Dating site for married people

Infidelity has never been so hot apparently😛 Over 10million members, yikes!

Tagline?

"Life is short. Have an affair"


http://www.ashleymadison.com/

The guy who owns it is married btw =/

Twisted.

Ok here's a fun fact: DON'T GET MARRIED IF YOU WANT TO FUCK AROUND.

Come on people.

"Over 11,535,000 anonymous members"


That's just cray cray. I seriously can not get over the number. How many members do regular dating sites have?

I can't get over the fact that all these fucktards are shagging outside of their marriage. Or hoping too, just as bad.

Seriously WHY get married? You can just be single. Shit, what's the problem.

This is the owner - can't get his bday, just year of birth (1971)

Posted by Xin
Seriously WHY get married? You can just be single. Shit, what's the problem.

Exactly, or have the testicular fortitude to end things if you want to chase skirt. Or the reverse for the femmes.

Posted by allme
sounds lk a win win for mentally challenged loser middle American couples with no life

riiight? Man and I thought I was a loser for spending summer evening here!! But your WHOLE LIFE? lol 😄😛

This man is wrong!!! omg

Should read "Life is short. Shorter if you continue having affairs."

Not at all surprised. And just think, that number only accounts for those on that ONE particular dating site.

Posted by Xin
Seriously WHY get married? You can just be single. Shit, what's the problem.

seems pretty simple, huh?


I see them on the net claiming shit like this...

"...I am in a relationship situation that for reasons I can't go into, I currently cannot change. It is devoid of any stimulation or intimacy so I am looking for someone to share those things with me. Ideally you would be in a similar situation or in an independent situation not to want a full time relationship.."


Oh poor baby. Why not grow a pair of testicles and LEAVE?
Find someone stimulating and intimatate and marry THEM.

Where's Krysrenee when you need her? Why not have a bitch at this guy——?

New times, new rules. As I grow older I realize that martial bliss isn't really possible unless one or both parties are walking around with blinders. What I mean is someone will always have to make a greater sacrifice. There are exceptions but they are rare! In my life I've met three exceptional couples, none of them are my generation. Pretty much sums it up.

And another thing. SEX. Now I know sex isn't a valid reasons to cheat for most girls because you have a far more romantic view on sex (you know you do, so drop the women's lib crap!) but to most men sex is just sex, it doesn't have to involve feelings or emotions. I know women are fully capable to this themselves, no need to bring it up. I'm generalizing here - and for you who do not know what 'generalize' means, it means that 51% always beats 49% . .

Example. I've been in a relationship where I loved the girl but she did not match my sexual drive. So what was I to do, leave the woman I love because we don't match sexually? You tell me! Anyway I did not cheat on her or anything of that sort. It did cross my mind, but instead we decided to break up and stay close friends... because I refused play the lead in her romantic, non-sexual fantasy and that pretty much ruined it for her. So we didn't last in that form but remain good friends.

Why get married you ask? Becuase you love that person and want to spend the rest of your life with him/her. Does it always have to be all or nothing?

Anyway, all our lives we are fed with this 'unrealistic' image of sexual monogamy that we never really question, but if you think about it -- I mean really think about it -- it's a really fucked up fantasy where one of the participants always suffers.... uhm, pardon me, I meant "makes a greater compromise". That's what it's all about right, COMPROMISES?!

I know I'm gonna get a lot of heat on this one, but that's what it looks like without blinders or safety nets. Some can play that game while others can't.. :-/

This man is truly a charmer!!



From his Twitter

- As the King of Infidelity, I'd like to let the future King of England know that newlyweds tend to flock to our site

- My latest ad is just a statement that if you find that you are in a relationship with someone who is unrecognizable you can use my service.

- Affairs are totally natural and can help a relationship. (But of course no-one should find out....that's where AshleyMadison.com comes in.)

- It's true - I promise you sex or your money back [ewww]

- Megan Fox Says Shia LaBeouf Hurt Her Marriage with their affair. Shia should try my site and no one gets hurt.

- Springtime in Madrid, Spain and infidelity is in the air. Hola everyone.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Oh poor baby. Why not grow a pair of testicles and LEAVE?
Find someone stimulating and intimatate and marry THEM.

No one stays stimulating all their lives. Sooner or later you're gonna run out of topics to talk about, feelings, both of you are gonna change yet you will remain toghether out of some melancholic sense of responsibility for one another. And we call that "compromising" and "being responsible". Poor humanity.

Posted by iceredrobot
This man is truly a charmer!!



From his Twitter

- As the King of Infidelity, I'd like to let the future King of England know that newlyweds tend to flock to our site

- My latest ad is just a statement that if you find that you are in a relationship with someone who is unrecognizable you can use my service.

- Affairs are totally natural and can help a relationship. (But of course no-one should find out....that's where AshleyMadison.com comes in.)

- It's true - I promise you sex or your money back [ewww]

- Megan Fox Says Shia LaBeouf Hurt Her Marriage with their affair. Shia should try my site and no one gets hurt.

- Springtime in Madrid, Spain and infidelity is in the air. Hola everyone.

Reveling in the smell of his own bullshit.

no heat - couple of questions...

"...And another thing. SEX. Now I know sex isn't a valid reasons to cheat for most girls because you have a far more romantic view on sex (you know you do, so drop the women's lib crap!) but to most men sex is just sex, it doesn't have to involve feelings or emotions. I know women are fully capable to this themselves, no need to bring it up. I'm generalizing here - and for you who do not know what 'generalize' means, it means that 51% always beats 49% . ..."

so are you saying that a guy really is happy to just bang anything? I always thought this was just a harsh thing that chicks said when they were having bitch session on guys?



"....Example. I've been in a relationship where I loved the girl but she did not match my sexual drive. So what was I to do, leave the woman I love because we don't match sexually? You tell me! Anyway I did not cheat on her or anything of that sort. It did cross my mind, but instead we decided to break up and stay close friends... because I refused play the lead in her romantic, non-sexual fantasy and that pretty much ruined it for her. So we didn't last in that form but remain good friends...."

so you didn't think you were 'settling' by being in a relationship with someone whose sex drive didn't match yours?
Just interested in your thoughts - I am NOT having a go!
I am trying to get my head around settling - I don't want to, but seems like a lot of folk are
Why must I be like everyone else? wish my brain would stop asking questions...

I recall someone telling me the reason married men use prostitutes - it's because a hooker wont push for a relationship, plus the confidentiality.


😕

I agree for the most, Enfant.


Humans mate for life for good reason, just not necessarily monagamously!

Posted by iceredrobot
I recall someone telling me the reason married men use prostitutes - it's because a hooker wont push for a relationship, plus the confidentiality.


😕

if he hates relationships and only wants sex WTF did he get married?

I love guys but they sometimes do the oddest things

To do stuff they're too ashamed to do with their wife? I know a high end prostitute - well she claims to be high end😛 I've seen council estate girls earning hundreds per night so how high end can she be?


Anyway, she's done some crazy things - like disgusting nightmare-inducing stuff. Lets just say I'm not keen on shaking her hand haha

Posted by iceredrobot
To do stuff they're too ashamed to do with their wife? I know a high end prostitute - well she claims to be high end😛 I've seen council estate girls earning hundreds per night so how high end can she be?


Anyway, she's done some crazy things - like disgusting nightmare-inducing stuff. Lets just say I'm not keen on shaking her hand haha

can I apply on line? At least I would be getting some - and paid for it as well. all good.

lol sure!! If I was in need of cash I'd rather be a stripper though - no touching allowed!

Posted by iceredrobot
lol sure!! If I was in need of cash I'd rather be a stripper though - no touching allowed!

if I get my kit off I better be gettin' some😉

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
so are you saying that a guy really is happy to just bang anything? I always thought this was just a harsh thing that chicks said when they were having bitch session on guys?

But why is that harsh? Why do women get to set the norm? Why should men do and feel the way women do about these matters? A woman will get away with not wanting to have sex after settling down and if I dare to break up with her I'm considered a PIG and judged as someone who's "happy to just bang anything", while if she would to break up with me for that very reason it would be more like, "you gooo gurrrrl".

Anyway, to answer your question -- no it's not true that a guy "would bang just about anything" altough there is a fundemental point somewhere in that statement -- but since women lack a guy's perspecive you always make it sound cruder than it really is. I can only speak for myself: women are like a drug to me, in my youth I wanted to sample as many as possible (as long as I wasn't repulsed by their personality), it had nothing to do with my ego, it was pure gluttony. But my boy-ish dream is and has always been to find that someone special that I can lavish my affections on.

This is a contradiction to women. But imagine constantly having to struggle with your emotional self and your sexuality. Actually I don't think I've ever managed to combine the two in a satisfying way. It's always 40/60 one way or the other.

I apologize if my tone is harsh, nothing personal. I'm just passionate about the subject!

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
so you didn't think you were 'settling' by being in a relationship with someone whose sex drive didn't match yours?

No, never. I'm realistic about relationship, one has to compromise right? But I'm also realistic about sex, that regardless if you're a man or woman, if you have a high sex drive in a relationship that lacks a satisfying sex life, then it will cast a huge shadow over all the positives.

Fast foward two years. "Well, I figure if I get myself a side dish I will be doing this relationship a favor. She doesen't have to know, she'll only know that I love her and that I'll always be there for her. That way we'll both be happy. What's the alternative?"

Anyway I never had to go that far, we broke up. I guess she sensed I was not fully comfortable with my surroundings. In the end what killed it off was the lack of emotional intimacy due to the absence of sex. We were simply not in the same place, emotionally speaking.

Posted by MsPisces.
I agree for the most, Enfant.
Humans mate for life for good reason, just not necessarily monagamously!

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Wouldn't be the first time the two of us level... 🙂

You just don't get it. Go back to reading Cosmo.

Btw, sometimes you have to be selfish or you'll just get fucked over. If you're not gonna stick up for yourself then who will?

Very hard finding someone truly compatible.


Not that I can't go long periods of time w/o sex; lord knows I can, but if I AM sexing you, I have to be completely turned on by you. My desires yearn quietly, but once I've met my match, those desires aren't as umm..quiet, if you will. 😛

Problem is, it always seems to be either or for me. Great sex, not so great relationship, or great relationship, meh sex. I can't do the meh sex, but I am, unfortunately, more willing to do the meh relationship if it means fantastic sex.

I just can't sleep with a man that doesn't make me go crazy for him. Him being rich doesn't seem to help, either! :p *sigh*

YES! Why the hell not?

...my last comment was to @Nights22.

And to be fair, I was "sticking up" for her for years because of love before I started thinking about my "selfish" little sex drive. Why don't you see it that way instead? Nooooo, of course not, your reasoning is just typical. Women set the standards for what's selfish and what's not... my sex drive can go fuck itself, right?

Cosmo blows. Get that sorted straight out of the gate. Someone could tell themself they were 'enlightened', 'educated' or perhaps even 'well-informed' until they were blue in the face. It wouldn't mean jack to me. More than like it would make me want to bull-doze over and back up again to see if I missed a bit. I am that firm in my belief. I don't care what face someone puts on it, or how strongly they argue for it..stepping out on someone you promised to be faithful too in mind and body and soul is wrong. I don't give two shits either about 'facing reality', 'everyone does it'

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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
so are you saying that a guy really is happy to just bang anything? I always thought this was just a harsh thing that chicks said when they were having bitch session on guys?

But why is that harsh? Why do women get to set the norm? Why should men do and feel the way women do about these matters? A woman will get away with not wanting to have sex after settling down and if I dare to break up with her I'm considered a PIG and judged as someone who's "happy to just bang anything", while if she would to break up with me for that very reason it would be more like, "you gooo gurrrrl".

Anyway, to answer your question -- no it's not true that a guy "would bang just about anything" altough there is a fundemental point somewhere in that statement -- but since women lack a guy's perspecive you always make it sound cruder than it really is. I can only speak for myself: women are like a drug to me, in my youth I wanted to sample as many as possible (as long as I wasn't repulsed by their personality), it had nothing to do with my ego, it was pure gluttony. But my boy-ish dream is and has always been to find that someone special that I can lavish my affections on.

This is a contradiction to women. But imagine constantly having to struggle with your emotional self and your sexuality. Actually I don't think I've ever managed to combine the two in a satisfying way. It's always 40/60 one way or the other.

I apologize if my tone is harsh, nothing personal. I'm just passionate about the subject!

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no no you don't sound harsh - I think I get misinterpreted a lot.. I am really interested in this!

When I said 'harsh' I meant chicks who are bitching about guys....you know what they can be like and sometimes they say mean things that aren't necessarily true.

If you break up with someone because you are sexually incompatible then I think you are showing a bit of backbone - why stay together and be miserable?
If the wife doesn't want to have sex and her husband does she should have the decency to divorce him.

I want to get married so I do have someone to have sex with. But if I was married and something weird happened and the guy couldn't have sex anymore I would find a way to still show him that affection and never screw

Everytime we get into these convos, people start assuming anyone who understands human nature regarding monogamy, are somehow justifying cheating.

It turns into a moral debate, and becomes annoying.

Too much cake makes you fat anyways.

Posted by Nights22
And why not break up with them and move on?

Fear of being lonely?

And I dont know why people settle either way if their plenty of unhappiness with something. Probably because the fear of being lonely.

And I think that fear of being lonely is why so many people get married and get married for the wrong reasons.

CAN YOU FUCKIN' READ?!

I said I loved her! And I wasn't unhappy, I was just missing one last important bit of the puzzle which would have sealed the deal. But despite that I decided I was willing to stay with her out of love. Unfortuntely it didn't work out that way.

How you interpreted that as "fear of being alone" I don't know. Please, go back and read again before even thinking of responding to me. So far you've only said nonsense totally irrelevant to my post.

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Posted by MsPisces.
Everytime we get into these convos, people start assuming anyone who understands human nature regarding monogamy, are somehow justifying cheating.

It turns into a moral debate, and becomes annoying.

idk y u get into debates when u find them all annoying.

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I didn't find our previous debate annoying.

lol I get it. You've got a personal vendetta against me bc of one disagreement. Doesn't surprise me. Butthurt water guys, that is 🙂

That's what I mean though. For me it's what feels right, and what feels wrong. Going outside of relationship is WRONG to me. I could not be in love with someone and sully my body with another mans. I just can't. I can't see past him in that regard. I just don't work like that. Even 'casual dating' is a joke, because I take dating seriously and it is anything but sitting round in wool socks watching the telly. I don't understand all the laissez-faire, 'oh wells' attitude about something that in my way of thinking is a GIFT. Something shared by two people with feeling and high regard for the other.
I don't stand up on the mountain top and scream 'Burn you godless beings!' with thunder claps pealing off in the distance, I just don't understand it. Nor do I WANT too. Ya dig?

around behind his back.

Different story if he just didn't want to have sex with me. Then we would have to call it a day. And wonder why we got together in the first place.

Posted by venusianbull
How can someone mouth the words "I love you" then go out and be with someone else?

Since when is sex synonymous with love?

Since when is it not?

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Posted by MsPisces.

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Posted by MsPisces.
Everytime we get into these convos, people start assuming anyone who understands human nature regarding monogamy, are somehow justifying cheating.

It turns into a moral debate, and becomes annoying.

idk y u get into debates when u find them all annoying.

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I didn't find our previous debate annoying.

lol I get it. You've got a personal vendetta against me bc of one disagreement. Doesn't surprise me. Butthurt water guys, that is 🙂

lol nope not that thread. Once again the judge case where you kept bitching at people to calm down.

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Wtf? lol Quote me once where I bitched about ppl calming down? I agreed that the shit was weird and unnecessary, and I don't believe you need to hit your kids to properly discipline them. I also added that it would've been a fight if it were me lol You agreed with me..thats the only interaction I even recalled having with you ? I was rather light hearted about the whole thing, as again, it didn't move me as much as the other posters, but I never 'bitched' about it.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but he didn't cheat on her, right??

You are strange, Nights. I had no idea my opinions here had this much affect on you.

Barely ever even recognized you lol


But go ahead, quote away.

Be right back guys, gotta get something to eat lol

I was just expressing my thoughts. I've been on DXP for a while, and EVERYTIME this convo gets brought up, it turns into a war of morals, when I think the people debating that monogamy is more natural than ppl like to admit, are not condoning cheating, just trying to explain the whys behind it...Its a very touchy topic.

*groan* Don't mention food, I made a complete oinker out of myself tonight.

Monogamy isn't as natural***