Calling ALL MEN: Sexual Poll

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by RealTalk on Wednesday, June 12, 2013 and has 116 replies.
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For starters, no I did not want this in the relationship forum because men barely frequent that area, so that's why it's in the miscellaneous forum, k?
So men...question for you, will you lose respect for a woman if she sleeps with you early on in the casual dating stages? Would you then perceive her as the proverbial "whore" because she had sex with you too soon? Why or why not?

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i dont think i would take it in dat direction if we still jus datin.
i wouldnt label her a ho but if she look like she too eager to fuck then yeh imma start to wonder how many other dudes she been dat eager to fuck in da past...
there's gon be a lot of dudes out there dat wont be bothered by it but they prolly used to it tho...
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Posted by DonJohnson
absolutely for me. If you put out on the first meeting. I will only see you as a sexual object.


From the number of women you claim to have slept with....you appear to see them as sexual objects anyway.
Or perhaps as astrological Forschung Versuchskaninchen smile?
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24



And also what I don't get is how the fuck can the guy be upset at the woman for clucking boots on the 1st night ( insinuating she's "disgusting","a whore","infected", etc) when "he" popped "her" pill as well. Doesn't that make you just as suspicious and "nasty"? Sex is a mutual carry out, so someone here is a fucking hypocrite. Hypothetically speaking.


Yeah a man that gets it!!! Well said man!
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Posted by tiziani
No, based off past experience. I'd obviously want to know how many guys she slept with either way. Be it whether she slept with me on the first night or first decade. So this makes very little difference in the scheme of what I'm looking for.


Curious, why would you want to know how many guys she has slept with either way?
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MEN LIKE TO FUCK
WOMEN LIKE TO FUCK
NOTHING WRONG WITH FUCKING
HOW SOON HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RESPECT SEX SHOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH RESPECT
SEX IS JUST SEX TAKES THE EDGE OFF
ITS NOT RESPECT ITS NOT LOVE IT IS JUST SEX.
THIS IS LIKE SAYING IF A WOMAN KISSES YOU ON THE LIPS ON THE FIRST DATE IS SHE TRYING TO GET LAYED
MAYBE IF SHE STICKS HER TONUGE WAY DOWN YOUR THROUT
BUT WHO CARES
DAMN THIS IS A STUPED IDEA THAT SEX SHOULD HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH RESPECT
I WOULD DISRESPECT A WOMAN WHO PLAYED AT GOODY TWO SHOES BEFORE I WOULD ONE WHO WAS HORNEY AND PUT OUT.
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Posted by R3
i dont think i would take it in dat direction if we still jus datin.



A lot of men will purposely try to manipulate/maneuver the situation
so that it would lead to sex early on.
Good for you for NOT being one of them.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
No, but it'd be a tough call in wondering if she's like that with all the boys and whether to keep it low level, more a sex thing than anything else.


You can bet she has done the same with many other men
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by celticlioness
Posted by tiziani
No, based off past experience. I'd obviously want to know how many guys she slept with either way. Be it whether she slept with me on the first night or first decade. So this makes very little difference in the scheme of what I'm looking for.


Curious, why would you want to know how many guys she has slept with either way?


Because I like to know how many people she's slept with. Not trying to go around in circles but it's sometimes just that simple.
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And would you believe the number she gave you smile
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I like whores, I just wouldn't date'em
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Posted by starlover
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24



And also what I don't get is how the fuck can the guy be upset at the woman for clucking boots on the 1st night ( insinuating she's "disgusting","a whore","infected", etc) when "he" popped "her" pill as well. Doesn't that make you just as suspicious and "nasty"? Sex is a mutual carry out, so someone here is a fucking hypocrite. Hypothetically speaking.


Yeah a man that gets it!!! Well said man!
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+1
Didn't some guy make a thread about this a while back and all the women were like "Amen!"
I remember seeing it. He received a lot of hate from men in particular.
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Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Posted by everevolvingepithet
No, but it'd be a tough call in wondering if she's like that with all the boys and whether to keep it low level, more a sex thing than anything else.


You can bet she has done the same with many other men
But of course she has, probably got sick and tired of keeping her legs closed playing the rules game and getting nothing in the end, especially the ring on it that was her unlimate goal, so she could then close her legs forever. SMH.
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by celticlioness
Posted by tiziani
Posted by celticlioness
Posted by tiziani
No, based off past experience. I'd obviously want to know how many guys she slept with either way. Be it whether she slept with me on the first night or first decade. So this makes very little difference in the scheme of what I'm looking for.


Curious, why would you want to know how many guys she has slept with either way?


Because I like to know how many people she's slept with. Not trying to go around in circles but it's sometimes just that simple.


And would you believe the number she gave you smile


I see what you're saying and this question always comes up as if to say "don't concern yourself with it because they could be lying" but one kind of feeds into the other don't you think? If I'm even bothered to know how many people she's been with, it's because I'm genuinely interested in learning about her and her life experience. It's not something I just indiscriminately want to know about everyone. Most women, I don't even care.
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Well personally it's not a question that would bother me and I would answer truthfully, although like you say the question should only come from someone who you know cares about you not just some indiscrimanate date, but I've honestly never been curious about how many women my men have slept with, I just want to know how many they were "in love" with, the differences between men and women that in the end stems from the same reasons for wanting to know smile
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I have a female aqua friend (yes really a friend, not talking about me!) who has been sleeping around with quite a few men lately, just plain sex most of the time. Being her friend and being a female I don't consider her a slut or anything. She has to do what she wants to do. But I have discussed this with some male straight friends and they all think it's slutty behavior and wouldn't appreciate it in a woman. Ask some gay friends and they all think it's no big deal.
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Those women who claim they don't care about what men think
shouldn't even be looking at this thread or all threads in general of this nature but for some reason
they are always the loudest ones there, talking over the men.
If they really don't care, why are they here trying to offer an explanation for their "uninhibited"
behavior? Some of them practically come here to grill men asking them
why they do not respect women who do what they do.
Do they really not care? If so, they have a strange way of showing it.


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Word of advice: never take advice about relationships from single people.
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Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Those women who claim they don't care about what men think
shouldn't even be looking at this thread or all threads in general of this nature but for some reason
they are always the loudest ones there, talking over the men.
If they really don't care, why are they here trying to offer an explanation for their "uninhibited"
behavior? Some of them practically come here to grill men asking them
why they do not respect women who do what they do.
Do they really not care? If so, they have a strange way of showing it.





Theres a vast difference between caring what a man thinks and caring what a man think OF you, I care very much what men think which I why I love reading their thoughts on most subjects, what they think OF me is irrelevant - I think highly enough of myself smile
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never take advice from a single person
not to worry you will note we only give advice when asked then
you can do as you please.
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24



And also what I don't get is how the fuck can the guy be upset at the woman for clucking boots on the 1st night ( insinuating she's "disgusting","a whore","infected", etc) when "he" popped "her" pill as well. Doesn't that make you just as suspicious and "nasty"? Sex is a mutual carry out, so someone here is a fucking hypocrite. Hypothetically speaking.


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like i said b4 i wouldnt try to take it to dat direction. i dont think id fuck her. not becuz i think she a ho but im jus not used to havin sex outside relationships so u obviously gon get varying answers dependin on who u askin. like i said if he dont seem bothered he prolly used to dat type of encounter. jus sayin.
my opinions aint facts tho...
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Posted by DonJohnson
absolutely for me. If you put out on the first meeting. I will only see you as a sexual object.


You tend to objectify ALL women like that from what I read from your posts.
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24



And also what I don't get is how the fuck can the guy be upset at the woman for clucking boots on the 1st night ( insinuating she's "disgusting","a whore","infected", etc) when "he" popped "her" pill as well. Doesn't that make you just as suspicious and "nasty"? Sex is a mutual carry out, so someone here is a fucking hypocrite. Hypothetically speaking.


Exactly.
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Posted by PurrrrrHisssss
Men who think like that are idiots. If you think a woman who is willing to have sex with you on the first date is a dirty whore, here's a novel idea: don't fuck her!




Lol...hellooooooooooooo!
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Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Posted by everevolvingepithet
No, but it'd be a tough call in wondering if she's like that with all the boys and whether to keep it low level, more a sex thing than anything else.


You can bet she has done the same with many other men
How? Has that been proven? Can you prove that?
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if i got sex from a chick on the 1st night, and she told me that that was her 1st time ever doing it,or she normally isn't like that, i'd look at her like


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Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Those women who claim they don't care about what men think
shouldn't even be looking at this thread or all threads in general of this nature but for some reason
they are always the loudest ones there, talking over the men.
If they really don't care, why are they here trying to offer an explanation for their "uninhibited"
behavior? Some of them practically come here to grill men asking them
why they do not respect women who do what they do.
Do they really not care? If so, they have a strange way of showing it.




The same reason YOU came here claiming men prefer a "classy" woman who doesn't put out right away...if YOU didn't care why the hell would YOU create a thread offering an explanation for their "inhibited" behavior? Are there some underlying tensions festering?
You know, envying the fact that there are confident women out there who are sexually liberated & comfortable in there own skin. I understand, being with 1 guy & all, you don't have the experience nor the brain to comprehend this language so leave it up to the folks who are more seasoned, k?
When you develop the skills necessary to understand this, your thoughts may be considered, but for now you don't have a fucking clue.


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Posted by DAMEN VI
if i got sex from a chick on the 1st night, and she told me that that was her 1st time ever doing it,or she normally isn't like that, i'd look at her like





Lol...this coming from a Pisces.
But maybe it was. You don't feel that you're just desirable enough for a woman to want you on the 1st date? Maybe there was chemistry, you know a strong connection & she just wanted to have sex with you because she was really feeling you. That is not impossible ya know...
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Posted by RealTalk
Posted by DAMEN VI
if i got sex from a chick on the 1st night, and she told me that that was her 1st time ever doing it,or she normally isn't like that, i'd look at her like





Lol...this coming from a Pisces.
But maybe it was. You don't feel that you're just desirable enough for a woman to want you on the 1st date? Maybe there was chemistry, you know a strong connection & she just wanted to have sex with you because she was really feeling you. That is not impossible ya know...
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idk what pisces have to do with anything..but i was raised to believe that you can't turn a whore into a housewife, and a whore in my book is a chick that's an easy lay..plus bases on real life situations that i've witnessed, you really can't change a whore..its a fact
and you right, i DON'T think im that special that a woman who truely values herself would drop her panties for me THAT fast..im not a millionaire, nor am i famous, im a regular guy, and its millions of us, so why would any man be dumb enough to think that their that special?? like i said thou, i like whores, but their just not relationship material
and the dudes that think their that special is what we call "suckers for love"..and they always end up with these washed up "fun girls" who's best days are past'em & pussies got over 100k miles on'em
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Posted by robyn808

Just curious, whats the real problem with the whore? Is it a fear that she couldn't be loyal or faithful?


not only that, but most of the loose women i've known seem to have other issues, stability being the main one..their more about "having fun" then actually dealing with everyday life issues like holding down a reliable job,taking good care of their children,etc..and some tend to have a drug and/or achohol addiction
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OK, what if you fool around a little without going all the way???
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Sex should come at whatever natural pace is between two people.
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Posted by DonJohnson
absolutely for me. If you put out on the first meeting. I will only see you as a sexual object.


would you consider yourself a dick in a glass after that as well?
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
No, but it'd be a tough call in wondering if she's like that with all the boys and whether to keep it low level, more a sex thing than anything else.



and youself? do you hold yourself to the same standard?
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Posted by DAMEN VI
Word of advice: never take advice about relationships from single people.


worst advice ever
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Posted by DAMEN VI
Posted by robyn808

Just curious, whats the real problem with the whore? Is it a fear that she couldn't be loyal or faithful?


not only that, but most of the loose women i've known seem to have other issues, stability being the main one..their more about "having fun" then actually dealing with everyday life issues like holding down a reliable job,taking good care of their children,etc..and some tend to have a drug and/or achohol addiction
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are you serious? LOL so there arent women who dont have children who have their shit together? but like sex? you and pinkf are cut from the same cloth
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Posted by ellessque
You two are exactly the type of men I was talking about in my post.
You project the lack of respect you have for yourself on to the women who decide to fuck you on a first date.
Instead of respecting yourselves and telling her "No, Thank You...I have higher standards for myself then to fuck you and then lose your number"....you just try to pawn off the disrespect to her.
You do realize this is an endless cylcle, right? Every time you do this, you will lose more and more respect for women from this projection....to the point, you'd have to date a nun to be able to conjur up any respect at all.


huh? i said it before and i'll say it again: I LIKE WHORES
we as men,need whores..life would truly be miserable for a man if he never enjoyed the satisfaction of just being able to have sex without all the hassle of being extra nice,having to listen to a chick tell you her life story & act interested,taking her out on dates and any other bs you have to do in order to get some vag & mouth sex..
im just saying these women aren't good for building relationships with

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Why do some people get so upset about certain opinons and want to change/fight/debunk them? I don't get it.
If you like to sleep with men on the first date... go do it. Why do you need to change other's perception of it? It's just consequences. If you don't like the stigma associated to being loose.. don't be or find someone who doesn't care about it.
If a guy wanted to do me on the 1st date... I would loose respect for him, too UNLESS I just wanted sex and nothing else. I wouldn't be looking for much else after that.
If I was interested in a relationship I'd think he was a man whore and yup... sleeping with every girl out there.

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Posted by DonJohnson
Not to mention slutting is not the same between and man and a woman.
I know you will all say WE ARE EQUAL liberal BS. No we are not. Men and women are not biologically wired the same way.
We want to conquer and penetrate. A woman giving up sex is losing. A man getting sex is WINNING
So in a sense, the female slut is the evolutionary LOSER. A man slut is the evolutionary WINNER.


LOL, what a logic! The biggest winner is probably your hand.
Mental note to myself: pack a strap-on-dildo for the first date!
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Posted by bkbella86

are you serious? LOL so there arent women who dont have children who have their shit together? but like sex? you and pinkf are cut from the same cloth


i never said every whore is the same..but a lot of'em have similar tendencies..like the whore you're describing for instance, if she was such a great catch, she'd be in a relationship sooner or later, but if she's in her 30's & no kids, then maybe her womb is polluted and she can't have any, therefore making her worthless anyway..unless she's oprah,of course..and their definetly isn't too many oprah's walking around
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Posted by DAMEN VI
Word of advice: never take advice about relationships from single people.


worst advice ever
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would you listen to a homeless person on the street telling you about ways to get rich?? i doubt it, because the 1st thing that'll come to mind is "if you got all these great ideas, then why are you a bum?" same difference
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I think people should keep in mind that water signs may have a more traditional viewpoint in selecting mates... as opposed to having sex than say... an Air sign. Especially dealing with a water sun/moon combo like Damen and DJ.
My Dad Sagg w/Libra Moon married a ho. He likes to sleep around and had no plans on stoping before/during/after the marriage. Her Sagg-self is fine with it. She is a fantastic lady and I loves her. It works for them
Different strokes
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You never win, DJ smile!
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Posted by DonJohnson
Posted by shellshocker
I think people should keep in mind that water signs may have a more traditional viewpoint in selecting mates... as opposed to having sex than say... an Air sign. Especially dealing with a water sun/moon combo like Damen and DJ.
My Dad Sagg w/Libra Moon married a ho. He likes to sleep around and had no plans on stoping before/during/after the marriage. Her Sagg-self is fine with it. She is a fantastic lady and I loves her. It works for them
Different strokes



lol @ me being traditional.
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I said in choosing a mate. You have stated yourself that you treat your gf's different and don't see them as sexual objects. If this isn't true.... I retrack my statement.
My bro is a Cancer w/Scorpio Moon . He was a man whore but treats his wife like a queen
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Posted by twinklebluetoes
Posted by ellessque
I wouldn't say I'm angry or trying to change anyone's mind.
I'm trying to understand and I also enjoy the discussion.
None of the men in this thread who said they would lose respect for women upon sleeping with them fairly soon are men I'd typically be attracted to (no offense)....so this is a pretty objective and open conversation for me.



+1000000
I wouldn't give men like that a chance in hell to get their hands on me.
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you sound wounded and outraged...
Elle, does not
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smh @ any women that admits to sleeping with guys on the 1st night talking about who they would & wouldn't be with..LMAO

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Posted by ellessque
Posted by DAMEN VI
smh @ any women that admits to sleeping with guys on the 1st night talking about who they would & wouldn't be with..LMAO




dude, you are half my age. you don't need to take offense. you are just solidifying my opinion into a more fixed scorpio state.
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i promise you i wasn't the least bit offended, i just thought it was funny..and if really wanted to play a role, i could've fucked you if i wanted to..but i don't need the internet to get pussy
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Posted by twinklebluetoes
Posted by DAMEN VI
smh @ any women that admits to sleeping with guys on the 1st night talking about who they would & wouldn't be with..LMAO




Did I say that I have?
Reading comprehension 101, dude.
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a hit dog always holler *shrugs*
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Posted by ellessque

not likely. I have a five year rule.
do you know how many times I've heard that? It's pretty entertaining.
total bitch move, to be honest. I can sense guys like that 100 miles away.




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Posted by twinklebluetoes


Oh, the intelligence with this one is astounding.


why are you in here defending whores thou? if your not one, then its shouldn't matter what the guys in here are saying about'em,right?..or are you one of those "reformed" whores that understands and has sympathy for them?
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when did this 5 year rule start? oh wait let me guess..after years,and years,and years...AND YEARS of treating your vag like a revolving door for dicks?..because im more familiar with scorps sexually then any other sign (i believe), so i got a pretty good idea of how & what to do to get inside you.
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