Posted by VenusRetrogadeOh no, cause I believe it’s part of human nature. I fall in love/want to have sex with like every 3rd person I met LOL male or female. Obviously if I’m with someone I control this physically 100% if that’s what we decided. But mentally I have to have my moments. Which I think is healthy.Posted by Sag898Tricky situation. How would u feel if he is doing the same?
Sexting or porn is cheating? I’m not sure. Personally I need space to have a fantasy life. I think most people do. There are sexual things that I’d like that I didn’t feel comfortable saying to a partner before and have had chats with sexy strangers like once or twice.
Not real life in anyway. You know?
I agree about having a fantasy life because tbh I am the same. But i used to hide it from my ex and it didn't feel right. Now i bring my fiance to this fantasy life of mine. We can talk dirty and experiment on things, send nudes to each other etc. And its much more fun because i dont feel a creeping guilt inside me of whether or not im doing something wrong.click to expand
Posted by AntiochusCould you explain that
No.
Those fantasies can be or become an integeral part to balance your actual relationships or your life in general.
Prohibiting and supressing them can actually be damaging for a relationship.
Edit: Sexting is problematic due to the emotional factor.
Posted by Sag898Damn, a person's imagination is weak as fuck if they need another person in some physical way.
Sexting or porn is cheating? I’m not sure. Personally I need space to have a fantasy life. I think most people do. There are sexual things that I’d like that I didn’t feel comfortable saying to a partner before and have had chats with sexy strangers like once or twice.
Not real life in anyway. You know?
Posted by HeartofTopazzI’m looking for honesty hahaPosted by Sag898
I’m not talking about sexually incompatible. I mean can any of you honestly say your WHOLE sexuality belongs to another person? Please be realistic.
Are you seeking reassurance or genuine opinions?click to expand
Posted by Sag898I'm not sure what you mean by whole sexuality but yeah if I'm with someone they are the only one I want sexually, physically, mentally, and emotionally. I never understand people who would want to have other relations or fantasies of other people it's uncomfortable to me. But to each their own.
I’m not talking about sexually incompatible. I mean can any of you honestly say your WHOLE sexuality belongs to another person? Please be realistic.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by Sag898In a nutshell:Posted by AntiochusCould you explain that
No.
Those fantasies can be or become an integeral part to balance your actual relationships or your life in general.
Prohibiting and supressing them can actually be damaging for a relationship.
Edit: Sexting is problematic due to the emotional factor.
It's unfair to expect one person to be able to fulfill all your desires.
Then there are cases where one partner is into more specific forms of sex like bondage etc. but the other isn't.
It can't expected from the other partner to fulfill those if they feel uncomfortable with it. Instead of breaking up just because of this one thing while the rest works wonderfully they can outsource this aspect.
Then there are emotional needs the partner for whatever reason can't statisfy. Those too can be outsourced while the relationship improves or becomes more stable and harmonious. Talking about fantasies to others is completly harmless in my opinion.click to expand
Posted by ArkansassyYou can read the texts anytime babe
Really depends tho..
If he/she are trying to find a 3rd for us, I wouldn't mind them sexting. I want to see the convo.
Posted by HeartofTopazzsame
Sexting, yes
Porn, no