Posted by nanoroboti have not been able to get a date with a woman. it really has been hard.
I didn't watch the video, but I have given this a lot of thought and personally I think I would find it incredibly frustrating.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesWhat drama if they are LOOKING for it?
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesTinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
What drama if they are LOOKING for it?
I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝click to expand
Posted by Ram416i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me. there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.Posted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.
Why would you want to date a woman anyway?click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesit is weird i get more excited with women but seem to be draw to men. i find women more of a turn on. but i have never got the chance to have that kind of relationship with a woman. i thought now that my ex was out of the picture i could find a woman and see where it leads too.Posted by Ram416Posted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.
Why would you want to date a woman anyway?
i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me. there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.click to expand
Posted by Anomalousno met my ex and got married way to young.
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
Posted by WitchmitchAriesAhh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?Posted by Anomalous
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
no met my ex and got married way to young.click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesAre they looking for...unemployed? LmaoPosted by GemitatiPosted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
What drama if they are LOOKING for it?
I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝married people always have shit going on. plus they want it on their own time. i will stick with single people.
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Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Ram416Posted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.
Why would you want to date a woman anyway?
i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me.there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.click to expand
Posted by Ram416i have to much trust issues for something serious. there was this friend of mine. I met her through the chambers when i had my game shop. She was a scorp. it was great i thought i would have a real best friend thingy but over time i found myself getting really really excited when we hugged. i didnt hit on her or anything i was still married at the time. I would never say anything to her. then one day she said she couldnt hang out with me anymore. I dont know if had a feeling or what. she gave me the reason that she had to much going and she need to take care of herself kinda stuff. we were friend for two years. i felt heart ache from that. and after my ex and the aries guy. i now have issues with comment relationship stuff. this other aries guy said i was broken this week. he wanted me to move in with him and all i could think about was being trapped. i know it all sounds crazy.Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Ram416Posted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.
Why would you want to date a woman anyway?
i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me.there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.
Keep your options open.
However, I'm still not sure if this is because you want the experience or you are looking for something serious?This is relevant because most queer women aren't very tolerant of women who are looking for a first time experience.
Also, be careful of catfishes.click to expand
Posted by Anomaloussexual attraction with my ex or women?Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Anomalous
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
no met my ex and got married way to young.
Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?click to expand
Posted by Gemitatiwhat the freak does that mean? lolPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by GemitatiPosted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
What drama if they are LOOKING for it?
I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝married people always have shit going on. plus they want it on their own time. i will stick with single people.
Are they looking for...unemployed? Lmaoclick to expand
Posted by Antiphatesdont matter they are men or women.Posted by PhangusPosted by AntiphatesPosted by PhangusPosted by AntiphatesPosted by PhangusPosted by AntiphatesPosted by PhangusPosted by Antiphates
I always wonder where people find those women. Granted, my experience with women is limited but I've never really encountered this kind of behaviour.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say Tinder. I never acted like that on a date but my dates came about organically with people I already knew and (mostly) respected.
Okay, but even then one would have to allow them to pull that kind of stuff.
What do you mean?
A lot of what is described are things you can prevent or just refuse to accept. It can be established before the date that you are not going to pay for it. When just keeps talking you can communicate your displeasure about it and then just leave if she refuses to comply. The cat and marriage comment is something I would just take as a joke but nothing more.
See, most people would have trouble with those kinds of awkward conversations.
Well, you can always flip the tables for fun.
You're a never-ending font of table flipping.
"We men of cold politeness
Shall never melt into that kindness of yours
No matter how we try"click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesI find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:
I do feel for guys on this
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Posted by nevesDISAGREEPosted by WitchmitchAries
I do feel for guys on this
I find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:
- all her videos are couple of minutes long (based on the statics - short videos are more clickable and it's also more likely for most of the audience - to actually check that content from begging to end / which is important for YouTube's algorithms - if you're to make money from YouTube content)
- again, as mentioned above - most of her YouTube content is made up (she invents shit that sounds interesting - stuff she rarely or never experienced in real life) - and also edited by professionals to look good.
For this reason "it lacks substance (that's how you can tell it's fake - that it's not based on her actual experience)". Trying to look cool for the camera is one thing - and being fake is another (YouTubers like Anna Akana - are the perfect example). By comparison - here's what real looks like...
(even from the way she talks - you can tell that she's not just acting and saying shit for the camera - that her answers are based on her actual experience)click to expand
Posted by MareInfameit is when you live in a small town far away from everything.
I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.
The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.
But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.
Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.
When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.
If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄
Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.
Posted by Ssasyit is i dont mind maybe trying it out. i just want my first with a woman and all i am is a toy for her hubby. just sayingPosted by WitchmitchAries
Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.
Same!
It’s becoming the norm I’m looking too and every other profile is a coupleclick to expand
Posted by Redbulloh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.
Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.
Posted by Redbulllol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just sayingPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Redbull
Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.
oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.
Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.
True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesnot putting anything down just putting things straightPosted by RedbullPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Redbull
Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.
oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.
Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.
True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.
lol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just sayingclick to expand
Posted by GODZmen fart to much
women are low ass goof
Posted by Sailor_Marsdoes that bother you?
my boo is still aimed at men.
Posted by Sailor_Marsi think that is a good thing. i think it says you got trust and strong connection.Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sailor_Mars
my boo is still aimed at men.
does that bother you?
Oddly enough, not the least. 🤔🌈click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesmaybe it is an aries thing. i am so not the jelly type. i only get sad when i am not get attention when i want itPosted by Sailor_MarsPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sailor_Mars
my boo is still aimed at men.
does that bother you?
Oddly enough, not the least. 🤔🌈
i think that is a good thing. i think it says you got trust and strong connection.click to expand
Posted by RedbullPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by RedbullPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Redbull
Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.
oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.
Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.
True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.
lol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just saying
Haha alright alright. Im...I think your doing a good job here how youre doing your thing threadwise. No problems it just seems kind of weird her focus and attention. But hey if your trying to do all that no judging forget the dudes if thats not your thing and go about your business. We...as far as Im concerned none of the rest of this is even a concern. Anyway *breaking news* a Sag dude I know just called me his car broke down and he's near where my part time job is so I told him I'd help take him to car parts store so Im leaving a little early for work today. You know the Sags with the spontaneous developmentsclick to expand
Posted by Notmyrealnameyeah men just give it up so easy.
I don’t think I’ve met any of these stereoypes, but it would definitely be a nightmare dating a woman tbf lol, I feel like there are so many advantages to men not really understanding anything
Posted by WitchmitchAriesWith women?Posted by AnomalousPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Anomalous
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
no met my ex and got married way to young.
Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?
sexual attraction with my ex or women?click to expand
Posted by Anomalousyes womenPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by AnomalousPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Anomalous
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
no met my ex and got married way to young.
Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?
sexual attraction with my ex or women?
With women?click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesOh so you're not looking for a relationship, you just wanna tongue slide?Posted by AnomalousPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by AnomalousPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Anomalous
Have you ever had sex with a woman before?
no met my ex and got married way to young.
Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?
sexual attraction with my ex or women?
With women?
yes womenclick to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAries
I do feel for guys on this
Posted by RedbullI have actually had guy friends make similar complaints to me. Just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.
Posted by MareInfameSo much generalizing in the bolded texts, I don't know where to start.
I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.
The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.
But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.
Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.
When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.
If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄
Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesTHIS GIFPosted by nevesPosted by WitchmitchAries
I do feel for guys on this
I find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:
- all her videos are couple of minutes long (based on the statics - short videos are more clickable and it's also more likely for most of the audience - to actually check that content from begging to end / which is important for YouTube's algorithms - if you're to make money from YouTube content)
- again, as mentioned above - most of her YouTube content is made up (she invents shit that sounds interesting - stuff she rarely or never experienced in real life) - and also edited by professionals to look good.
For this reason "it lacks substance (that's how you can tell it's fake - that it's not based on her actual experience)". Trying to look cool for the camera is one thing - and being fake is another (YouTubers like Anna Akana - are the perfect example). By comparison - here's what real looks like...
(even from the way she talks - you can tell that she's not just acting and saying shit for the camera - that her answers are based on her actual experience)
DISAGREEclick to expand
Posted by MareInfameYour experience has been acknowledged lolPosted by Ram416Posted by MareInfame
I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.
But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.
Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.
When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.
If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄
Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.
So much generalizing in the bolded texts, I don't know where to start.
Good point👍🏼👍🏼
I should have clarified... they are women in within the groups I hang out with. I have a huge groups of lesbo friends and there’s always a lot of silly drama. I also feel they get really sappy around me. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m just voicing out MY EXPERIENCE. 👍🏼👍🏼click to expand
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