How do I snag this asian guy?
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I'm a caucasian woman. I see him at the gym a lot, I always catch him staring at me and he locks eyes and doesnt look away its like he is trying to seduce me lol and gives me a sexy smirk. Drives me crazy!!
How do I get him to talk to me?? I know some asian men are shy?
How do I get him to talk to me?? I know some asian men are shy?
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Talk to him first. Asians are shy. 
You can start a light conversation. Or you can try to be "in his way." Get coffee while he is so it will look "random." Haha
You can start a light conversation. Or you can try to be "in his way." Get coffee while he is so it will look "random." Haha
Posted by allyouneedisloveandwinecoffee at the gym ? really ?
Talk to him first. Asians are shy.
Posted by allyouneedisloveandwineI can tell he is interested but I get the vibe that he is wanting me to confront him first.
Talk to him first. Asians are shy.
I dont know what to say or how to start a conversation??
What if I go by him and "accidentally" drop something so he has to pick it up for me?
LOl
idk
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
Posted by Hare
Is he about 6'2" and wearing Columbia?
?
My first thought too
Posted by LunarMaidenI do stare and smile..
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
I really do not approach men so I want to get him to talk to me.
I feel its getting more intense so maybe one day he will ball up lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioToo cute in his suit and tie. And the hair. LOL
Posted by indiwomanHow long has this been going on?Posted by LunarMaidenI do stare and smile..
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
I really do not approach men so I want to get him to talk to me.
I feel its getting more intense so maybe one day he will ball up lolclick to expand
You noticing each other and the stare and smile?
Does he smile back or just staring?
Posted by LunarMaidenHe stares me down doesnt break eye contact then gives me a smile/smirkPosted by indiwomanHow long has this been going on?Posted by LunarMaidenI do stare and smile..
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
I really do not approach men so I want to get him to talk to me.
I feel its getting more intense so maybe one day he will ball up lol
You noticing each other and the stare and smile?
Does he smile back or just staring?click to expand
and its been on and off for atleast 6 months.
I dont see him too often but lately have seen him more frequently
offer him some rice
Posted by hydorahouch - no fish ?
offer him some rice
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100meh - I'd say maybe ... 8 ? lolPosted by indiwomanHow old are you 5?Posted by allyouneedisloveandwineI can tell he is interested but I get the vibe that he is wanting me to confront him first.
Talk to him first. Asians are shy.
I dont know what to say or how to start a conversation??
What if I go by him and "accidentally" drop something so he has to pick it up for me?
LOl
idkclick to expand
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Posted by tctaBento box has it all ?Posted by hydorahouch - no fish ?
offer him some riceclick to expand
Posted by I_am_youExactly. Dirty = she'll get the asian peen.Posted by LadyNeptuneGross.
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Gym equipments are dirty.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneand THAT isn't coming off in the shower!Posted by I_am_youExactly. Dirty = she'll get the asian peen.Posted by LadyNeptuneGross.
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Gym equipments are dirty.click to expand
Posted by I_am_youI get some sort of scorpio vibe from him no liePosted by LadyNeptuneNot if he's a virgo.Posted by I_am_youExactly. Dirty = she'll get the asian peen.Posted by LadyNeptuneGross.
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Gym equipments are dirty.
I say he's a virgo sun with scorpio moon.
Scorpio doesn't smirk, they soul stare - stripping and skinning you until your soul's bare.
|My opinion is completely subjective|click to expand
Posted by AndsmaxingYes lmao
Do your thighs touch?
Im screwed arent i
he probably thinks im too fat
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeFYI I gotta booty on me for a white girl soo not as boring as you think
If he's chinese, he'll make the move, they love that black pussy
oh you're white...boring
Posted by indiwomanit could be gas ?Posted by I_am_youI get some sort of scorpio vibe from him no liePosted by LadyNeptuneNot if he's a virgo.Posted by I_am_youExactly. Dirty = she'll get the asian peen.Posted by LadyNeptuneGross.
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Gym equipments are dirty.
I say he's a virgo sun with scorpio moon.
Scorpio doesn't smirk, they soul stare - stripping and skinning you until your soul's bare.
|My opinion is completely subjective|click to expand
Bend over let your knees touch your elbows.
Posted by I_am_youI am a leoPosted by indiwomanIf he smirks, he is not a sun in scorpio.Posted by I_am_youI get some sort of scorpio vibe from him no liePosted by LadyNeptuneNot if he's a virgo.Posted by I_am_youExactly. Dirty = she'll get the asian peen.Posted by LadyNeptuneGross.
do some squats in front of him. then walk over to him slowly and seductively suck on his fingers.
Gym equipments are dirty.
I say he's a virgo sun with scorpio moon.
Scorpio doesn't smirk, they soul stare - stripping and skinning you until your soul's bare.
|My opinion is completely subjective|
He probably has fixed mars.
Do his eyes glisten? If it glistens, definitely virgo sun or cancer sun with fiery placement..
Scorpio stare doesn't glisten. It's more like a matte painted car cruising at night.
What's your sign?click to expand
Posted by Dreamyboylol - alrighty then !Posted by tctaIt's a great preworkout gives you +10 speed and +4 dexPosted by allyouneedisloveandwinecoffee at the gym ? really ?
Talk to him first. Asians are shy.click to expand
Posted by yupvirgoolol noo
Do you play the piano?
by the way im sure he seen me last year with my ex which was half asian so he knows im into them haha so it should be more encouraging??
Posted by AndsmaxingThis is a song lyric lolPosted by LadyNeptuneWhatever happened to just wearing cute gloves?
Bend over let your knees touch your elbows.click to expand
Posted by indiwoman6 months is too long to not make a move.Posted by LunarMaidenHe stares me down doesnt break eye contact then gives me a smile/smirkPosted by indiwomanHow long has this been going on?Posted by LunarMaidenI do stare and smile..
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
I really do not approach men so I want to get him to talk to me.
I feel its getting more intense so maybe one day he will ball up lol
You noticing each other and the stare and smile?
Does he smile back or just staring?
and its been on and off for atleast 6 months.
I dont see him too often but lately have seen him more frequentlyclick to expand
Him staring you down and making direct contact is not the behavior of a shy male.
He either only finds you attractive but not attracted enough to approach or he is not available.
Do something different with your hair like add color or something.
This MAY add a bit of spark or interest on his part.
just finish your workout, go to him and say: "Hey Bruce, I need someone to soap me. Move".
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI like Asian guys. I feel a chemistry with some of them.
If he's chinese, he'll make the move, they love that black pussy
oh you're white...boring
Never approached by one though.
Posted by hydorahROFLMAO!!!!!!
offer him some rice
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Posted by LunarMaidenWell like I said,Posted by indiwoman6 months is too long to not make a move.Posted by LunarMaidenHe stares me down doesnt break eye contact then gives me a smile/smirkPosted by indiwomanHow long has this been going on?Posted by LunarMaidenI do stare and smile..
Asian men are not shy. Stop that B.S.
Stare back or smile.
Let him chase you.
If he can't move himself to approach, then his loss.
I really do not approach men so I want to get him to talk to me.
I feel its getting more intense so maybe one day he will ball up lol
You noticing each other and the stare and smile?
Does he smile back or just staring?
and its been on and off for atleast 6 months.
I dont see him too often but lately have seen him more frequently
Him staring you down and making direct contact is not the behavior of a shy male.
He either only finds you attractive but not attracted enough to approach or he is not available.
Do something different with your hair like add color or something.
This MAY add a bit of spark or interest on his part.click to expand
I used to see him like once a month,... if that, and the last 2 weeks its been multiple times and the attraction seems to be getting stronger. I am feeling maybe he will soon if we keep seeing one another so frequently
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
Posted by indiwomanI think you should talk to him
I'm a caucasian woman. I see him at the gym a lot, I always catch him staring at me and he locks eyes and doesnt look away its like he is trying to seduce me lol and gives me a sexy smirk. Drives me crazy!!
How do I get him to talk to me?? I know some asian men are shy?
Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hardclick to expand
Posted by yupvirgooThat is a possibility but I have not been in the gym with him since last summerPosted by indiwomanmaybe he just thinks you're being friendlyPosted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
maybe he thinks you still have that half-Asian boyfriendclick to expand
Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hardclick to expand
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?
Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?click to expand
Posted by earlorg16I do nod my head and smile.Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?click to expand
But have never waved.
I was actually thinking of dropping something lol
Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see him
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSure way to his heart
Just go up to him and ask him if he wants to go out and get some sushi.
Posted by indiwomanGood luck!Posted by earlorg16I do nod my head and smile.Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?
But have never waved.
I was actually thinking of dropping something lol
Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see himclick to expand
Posted by indiwomanGood luck!Posted by earlorg16I do nod my head and smile.Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?
But have never waved.
I was actually thinking of dropping something lol
Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see himclick to expand
Posted by earlorg16Thank youPosted by indiwomanGood luck!Posted by earlorg16I do nod my head and smile.Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?
But have never waved.
I was actually thinking of dropping something lol
Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see himclick to expand
Seen him yesterday but right when I was leaving!
Posted by earlorg16So he finally came up and talked to me last nightPosted by indiwomanGood luck!Posted by earlorg16I do nod my head and smile.Posted by indiwomanHave some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.Posted by earlorg16That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!Posted by indiwomanDude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.Posted by earlorg16lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.
Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
I was cheesin pretty hard
What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?
But have never waved.
I was actually thinking of dropping something lol
Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see himclick to expand
Posted by indiwomanYou looking for miscellaneous fun or a relationship?
I'm a caucasian woman. I see him at the gym a lot, I always catch him staring at me and he locks eyes and doesnt look away its like he is trying to seduce me lol and gives me a sexy smirk. Drives me crazy!!
How do I get him to talk to me?? I know some asian men are shy?
You must first pay honor to the Shaolin Temple. And then tell him 我想要你的迪克·斯普林!!!
Posted by atearthI guess relationship more than anythingPosted by indiwomanYou looking for miscellaneous fun or a relationship?
I'm a caucasian woman. I see him at the gym a lot, I always catch him staring at me and he locks eyes and doesnt look away its like he is trying to seduce me lol and gives me a sexy smirk. Drives me crazy!!
How do I get him to talk to me?? I know some asian men are shy?click to expand
Try these:
1. Go around him and pretend like you lost something and you're looking for it. If he's a decent human being, he'll help you look for your non-existent lost item. Talk to him as you're both looking for it. Acquaintanceship is formed
2. Ask for directions to some place when you're leaving. As he's explaining, ask open ended questions like you're clarifying.
1. Go around him and pretend like you lost something and you're looking for it. If he's a decent human being, he'll help you look for your non-existent lost item. Talk to him as you're both looking for it. Acquaintanceship is formed
2. Ask for directions to some place when you're leaving. As he's explaining, ask open ended questions like you're clarifying.
Although the two of you are not in a relationship yet it just seems odd that your thread was posted in the Miscellaneous section and not Relationships section.
How do you feel about the potential clash of culture between yourself and the man in question?
The clash of culture may not be between the two of you but factors outside of both your control. Examples each other parents, family and friends may have issues with the two of you. Which is their issues and not the two of you together.
How do you feel about the potential clash of culture between yourself and the man in question?
The clash of culture may not be between the two of you but factors outside of both your control. Examples each other parents, family and friends may have issues with the two of you. Which is their issues and not the two of you together.
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