How do people know...
This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Gemitati on Sunday, August 20, 2017 and has 27 replies.
...that they aren't gay or lesbians if they had never had that experience?
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Ask the recently Virgo converted to Libra...
These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
Posted by Whorpio
Ask the recently Virgo converted to Libra...
hahaha Posted by WhorpioHad he passed face control? I didn't think he would...hmmm
Ask the recently Virgo converted to Libra...
Controllers need to stop drinking and take sun glasses off! ?
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesYou dumb! And it's not your fault. It's your parents. And teachers. Well...it IS your fault! I just can't be nice for free!
For the same reason i know i aint into old geezers. You dont need to experience something to know you arent into it. Obvi.
Posted by TauruswithspunkI was always curious but damn men alway gotten in a way...with their 'things' and I was distracted...by those ugly muscles and wide shoulders and tight asses! Whew!!! How could I ever??? Still wondering...Posted by GemitatiMakes perfect sense... I did not think I was bi-curious until I was in a situation (which she was planning for a while since she saw me by the way). Before then I was like NO WAY.
...that they aren't gay or lesbians if they had never had that experience?click to expand
Posted by TauruswithspunkLet's get into business!Posted by Gemitati?? I'm gonna get you Tati ????Posted by TauruswithspunkI was always curious but damn men alway gotten in a way...with their 'things' and I was distracted...by those ugly muscles and wide shoulders and tight asses! Whew!!! How could I ever??? Still wondering...Posted by GemitatiMakes perfect sense... I did not think I was bi-curious until I was in a situation (which she was planning for a while since she saw me by the way). Before then I was like NO WAY.
...that they aren't gay or lesbians if they had never had that experience?click to expand
What are we going to call it?
Are we inviting @Whorpio?
Are we running as small Co or LLC?
(don't mistake with CC)...
We need plan!
@tomSawyer (he is a cheap bastard but he knows how to drive)
???
Posted by NINETYNINEHave you ever watched gay porn?
Because i'm not sexually turned on by the opposite sex?
100% men were turned on!
What are you? An impotent? Then sorry...
I didn't mean to hurt your feelings...lol
I am kidding! I was...
Because I like woman. Seemed pretty obvious to me.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesI AM and I WILL and WHAYEVERRRR!!!Posted by GemitatiThat made no sense whatsoever. Carry on as you were.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesYou dumb! And it's not your fault. It's your parents. And teachers. Well...it IS your fault! I just can't be nice for free!
For the same reason i know i aint into old geezers. You dont need to experience something to know you arent into it. Obvi.click to expand
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoonTrysexual?
I'm whatever a Scorpio needs me to be for that particular moment or situation. What does make me?
Posted by CrimsonGirlYou are actually bisexual.
I think it comes down to more than a sexual experience. I think it has to do with emotional connection too and deep feelings. If I'm being honest, I've had sexual experiences with women, but that's all they were and that's all I would ever desire from them. When it comes to emotionally connecting with a chick, I just can't really do it and could never see myself wanting to be with one long term or even short term. It's just not what excites me. However I'm equally emotionally and sexually attracted to men, so that's how I know I'm not actually fully bi sexual. I would imagine that that's how it works for gays and lesbians too.
Bisexuals don't have to be emotionally AND sexually attracted to a person of the same sex. It can be either one or both.
I'm sexually attracted to men, but not emotionally attracted to them. So I can't develop anything long term with them, beyond friendship.
To address OP's question.
Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.
Everybody is built differently.
Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.
Everybody is built differently.
Posted by Ram416It's not how we build!
To address OP's question.
Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.
Everybody is built differently.
When you drunk and you have only same sex person with you in bed - and you feeling like having sex - and that person is not repulsive to you - then what?
you need an ugly sweaty man to put his fingers in your ass and call you jed and before you can call the police, here you are : gay
Posted by hydorah??
you need an ugly sweaty man to put his fingers in your ass and call you jed and before you can call the police, here you are : gay
Posted by hydorahDon't you dare call sweet @shitenyeryainmemtshow man 'sweaty'
you need an ugly sweaty man to put his fingers in your ass and call you jed and before you can call the police, here you are : gay
???
BTW if he licks his fingers fast enough...no evidence! No one is gay! Except that perv Jed!!! Takenhim away officer...and come back
@HeavyEntertaimentShow ass...
I bet I misspelled that name! Tag him will you? ?
Posted by m200991Every time I hear the word safe space I just want an 80 year old man to walk in and say "Back in my day the only safe space we needed was a glass of whiskey and a smoke. In the privacy of our own home."Posted by CrimsonGirlLet us not jump to conclusions without first reviewing 'The Safe Space Terminology List (click here)'!Posted by Ram416Yeah I guess I am then. I've never payed any attention to labels before though and I'm not starting nowPosted by CrimsonGirlYou are actually bisexual.
I think it comes down to more than a sexual experience. I think it has to do with emotional connection too and deep feelings. If I'm being honest, I've had sexual experiences with women, but that's all they were and that's all I would ever desire from them. When it comes to emotionally connecting with a chick, I just can't really do it and could never see myself wanting to be with one long term or even short term. It's just not what excites me. However I'm equally emotionally and sexually attracted to men, so that's how I know I'm not actually fully bi sexual. I would imagine that that's how it works for gays and lesbians too.
Bisexuals don't have to be emotionally AND sexually attracted to a person of the same sex. It can be either one or both.
I'm sexually attracted to men, but not emotionally attracted to them. So I can't develop anything long term with them, beyond friendship.
I am totally kidding; however, sadly, I'm not joking. There is such a list in existence
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Posted by Ram416Not related to thread...but story of my life in general.
Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out
I never liked the idea to begin with. I was never attracted or curious to try it with girls. But one of my friends is bi-curious. I didn't know this before.
But we were once having a girls' nightout. I went out to stand on balcony. This friend of mine walked behind me, shuffled my hair(I didn't bother till this point coz she's touchy in general n usually always keeps smelling my hair coz she loves it) n kissed my nape. I got goosebumps...in a negative way...like I felt so annoyed. I just moved away n gave her a look like WTF?! It was such an odd n weird feeling...like something was crawling all over my skin... that annoying feeling didn't leave me for a couple of days I guess. So I sure know I'm not bisexual ?
But we were once having a girls' nightout. I went out to stand on balcony. This friend of mine walked behind me, shuffled my hair(I didn't bother till this point coz she's touchy in general n usually always keeps smelling my hair coz she loves it) n kissed my nape. I got goosebumps...in a negative way...like I felt so annoyed. I just moved away n gave her a look like WTF?! It was such an odd n weird feeling...like something was crawling all over my skin... that annoying feeling didn't leave me for a couple of days I guess. So I sure know I'm not bisexual ?
I don't think you need to go all the way but I think you know if you've never ever had the blood rush down to certain parts just from
Interacting with someone from the same sex .
But even that could come later in life .
You hear stories like that all the time
Women who thought they were straight until their 30s or 40s when they met someone who turned their world upside down
Interacting with someone from the same sex .
But even that could come later in life .
You hear stories like that all the time
Women who thought they were straight until their 30s or 40s when they met someone who turned their world upside down
I am a lesbian,although i sometimes look at their down region when i imagine kissing them i puke,most of the men here in our country just have sex thats it just sex,i cant do it with someone who is not as passionate as me in bed and is putting his heart in it,most of the women will give their all into love making
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPeople CAN be manipulated to do anything on earth, l mean look at us!!!!Posted by bricklemarkUm wtf NO. That is some real baloney right there. If your following that fucked up line of reasoning then you could use that bullshit to manipulate people to do everything on earth...
These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
"Well if you just open your mind you'll see that you really actually do like licking a chockolate bar off the ground. Its just cause people tell you its gross, but like really dude just be cool and open your mind. Dont be all uncool.Like get with the times man."
Fuck no.
And one more thing
"These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that"
If you follow that dumb reasoning then everyone would just be fucking straight and no one would have been gay in the first place.
And this anti label bull mentality gots to go. No matter which way you wanna slice it the ***facts*** of it are that; Im straight. Im a fucking girl. My race is white. Period and thats the end of all this fuckery.click to expand
People pay others to kill 300 million animals a day, violently, unnaturally with a knife. 300 million murders. Every day.
Of course people are conditioned, into EVERYTHING!!!!!
Yes chocolate bars can ABSOLUTELY be licked off the ground. The part you're licking hasnt even touched the ground.
And even if it has, you wont even be sick! I lived on the street for a few days, in college, l went 5 days without money or food. Well l ate a sandwich that was on the ground. I didnt give a shit, l was STARVING!!!
Anything is possible.
Homosexual sex is unthinkable in a world where reproduction is the result of sex, and there are people of the opposite sex around, and yet people do it.
The gay community started when people started having too much sex, and basically "turned into" the other gender. Or there was an anomaly in the genetics or smth.
But there are anomalies in society, like communism and cannibalism...
I call myself straight because I've never felt attracted to a woman. Sure, I could be attracted to a woman someday and if that happens, I'll start labeling myself as bisexual. But for now...
Posted by GemitatiNot repulsive to me and I am drunk. If it's not an FWB or my partner I wouldn't even consider getting in bed with the person if I'm drunk. Drunk sex is only for FWBs and/or my partner.Posted by Ram416It's not how we build!
To address OP's question.
Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.
Everybody is built differently.
When you drunk and you have only same sex person with you in bed - and you feeling like having sex - and that person is not repulsive to you - then what?click to expand
Otherwise it's the couch or the bathtub for me.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesNoPosted by bricklemarkWhy were u on the streets. Social experiment?Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPeople CAN be manipulated to do anything on earth, l mean look at us!!!!Posted by bricklemarkUm wtf NO. That is some real baloney right there. If your following that fucked up line of reasoning then you could use that bullshit to manipulate people to do everything on earth...
These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
"Well if you just open your mind you'll see that you really actually do like licking a chockolate bar off the ground. Its just cause people tell you its gross, but like really dude just be cool and open your mind. Dont be all uncool.Like get with the times man."
Fuck no.
And one more thing
"These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that"
If you follow that dumb reasoning then everyone would just be fucking straight and no one would have been gay in the first place.
And this anti label bull mentality gots to go. No matter which way you wanna slice it the ***facts*** of it are that; Im straight. Im a fucking girl. My race is white. Period and thats the end of all this fuckery.
People pay others to kill 300 million animals a day, violently, unnaturally with a knife. 300 million murders. Every day.
Of course people are conditioned, into EVERYTHING!!!!!
Yes chocolate bars can ABSOLUTELY be licked off the ground. The part you're licking hasnt even touched the ground.
And even if it has, you wont even be sick! I lived on the street for a few days, in college, l went 5 days without money or food. Well l ate a sandwich that was on the ground. I didnt give a shit, l was STARVING!!!
Anything is possible.
Homosexual sex is unthinkable in a world where reproduction is the result of sex, and there are people of the opposite sex around, and yet people do it.
The gay community started when people started having too much sex, and basically "turned into" the other gender. Or there was an anomaly in the genetics or smth.
But there are anomalies in society, like communism and cannibalism...click to expand
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