Jealousy by Sun Sign

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I'm a Taurus and by virtue have a jealous temperament...or so I've read. The reality is, I've never been the jealous type. In fact, my behavior was often to the contrary and maybe I can attribute this to my Venus in Aries? ViA fears the long-term so yeah, I can play jealous but jealousy to the point of insecurity? naaaaaaaah
All in all, I like attractive men and I like the idea of women lusting after my dude because hey, us Venus signs like pretty things and pretty things should be admired.
Up until now I've been able to operate such that "jealous" would be the last word a lover would've used to ascribe me...but I did say, "up until now."
So the fucker I'm with and plan to be with for some time tends to have "friends" of the opposite sex. Initially, I didn't think much of it because after all, I like pretty.
The problem is, for the first time, I actually care enough to care. I love me some Catfish and I find myself becoming increasingly suspicious and jealous of his activities with these friendwhores.
ie, he was late the other day and I knew he was with her. Sure, she's just some stankassbitch from class that "just happens" to be doing a project with him, but I am so sick of hearing about her. I hate her. Why does she even exist?
Sure, I don't know the bitch but I swear to God if she "just happens" to be in my presence and looks at him the wrong way, I'd punch her dead in her throat and while my foot was on her neck, I'd curse her ancestors, living relatives and her unborn. Ok, maybe not but hey, I would sooooo give her the evil eye Tongue
So I wonder, is the nature/extent of my jealousy restricted to the fact that I am a Taurus? I honestly have never been like this so to actually care for the first time is throwing me a bit off and I soooo don't like it. I feel like smacking him right now for awakening this demon.
What's your Sun Sign and how jealous are you?
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oh, and i think the fact that i actually do care, that i'm actually jealous demonstrates that i do truly care for him but MY GOD!, i don't like this jealous bitch that resides in me.
i mean, i haven't resorted to sniffing his balls when he comes home but i have always regarded jealousy and jealous people as beneath me. i have always operated under the notion that if you're secure in who you are, fuck 'em if they don't know your worth. i have also always felt secure in my relationships, no matter how much of a bastard the guy was because at the end of the day, i will always be the bottom bitch.
so i dunno. being reminded that i'm a taurus and not an aries trapped in a taurean's sun has thrown me for a loop.
oooooooooh, what i would give to not care...or to care for about five minutes, butt horns and then go about my merry way.
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yeah, but irrational jealousy is just wrong. i have no reason to feel this way and i think that's what's bothering me. the insecurity lies within me and OMG!, me, insecure? wtf?
someone stole my big gurl panties and i want them back Sad
jealousy is meant for teenagers and hoodrats. i am neither.
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Posted by Nights22
I think compared to a lot of Pisces I am not that jealous. But by god I do have my moments. It comes few and far between but when it comes my SO will hear an ear full haha. Thankfully I believe it is my aqua venus that makes me apathetic most of the time.



yeah, i can see a pisces sun being insecure by default and by virtue of that, jealous under the right circumstances. but like you, i have a venus that isn't suited for pairing so where i may have "acted" jealous before, it was just that...an act. i wasn't trying to settle down anyway so eh, who gives a shit if they're talking to someone else?
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Posted by WasteOfTime
Pisces.
Jealousy level is extreme if I truly care for the person I'm with.

The question is, has your catfish's behavior changed after being with said 'skankassbitch'? The key sign(s) of a Pisces cheating, or anything like that, is in their behavior. Even more so towards you. Has the 'love' he usually shows you died down at all? Or is it still as hot as it has been?



he hasn't done anything. hasn't changed anything. he told me that i need to learn how to trust him and to that i replied...
NO!
i know that the problem is me which is why i posted this. i don't know what the source of the insecurity is. it's not his behavior, but he has triggered my crazybitch gene.
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what did he say in reply to my saying "NO!?"
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
what is Gaara doing on DXP ?



i couldn't find any other evil eye pics and besides, he fits the bill quite well dontcha think?
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Posted by WasteOfTime
Posted by caligula
what did he say in reply to my saying "NO!?"


Yes smile.
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he's a fish. he just looked at me and said nothing.
what he was feeling and thinking, i'm sure i will find out in about 6 months and will update the thread accordingly Tongue
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i just don't like how you always blame your aries placements for all your shortcomings
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i was complimenting my Aries placements you freak.

and yeah, he didn't say anything which usually means that he's bewildered/befuddled by my taurean obstinacy...or some shit like that.
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are we really going to get into a naruto discussion?
gaara has/had evil eyes and per the OP, i was looking for a pic of someone giving the evil eye...sheesh!
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yeah, he's already trying to find ways to make adjustments. he's said that he won't talk to her if it's going to bother me but that's a problem in and of itself. he's not the one that needs to change so i need to learn how to be less taurean in this regard i guess.
either way, i can't help how i feel but the fact that i know that it's irrational makes it difficult to correct.
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
what is Gaara doing on DXP ?


haha dunno but im diggin how she set up the pic with the rest of her paragraph
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all i'm going to say is... TYRES + KNIFE
but that would make you your own worst nightmare i guess?
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if he really was that "pretty" he would have more than just one skank txting him.
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i'm gonna refer to him as guppy from now on
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Posted by AA
if he really was that "pretty" he would have more than just one skank txting him.



there's more than one but i hear about one more than the others and it's that bitch that i wanna cut.

hmmm...it sounds like you're jealous? awwwwh...nugglenuts Tongue
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Posted by TastesOfChaos
Jealousy is UGLY!
Personally, I might get jealous for a hot minute, then my logical senses kick in and think "the fuck am I jealous for? If I'm feeling this way, clearly the dude ain't worth it" then I emotionally detach... I don't see the point of that emotion so I just walk away smile
You shouldn't be feeling jealous in a relationship, you should either trust your partner or work on your insecurities.
I don't think you're being jealous though Tubs, I think you're just acting like a dog with a bone... possessive! Which is different. You're marking your territory so to speak...
He is MINE!
Haha!




just because you detach physically, doesn't mean you detach mentally. i think yea, as a heavily aspected air sign you have the ability to "walk away" from a bad experience far more quickly than say an earth or a water sign; HOWEVER, where you may not physically stay in the muck of a bad situation, you will ponder it far more than other elements would.
i think air/fire sign women or those with a lot of air/fire in their chart can comparatively extract themselves far more readily which is probably why they marry quicker?
at the end of the day though, i think we all have the capacity to be jealous, i guess it's how that jealousy manifests itself that differentiates us.
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and yeah, it may be a tinge of possessiveness too.
"TAURUS SAYS MINE!"...and then pouts and whines until she gets her way...literally.
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i don't think she needs or even wants backup TOC. And calling her a dog with a bone is just plain insulting.
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lol...stop instigatin
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Posted by caligula
and yeah, it may be a tinge of possessiveness too.
"TAURUS SAYS MINE!"...and then pouts and whines until she gets her way...literally.


and don't forget your aries moon placement. I was going to make the point of saying don't you just hate being a sign that prides itself on being in control and having cotrol over things like people and inanimate objects but yet having to rely on other things apart from your own body and mind? Like what if you were born into an absolute shithole of a place and couldn't eat your usual 5 course meal but instead had to live with just a mere small bowl of rice a day? How would the bull cope? Or you lived in a mud hut and were in danger of being raped and killed everyday from local tribesmen? How would the indulgent bull cope? They obviously do but hooooowwwww? Where as an ainstinctive aries has only his body, mind and cock. and maybe a spear.
But then i thought, oh wait, you have aries moon.
Man you must be selfish and greedy as fuck. like total beastiality in nature and in the sack. two powerhouses like that.
It would be like combining a big Mac and a whopper. Just unimaginable unadulterated madness.
Good Luck!
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not even a whole board could rid this place of pure evil but you came along and just flicked your finger, puckered your lips and wobbled your fat ass and BOOM! gone with the wind
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sorry
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rams really shouldn't try to philosophize
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Posted by TastesOfChaos
OMG...
I'm going for a run... I hope Tubs tears you a new one for that!



i have no clue what he's talking about. it must be his mercury in taurus. taurus is slow and stupid ya know.
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Posted by TastesOfChaos
OMG...
I'm going for a run... I hope Tubs tears you a new one for that!


Me Too!

Uphill struggle me thinks
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As a Pisces with plenty of Moo-cow in her .. but also Venus in Aries... I'm not jealous. Like you, I figured I was born defective, didn't come with a jealousy gene. Jealousy as an emotion (in others) was baffling to me.. and yes, I'm afraid I felt "above" all of that nonsense. I mean, I knew what the emotion WAS.. felt it (for about 2 minutes) at age 15 when the guy I liked chose some skank who would put out over me. But meh.. that emotion faded from my life, nary to be heard from again.. even five years with an insane Leo who constantly TRIED to make me jealous (he equated jealousy with love, and was himself a crazy-jealous and over-the-top whack-job).. I just didn't feel jealousy like other people apparently did. It left me unmoved.
Until my Libra.
I was like you then, Cali.. and I'm like you now. Most friendgirls, I'm fine with.. but a couple of them make me feel like a bunny-boiler who wants to stomps her stankass unrecognizable, esp the UBER-flirty ones (cuz Libra is a GOTDAMN flirt!) Tight leash on my inner bunny-boiler.. cuz I easily sense her inability to stop, once she starts. One of these bitches is gonna walk into the wrong dark alley one night, and I might be there to regulate.
So I told Libra how I felt, and told him specifically which girls bother me and why. He was partly amused, partly horrified.. and assured me I had nothing to worry about.. and then with no fanfare at all... faded out (or faded them from his life!) Haven't seen or heard from the most irksome and vexing ones.. though a few weeks ago the one sent him a text, "r u still alive? miss tlking 2 u" (ugh, chatspeak!).. which he showed me.. and then hit Delete. Then he looked so much like a proud puppy waiting for his pat on the head, I smiled and said thank you and gave him a kiss.
So crazybitch is slumbering peacefully. But I'm sure she'll wake again, the ungrateful, UNWELCOME new resident inside me. I served her the eviction papers, but the bitch laughed in my face and won't leave. Anybody got any TNT?
Oh.. and message to Catfish: TELLING her to not be jealous, to trust you.. isn't going to work. Period. Unless by "work" we mean she smilingly serves you Skank Stew one night :p
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leo.
it takes a lot to get me jealous. my bf has female friends that he knew before we met. i'm ok with it. i think it's because i never get any weird vibes from them when i'm around.
one thing i did have an issue with...one of my guy friends started dating a girl, and me and my bf spent quite a bit of time with the two of them. my bf never indicated to me that he knew this girl. later on, i ended up finding out from my guy friend that his gf mentioned that she knew my bf. i mentioned it to my bf, and asked why he never acted as though he knew the girl when they were hanging out. he said that they didn't really "know" each other but had hung out a couple times a year before he met me.
i thought hmmm, ok. no big deal i guess. we ended up getting a big place and moving in with the couple, with each couple having their own side of the house. then i started noticing some weird vibes between them. it was nagging at me so i mentioned it to my bf. he ended up admitting that they had had sex.
the thought of the two of them being alone together at any point of time then became unbearable! it was due to the fact that he had been dishonest, and that made me distrustful of the whole situation. i was really pissed about him not telling me BEFORE we all moved in together.
anyway she ended up moving out.
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Posted by Nefer

So crazybitch is slumbering peacefully. But I'm sure she'll wake again, the ungrateful, UNWELCOME new resident inside me. I served her the eviction papers, but the bitch laughed in my face and won't leave. Anybody got any TNT?



lol, exactly!
yeah, i like that he has the ability to awaken an emotion in me that i did not know existed and yet, having this particular emotion and the insecurity that comes along with it is a bit maddening.
and i agree, it's not ALL women. it's certain ones and why i'm specifically threatened by them makes no damn sense but i just know that i don't particularly like that bitch.
i think he's smart enough to know that if i'm expressing concern about certain heffers that they need to be ex'd out quick fast and in a hurry...primarily just to shut me up and reduce conflict which is fine with me.
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she probably did the good thing and talked about it.
Then the Aries did work.
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Posted by trifles light as air*
leo.
it takes a lot to get me jealous. my bf has female friends that he knew before we met. i'm ok with it. i think it's because i never get any weird vibes from them when i'm around.
one thing i did have an issue with...one of my guy friends started dating a girl, and me and my bf spent quite a bit of time with the two of them. my bf never indicated to me that he knew this girl. later on, i ended up finding out from my guy friend that his gf mentioned that she knew my bf. i mentioned it to my bf, and asked why he never acted as though he knew the girl when they were hanging out. he said that they didn't really "know" each other but had hung out a couple times a year before he met me.
i thought hmmm, ok. no big deal i guess. we ended up getting a big place and moving in with the couple, with each couple having their own side of the house. then i started noticing some weird vibes between them. it was nagging at me so i mentioned it to my bf. he ended up admitting that they had had sex.
the thought of the two of them being alone together at any point of time then became unbearable! it was due to the fact that he had been dishonest, and that made me distrustful of the whole situation. i was really pissed about him not telling me BEFORE we all moved in together.
anyway she ended up moving out.



that's a good point. if think if i ever demonstrated tinges of jealousy in the past it was when i didn't know about the bitch. if i knew who she was and the context of the friendship, i was cool with it. however, if some random bitch came tramping up, all of a sudden it'd turn into "who is she and what is she to you"...and the tons of questions that follow.
with this particular bitch, i think that initially it was due to the fact that he had some chick's number. he didn't hide it. he left the slip of paper on the chess board BUT, he didn't come to me the day he met her and say, "i met someone new in class today and she..." had he handled it like this, i still would probably want to cut the bitch but the fact that he wasn't seemingly forthcoming created the initial insecurity that most likely won't go away until their communication ends...or she gets maimed by some random, masked person.
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libras are born whores.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
"anyway she ended up moving out."
Shoved, perchance ?
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hahaha, no. more along the lines of what AA said.
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Posted by caligula
that's a good point. if think if i ever demonstrated tinges of jealousy in the past it was when i didn't know about the bitch. if i knew who she was and the context of the friendship, i was cool with it. however, if some random bitch came tramping up, all of a sudden it'd turn into "who is she and what is she to you"...and the tons of questions that follow.
with this particular bitch, i think that initially it was due to the fact that he had some chick's number. he didn't hide it. he left the slip of paper on the chess board BUT, he didn't come to me the day he met her and say, "i met someone new in class today and she..." had he handled it like this, i still would probably want to cut the bitch but the fact that he wasn't seemingly forthcoming created the initial insecurity that most likely won't go away until their communication ends...or she gets maimed by some random, masked person.

i can relate. i kind of feel like, when in a rel, one should be forthcoming about their interactions with others. it's like a prereq of the commitment, imo (for me at least). if everything is out in the open, then i feel much more secure. whereas if something seems even a little unclear or shady, suspicions start creeping up.
perhaps your man would agree if you discussed it.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by trifles light as air*
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"anyway she ended up moving out."
Shoved, perchance ?
smile

hahaha, no. more along the lines of what AA said.


Not even the shooting of daggers ?
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no. i actually really liked her. she was a cool chick. fun to be around. i just hated the thought of her being alone w/my bf. but that wasn't her fault.
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we're american, bling. replace the tea with soda, and the biscuits with chips and you're pretty much right.

Tongue
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Posted by trifles light as air*

perhaps your man would agree if you discussed it.



we've discussed it and we both agree that i'm very jealous Tongue
he is too but is in denial so it's all good.
now that i know it's not just me and that it's more likely due to a fear of losing someone i care about, i'll just have to work on my insecurities. in the past, i probably would've gone out on a date with someone else out of retaliation (aries), i think introspection is the better course of action these days Tongue
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I can't believe Caligula and guppy play chess together
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Posted by trifles light as air*
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by trifles light as air*
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"anyway she ended up moving out."
Shoved, perchance ?
smile

hahaha, no. more along the lines of what AA said.


Not even the shooting of daggers ?

no. i actually really liked her. she was a cool chick. fun to be around. i just hated the thought of her being alone w/my bf. but that wasn't her fault.
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You know i luv you n' all but please don't tell me your one of those "it's always the guys fault"
cuz where i'm from it's the complete opposite
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Posted by Pecheresse
Posted by caligula
libras are born whores.


I don't agree.
I do flirt, but I don't sleep around.
Some libras have self respect
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scorp moons love a good flirt.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
"anyway she ended up moving out."
Shoved, perchance ?
smile

hahaha, no. more along the lines of what AA said.


Not even the shooting of daggers ?

no. i actually really liked her. she was a cool chick. fun to be around. i just hated the thought of her being alone w/my bf. but that wasn't her fault.


That's fair enough.
Caligula's situation does sound more intense though, it's sounds like you both sat drinking tea and eating biscuits while you were all 'I'll take a toe if you make moves on him', said in a nonchalant way.smile
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lol?
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lol i was specifically talking about flirting but whatever floats ya boat.
I think you need an urgent trip to the shower and and quick rub love.
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hmm...no offense to libras but eh...
i vote libra women most likely to justify cheating...well maybe a close runner up to leo chicks.
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Posted by AA

You know i luv you n' all but please don't tell me your one of those "it's always the guys fault"
cuz where i'm from it's the complete opposite

hmm, i'm not sure what you mean. in this situation, i would say my bf was at fault. he didn't tell me up-front what had happened between the two of them. if he had, then i wouldn't have felt he was trying to hide something.
as an acquaintance, she could have told me, sure...but it was more my bf's place to do so imo.
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yeah i agree. your bf is definitely an asshole. it's one thing that they hunched. the fact that they hunched, he didn't tell you and then moved the bitch in? he would be minus one furry apple if it were up to me.
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i've never known gems to cheat
most i know don't have sex or if they do, it's the other twin that's having it while the dominant twin is sleep.
*shrugs*
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Posted by caligula
yeah i agree. your bf is definitely an asshole. it's one thing that they hunched. the fact that they hunched, he didn't tell you and then moved the bitch in? he would be minus one furry apple if it were up to me.

yeah, i almost broke up with him over it tbh.
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a bottom bitch or a "bottom?" if the latter, is that your way of saying that a gemini males are gay?
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Posted by Nights22
Most likely to justify cheating = Gems and leos

is this from personal experience?
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