I'm so fucking done.

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Don't be dramatic just drink a bottle of wine and go to bed

You'll be good in the morning , if not in a few days

This too shall pass


Honest advice.

Thank you.



It's my job I hate that I'll go to sleep to wake up to. I feel like I'm taking it all. Just to survive on my own.

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DJs thread getting to you ? Haha

We're all in the same boat - take comfort in that

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Posted by brianafay
Posted by Lunabee
Posted by brianafay
Don't be dramatic just drink a bottle of wine and go to bed

You'll be good in the morning , if not in a few days

This too shall pass


Honest advice.

Thank you.



It's my job I hate that I'll go to sleep to wake up to. I feel like I'm taking it all. Just to survive on my own.



DJs thread getting to you ? Haha

We're all in the same boat - take comfort in that

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Fuuuuuuuck. I didn't​ choose to be on the Titanic.

It.just.happened.
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Posted by Lunabee
Posted by brianafay
Don't be dramatic just drink a bottle of wine and go to bed

You'll be good in the morning , if not in a few days

This too shall pass


Honest advice.

Thank you.



It's my job I hate that I'll go to sleep to wake up to. I feel like I'm taking it all. Just to survive on my own.



DJs thread getting to you ? Haha

We're all in the same boat - take comfort in that


umm....
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It's not a lie, it's true sometimes
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The start of a great life and amazing future ends with you.

I just see a dark ass workplace and in the the bosses office that;s just a poster in the back corner with a huge sad face on it.


I'm trying to change my bosses life. He is a dictator. I have made it my job to change him. I will change this man.

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I have faith you can. Just don't let trying to change him destroy you in the end.Take your time, be patient, and learn what to do before you act.
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The start of a great life and amazing future ends with you.

I just see a dark ass workplace and in the the bosses office that;s just a poster in the back corner with a huge sad face on it.


I'm trying to change my bosses life. He is a dictator. I have made it my job to change him. I will change this man.


I have faith you can. Just don't let trying to change him destroy you in the end.Take your time, be patient, and learn what to do before you act.
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I won't. My biggest worry is that I'll let him down when I leave. This is temporary but it took a lot out of him to teach me.

I'm at a new job about 3 months in that I know nothing of. He has allowed me to learn. I feel bad about wanting to leave

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Posted by Lunabee
Posted by Soul
The start of a great life and amazing future ends with you.

I just see a dark ass workplace and in the the bosses office that;s just a poster in the back corner with a huge sad face on it.


I'm trying to change my bosses life. He is a dictator. I have made it my job to change him. I will change this man.

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Don't let someone else ruin you. By all means, you can try to change him, but people only change when they want to. If it's out of your control let it be. I have an issue with trying to control things I don't need to, working on it, and it can be difficult but you can't let someone else rain on your parade girly!
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The start of a great life and amazing future ends with you.

I just see a dark ass workplace and in the the bosses office that;s just a poster in the back corner with a huge sad face on it.


I'm trying to change my bosses life. He is a dictator. I have made it my job to change him. I will change this man.


I have faith you can. Just don't let trying to change him destroy you in the end.Take your time, be patient, and learn what to do before you act.


I won't. My biggest worry is that I'll let him down when I leave. This is temporary but it took a lot out of him to teach me.

I'm at a new job about 3 months in that I know nothing of. He has allowed me to learn. I feel bad about wanting to leave

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That's understandable. It's your life in the end though. I agree with not living it truly unhappy for any person.
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That's actually the worst part cause you still gotta live more lives


Like a cat?

Maybe that's my curse. I have to relive deaths over and over. Because something is about to die. It may be my job, my habits, my roommate, my beliefs- something.

Why do you say we have to live more lives?


Idk I feel like our energy is strong enough to live longer and learn more
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How often have you changed life directions?
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Posted by Lunabee
Posted by brianafay
Don't be dramatic just drink a bottle of wine and go to bed

You'll be good in the morning , if not in a few days

This too shall pass


Honest advice.

Thank you.



It's my job I hate that I'll go to sleep to wake up to. I feel like I'm taking it all. Just to survive on my own.



DJs thread getting to you ? Haha

We're all in the same boat - take comfort in that


umm....

It's not a lie, it's true sometimes


Sometimes I suppose. Depending on the person.

I'm lucky to surround myself with stay at home moms entrepreneurs and men who run online businesses.

Some people just don't do well trying to force the upper management to do the right thing like this one above.

Check out my friend Nagina's post.

http://growthlab.com/how-to-make-money-coaching-online/
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Plug
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With my job, with my life.
Believe in the power of friendship. G.I Joe!
How does that help me lol. Very enthusiastic!
Close your eyes and breathe.




Aka sleep?
No. Try it. Bet you it feels weird to do it. But it re-balances you.

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How does that help?
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The start of a great life and amazing future ends with you.

I just see a dark ass workplace and in the the bosses office that;s just a poster in the back corner with a huge sad face on it.


I'm trying to change my bosses life. He is a dictator. I have made it my job to change him. I will change this man.


Don't let someone else ruin you. By all means, you can try to change him, but people only change when they want to. If it's out of your control let it be. I have an issue with trying to control things I don't need to, working on it, and it can be difficult but you can't let someone else rain on your parade girly!
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Duh.

It's deeper than that .. I know nothing and everything. I know about his style but i struggle learning his profession - which I don't fucking care about anyway.

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What's wrong?


I went kayaking with a guy from work​.
LOL

What's wrong with that? Did it go poorly?


Not at all. It was great but the people at work know I was with him.


Is there a policy against dating coworkers? It's definitely messy. I avoid it, but I know people who met and married that way, so who knows.

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What happened
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What's wrong?


I went kayaking with a guy from work​.
LOL

What's wrong with that? Did it go poorly?


Not at all. It was great but the people at work know I was with him.


Is there a policy against dating coworkers? It's definitely messy. I avoid it, but I know people who met and married that way, so who knows.


What happened


I'm not really sure. A couple I knew at my last job met there. They were married and had been working there for years when I started working there, so it was normal for everyone. I actually married someone I worked with, but I'm not here to divulge. 😄
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Shut up lol.
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With my job, with my life.
I feel you.

Improving the first will help with the second tho, trust.
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I feel trapped. I can't drive so my options have been limited to those I can bike to. I feel like I have to make it through until I can branch further. I live in a prime spot near the hospital and there are many jobs in my profession yet I'm working some new shit I don't even like or care about.
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With my job, with my life.
I feel you.

Improving the first will help with the second tho, trust.


I feel trapped. I can't drive so my options have been limited to those I can bike to. I feel like I have to make it through until I can branch further. I live in a prime spot near the hospital and there are many jobs in my profession yet I'm working some new shit I don't even like or care about.
Find jobs on the internet, yo. Are you in a crowded area? If so, you can use one of those app things and deliver food or other shit or even walk dogs for people via your phone and by bike.
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Yea that requires work - I have no drive to change. I do think about volunteering a lot. But I'm yet to follow through. I don't think I want to work in my field because I'm scared I forgot how to do it all.
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You can't change another person. You can only change yourself. I know it's a cliche, but it's true.

As for being tired of your life, most smart people go through that from time to time. When you take a loook at all the shit that's there and how hard it is, it gets tiring. Look at the bright side. You're not in Syria, are you? No one has bombed your house lately, have they? I bet you have all your limbs. And I bet no jackass has sold your soul to a witch when you were just a wee babe. Also, if that's you in the picture, you're cute.


Fuck you too. I like what you say. I'm tired. I'm done surviving. Its time to fly