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If some mothers spent half the time they try to LOOK LIKE good mothers...
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It's very specific and since there are children involved, I don't dare to. Sorry. Only that I have lived many years without hating anyone, but that mother ended that streak...
Posted by IDKLOLPosted by HappyCapperPosted by IDKLOLIt's very specific and since there are children involved, I don't dare to. Sorry. Only that I have lived many years without hating anyone, but that mother ended that streak...
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Hate is a strong word and I don't like it, but that mother is sacrificing her children in order to make herself look good (which she isn't) and their father awful.
Posted by IDKLOLPosted by HappyCapperPosted by IDKLOLHate is a strong word and I don't like it, but that mother is sacrificing her children in order to make herself look good (which she isn't) and their father awful.Posted by HappyCapperAlright, it’s ok to hate someonePosted by IDKLOLIt's very specific and since there are children involved, I don't dare to. Sorry. Only that I have lived many years without hating anyone, but that mother ended that streak...
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Idk it’s remind me my sister and her husband they are incredibly stupid as fuck and I don’t like them so it’s okay but maybe I’m not a good advice giverclick to expand
What are they doing?
Posted by IDKLOLPosted by HappyCapperPosted by IDKLOLWhat are they doing?Posted by HappyCapperIdk it’s remind me my sister and her husband they are incredibly stupid as fuck and I don’t like them so it’s okay but maybe I’m not a good advice giverPosted by IDKLOLHate is a strong word and I don't like it, but that mother is sacrificing her children in order to make herself look good (which she isn't) and their father awful.Posted by HappyCapperAlright, it’s ok to hate someonePosted by IDKLOLIt's very specific and since there are children involved, I don't dare to. Sorry. Only that I have lived many years without hating anyone, but that mother ended that streak...
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Wasting families money and can’t build something stable for their children,click to expand
That's awful! Do the children realize this? Do they at least get emotional stability?
Posted by IDKLOLPosted by HappyCapperPosted by IDKLOLThat's awful! Do the children realize this? Do they at least get emotional stability?Posted by HappyCapperWasting families money and can’t build something stable for their children,Posted by IDKLOLWhat are they doing?Posted by HappyCapperIdk it’s remind me my sister and her husband they are incredibly stupid as fuck and I don’t like them so it’s okay but maybe I’m not a good advice giverPosted by IDKLOLHate is a strong word and I don't like it, but that mother is sacrificing her children in order to make herself look good (which she isn't) and their father awful.Posted by HappyCapperAlright, it’s ok to hate someonePosted by IDKLOLIt's very specific and since there are children involved, I don't dare to. Sorry. Only that I have lived many years without hating anyone, but that mother ended that streak...
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They have it but idk maybe they’ll stop but for now what a waste pretty incredible,
It’s like people don’t understand when they are losing very hard and they have to act like quiet or do normal choice but whatever
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Losing as in gambling?
Agreed. Why is it so difficult for some people to put their children's needs in front of their own wants? I don't get it. You make'm, you care for them!
Just to be clear, I meant that the mother tries to make the father sound awful (he isn't) and helself look like thee best mother (which she isn't).
Just to be clear, I meant that the mother tries to make the father sound awful (he isn't) and helself look like thee best mother (which she isn't).
Disinterested, aloof mothers is what happens when a woman doesn’t self-introspect on what it entails to have a kid and whether she is willing to undertake the responsibilities considering her life circumstances or when they choose to have kids to secure themselves financially.
I feel like most people are either selfish enough or lack the profundity to do that and just decide to have kids and think after. We need to stop putting mothers on a pedestal solely for birthing. It’s really about raising and being an attentive and responsible parent.
I feel like most people are either selfish enough or lack the profundity to do that and just decide to have kids and think after. We need to stop putting mothers on a pedestal solely for birthing. It’s really about raising and being an attentive and responsible parent.
When you are a parent your life is no longer your own. You have welcomed another soul into the world and chosen to teach that child about the world and discover themselves and their place within it. Part of that is caring for their needs until they can do so themselves 🙂
Understand these things and you will be a great parent.
🤣So obviously not everyone should be until they are ready.
Understand these things and you will be a great parent.
🤣So obviously not everyone should be until they are ready.
Posted by aquarius09
Disinterested, aloof mothers is what happens when a woman doesn’t self-introspect on what it entails to have a kid and whether she is willing to undertake the responsibilities considering her life circumstances or when they choose to have kids to secure themselves financially.
I feel like most people are either selfish enough or lack the profundity to do that and just decide to have kids and think after. We need to stop putting mothers on a pedestal solely for birthing. It’s really about raising and being an attentive and responsible parent.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
When you are a parent your life is no longer your own. You have welcomed another soul into the world and chosen to teach that child about the world and discover themselves and their place within it. Part of that is caring for their needs until they can do so themselves 🙂
Understand these things and you will be a great parent.
🤣So obviously not everyone should be until they are ready.
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Yeah I love judging mothers too
I had this conversation with my Aqua buddy a couple of weeks ago. In a bad parenting situation, the mother is way more evil and damaging. With men, and dads in general, even kids can see they're an obvious a-hole. Mothers, with their supposed nurturing nature and better social slippery-ness, can easily navigate past a child's defenses and give them lifelong issues.
Posted by Nightcap-
I had this conversation with my Aqua buddy a couple of weeks ago. In a bad parenting situation, the mother is way more evil and damaging. With men, and dads in general, even kids can see they're an obvious a-hole. Mothers, with their supposed nurturing nature and better social slippery-ness, can easily navigate past a child's defenses and give them lifelong issues.
100% The damage they cause is overlooked because they are Madonnas and can’t do no wrong.
Posted by aquarius09
Disinterested, aloof mothers is what happens when a woman doesn’t self-introspect on what it entails to have a kid and whether she is willing to undertake the responsibilities considering her life circumstances or when they choose to have kids to secure themselves financially.
I feel like most people are either selfish enough or lack the profundity to do that and just decide to have kids and think after. We need to stop putting mothers on a pedestal solely for birthing. It’s really about raising and being an attentive and responsible parent.
^^Yup.
Posted by Lostthoughts
When you are a parent your life is no longer your own. You have welcomed another soul into the world and chosen to teach that child about the world and discover themselves and their place within it. Part of that is caring for their needs until they can do so themselves 🙂
Understand these things and you will be a great parent.
🤣So obviously not everyone should be until they are ready.
^^Yup.
Posted by Overthinker
I can honestly say I don't know such women. I mean, I don't have them in my close circle. I know there are such examples but I just don't know them from experience to tell how they really are.
For example I know about one who left three children with their dad and moved in with this older dude cause she fell in love lol he was in his 50s, she was 35...those are bottom of the barrel imo
So happy for you! I only know one such mother (although heard of many) and that is quite enough.
Just left her three kids with their dad? Mother of the year, for sure.😢
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I think it’s easy to judge others as bad parents when you don’t have any kids of your own driving you crazy 🤪
It's also easy to judge the kids for being bad kids driving you crazy even though you yourself raised them...
But, yeah, it's probably as you say...although that's not what the post is about.
Posted by Nightcap-
I had this conversation with my Aqua buddy a couple of weeks ago. In a bad parenting situation, the mother is way more evil and damaging. With men, and dads in general, even kids can see they're an obvious a-hole. Mothers, with their supposed nurturing nature and better social slippery-ness, can easily navigate past a child's defenses and give them lifelong issues.
Think this is probably most often the case, yes. I did read, somewhere, that the most influencial parent is the same sex parent, if there is one. Thought that was interesting.
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Well self-centred and vanity are traits for many people. Empathy and awareness for some is something that's learned and continually improved upon. Sometimes the keeping up appearances probably also for bragging rights.
Sux because the kids first suffers, then learn by example and following the mother's footsteps...
Exactly. It just goes on and on, generation after generation.
In my case, the mother and father were very keen to teach their children empathy. It's just that that empathy was always pointing in the mother's direction... I have never seen that mother comfort any one of her children, but I have seen her children comfort her many, many times.
Posted by OverthinkerPosted by HappyCapperPosted by OverthinkerSo happy for you! I only know one such mother (although heard of many) and that is quite enough.
I can honestly say I don't know such women. I mean, I don't have them in my close circle. I know there are such examples but I just don't know them from experience to tell how they really are.
For example I know about one who left three children with their dad and moved in with this older dude cause she fell in love lol he was in his 50s, she was 35...those are bottom of the barrel imo
Just left her three kids with their dad? Mother of the year, for sure.
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Yup, just like that. Imo that kind of people simply have some mental disorder, I can't imagine perfectly normal human behavior to be like thatclick to expand
Agreed. I just don't get it.
Posted by hermitcrabPosted by HappyCapperPosted by hermitcrabIt's also easy to judge the kids for being bad kids driving you crazy even though you yourself raised them...
I think it’s easy to judge others as bad parents when you don’t have any kids of your own driving you crazy 🤪
But, yeah, it's probably as you say...although that's not what the post is about.
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I never said they were bad kids. They’re just kids, crazy lady. But mature people who have kids know that you can do everything right, but the child is still their own person and is going to make their own decisions. All you can do is your best and hope for the best. Everyone still needs self care after having children. It’s not as easy as you think it is.click to expand
No, you didn't say that and I agree that it's probably pretty easy to judge, in general.
What I meant by that comment was that so many parents seem to blame their kids for their own failures. I'll give you an example: Parent and child are in a grocery store and the child wants chocolate and therefore cries and cries...until the parent buys the child chocolate...only to blame the child for crying. Seen it way too many times.
"But mature people who have kids know that you can do everything right, but the child is still their own person and is going to make their own decisions. All you can do is your best and hope for the best."
Sure. Agreed. Those are not the parents I was thinking of, though. No one is perfect.
"Everyone still needs self care after having children."
Agreed 100% . What I'm talking about is when it gets to the point when the children clearly suffer.
"It’s not as easy as you think it is."
Pretty sure you don't know how easy or difficult I think it is. But, then again, I'm not talking about the normal human mother who does her best. I'm talking about the mother who threatens suicide if her kids see their father and then goes on FB and X and on the town and tells everyone that the kids' father is so horrible that the kids refuse to see him and that she is the ultimate mother for rescuing them from him.
And this is just a microscopic part of it. It's waaay worse. How do I know all this? I've talked to the mother, the kids and the father. ...and the mother has admitted to doing this and is mighty proud of her accomplishments and the fine reputation she has everywhere...and the bad reputation the father has due to her. But, it serves him right for leaving her...or so she thinks. And the kids? She seriously doesn't think she has done her kids wrong. "They'll get over it." They are suffering! Let's just say I'm disgusted and yes, I'm judging her...and I have reported her.
Posted by hermitcrabPosted by HappyCapperPosted by hermitcrabIt's also easy to judge the kids for being bad kids driving you crazy even though you yourself raised them...
I think it’s easy to judge others as bad parents when you don’t have any kids of your own driving you crazy 🤪
But, yeah, it's probably as you say...although that's not what the post is about.
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I never said they were bad kids. They’re just kids, crazy lady. But mature people who have kids know that you can do everything right, but the child is still their own person and is going to make their own decisions. All you can do is your best and hope for the best. Everyone still needs self care after having children. It’s not as easy as you think it is.click to expand
It really difficult and can floor you at times
Your heart is never your own after you become a mother
Posted by hermitcrabPosted by HappyCapperPosted by hermitcrabNo, you didn't say that and I agree that it's probably pretty easy to judge, in general.Posted by HappyCapperI never said they were bad kids. They’re just kids, crazy lady. But mature people who have kids know that you can do everything right, but the child is still their own person and is going to make their own decisions. All you can do is your best and hope for the best. Everyone still needs self care after having children. It’s not as easy as you think it is.Posted by hermitcrabIt's also easy to judge the kids for being bad kids driving you crazy even though you yourself raised them...
I think it’s easy to judge others as bad parents when you don’t have any kids of your own driving you crazy 🤪
But, yeah, it's probably as you say...although that's not what the post is about.
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What I meant by that comment was that so many parents seem to blame their kids for their own failures. I'll give you an example: Parent and child are in a grocery store and the child wants chocolate and therefore cries and cries...until the parent buys the child chocolate...only to blame the child for crying. Seen it way too many times.
"But mature people who have kids know that you can do everything right, but the child is still their own person and is going to make their own decisions. All you can do is your best and hope for the best."
Sure. Agreed. Those are not the parents I was thinking of, though. No one is perfect.
"Everyone still needs self care after having children."
Agreed 100% . What I'm talking about is when it gets to the point when the children clearly suffer.
"It’s not as easy as you think it is."
Pretty sure you don't know how easy or difficult I think it is. But, then again, I'm not talking about the normal human mother who does her best. I'm talking about the mother who threatens suicide if her kids see their father and then goes on FB and X and on the town and tells everyone that the kids' father is so horrible that the kids refuse to see him and that she is the ultimate mother for rescuing them from him.
And this is just a microscopic part of it. It's waaay worse. How do I know all this? I've talked to the mother, the kids and the father. ...and the mother has admitted to doing this and is mighty proud of her accomplishments and the fine reputation she has everywhere...and the bad reputation the father has due to her. But, it serves him right for leaving her...or so she thinks. And the kids? She seriously doesn't think she has done her kids wrong. "They'll get over it." They are suffering! Let's just say I'm disgusted and yes, I'm judging her...and I have reported her.
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That's good advice, although I'm not dating the father.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Whether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised without a father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
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I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
When I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
When I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!click to expand
I personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?
Posted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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I personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?click to expand
Unless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.
Posted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Unless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.click to expand
Nevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆
Posted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Nevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆click to expand
So very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry! 😄
Posted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Same here...
But I should have known. I've read your posts before, so...😅
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by HappyCapperPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoulThe question is what happens if the lamp decides to identify as a plug?Posted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by HappyCapperPosted by MyStarsShineThat's deep...Posted by SoulThe question is what happens if the lamp decides to identify as a plug?Posted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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I'd throw it tf out and buy a new one with a more natural working design 😆
Posted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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Posted by SoulPosted by HappyCapperPosted by SoulSame here...Posted by HappyCapperIt's not your fault lol. Sometimes I slowly drift into satire and don't even realize it anymore 😅Posted by SoulSo very happy it was a joke! Should have known it was. Sorry!Posted by HappyCapperNevermind lol. My joke obviously went a little over your head. Rest easy knowing every time you plug something into an outlet it's 100% consensual, because lamps, plugs, and outlets are all inanimate objects 😆Posted by SoulUnless we're talking rape, I don't get the lamp parallell. Hopefully, they engaged in consentual sex, and if they did, then they are equally responsible, as I see it.Posted by HappyCapperI personally don't blame the women. It's easy to blame the women I know, but the fact is they just spread their legs. The man inserting is the one truly making the change. It's like if you seen an outlet and wanted to plug in a lamp you'd think "This lamp would really get turned on if I just inserted this plug into the socket." So which is truly to blame? The socket that just exists, or the plug you want to insert to turn something on?Posted by SoulWhen I read this, I couldn't help but to think about the reluctance many have to get married. "It's such a huge commitment!" But making babies...? That's apparently fine.
I'm going to be real, some mother's lack the support of a good male figure. Wether it be their own father, or their kids father. I know it's not always the case, but I feel more women fall for flighty men then the other way around. So she gets knocked up by a guy who let his dick do the talking, then fled once things got real. Aka, the pregnancy test showing positive. I've seen a metric fuck ton of single mothers with multiple kids who can't seem to catch a break, and have absolutely no life other than raising kids alone and trying to make ends meet. Not saying she doesn't hold a piece of the blame cake herself from spreading her legs, but the man shouldn't have been adding the batter to bake that shit unless he understood the consciousness, and was ready to man up and be in the picture long term. I feel it's takes both the mother and father to raise kids correctly. I also admit I see way more women with kids and no dad then a dad with kids and no mother. Not saying it doesn't happen, but percentage wise men are way more flighty than women when it comes to kids. Which is fucked up tbh. Kids raised with father figure I feel have more problems then kids raised with no mother figure. Though that's a completely different topic.
You talk about women with multiple kids, trying to make ends meet. Couldn't she have learnt something after the first time? Or maybe the second time...? This, to me, is so weird.
Should the fathers be i the picture? Of course! I can understand that it would be easier for a person who didn't spend nine months with the fetus in their womb and then gave birth to the baby to...disappear, but that is no excuse! You made'm, you care for'em!
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i think motherhood is just so excessively romanticized in every culture. and in certain cultures or religions is basically a divine ordinance of some kind. hell there's a guy on here who when i complained about an aries co-worker acting like she's trying to compete with me at every turn, basically insults me for somehow not having the magical wisdom that comes from motherhood to deal with this completely unrelated issue 🤷🤷
personally, i grew up with with a very distant mother. but somehow even as a kid, i understood that people were their own person and she had a life that didn't stop because of me or my siblings. but i've seen the way that this damaged one of my brothers. he has deep-seated resentment for her because like most people, he had a lot of expectations for what motherhood entailed.
every father for all their faults, seems almost inconsequential because traditionally men aren't even expected to be too involved with their children (something i personally disagree with, i think both roles are immensely significant). but the romanticizing of women seem only to grow when they transition to motherhood.
and that comes with a lot of delusional buildup/expectations that i don't really see as entirely reasonable but do understand as a consequence of what's generally expected of women.
personally, i grew up with with a very distant mother. but somehow even as a kid, i understood that people were their own person and she had a life that didn't stop because of me or my siblings. but i've seen the way that this damaged one of my brothers. he has deep-seated resentment for her because like most people, he had a lot of expectations for what motherhood entailed.
every father for all their faults, seems almost inconsequential because traditionally men aren't even expected to be too involved with their children (something i personally disagree with, i think both roles are immensely significant). but the romanticizing of women seem only to grow when they transition to motherhood.
and that comes with a lot of delusional buildup/expectations that i don't really see as entirely reasonable but do understand as a consequence of what's generally expected of women.
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i think motherhood is just so excessively romanticized in every culture. and in certain cultures or religions is basically a divine ordinance of some kind. hell there's a guy on here who when i complained about an aries co-worker acting like she's trying to compete with me at every turn, basically insults me for somehow not having the magical wisdom that comes from motherhood to deal with this completely unrelated issue 🤷🤷
personally, i grew up with with a very distant mother. but somehow even as a kid, i understood that people were their own person and she had a life that didn't stop because of me or my siblings. but i've seen the way that this damaged one of my brothers. he has deep-seated resentment for her because like most people, he had a lot of expectations for what motherhood entailed.
every father for all their faults, seems almost inconsequential because traditionally men aren't even expected to be too involved with their children (something i personally disagree with, i think both roles are immensely significant). but the romanticizing of women seem only to grow when they transition to motherhood.
and that comes with a lot of delusional buildup/expectations that i don't really see as entirely reasonable but do understand as a consequence of what's generally expected of women.
Yes, I do recognize these insults. It's interesting that so many of them don't seem to have any form of interest in introspection either - just dismisses anything that threatens people's vision of them as these magically wise beings. And if they have nowhere else to turn, they blame their kids - the very kids they themselves raised. Of course, every person is different and there are more and less difficult children, in different ways, but they talk about their children's behaviours as if they had nothing to do with it.
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That one previous thread got me thinking about creating a sense of humor thread. I know my post on that thread was totally out of context and sorry bout that op I apologize for the trolling. Anyway I really like to know what kind of sense of humor you guy
I think it would be fun to elect dxpnet members into office, even if it's just for role play fun. I'm truly bad at this type of stuff, so I will keep it basic. We need a president, vice president, and a first lady/ gentleman. Out of all dxpnet members yo
Js.
Feel free to rant on the topic (...or any topic...).