Child sexual abuse and the adults that protect the abuser
This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by mzmee on Friday, July 28, 2017 and has 29 replies.
Watching 3 scenarios play out currently.
1. Mom almost acts like it didn't exist. She doesn't think her guy friend is capable. I'm gonna cut her off. I don't want to because there's only me plus a mutual friend that advocates for the baby. She's 6.
2. Little girl that's 12. Kind of slipped up and told that the family friend has been touching her inappropriately. Everyone in the family says she's a compulsive liar and to not believe her. They don't see the signs tho and it's crazy.
3. Third, little girl that's 4. FOUR. Exhibits all the signs. Someone brought it to moms attention and didn't understand that the way the little girl acted when we all talked about our important parts and how no one is supposed to touch them. Baby girl bawled.
I let out a huge cry for these babies. Wanna keep typing but tears are welling up in my eyes.
1. Mom almost acts like it didn't exist. She doesn't think her guy friend is capable. I'm gonna cut her off. I don't want to because there's only me plus a mutual friend that advocates for the baby. She's 6.
2. Little girl that's 12. Kind of slipped up and told that the family friend has been touching her inappropriately. Everyone in the family says she's a compulsive liar and to not believe her. They don't see the signs tho and it's crazy.
3. Third, little girl that's 4. FOUR. Exhibits all the signs. Someone brought it to moms attention and didn't understand that the way the little girl acted when we all talked about our important parts and how no one is supposed to touch them. Baby girl bawled.
I let out a huge cry for these babies. Wanna keep typing but tears are welling up in my eyes.
We anonymously reported. These are cases that are in progress as we speak. It amazes me how adults refuse to protect the children because they feel this charming guy would never stoop so low. First mom, we didn't tell her we reported but she calls daily in shock. Her boyfriend has been ordered out of the home and she's sooooooo heartbroken. Makes me sick to my stomach.
Eventually I'll reveal that I reported. I got a lot of flack for not minding my business but it is what it is. Said friend turned around and reported too.
Call the police or something so they can take those girls to the doctor. They will know if they've been sexually abused or not.
Posted by PVJamzPosted by mzmeeWhy do you feel you need to reveal you reported? Honestly, them not knowing, and you being kept in the loop, may be the best thing for that child. Minding your own business gets kids hurt.
Eventually I'll reveal that I reported. I got a lot of flack for not minding my business but it is what it is. Said friend turned around and reported too.click to expand
After this all blows over I'll tell them. I'm gonna stay close and won't blow that. Not even. That's why I said something. I'd be a piece of shit if I sat back and watched all this go down and not say a word. I'm gonna be here for all of them.
Close family member had this happen. Fucked her entire head up. That's not something you can just wake up and get over.
Disgusting woman
Don't bring strange men into the presence of your children
As for women that put the need to be with a guy over the care of their children, they are scum
Don't bring strange men into the presence of your children
As for women that put the need to be with a guy over the care of their children, they are scum
Posted by mzmeeWait...how did you get 3 cases like that?
Eventually I'll reveal that I reported. I got a lot of flack for not minding my business but it is what it is. Said friend turned around and reported too.
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Posted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.click to expand
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.
Posted by Deedee86Yes DPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.click to expand
I would enjoy watching the *holy* men of the Catholic Church take their penance in return for all the damage and abuse they did over the years to all those poor little boys and girls
Bang
Bang
Posted by halalbaeOne thing I can't understand is why do they let outnof jail? And then they must have that sign on their houses...
abuse haunts the victims, because they are shamed and the abuser usually is protected from the system
they will feel abandoned by their abuser, parents and the system. so besides reporting the abuse, making sure the victims have emotional support, is important
Like really??? It's so comforting to KNOW that child molested lives next door, right?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Yes DPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.
I would enjoy watching the *holy* men of the Catholic Church take their penance in return for all the damage and abuse they did over the years to all those poor little boys and girls
Bang
Bangclick to expand
Wolves in sheeps clothing.
They are the worst.
Posted by Deedee86Yes, vilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Yes DPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.
I would enjoy watching the *holy* men of the Catholic Church take their penance in return for all the damage and abuse they did over the years to all those poor little boys and girls
Bang
Bang
Wolves in sheeps clothing.
They are the worst.click to expand
And I have spoken to people who were abused by nuns and priests and their mothers knew but did nothing about it
How fucking sick is that ?
Posted by Deedee86The process to get to that 20c bullet is pricey though. Pricier than a lifetime in prison.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.click to expand
Plus if we eliminate the prisoner population who is gonna make our walmart products for dirt cheap?
Posted by LuckyLibra979Shame on that woman, how could she just allow her child to be treated that wayPosted by MyStarsShineNo bullshit I know someone who was repeatedly raped for years by her father while her mother turned a blind eye and wouldn't accept the fact. Almost 40 years later and that woman still has mental breakdowns.Posted by Deedee86Yes, vilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Yes DPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee86Prison is a waste of tax payers money.........hand me the gun
People who sexually abuse children are the scum of the earth. They don't deserve jail. They deserve one bullet between the eyes.
Exactly. $ 40,000 yearly to house in prison or 20 cents for a bullet. I say we hold public executions like they did in the 1800's. Sell tickets and use that money for child welfare charities.
I would enjoy watching the *holy* men of the Catholic Church take their penance in return for all the damage and abuse they did over the years to all those poor little boys and girls
Bang
Bang
Wolves in sheeps clothing.
They are the worst.
And I have spoken to people who were abused by nuns and priests and their mothers knew but did nothing about it
How fucking sick is that ?
Now that's fucking sick. I hate mfs that docthis and I swear I would lose my mind if this happened to my son or my siblings kids. I swear man...click to expand
. The scumbag should not have been allowed to become a mother Like you, i would lose my head and serve time for it......
6 year old went to the dr ordered by children family services. Her hymen was broken.
All you hear from the mamma is he didn't seem like the type. Well he is hoe, fuck him, get off my line and comfort your baby.
I'm heart broken
All you hear from the mamma is he didn't seem like the type. Well he is hoe, fuck him, get off my line and comfort your baby.
I'm heart broken
Posted by ImpulsvAccording to them, she's fast and a compulsive liar.
What s mre disgusting is calling the 12 year girl a little liar by these adults
I asked one time like did you ever wonder why tho? Did you eeeeevvveeerrr sit down and think real hard about why this could be? A child exhibiting suttle sexual behavior. Everyone had a damn excuse.
I hate fucking humans man
I just need to lay down. This has taken a lot of me.
Posted by mzmeeCall CPS asap.
Watching 3 scenarios play out currently.
1. Mom almost acts like it didn't exist. She doesn't think her guy friend is capable. I'm gonna cut her off. I don't want to because there's only me plus a mutual friend that advocates for the baby. She's 6.
2. Little girl that's 12. Kind of slipped up and told that the family friend has been touching her inappropriately. Everyone in the family says she's a compulsive liar and to not believe her. They don't see the signs tho and it's crazy.
3. Third, little girl that's 4. FOUR. Exhibits all the signs. Someone brought it to moms attention and didn't understand that the way the little girl acted when we all talked about our important parts and how no one is supposed to touch them. Baby girl bawled.
I let out a huge cry for these babies. Wanna keep typing but tears are welling up in my eyes.
Posted by ImpulsvAmen to that lady
Why I belive women with small children should not date
Until they are grown
Anyman that comes in the child's life can hurt them while u completely trust them.
So so sad
Why women are so desperate to get a man when they have the most important job in the world to do totally baffles me.
Selfish and stupid and obviously dangerous for some children
Posted by mzmeeOh God
6 year old went to the dr ordered by children family services. Her hymen was broken.
All you hear from the mamma is he didn't seem like the type. Well he is hoe, fuck him, get off my line and comfort your baby.
I'm heart broken
how very sad......poor little girl I would have to punch that woman into next weekend.....*didn't seem the type*....what is that supposed to mean?
I have friends that bring men back to the house when their children are there....it just isn't right for the kids. Being a mother is about putting yourself last, not first
What a fucking messed up Society we live in
Posted by mzmee((((mzmee))))
I just need to lay down. This has taken a lot of me.
Posted by ImpulsvAlso, when a woman starts to date a new guy she often gets so caught up in him, the kids get put on the back burner. I've seen that happen a few times....uuughhh
there is no type
No guarantee
Always a risk even though u think he's a great guy
But anyways that is what I'd do
Wow. These poor children... this is very transparent, but I know how they feel. I mean, I was never raped, but I was constantly molested by a family member of mine when I was about 7. I remember clearly telling my mom, and she just looked at me, and ignored it. Never did anything about it because we'd still go and visit this person after I told her. People wonder why I don't like my mother, and that is the main reason why. How could you not believe your child, and just either act like they're crazy, or just ignore the issue? I don't understand it. Please report them.
I'll try my best to respond to everyone and actively participate in the convo but it's too much going on. I come here to vent to you guys when I can get a breather.
Dcfs interviewed the 12 year old. She's being scheduled for an ordered dr visit Monday. I wasn't there when they came to my family house but a close cousin was. Every answer 12 year old gave, family rolls their eyes and huffs and puffs. This is my fathers side so we were never really that cool because they didn't like my mom. This makes me hate them even more tho.
Dcfs interviewed the 12 year old. She's being scheduled for an ordered dr visit Monday. I wasn't there when they came to my family house but a close cousin was. Every answer 12 year old gave, family rolls their eyes and huffs and puffs. This is my fathers side so we were never really that cool because they didn't like my mom. This makes me hate them even more tho.
Posted by Scorpio123That's the thing, it's never a stranger. It's always someone who has regular unsupervised access because of the level of trust established or a perception of a level of trust.
Thing is, it doesn't even have to be a man you're dating, it could literally be ANYONE. Family members, other kids, or even a friendly lady neighbor.
Posted by m200991Posted by mzmeeYou can always look into becoming a Mandated Reporter, and if you were subjected to it in some way... at that time it became your business, so you did the right thing. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Eventually I'll reveal that I reported. I got a lot of flack for not minding my business but it is what it is. Said friend turned around and reported too.click to expand
It's pretty easy to do in my state too. I'll definitely do that. Thanks.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee1 is a close friend, 1 is family on my dads side, 1 is a friend of a friend.
These three are all in the family?
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