How come showing your boobs is essential to be noticed by a man these days?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by sweet_cancer on Saturday, April 21, 2018 and has 14 replies.
This question is more for the guys.

I don't understand why most of you say you want a serious girl but still have eyes for the slutty ones.

On social media, for example when a girl is half naked she gets thousands of compliments from men saying stuff like: "you're gorgeous, beautiful, MARRY ME! 😳

A serious girl, on the other hand, that looks good but descent never receives a bold compliment from a guy. It's so sad!!! So how come you say you want a serious girl when you go out of your way to compliment an easy girl?

The last thing I saw was an older woman in her 40s posting a picture in a super short dress that showed her panties. Of course she had millions of comments from men. She had an ugly face but it didn't seem to matter as long as she showed her panties!!!

Men, what's up with this? Sorry but I don't get it
Yeah, it just turns guys on so then they think with their other “head” and that’s not what you want for a serious relationship. You attract the guy with your bait, so if you want a playa, Not serious then bait him with something cheap looking. If you want a relationship then bait him with something of value.
Posted by sweet_cancer
This question is more for the guys.

I don't understand why most of you say you want a serious girl but still have eyes for the slutty ones.

On social media, for example when a girl is half naked she gets thousands of compliments from men saying stuff like: "you're gorgeous, beautiful, MARRY ME! 😳

A serious girl, on the other hand, that looks good but descent never receives a bold compliment from a guy. It's so sad!!! So how come you say you want a serious girl when you go out of your way to compliment an easy girl?

The last thing I saw was an older woman in her 40s posting a picture in a super short dress that showed her panties. Of course she had millions of comments from men. She had an ugly face but it didn't seem to matter as long as she showed her panties!!!

Men, what's up with this? Sorry but I don't get it
You know, we all like to have a 5 star meal but a fat juicy burger gets the job done as well and is easier to obtain
no man is forcing you to show your boobs.

Don't blame on men things that come from female culture. Things like cleavage, lipstick, high heels, muslim headscarf, genital mutlation.

All these are imposed by women on women.

You are the ones assaulting men with your boobs
Its not. A man begging to see your boobs is a direct reflect on his actual personality.

It should be easy for you women to find decent or at the least manageable nowadays. Because the stupid arrogent men have a platform to express and out themselves to the whole world. Unless those are the type of men women want nowadays. If so then have fun!

I'll be over here not asking for nudes, sleeping sprawled out in the middle of my bed, and enjoying all the silence I've had to myself.
Some dudes are ass men
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.

Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.



your gemni venus and gemini moon talking?

they like tomboy types generally speaking (athletic built according to cafeastrology general characterizations)

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my sister is an A cup and her man is Libra venus Libra moon.

Posted by TheTinMan
I'm not a boobs person at all sorrySad. I wouldn't care how attractive boobs might look but that won't get any attention from this man right here.
wow your moon gemini cancels out the cancer venus, cancer mars.
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Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.



your gemni venus and gemini moon talking?

they like tomboy types generally speaking (athletic built according to cafeastrology general characterizations)

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my sister is an A cup and her man is Libra venus Libra moon.

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You might be on to something. I do enjoy a nice rack, this is true. But I will take the girl in that GIF over a bimbo any day. That athletic build, just HOMG! The boyish look also caught my eye recently when I watched John Wick 2, and I found myself extremely attracted to Ares, played by Ruby Rose who has no boobs to be found, and she is quite happy to admit to that:

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Other things ring true too. Such as a preference for a girl staying the night to just toss on one of my football jerseys instead of fancy, and expensive lingerie. I think my desire for girls to be girly is more about wanting to vicariously live out my own desires through them. Good lord this mind of mine!
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Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.

In relation to this, I want to ask you what you think of horny girlfriends. Will you take a horny girl seriously? This is considering she doesnt show skin too much and is smart and has a career. She also doesnt go banging wvery single guy available. But yeah, shes horny with her man.
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Yes, I would indeed take her seriously, but also acknowledge that such girls also tend to be quite playful with their men behind doors, which is also a good thing. Taking her seriously would come from that she takes herself seriously, easily concluded by her having a career, ambition, and vision beyond superficiality.

The always being horny for me? Well that's just welcome from any girl I am with since talking about and having sex is one of the best and easiest ways for me to communicate and express myself with someone. If this is her way as well, then at the very least, our communication will be top-notch.
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Posted by Crabra
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Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.

In relation to this, I want to ask you what you think of horny girlfriends. Will you take a horny girl seriously? This is considering she doesnt show skin too much and is smart and has a career. She also doesnt go banging wvery single guy available. But yeah, shes horny with her man.


Yes, I would indeed take her seriously, but also acknowledge that such girls also tend to be quite playful with their men behind doors, which is also a good thing. Taking her seriously would come from that she takes herself seriously, easily concluded by her having a career, ambition, and vision beyond superficiality.

The always being horny for me? Well that's just welcome from any girl I am with since talking about and having sex is one of the best and easiest ways for me to communicate and express myself with someone. If this is her way as well, then at the very least, our communication will be top-notch.
Would you marry her?
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Such a woman would definitely be in very high contention if she also considers the same of me.
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Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.



your gemni venus and gemini moon talking?

they like tomboy types generally speaking (athletic built according to cafeastrology general characterizations)

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my sister is an A cup and her man is Libra venus Libra moon.

My man is a gemini moon. And he said he has never gone to the gym with any other girlfriend but me and we did some couple workouts together. I can match his stamina when it comes to working out. And I am a 34B. Not very dressy kinda gal but I do wear sexy dresses when I have to or when I feel like it. He does ask me to wear tight dresses sometimes coz I barely show my figure. I used to be fat so in my case, I wasnt focusing so much on exposing my body. But now that I have a 34-25-36 stats, hes been telling me that sometimes its ok if I show it off.

Is it his gemini moon talking when he likes me to be sporty and then also rock a tight fitting dress sometimes?
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I would be the same way. If my girl has a great body, I am all for her showing it off, and would likely encourage it. Gem energy is both masculine and feminine. Traits from both are going to appeal to me, and possibly those with similar placements. Of course, I always want my girl to be comfortable in her attire, and I just kind of hope she likes to wear sexy things. Most girls aren't going to say no if their men prefer them without makeup, and jeans and a t-shirt.
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Posted by Crabra
Anyone here familiar with my name and posts will definitely have the impression that I want nothing less than a girl with a great rack. Yet, my most successful relationship lasted four years with a girl with A-cups. Why do you suppose that is?

Guys literally think, respond, and act with two different heads. It's why it is said the best time to get a guy to expose his true inner self is right after he has an orgasm. These precious minutes are the only time his thoughts aren't clouded with things that are sexual.

The "Marry me!", "OMG! You're so beautiful!" comments? That's their dlck talking. Their cannons are loaded with cum and ready to fire. The women in skin tight dresses, boobs in everyone's face, mane of hair flowing, high heels clacking. It says, "Hey everyone, I am fertile as fvck." A guy's dlck pretty much pulls him in her direction like an overgrown Pitbull.

Girls of substance appeal to the guy's logical side, and if you want to appeal to that side, you can't have the boobs out, and the skirt hiked up, and you're hair looking like you just got banged in a closet.

Many guys want to find both of these traits in one partner. The whole lady in the streets, freak in the sheets thing.

In relation to this, I want to ask you what you think of horny girlfriends. Will you take a horny girl seriously? This is considering she doesnt show skin too much and is smart and has a career. She also doesnt go banging wvery single guy available. But yeah, shes horny with her man.


Yes, I would indeed take her seriously, but also acknowledge that such girls also tend to be quite playful with their men behind doors, which is also a good thing. Taking her seriously would come from that she takes herself seriously, easily concluded by her having a career, ambition, and vision beyond superficiality.

The always being horny for me? Well that's just welcome from any girl I am with since talking about and having sex is one of the best and easiest ways for me to communicate and express myself with someone. If this is her way as well, then at the very least, our communication will be top-notch.
Would you marry her?


Such a woman would definitely be in very high contention if she also considers the same of me.

Thats very good to know. This had been lingering in my head for a while now hahaha
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If he thinks like me, then it is likely the case smile