It's raining men

Why is it when you don't want to deal with anyone that a bunch come calling?

I haven't for years.... or if I was I wasn't interested. Just seems like guys I had dealt with in the past keep popping back up.

How did that turn out for you?

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A Virgo, but this is cyclical, so not going past the friend thing...platonic friend.

This Leo I used to date years and years ago.

This other guy, platonic friends only. Don't know his sign.

This Scorpio guy. We were just friends, also.

The attention isn't bad, but it is rough dealing with some. The top 2.

Oh, and this other virgo who asked me to marry him. Crazy. The guy is nice enough and we dated a little, but there was always something that I didn't feel comfortable with...still can't place it.

Are they all single? Valentines day is around the corner...

I read your posts a lot. That Virgo got under your skin. I seem to be drawn to them also. I realized that of all of the guys that I had really like were Virgos. One of those love, but hate them situations I guess. *shrug*

Posted by aquapiscescusp
where

Apparently just in my little world at the moment. I sure hope not though. It would be good to hear some other stories lol

Posted by justagirl
Are they all single? Valentines day is around the corner...

Yes, well as far as I know. I just can't see anything working with them. Maybe too pessimistic?

Now I am going to have Michael in my head all night...lol

Posted by justagirl
Are they all single? Valentines day is around the corner...

#boysbelikeidontwanttobelonelybemyvaletineandtakeyouout?

the thrist is real.

I feel you. I was actually discussing that with the Leo earlier. He told me that if I was looking for a serious relationship that I should have had one by now.

How is that supposed to happen when I focused on only my daughter and myself for years? I don't want to be in a relationship just for the relationship. I want to build a life with someone. Be someone to love and support them and get the same on return. *day dreaming*

It did me too. We have our ups and downs, but I would never change my decision to have her. She is amazing. I really am lucky to be her mom. (Side note, her dad is a Virgo, but we don't need to chat about him.)

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Posted by justagirl
Are they all single? Valentines day is around the corner...

#boysbelikeidontwanttobelonelybemyvaletineandtakeyouout?

the thrist is real.

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Yes... 😉

Girl, I take it as flattery. I feel flattered that a guy would take the time to dial my number. I dig the attention. I jst dont like it when they show up to my house.

Posted by caster721
Have u ladies ever done weed? Now its the time to do it. It's so healing....i'm telling u. Been there done that and now i've never felt so loved, appreciated and alive like now. Just do it in a healing environment, like u go out with friends, great stories, good music and just free your spirit. This is for CC and christinelovessnickers.

Btw CC, mine was also a virgo!

weed totally puts things into perspective for me. Your right, smoke it with the right people!

Posted by DMV
Girl, I take it as flattery. I feel flattered that a guy would take the time to dial my number. I dig the attention. I jst dont like it when they show up to my house.

I can't stand when people show up unannounced. Having a key to my place is the only way you can come and go without calling first.

Posted by caster721
Have u ladies ever done weed? Now its the time to do it. It's so healing....i'm telling u. Been there done that and now i've never felt so loved, appreciated and alive like now. Just do it in a healing environment, like u go out with friends, great stories, good music and just free your spirit. This is for CC and christinelovessnickers.

Btw CC, mine was also a virgo!

I haven't touched that in I don't even know how long.... maybe i should consider it lol

this guy I used to fuck in high school just msged me on FB letting me know he's in the city for a 21st but I'm not going there because he has a girlfriend and kids now.

I'm on this gay dating site and I'm getting really pissed of with myself because I chat to a lot of hot handsome guys and flirt and they give me their numbers but I never call them lol??_.I think I'm being rude and I also know that if I don't start putting out now I'll regret it when I'm older thinking bout all the chances I had to have sex??_..thing is I'm not big on one night stands??_.unless I'm getting paid lol

I'm the same way. I don't have relationships just to have them. Just to go out. I'm just not made of that stuff. #1 I'm too shy UGH 😢 #2 I have kids and I keep my focus on them. Doesn't mean I don't want one though. Sometimes I feel like I'm too closed off and unapproachable.

And I'm definitely NOT the one night stand types because i don't give off good first impressions (been told I always look mad lol) and I certainly don't trust on a whim either. I have this thing where I've got to know them or know something about them for a while before I can feel comfortable. UGH AGAIN.

Must mean timing is all off for us gals/guys.

is your profile pic supposed to look like a presenting chocolate bear?

LMAO! They're called Turtles - my favorite! I'm a chocoholic! Pecan cluster type if you will.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
this guy I used to fuck in high school just msged me on FB letting me know he's in the city for a 21st but I'm not going there because he has a girlfriend and kids now.

I'm on this gay dating site and I'm getting really pissed of with myself because I chat to a lot of hot handsome guys and flirt and they give me their numbers but I never call them lol??_.I think I'm being rude and I also know that if I don't start putting out now I'll regret it when I'm older thinking bout all the chances I had to have sex??_..thing is I'm not big on one night stands??_.unless I'm getting paid lol

Quality is by far more important than quantity. What is stopping you from getting out there?

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
I'm the same way. I don't have relationships just to have them. Just to go out. I'm just not made of that stuff. #1 I'm too shy UGH 😢 #2 I have kids and I keep my focus on them. Doesn't mean I don't want one though. Sometimes I feel like I'm too closed off and unapproachable.

And I'm definitely NOT the one night stand types because i don't give off good first impressions (been told I always look mad lol) and I certainly don't trust on a whim either. I have this thing where I've got to know them or know something about them for a while before I can feel comfortable. UGH AGAIN.

Must mean timing is all off for us gals/guys.

This.

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
LMAO! They're called Turtles - my favorite! I'm a chocoholic! Pecan cluster type if you will.

Yummy

Posted by christinelovessnickers

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
this guy I used to fuck in high school just msged me on FB letting me know he's in the city for a 21st but I'm not going there because he has a girlfriend and kids now.

I'm on this gay dating site and I'm getting really pissed of with myself because I chat to a lot of hot handsome guys and flirt and they give me their numbers but I never call them lol??_.I think I'm being rude and I also know that if I don't start putting out now I'll regret it when I'm older thinking bout all the chances I had to have sex??_..thing is I'm not big on one night stands??_.unless I'm getting paid lol

Quality is by far more important than quantity. What is stopping you from getting out there?

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Nothing is stopping me its just that a lot of gay guys are prissy muscly and just way too over done and I'm on of those picky types that think anything thats not authentic isn't good enough for me??_..but then I end up with the juvenile delinquent type??_.sigh

Posted by caster721
Have u ladies ever done weed? Now its the time to do it. It's so healing....i'm telling u. Been there done that and now i've never felt so loved, appreciated and alive like now. Just do it in a healing environment, like u go out with friends, great stories, good music and just free your spirit.

I miss those days...sigh...too many darn kids in the house now. Friend of mine hooked me up w/one a while back cuz he knows this girl needs it and dangit it's still sitting there staring at me, just waiting. Prob no good by now 😢

Posted by christinelovessnickers

I was actually discussing that with the Leo earlier. He told me that if I was looking for a serious relationship that I should have had one by now.

How is that supposed to happen when I focused on only my daughter and myself for years?

Which means ..... you want it drop in your lap, so you don't have to put forth any effort.

The person was right .. if you really want a serious relationship, it would happen. But, according to everything you've written on here, especially the Virgo board ... you don't hold yourself accountable for anything.

And here it is again ... you want something to be brought to you, you want it without meeting halfway

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by christinelovessnickers

I was actually discussing that with the Leo earlier. He told me that if I was looking for a serious relationship that I should have had one by now.

How is that supposed to happen when I focused on only my daughter and myself for years?

Which means ..... you want it drop in your lap, so you don't have to put forth any effort.

The person was right .. if you really want a serious relationship, it would happen. But, according to everything you've written on here, especially the Virgo board ... you don't hold yourself accountable for anything.

And here it is again ... you want something to be brought to you, you want it without meeting halfway

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Honestly, PAngel that has nothing to do with not taking accountability. I stopped dating because I kept dealing with guys that weren't right for me. I have always owned up to my mistakes/faults, just sometimes it takes reflection to see them. He was saying that because he was saying we should have been together. Me, I am more than willing to put in work, and have many times. I took time away to know myself better, attempt to get over man I really loved, and focus on my daughter, who is by far more important then any man.

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Posted by P-Angel

Posted by christinelovessnickers

I was actually discussing that with the Leo earlier. He told me that if I was looking for a serious relationship that I should have had one by now.

How is that supposed to happen when I focused on only my daughter and myself for years?

Which means ..... you want it drop in your lap, so you don't have to put forth any effort.

The person was right .. if you really want a serious relationship, it would happen. But, according to everything you've written on here, especially the Virgo board ... you don't hold yourself accountable for anything.

And here it is again ... you want something to be brought to you, you want it without meeting halfway

*Sigh* Some people don't want to be held accountable for anything and yet they keep complaining if things don't go the way they want it

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So removing myself from a less than favorable situation is not taking accountability? OK then, our definitions are different.