If you could change one thing about yourself...

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NotYourAverageAquarius
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what would it be??

I think one of my greatest and worst attributes is talking tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much

NOT that I never think about anything I say it's just that when I get overly excited about a subject I just want to get it out there that is going on in my head before I've completely processed what it is that I'm thinking about or how it might affect the people I'm telling it to.

Really wish I'd just shut the front door sometimes... I'm working on it though. 😉

How about you?
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I'd say for me, I would enjoy having less barriers, such as over-thinking, worrying, etc, that cause me to not take action. Sometimes, I just need to live a little instead of always wondering about what's best or worrying about the potential consequences. For some things, that's appropriate, but overall, I need to limit my restrictions on such things. In person, it has made me quite reserved.
Some examples would be: Go out and party for once. Take that step to talk to a random person instead of always worrying about being annoying or weird. Hang out with people I don't know. Speak up instead of thinking of how it could turn out wrong. Etc.
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Posted by Kalean
I'd change the way i communicate verbally.



Same.

I have no planets in air and my mercury in Sag...I am so bad at expressing myself sometimes.
If I have some time to slow down and think about what I want to say before I say it, I'm good. (Like on here)

But in RL, when you have only seconds to think about what you're going to say before you say it.... it's a disaster. Lol
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
id like to be less cynical but i dont see that happening ever....id also like to be lactose intolerant



Man I totally feel you about being cynical 😢
I mean I am generally a pretty positive person don't get me wrong. But if someone does something, that on the surface, looks like they have an ulterior motive to it I tend to go with my negative intuition. If I'm in a bad mood I can see the dark side of A Disney cartoon. I used to give people the benefit of the doubt a lot more than I do now BUT my generosity has been taken advantage of enough times by people that it almost just seems wiser to be selectively generous... Cynical just seems wiser.

I must admit it has cost me the opportunity of getting to date the few females that I actually would want to. It's really bad and I want to be different. BUT it's hard sometimes :/
And it is a BIG FAT turn off to the women that I really do wanna date.