Let's talk numbers

As in number of sexual partners.
If a potential partner told you the number of people they've been with & it was a lot (more than what you consider acceptable or 'normal'), would it matter?
Which number do you expect a potential partner not to exceed?

I'm bored lol, so why not make a million threads 😛

Posted by tw1nk1e
I don't really care as long as I'm not second. Being second fucking sucks.

LOL. Even a 100+ wouldn't bother you one bit?

Yes it would matter, I would want to know whether they were of the relationship partner sex or one night stands. If it was a lot of one night stands then my perception of them would change and would impact my decision for any potential relationship with them.

Posted by MrWendall
what if they went thru a slutty phase? 😛

I'll still be bothered. My standards don't care.

Posted by Pisces1803
Yes it would matter, I would want to know whether they were of the relationship partner sex or one night stands. If it was a lot of one night stands then my perception of them would change and would impact my decision for any potential relationship with them.

I agree with this. I believe the number of sexual partners shouldn't exceed the number of years you've been on earth lol, that's just wrong.

Posted by tw1nk1e
The frequency bothers me more than the number. I probably would be freaked out if it was over 20... but there is a big difference between 20 over a span of 10 years and 20 in 3 years.


Being second drove me crazy because I knew her face and that she was the one that got that from him. Plus it was like.... in my sick twisted mind I constantly worried if I was good enough in comparison since she was his only reference point.

Don't ask me. I have a Cancer Mars and while I'm not jealous or possessive in most ways, I'm super physically possessive of my lovers, and I'm just fucked up about sex in general.

Good point there with the 1st part of your post.

^^hahaha.

Posted by MrWendall
They shud be below 5 lulz! #Slutshaming

😉

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by Pisces1803
Yes it would matter, I would want to know whether they were of the relationship partner sex or one night stands. If it was a lot of one night stands then my perception of them would change and would impact my decision for any potential relationship with them.

I agree with this. I believe the number of sexual partners shouldn't exceed the number of years you've been on earth lol, that's just wrong.

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LMAO SO True!!!
+10000000 ??

I always ask and then regret asking after . I haven't been with many so I expect the same but I know that's not realistic.
I do want to know bc then I think that # kind of defines character maybe? In some crazy way in my head. My # is below 10 in my 36 years. So I would want the same. But liklihood of finding it rare I know. Especially men's #s. I think most were knocking on 10 after high school or college.

STD IS THE BIG WORRY EVERYONE LOVES SEX SO IT IS WHAT IT IS
AND SEX PARNTERS ARE LIKE BUSES ONE PULLS OUT ANOTHER WILL COME ALONG IN A FEW MIN.

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Posted by Pisces1803

Posted by MrWendall
They shud be below 5 lulz! #Slutshaming

😉

So r u over? 😈

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Under - sorry to disappoint 🙂

I've never dated anyone that I thought had "too many" and I had one guy tell me he couldn't even remember or count how many. (He was a Leo). lol. Really doesn't matter to me.

I've had a lot more than the scorp but I'm also a lot older than he is. I was surprised at his number.

IF YOU CAN COUNT THEM YOU HAVEN'T BEEN DOING TO WELL

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
As long as her lady parts don't reflect it, I'm kinda cool with it. Pleeease god don't let this lil broad have herpes...

LOL @ this.

Posted by shortii
I always ask and then regret asking after . I haven't been with many so I expect the same but I know that's not realistic.
I do want to know bc then I think that # kind of defines character maybe? In some crazy way in my head. My # is below 10 in my 36 years. So I would want the same. But liklihood of finding it rare I know. Especially men's #s. I think most were knocking on 10 after high school or college.

+1 & LOL @ 'most were knocking on 10 after high school or college'

Posted by james tate
STD IS THE BIG WORRY EVERYONE LOVES SEX SO IT IS WHAT IT IS
AND SEX PARNTERS ARE LIKE BUSES ONE PULLS OUT ANOTHER WILL COME ALONG IN A FEW MIN.

AIDS is the scariest of all. I honestly don't get what more needs to be done, or what language needs to be spoken for people to get that there are killer viruses out there. It still amazes me to hear about new infections. Like, where have you been? Too much carelessness.

Posted by djbuck1
Dear Prospective GF,

Before you even open your pretty mouth, let me assure you that I have absolutely no interest in how many men you have "pleasured" with it.

Nor do I want to know how many men have inseminated you. Oh, some wore condoms? Well, then "how many men have 'had' you."

I don't want to know about "Oral Larry and His Magic Tongue."

I don't want to know about your two week sex marathon, locked away in a house with "Big Art," where you did "all sorts of nasty and naughty things."

I don't want to know about Mark and "the biggest cock you've ever seen in your life."

Or the 10, 15, 20, 30+ "others."

Why is it even necessary that I know this? I'm starting to think "health issues." On several levels.

Yes, I know that you "had a life before me." But there really are some things you should keep to yourself. It would be lovely to think that you have the common sense, discretion and class not to go down this road. It would show me that you have respect for yourself, and respect for me.

What's that? I'm insecure? And you should be able to say whatever you want whenever you want about your "past" sex partners. Okay, let me tell you some of MY stories.

[Three graphics accounts later]

What's that? You don't want to hear any more? Well why ever not? What's that? I'm an a-hole? Au contraire my dear.

Now that you've "introduced" me to your former lovers, I'm kind of wondering why they are still so much a part of your "presentation."

What's that? They're not that important to you anymore? Really. Hmmm.

Since you have now brought them into what might have been our intimate life, I'm wondering just how much room there would be for me, or if I'm going to be just another one of the pubic scalps you seem to be collecting?

Oh, you can accommodate another lover? My dear, of that I now have no doubt whatsoever.

LMAO. This reminds me of Lil' Kim's How many licks 😛

LOL @ pisces.

I THAK GREAT OFENCE MAN WHOREING IS AN OLD TRADITION AND VERY RESPECTED IN SOME PLACES