window to hit this off was closing, because the friend zone was coming to town. He was like, "I would...be I don't know...I just don't want you to get all crazy, etc" Cool. I closed the window and the friend zone engulfed him. I explained that he was becoming important to me as a friend, so I had to close that offer of casual sex so that things didn't get messy. I also warned him that if he DID accept the offer of casual sex, he'd be disposable. I mean...better to be honest, right?

Right. You said what the rules of the game, dude flinched, you kept it pushing. Now he wants to pull a comeback like its 2k. But he has yet to realize your switched to Madden and throwing the ball to another receiver.

LMBO!!!!!!! I swear...I can't with you. lol ha ha ha ha I could totally see us drinking beers together and discussing shit. lol ha ha ha ha
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Posted by munchykin
I think "fvck zone" is more accurate.

"OMG it's not fair!! I'm sick of wimmen not letting me f.ck zone them.  I'm jonesing to dip my dick in her wet hole, but she just wants an actual friendship with mutual trust, respect and things in common! What a BlTCH."

*cue the orchestra of tiny violins*

Seriously. I've had this happen all too often and even recently, now that I think about it. Guys can be manipulative little whores. They're just as bad as some of the women they bitch about.

Goes both ways, dude. Just because you're you doesn't mean you're entitled to any female, sorry.
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Posted by Kodak375
Posted by MsTeeq1974
That's the Virgo friend of mine. Very...unsettling, because we have/had a REALLY good friendship. I can't figure out for the life of me what suddenly made this man think that we should bump and grind or that I even WANT to. At this point, he's not taking no for an answer...and that's the part that makes me mad. So, you'd rather ruin (what I THOUGHT was) a bomb ass friendship over some ass that you don't even know whether or not it's good. I would say that he only wants casual sex, but he's really bothered by the fact that I'm in another relationship and not because he's concerned about my emo well being. I guess it's true that some people simply want what they can't have. I'd love to know how I can detour him completely from this train of thought and get back to the friendship that we USED to have.

Cray!!!

..... sure. Use Jedi Mind tricks. =)

I only wish it were that simple. I've let him down easy, I've shaken him to the left, I've shown him the exit sign stage right, I've hemmed him up about it...I just don't get it at this point. It's beginning to border on...not really scary, but creepy. I just can't understand how someone is so cool for two damn years and all of the sudden they can't take no for an answer. One thing is for sure...the asshole in this one, strong it is.
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I had a Pisces friend do this to me recently. It's ridiculous. "I'M NOT GETTING MY WAY. HOW DARE YOU!!!"

...what the hell you entitled shit? :/



Women cling on to false hope and pine away and beg,

Men refuse to listen and demand to get their way.
This happens to me all the time when all in trying to do is be nice to the world. I'm loyal to a fault so if I'm already into someone then everyone else is friend zoned. Sorry my putang belongs to one man at a time.
Posted by Shaniajam
This happens to me all the time when all in trying to do is be nice to the world. I'm loyal to a fault so if I'm already into someone then everyone else is friend zoned. Sorry my putang belongs to one man at a time.

puntang? lol
I call mine sunshine or a cooter. But puntang is hilarious
Posted by livictori
Posted by Shaniajam
This happens to me all the time when all in trying to do is be nice to the world. I'm loyal to a fault so if I'm already into someone then everyone else is friend zoned. Sorry my putang belongs to one man at a time.

puntang? lol
I call mine sunshine or a cooter. But puntang is hilarious
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Lmaooo yes putang pie 😂😂😂 and twat for my little ones which they understand so clearly now 😂😂 we need to have a topic on vagina names Lmaooo