Dating Tips

Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

Posted by enfant_terrible

You're in for a world of pain. Get ready to get jaded.

Oh thanks for that hahaha

Posted by Cyrano_de_Bergerac

Don't stare at your phone the whole time.

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Posted by enfant_terrible

You're in for a world of pain. Get ready to get jaded.

Oh thanks for that hahaha

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

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Posted by Gobby

Be yourself, be honest and don't play mind games. It's that simple. Sadly, most humans are too dumb to competently follow these simple guidelines...

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

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Posted by enfant_terrible

You're in for a world of pain. Get ready to get jaded.

Oh thanks for that hahaha

There are two types of people who actually enjoy the single life - those who want to be left alone, and those who prefer casual sex with different partners to relationships..

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

..if you just want to have sex yes, but I wouldn't dress that way initially...first impressions are important.

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by Muderface

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

..if you just want to have sex yes, but I wouldn't dress that way initially...first impressions are important.

I agree, the OP isn't looking for relationship, just a little cas fun restricted to kissing from what I gather.

I'm personally not a fan of showing cleavage because that imo attracts wrong type of guys to me.

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

Hahaha I was gonna rock a poncho next weekend but short skirt it is😂😂

Thanks you for the advice 😊

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Posted by Muderface

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

..if you just want to have sex yes, but I wouldn't dress that way initially...first impressions are important.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by Muderface

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

..if you just want to have sex yes, but I wouldn't dress that way initially...first impressions are important.

It's cold here so I was gonna wear a warm poncho next weekend out...yes/no? Lol

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Posted by Muderface

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Posted by PhishFood

Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

Hahaha I was gonna rock a poncho next weekend but short skirt it is😂😂

Thanks you for the advice 😊

From what I remember reading, you are tall?

Skirts look sexy on taller chics.

I'm just tiny haha so I always find tall chicks sexy

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

Hahaha I was gonna rock a poncho next weekend but short skirt it is😂😂

Thanks you for the advice 😊

From what I remember reading, you are tall?

Skirts look sexy on taller chics.

I'm just tiny haha so I always find tall chicks sexy

Tall-ish lol I think I'm just gonna dress warm. Lol aww I'm sure you're just as sexy 😘

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Don't "date" multiple guys at the same time if there's interest in getting to know one specific person better. This is kinda controversial, but I couldn't take you very seriously if i were on the recieving end of that.

How would you feel if we went for a couple of dates and every time I drop you off I'm off to pick up the next random person I'm tryin to 'get to know'. Or you asking me if I wanna go out tonight and I'm alteady out with date #14.

Or you having to tell me, "we never had that discussion, must have been one of your other girls".

Make the time for one person before moving on to the next or you'll end up with 20 different ppl you're half-assed invested in and who are half-assed invested in you.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Don't "date" multiple guys at the same time if there's interest in getting to know one specific person better. This is kinda controversial, but I couldn't take you very seriously if i were on the recieving end of that.

How would you feel if we went for a couple of dates and every time I drop you off I'm off to pick up the next random person I'm tryin to 'get to know'. Or you asking me if I wanna go out tonight and I'm alteady out with date #14.

Or you having to tell me, "we never had that discussion, must have been one of your other girls".

Make the time for one person before moving on to the next or you'll end up with 20 different ppl you're half-assed invested in and who are half-assed invested in you.

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

Hahaha I was gonna rock a poncho next weekend but short skirt it is😂😂

Thanks you for the advice 😊

From what I remember reading, you are tall?

Skirts look sexy on taller chics.

I'm just tiny haha so I always find tall chicks sexy

Tall-ish lol I think I'm just gonna dress warm. Lol aww I'm sure you're just as sexy 😘

Dress warm ? Are you from Australia or NZ?

Quantify tsll-ish? 5ft7? I'll have a couple of inches off you, please lol xx

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

Bars are better bet than clubs

Good on you for trying the real dating !

Short skirts and not a lot of cleavage attracts half decent blokes !

Hahaha I was gonna rock a poncho next weekend but short skirt it is😂😂

Thanks you for the advice 😊

From what I remember reading, you are tall?

Skirts look sexy on taller chics.

I'm just tiny haha so I always find tall chicks sexy

Tall-ish lol I think I'm just gonna dress warm. Lol aww I'm sure you're just as sexy 😘

Dress warm ? Are you from Australia or NZ?

Quantify tsll-ish? 5ft7? I'll have a couple of inches off you, please lol xx

NZ and 5ft9 lol don't be silly, you're gorgeous at your height!

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Listen more than talk

Posted by Yodi

Dating around doesn't mean you're fuxin around.. even tho it will help to keep one of your exes around on the side so that you don't become too horny on your dates 😅 it helps. You won't get attached to easily either. If you don't have an ex to run too then buy a toy and go in before dates lol

I'm so serious 😑

Besides that.. be yourself and go for the natural look.. you'll attract a different type of man (well at least in my city). Don't dress slutty but be sexy..

You got this 👍🏿 best of luck.

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

If you sign up to a dating website, the guys who actually decide to go out on a date aren't actually looking for a relationship. Lol

Also the bigger issue with dating site is that many people don't look like their pics.

So there may be lack of kissing too, assuming you didn't like the way they look irl.

I'm not down for the dating sites. Will be going out more and socialising so hopefully I pull something in😂

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Posted by GemCurio

3 Cardinal Rules of the Game Playa!!!

Only because it's you...

#1 The more you respect yourself the higher the person you are dating HAS to respect you. Demand it and tolerance means acceptance...

#2 First warning sign of strange behavior run!!! Whatever that behavior that doesn't vibe right with you will grow worse and worse the longer the person is around

#3 Appear the way you want to be treated. How you dress will say to a guy I have to buy this lady a drink and a small cake just to see her smile, or the way you dress will say the liquor store closes in 15 minutes and I can jump her bones behind the dumpster..

Ladies is Pimps Too!!! The way you dress, and the level of integrity you maintain will be reflected back at you. Prepare for the slimy. They come up to everyone everywhere regardless of if you're on a date or not. If the guy you're dating sees a slimy dude come up to you while he's in the bathroom or walked away for a moment, pay attention to his reaction.

If he's confrontational with the guy it's a great thing. If he tries to make a joke about it indirectly blaming how you look or anything like that run!!! He's not a man yet... And will always blame you instead of being a man... Good Luck Playa!!!!

Posted by Nathan912

What?!?.... A Sagittarius asking for a dating tips?

Posted by FantamRooster

You're hilarious (I've noticed in your comment posts.) Run from any guy who is offended by that or tries to silence it. Guys who see it as a good quality will make you so much happier, and they're usually funny too.

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Posted by Muderface

Do you have any tips on dating that you stand by? Any good/bad dating experiences that schooled you?

So I wanna start dating around and having fun. Only been on dates with my ex so I'm really nervous.

Also If you don't want a commited relationship when do you tell the other person? Over food or before the date starts?

Not aiming to sleep around but open to being a kissing slut. Lol jokes

Intention. I believe it is honorable to let the other person know beforehand that you aren't looking for anything serious if you aren't, even before meeting them or engaging them in back and forth convos.

Be yourself.

If you have a certain communication style or expectations I believe it is better to let them know. If you like once in three days communication or everyday... This could prevent lots of misunderstandings.

Another thing I've learned is if you need advice, take it from someone you trust and make sure they didn't get dumped that day or they don't have intentions of their own 😂😂😂

Or clarify with the person involved. Better ask the person than anyone else.



PS

I'm not into dating. So I may be wrong.

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Posted by saggurl88

I suck ass at dating. I break all the rules and guys probably think I'm not interested and then I'm just like OK- Call me

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Posted by Yodi

Dating around doesn't mean you're fuxin around.. even tho it will help to keep one of your exes around on the side so that you don't become too horny on your dates 😅 it helps. You won't get attached to easily either. If you don't have an ex to run too then buy a toy and go in before dates lol

I'm so serious 😑

Besides that.. be yourself and go for the natural look.. you'll attract a different type of man (well at least in my city). Don't dress slutty but be sexy..

You got this 👍🏿 best of luck.

😂😂 you're amazing. Thanks hon for the advice. I'll make sure to make it a ritual before every date 😘

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Posted by Raakac

I can give couple, might be really simple, but i noticed some ppl rly make these or have these bad habits

1. Don't be on your phone all the time, it's ok to text or call , but if you're on the phone all the time you're making a statement that time on your phone is more interesting to you than the person you're with, so that doesn't really make a good impression and doesn't help connect and get to know each other.

2. Be yourself and spend the 1st date geting to know person and if you like them, i noticed really loads of people don't really care if they like the person, the might like the idea or some shit, so they end up trying to impress a woman or a guy they don't even really know they like. I noticed many ppl worry that other person will not like that, and thats complete waste of energy because you don't even know if you're going to like that person in the 1st place. Rather than worry just enjoy the company and see how you connect, vibe and feel each other out rather than trying to impress and worrying that other person might not like you! Best of luck

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Posted by saggurl88

I suck ass at dating. I break all the rules and guys probably think I'm not interested and then I'm just like OK- Call me

😂😂 I'll try it out if I go on one that's super awkward hahaha

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Posted by nanobot

I've dated a lot in my mid twenties and had a blast. I loved sharing experiences and thoughts with many different men. Though nothing came of it (my choice), I don't regret it at all!

- don't take things too serious. enjoy yourself and see what different men have to offer. you have a lot to offer yourself!

- dating one person at a time is not necessary and is very boring. go out, have fun, meet different guys. learn about men your age, ask them their opinions and thoughts on things, get a little tipsy and meander your way through interesting conversations. allow yourself to indulge in multiple experiences

- don't ever allow them to pick you up or give them your address. safety measures in case things go south.

- don't lead men on. have fun, and flirt, but tell them upfront where your interest lies. if you want a relationship ... tell them you search for that. if you wanna just have fun and date ... tell them its not serious right now but you will love to meet up if they are okay with that.

- if he wants to pay and insists on it, girl let him pay! men want to feel like a man sometimes.

- you can have sex with them or not. your body, your choice and frankly, it's no ones business.

- if something with potential comes along, great. if not, also great because you didn't bind yourself to expectations

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Posted by nanobot

I've dated a lot in my mid twenties and had a blast. I loved sharing experiences and thoughts with many different men. Though nothing came of it (my choice), I don't regret it at all!

- don't take things too serious. enjoy yourself and see what different men have to offer. you have a lot to offer yourself!

- dating one person at a time is not necessary and is very boring. go out, have fun, meet different guys. learn about men your age, ask them their opinions and thoughts on things, get a little tipsy and meander your way through interesting conversations. allow yourself to indulge in multiple experiences

- don't ever allow them to pick you up or give them your address. safety measures in case things go south.

- don't lead men on. have fun, and flirt, but tell them upfront where your interest lies. if you want a relationship ... tell them you search for that. if you wanna just have fun and date ... tell them its not serious right now but you will love to meet up if they are okay with that.

- if he wants to pay and insists on it, girl let him pay! men want to feel like a man sometimes.

- you can have sex with them or not. your body, your choice and frankly, it's no ones business.

- if something with potential comes along, great. if not, also great because you didn't bind yourself to expectations

😍 I love this!!! I got too excited reading your comment Hahahaha but Thank you so much! Fingers crossed all goes well 😘😘

Keep us updated on your dates. I love to read about them. The good and the bad.. it happens lol. You should make a dating diary thread! I will for sure read it, and it can give people a glimpse at what current dating is like.

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Posted by Cyrano_de_Bergerac

Don't stare at your phone the whole time.