Posted by Sagittarius2315
@Beautifulsoul74-
So the intensity of it depends on the connection(attraction) you have towards a woman from just looking at her?
If so; for a man is mostly mental. What I'm trying to understand is this. A woman can come multiple times and continue; a man has to control in which direction he is going in order not to come fast; so how does a man control himself? What do you think about?
When entering a woman; is it all in the tip that you feel it?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
How does oral feel for you? That's another question of mine?
Because; I'm wondering if all the stimulation is concentrated on the penis alone.
Foreplay; how does foreplay become a factor for man?
For me; every part of my body is sensitive which heightens the feeling in my....virgina...(sounds so medical). But penetration isn't enough, well it depends. If in really turned on, penetration is enough.
So is penetrating enough for a man?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
How does oral feel for you? That's another question of mine?
Because; I'm wondering if all the stimulation is concentrated on the penis alone.
Foreplay; how does foreplay become a factor for man?
For me; every part of my body is sensitive which heightens the feeling in my....virgina...(sounds so medical). But penetration isn't enough, well it depends. If in really turned on, penetration is enough.
So is penetrating enough for a man?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I wouldn't know since it's not my cup of tea; to receive that is, maybe cause no one has done it right. But to give I have no problem; I'm aggressive so I'm the dominate one in bed.
But I agree I don't think you can approach every guy the same way in that department.
I want to bring up a scenario for you. If you don't mind.
Posted by xvll27Posted by Sagittarius2315
Don't know how to do quote; sorry.
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Posted by Sagittarius2315
@Damsn IV- now has there ever been an occasion where she wasn't that good? Did you stop her? Let her continue and think about something that will allow you to come? Or did you school her as she went on?
Is eye contact important for you when getting head? If so , why?
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by Sagittarius2315
I wouldn't know since it's not my cup of tea; to receive that is, maybe cause no one has done it right. But to give I have no problem; I'm aggressive so I'm the dominate one in bed.
But I agree I don't think you can approach every guy the same way in that department.
I want to bring up a scenario for you. If you don't mind.
I see and sure go aheadclick to expand
Posted by xvll27Posted by Sagittarius2315Posted by xvll27Posted by Sagittarius2315
Don't know how to do quote; sorry.
SEE this at your right side
9/29/2013 7:46:24 PM Quote | IP
Click on Quote than start typing you can also adjust stuff such as sentence , you tube , pictures
Thank you so much; I was getting tired of doing the whole @ thing.
No problem and welcome to dxp and Virgoland/Virgo forumclick to expand
Posted by xMoonMan
Wow, hey. A woman writing a book from a mans pov?
What style are you using, are you going to "quote" all the male responses or are you going to paraphrase them and use your female interpretation?
Is it going to be humorous or serious?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
In your first scenario, as much as I would love to sleep with her, I wouldn't. I never sleep with someone I don't see myself with long term. Yes its old fashioned but look at the shit everybody else is going through because they don't take the time to find out who someone is and develop a friendship. Physical and mental attraction is fleeting, a temporary emotional response based on the moment. Regardless of what she does or how she looks, I'd like to get to know her first. If she isn't with that, its cool.
As for the second, it depends. Sex is like any experience...eventually you build up a "tolerance" of sorts and you can last longer. Doesn't mean it stops being good.click to expand
Posted by xMoonMan
Ah ok, a romance novel, I'll think about getting back to you later re "male insight".
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
How does oral feel for you? That's another question of mine?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Sag: Exactly! What you friend said is basically the truth. A side note, its also a way to spot if she's cheating on you. It simply feels different.
If I were in my 20s I would've answered differently but not for obvious reasons. I was more on blind faith than actually being practical and by that I mean having the things in place in order for me to feel comfortable in having sex.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
How does oral feel for you? That's another question of mine?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Oh admit it, you're writing porn!!!
(I may or may not revisit this topic later, I gotta go to sleep now. I'm have to go to work in 2 hrs! DXP you'll be the death of me! )click to expand
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
How does oral feel for you? That's another question of mine?
Posted by Sagittarius2315
I have another question.
Okay, your in the act, it feels really good, she's hot, her muscles continue to tighten around you, she's extremely wet, she says the freakiest things, calls you daddy or papi, tells you to slap it, bite her, pull her hair, and your hanging on by a thread, you don't want to come but your damn near there, what do you do to keep control? To allow you to go on a little bit longer?
Oh admit it, you're writing porn!!!
(I may or may not revisit this topic later, I gotta go to sleep now. I'm have to go to work in 2 hrs! DXP you'll be the death of me! )click to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
@ Sag2315
If that's you in your avi, you're a sexy mf'er.
Posted by JenLovePosted by beautifulsoul74
@Sag: Exactly! What you friend said is basically the truth. A side note, its also a way to spot if she's cheating on you. It simply feels different.
I've heard this once before. Do you mean that when a girl cheats she physically feels different? And if so, in what way?
If that's what you mean then that is some bullshit and life is unfair lol Women have to worry about "things feeling different" when they cheat, yet guys can do it and we can't sense any differences physically -_- wtf
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Posted by CluelessCancer
You look like your 12...seriously that's some good genetics, what's your background Sagi?
Posted by JenLovePosted by beautifulsoul74
Feeling different pertains to well...her vagina feeling different lol but its more energy than anything. Women can tell too. You have to be spiritually I tune with yourself. Calm your mind.
No I get that her vagina feels different lol I should have been more specific. What I meant was, is it not as tight or does it feel weird inside? A friend of mine said he knew his girl was cheating when he had sex with her and it felt spacious lol and her walls felt weird....whatever that means.
I can understand the energy thing, that makes a lot of sense.click to expand
Posted by JenLovePosted by beautifulsoul74
I think what's missing from the picture is the fact that its all emotional at its roots whether its lust, physical attraction, etc. the difference is how deep those feelings are and that only comes with time.
You can have sex without a deep emotional attachment, but I think that as we age and hopefully mature, we would want a deep connection and sex takes place within the boundaries of a healthy relationship. But, a lot of people don't get past that phase.
I completely agree, that's a huge misconception that a lot of people fail to understand and that's where people get the idea that sex and emotion are not at all related when in reality they are. The degrees of those emotions are what makes the difference.click to expand
Posted by JenLovePosted by beautifulsoul74Posted by JenLovePosted by beautifulsoul74
Feeling different pertains to well...her vagina feeling different lol but its more energy than anything. Women can tell too. You have to be spiritually I tune with yourself. Calm your mind.
No I get that her vagina feels different lol I should have been more specific. What I meant was, is it not as tight or does it feel weird inside? A friend of mine said he knew his girl was cheating when he had sex with her and it felt spacious lol and her walls felt weird....whatever that means.
I can understand the energy thing, that makes a lot of sense.
Basically what your friend said lol
Okay got it. Thanks!click to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I like receiving head. Slow head that is. It's always funny when a female starts to give fast head and thinks she's doing something, ahahahahah! And then probably the only reason she does it that way is because she saw it on a porno and now thinks that all men like it done swiftly. That doesn't work for me. I need and crave slow head. I wanna feel the ridges in your mouth bump up and down on my penile factory and I like being starred at while you do it. I get an emotional connection that way. Grabbing her hair as she deepthroats me is optional. You know how yall womens get about yall hair, and I don't want any interruptions, so I'll respect the game.
Last but not least, you gottta let me bust in your mouth! I feel it in my soul that way. I mean on the face is plausible, but down the throat means you love me. Like damn.......I need a moment.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Fore play is important to me. As you said above, its for different reasons but mainly because I'm a pleaser in bed...but I'm also dominant lol. Its all encompassing. I want to know what turns her on. Her sensitivities, even what tickles lol. Explore her body. It allows me to paint a picture of what ecstasy is for her and I pay attention to EVERYTHING
Posted by ninjutsu
How couldn't you like oral?
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
You don't like receiving oral? GTFOHWahhhhhh? No one has done it right? That's crazy.
Posted by iRunthisTOWN
just a small simple touch of her skin is enough to numb my body into goose bumps so when our whole bodies connect and attach its complete sensation thru every bone in my body. i can feel everything all at once, my ears are drawn to only ur sounds & reactions, i can smell every part of her body at the same time, the sweet smell that she has, now i feel like calling her... but where i feel it the most is my head because its such a rush, its a high that u can never get no matter what drugs u try. then its when i start to go inside when all my veins connect and blood is flowing so strong my heart is beating fast. my lungs i have to control otherwise i get ahead of my self from the type & amount of energy u are withdrawing from me. everything is just connection from our lips stuck like ice, our hands tied like knots, our ankles locked together, our eyes hypnotized into each other. every pore of her skin all over mine, the sweat & cramps are nothing but obstacles from making sure every muscle in my body is no longer capable of kissing her all over her body, of the motion i tried so hard to maintain that made her scream the most, of purely satisfying her. im not just in & out of her. im in like shes never gonna feel this again, then im out like she craves how good it felt so i remind her.
so yeah sex is about every part of ur body, mind, emotion whatever, just depends on how i feel bout her
Posted by JenLovePosted by Sagittarius2315
I personally like giving....I love it. I've had two people go down on me and it was alright; nothing to be all excited about. If a third ain't a charm; I'll opt out.
Oh I thought you meant two people at once lmao I was like girl if that didn't do the trick then shit you should just quit now hahahaha
I don't see why you'd opt out, "alright head" is better than no head....Or maybe that's just me lolclick to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24Posted by JenLovePosted by Sagittarius2315
I personally like giving....I love it. I've had two people go down on me and it was alright; nothing to be all excited about. If a third ain't a charm; I'll opt out.
Oh I thought you meant two people at once lmao I was like girl if that didn't do the trick then shit you should just quit now hahahaha
I don't see why you'd opt out, "alright head" is better than no head....Or maybe that's just me lol
I'd have to disagree with you there. Bad head is like sitting in a comfortable chair that you can't lean back in.click to expand
Posted by iRunthisTOWN
yeah didnt know the topic was oral now. she has to be clean, like even the juice has to smell good, yes its possible.
i consider myself a multi tasker because im mostly doing it for them.
my goal is to show females they should really be receiving. i use my mouth & both my hands, ill make sure that one hand is rubbin & entering her til shes now a waterfall, the communication between my mouth & her most sensitive part is vital because her reactions show me how im doing. i really dont have a technique i just go with the flow in a creative way, i need her to be reaching for things to squeeze with her hands, i need her to be tryin to close her legs on me from how hopeless her body feels after making her scream so loud. she tries to pull my hair but its too short, so she claws into my skull, almost but it hurt. im not here to play around, its actual therapy or medicine for me lol,
yeah im goin to sleep
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