Does He Want To Ask Me Out or WHAT—

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Ok, I'm gonna try to make this short. I have my own business, so I work primarily from home unless I'm meeting with people and doing contracts, etc; however, I do like to just be out, so I go to a specific grocery chain of stores that has internet so I work there, and I love it because it's so convenient since there is food and I can eat, work and be merry.
Anywhooo - there is a guy that works there (he's a manager of the store). He's got that sexy swag and looks like an ad from a scruffy J. Crew/Eddie Bauer. He's an ex-Marine (which I recently found out). So, I'll just throw out the comments he's made to me over the course of the last like 6 weeks (paraphrasing since I'm not a tape recorder, and can't remember line for line):
"Hey lady, I haven't seen you for awhile, miss seeing you."
"Glad to see you are working here today, the store is a lovelier place when you are here."
Always compliments my hair, clothes, how tall I am, etc. He asked me what I was doing for New Years' Eve. We talked about Corporate America and the crappiness that it is...but how he loves the store/company that he works for now. He's super tall, so he tells about scaring and intimidating people.
He recently has started to sit down and chat with me for a few moments. He'll check to see if I am on the phone or not (because sometimes I plug my earphones into the computer and listen to music as I work, and he can't tell if I'm on the phone or not). He's also started to "touch me" (giggles - sorry, I'm so immature sometimes) on my shoulder or back when he passes by me when he's upstairs, because that's where the tables and everything are, and the store part is downstairs. I don't know what the deal is, because most times the guys I know are pretty straight forward and I know EXACTLY what they want (cause' I want the same thing 😉 ). He's not shy at all though. Also, he told me has a daughter, but made a point of saying that his daughter is w/the mother but he gets weekends with her. And of course we talk about sports -- that's my thing.
I'm used to more forthright people, and I'm probably just reading too much into it anyway. I think it may be a familiarity thing since I'm always there.
Anybody who has been on this board for any length of time on the Taurus board will know I'm a huge commitphobe, but I do have needs...I just recently moved states, and ummm, yeah...I'm delving into the realm of TMI now! LOL!
So, thoughts??
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Posted by VirgoHero
Did you ask him his birthday? This forum is worthless until we have a sign to stereotype a person with 😛



LMAO! No Mr. Smarty Pants, I did not ask him his birthdate!
Maybe the next time I'm there I'll find some sneaky way to find out his sign 🙂 I think he's actually just a flirtatious person (there is nothing wrong with that). I'm not, I just flirt with people I like, not everybody; whereas, true flirts (from my experience) flirt with everybody.
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Did you ask him his birthday? This forum is worthless until we have a sign to stereotype a person with 😛



LMAO! No Mr. Smarty Pants, I did not ask him his birthdate!
Maybe the next time I'm there I'll find some sneaky way to find out his sign 🙂 I think he's actually just a flirtatious person (there is nothing wrong with that). I'm not, I just flirt with people I like, not everybody; whereas, true flirts (from my experience) flirt with everybody.
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Yep, just use your womanly wiles to get it out of him. I guarantee once you tell us what sign he is, you'll have advice coming out of the woodwork on how much of a jerk or a god he is.

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
my rule is if it's got a penis ,it's a jerk.


LMAO! Umm, I pretty much already know that!

@LeoLady Loves - ok, ok, I unhid again. As everyone has commented before, I wish there were an "edit" button too!
@VirgoHero -- you are so right, once I say he's an "X" sign, there likely would be a lot of input regarding our possible status as an item, given that I am a bull and he is an "X". I'm not tryin to get married, I'm just perplexed by his behavior, because like I said, most guys I know and have been with; they have NO problem w/coming out and saying/asking for "what's what!"
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Posted by VirgoHero
So maybe he's a big shy guy looking for that special woman to tie his shit up to the bed and ravish him! Go make his wish come true!



LOL!! Now VH, could you ever imagine me doing something like that— *blinks really big*

@ LeoLadyLoves - yeah, he is yummy in his own way!

OMG, as I was typing a bit ago (thankfully, not on here, but on an email) he came up behind me and started massaging my shoulders and asked me what I was working on so intently this morning 😉 But dammit, I forgot to somehow find out his sign. I told him I was surprised he was working today, and he said he was too! He'll be here another 3 hours he said, so perhaps if I see him again I can get it out of him (discreetly) *polishes up my womanly wiles 😉 *
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LOL @ VH and Seavixen. I haven't been there, but I will likely go sometime this week - as long as it doesn't snow! LOL! Whatever is meant to be will be, so I was just curious, because like I said, I am used to "inyourface" type of men, and he's very nice to me and everything, but I don't want to read too much into it; especially since I know how flirtatious people are, and they mean nothing by it.
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LOL @ VH and Seavixen. I haven't been there, but I will likely go sometime this week - as long as it doesn't snow! LOL! Whatever is meant to be will be, so I was just curious, because like I said, I am used to "inyourface" type of men, and he's very nice to me and everything, but I don't want to read too much into it; especially since I know how flirtatious people are, and they mean nothing by it.



Alright, taking bets. He's a Virgo or Cancer
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LOL @ VH and Seavixen. I haven't been there, but I will likely go sometime this week - as long as it doesn't snow! LOL! Whatever is meant to be will be, so I was just curious, because like I said, I am used to "inyourface" type of men, and he's very nice to me and everything, but I don't want to read too much into it; especially since I know how flirtatious people are, and they mean nothing by it.



Just casually bring up a story or comment about your birthday then use your wiles to switch it to find out his. COMMON!!! You women are good at the whole diversion thing.
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Posted by VirgoHero
I've had a hilarious scenario in my head that you're going to hit it off with this guy, we won't hear from you for about 2 months, and then you'll just randomly come back one day screaming you're pregnant.

I shall slink into the shadows for a bit when that happens 😛


Oh sweet VH, I am NOT HAVING ANY KIDS BY ANYONE. Ummm, yep. That's the end of that 😉 You know I am the perpetual commitmentphobe. I know it's not as attractive on women as men (bachelors=men; spinsters = women) but I love my life the way it is. I just like to partake of.................ummm, yeah.....other stuff!
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Posted by VirgoHero
I've had a hilarious scenario in my head that you're going to hit it off with this guy, we won't hear from you for about 2 months, and then you'll just randomly come back one day screaming you're pregnant.

I shall slink into the shadows for a bit when that happens 😛


Actually, he's very polite. The "touching" my arms, shoulder (slow massage thing) just started recently. Besides the occassional "cleavage lookage" he's very gentlemanly 🙂
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
He wants you!!!! he wants you!!!!!
I sometimes just make something up like "you remind me of a friend....when's your birfday?" then throw him on the table and take it.
then of course let us know so's we can dissect him 😉


Now that's the BOMB diggity idea! Thanks lovely Bella. The pix, ummm, yeah, likely won't happen. He'll think I am a stalker if I try that! LMAO!
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so what's this guys sign?

I'm going with scorpi... haha!



Ok, so I have:
Cancer
Virgo
Scorpio

Any other takers! LMAO! I don't know, but I'll find out so you all can sufficiently "judge/thrash" him based on his sign!




be sure to get the full bdate + year and location...... :p
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YES! Womanly wiles, go! We can't crucify a person we don't know on these forums without having a full reading lol
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so what's this guys sign?

I'm going with scorpi... haha!



Ok, so I have:
Cancer
Virgo
Scorpio

Any other takers! LMAO! I don't know, but I'll find out so you all can sufficiently "judge/thrash" him based on his sign!




be sure to get the full bdate + year and location...... :p
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and the...great grandparents' burial plot #'s, Social Security #, blood type, LMAO!! Anything else Bella—?
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
If he's a damn Scorpio we are throwing his ass back 😢 so prepare yourself.






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LOL!!! I have mad chemistry w/Scorps, and I'm not trying to find a man or get married, so... 😉
Oh, and the combo to the safe, I'm a Taurus, doesn't that go w/out saying—?
Oh, forgot, Gemini's Xnay!

@ Jason -- you are too cute! So you have the moon sign down now too!
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Ok, found out sign, but NOT birthdate, so sorry for those parties that know how to deciper all that stuff (Bells 🙂 )
He is an Aqua man. Well, that's over! LMAO! My BFFFF Male Friend since I was like 9 is an Aqua, ummmm yeah.
When he told me he was an Aqua, I said, "Ahh, so you know everything!."
He said, "Well, I AM an ex-Marine, so I know anything anyway! But yeah, I do!" LOL.
Moving on. LMAO!
So, that't that, and VH you lost man, NOT a Virgo nor a Cancer 🙂
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Ok, found out sign, but NOT birthdate, so sorry for those parties that know how to deciper all that stuff (Bells 🙂 )
He is an Aqua man. Well, that's over! LMAO! My BFFFF Male Friend since I was like 9 is an Aqua, ummmm yeah.
When he told me he was an Aqua, I said, "Ahh, so you know everything!."
He said, "Well, I AM an ex-Marine, so I know anything anyway! But yeah, I do!" LOL.
Moving on. LMAO!
So, that't that, and VH you lost man, NOT a Virgo nor a Cancer 🙂



I TOTALLY forgot about the Aqua's lol!
Alright Astrology Afficionado's...

Aqua Male + Taurus Female? Do we give this the thumbs or burn him at the stake?
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Posted by Jason2213
Wait. So you're not going to try it Gal?


LOL! Jason, you are just too cute! I could squeeze you too (but not till you do what Trifles Light As Air said; gross - lol)

Naw, I will continue my slight flirting, but that's over, and I am moving on!

@ VH - OMG, I know, we are SOOOO bad AND predictable! LOL!

Hey, a lil' flirting never hurt anyone, and I just think it's his personality. No harm, no foul. He still seems nice 🙂
*rubs hands together "now, on to the next..."
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
you still need to get his birthdate! you can not write him off yet 😢 I bet he's got some mad taurus in there somewhere......



Bella, Bella, Bella, always the everlasting, eternal optimist 😉
I'm not completely written him off, but if you don't have cajones to step to this, then I can keep my wiles for someone else...I'm not sayin', I'm just sayin! LOL.
Sorry, I have been working all day crazy, crazy busy, but hopefully GOOD prospects for $ $ $ $ $ ! So, I have to do it! But, I think at this point I am slap happy. I had a meeting w/a client earlier and had a glass of vino...sigh.