Men,What turns you off in women?

It can be whatever!!
Mine are- tom boys...I love prissy girly girls that love wearing pink and stilettos..😉
Women that wear tennis shoes all the time..even girly girls that wear them!!
Women that love to argue and fight all the time!! Big turn off!!
Gold diggers!! Let me do for you....get your hands out my pockets..🙂
No personality and takes life too serious!! Big turn off for me..I like a fun bubbly woman that likes too laugh..🙂
Thats about it for me...I ain't that complicated..😉

Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

. Let me borrow your #8 ..😉

All things GC.

Posted by enfant_terrible
All things GC.

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Posted by jeannegrey
I love how the ladies had this thread first and now the guys are copying.... hah.

The women had this— 🙂

Women that bring up old stuff other people did....hahahahahahahaha...😉

Posted by AVG

Posted by enfant_terrible
All things GC.

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She goes by the name of Bright Lights now.

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

So she should cook, clean, be a submissive introvert and just stfu? 😄

You're in for a bumpy ride, sonny.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

So she should cook, clean, be a submissive introvert and just stfu? 😄

You're in for a bumpy ride, sonny.

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Nah I just like a traditional woman. I don't want a slave, just someone who knows her place that's all.

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG

Posted by jeannegrey
I love how the ladies had this thread first and now the guys are copying.... hah.

The women had this— 🙂

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I don't care,I don't care...😉

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG

Gold diggers!! Let me do for you....get your hands out my pockets..🙂

This is hilarious... especially coupled with this....

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

SO ... let me get this straight:

She shouldn't want *YOUR* money... but should be submissive, obedient and need you...and not work, (I am guessing...) so she can cook/clean all the time? Hmm......

SO how is she supposed to eat again? .....— LOL. You guys are cute 😉

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I would be the breadwinner 😉.

Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

Posted by aime7

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

So she should cook, clean, be a submissive introvert and just stfu? 😄

You're in for a bumpy ride, sonny.

Nah I just like a traditional woman. I don't want a slave, just someone who knows her place that's all.

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Ur either an aries or an aquarian that my dude is control no matter how u put that lol

Posted by caliber

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

um 'scuse me, no one is going to be your slave, dear.

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We'll see ;D

To answer the OP, someone who:

Lacks depth
Always is seeking validation
Cannot admit to and own their own faults
Displays cruelty of character
Focuses on the frivolous things
Has no sense of humor
Cannot appreciate the simple things in life
Is slovenly (aka doesn't bother with the basics like personal hygiene, etc.)
Displays "user of others" characteristics
Expects her way, every time

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by aime7

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

So she should cook, clean, be a submissive introvert and just stfu? 😄

You're in for a bumpy ride, sonny.

Nah I just like a traditional woman. I don't want a slave, just someone who knows her place that's all.

Ur either an aries or an aquarian that my dude is control no matter how u put that lol

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I'm a late Cap if that accounts for anything.

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

Haha exactly... do they want a submissive wimp for a partner?

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

This is awesome... all of it... great stuff, really. You guys are what .. like 19 y/o? LOL.

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Don't be mad at me for telling the truth...some women do like being submissive!! What's so wrong with being submissive ...if you like being a independent woman and strong in the relationship like a man,that's your preference!! Ain't nobody hating you for that..but don't hate a women that wanna be the total oppsite of that..I'm just saying..🙂

Posted by aime7

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by aime7

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by aime7
Turn offs: High maintenance
Stuck up
Nagger
Can't cook
Can't clean
Extreme extrovert
Demanding
Not submissive

So she should cook, clean, be a submissive introvert and just stfu? 😄

You're in for a bumpy ride, sonny.

Nah I just like a traditional woman. I don't want a slave, just someone who knows her place that's all.

Ur either an aries or an aquarian that my dude is control no matter how u put that lol

I'm a late Cap if that accounts for anything.

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ok well that means u mean well with what u r saying lol carry on

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

This is awesome... all of it... great stuff, really. You guys are what .. like 19 y/o? LOL.

Don't be mad at me for telling the truth...some women do like being submissive!! What's so wrong with being submissive ...if you like being a independent woman and strong in the relationship like a man,that's your preference!! Ain't nobody hating you for that..but don't hate a women that wanna be the total oppsite of that..I'm just saying..🙂

Oh I def don't !!! Believe me... but no woman .. no matter how submissive a person she is..wants to be told she is a slave. LOL. HAHA.

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I don't think he said slave...rabbit did..🙂

3rd page and already passive aggression and assumptions made on "TURN OFFS".

Can not say I'm surprised in the least.

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by AVG

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

This is awesome... all of it... great stuff, really. You guys are what .. like 19 y/o? LOL.

Don't be mad at me for telling the truth...some women do like being submissive!! What's so wrong with being submissive ...if you like being a independent woman and strong in the relationship like a man,that's your preference!! Ain't nobody hating you for that..but don't hate a women that wanna be the total oppsite of that..I'm just saying..🙂

U can
Be a strong Independent women who respects her man. Submissive not so much but understands compromise.

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That's true ...but strong independent ain't submissive ...sorry!!

Posted by DonAmanMarat
If anything you should be turned off by yourself...

Women will be and always act, react based on the MEN in her lifetime.


You can't expect a WOMEN to get her shit straight...if you've been a loser for YOUR entire life!

BE A LEADER, NOT FOLLOWER!

. Who are you talking too?

Posted by DonAmanMarat

Posted by AVG

Posted by DonAmanMarat
If anything you should be turned off by yourself...

Women will be and always act, react based on the MEN in her lifetime.


You can't expect a WOMEN to get her shit straight...if you've been a loser for YOUR entire life!

BE A LEADER, NOT FOLLOWER!

. Who are you talking too?

Whomever makes these idiotic turn on/turn off threads.

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If don't nothing turns you off about a woman,why are you committing??

Posted by starlover
Only very strong men can handle strong women ~ it takes maturity and balls


Wait till you meet one guys and she knocks your feet from under you


:~))

. This is not true,because strong women only really date weak men that they can boss around..🙂

Posted by AVG

Posted by starlover
Only very strong men can handle strong women ~ it takes maturity and balls


Wait till you meet one guys and she knocks your feet from under you


:~))

. This is not true,because strong women only really date weak men that they can boss around..🙂

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More often than not at least.

We don't really need no list approved by women!! Thanks..😉

Posted by starlover
Only very strong men can handle strong women ~ it takes maturity and balls


Wait till you meet one guys and she knocks your feet from under you


:~))

It's not that I can't handle strong women, it's just that they aren't appealing to me.

Posted by aime7

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

Haha exactly... do they want a submissive wimp for a partner?

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So in your world, it's either one or the other? You see relationships are power-struggles?

Posted by starlover

Posted by AVG

Posted by starlover
Only very strong men can handle strong women ~ it takes maturity and balls


Wait till you meet one guys and she knocks your feet from under you


:~))

. This is not true,because strong women only really date weak men that they can boss around..🙂

Ewwwwww not at all ~~ that is no challenge or fun
lol

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. It's true tho,and you know it..

Why is men on here going back and forth with another man about his list...stop tryna get brownie points and stfu!! 😉

Posted by Impulsv
No true at all u equate strong with bossy two different things.

Bossy = Weak in my honest opinion.
You Command Respect not Demand it.

You should be following a leader who you believe can handle things. Can bare the burdens of the job and has the skill and will to thrive doing it.

As a follower, you can leave at any if you don't trust in their leadership anymore.

This whole submissive slave bs pisses me off.
You GIVE people power over you. You ALLOW them to lead you. You CHOOSE to obey them.

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by Impulsv
No true at all u equate strong with bossy two different things.

Bossy = Weak in my honest opinion.
You Command Respect not Demand it.

You should be following a leader who you believe can handle things. Can bare the burdens of the job and has the skill and will to thrive doing it.

As a follower, you can leave at any if you don't trust in their leadership anymore.

This whole submissive slave bs pisses me off.
You GIVE people power over you. You ALLOW them to lead you. You CHOOSE to obey them.

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Why do a woman choosing too be a certain way piss you off? Just curious ...

Well I'm not a man obviously but I do like women... So I guess I can give my opinion?

The biggest turn off is girls with no hygiene. You could be wearing the most expensive ensemble, but if you clearly have lazy hygiene I'll be really turned off.
Another turn off regardless of gender is lack of ambition.

Posted by size zero superhero
My 2 cents...

Expecting women/wives to do their part in maintaining the household & doing their share of chores is not unreasonable, IMO. Not at all.
However, since modern life requires both the husband & wife to bring home the bacon & work for a living in MOST households, traditional ways have been rendered obsolete. Back in the era when the responsibility of completing domestic tasks fell solely upon women(while men were out earning a living all day)far fewer women/mothers had careers, thus they had ample time/energy to clean & prepare homecooked meals.

Therefore, tradition in that sense has been rendered obsolete with the increasing number of married women working full-time jobs out of necessity to keep up with the cost of living. Nowadays, BOTH the husband & wife must pitch in with household chores if they don't want to live in their own filth.

One last point to make--the men that expect "their woman" to tackle the mundane domestic chores, cooking, cleaning & the like; yet are clueless when it comes to tasks like repairing appliances, fixing/maintaining vehicles, building things, yardwork?
GIRL, BYE.

. We didn't really ask for your 2 cents..haha..😉

Posted by Feistypisces777
Well I'm not a man obviously but I do like women... So I guess I can give my opinion?

The biggest turn off is girls with no hygiene. You could be wearing the most expensive ensemble, but if you clearly have lazy hygiene I'll be really turned off.
Another turn off regardless of gender is lack of ambition.

Cute..🙂

Posted by AVG
Why do a woman choosing too be a certain way piss you off? Just curious ...

Submissive women do not piss me off.
Nor do aggressive women.

What get's me is the projection, demonetization, ignorance and inability to see things outside their own perspectives.

To be honest it's more people than woman-centric, pet peeve.
I supposed it's illogical to feel this way, but feelings are feelings man.
Plus the laws of cause and effect can seem very cruel to those wo don't know how it works.

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by AVG
Why do a woman choosing too be a certain way piss you off? Just curious ...

Submissive women do not piss me off.
Nor do aggressive women.

What get's me is the projection, demonetization, ignorance and inability to see things outside their own perspectives.

To be honest it's more people than woman-centric, pet peeve.
I supposed it's illogical to feel this way, but feelings are feelings man.
Plus the laws of cause and effect can seem very cruel to those wo don't know how it works.

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I just wanted too know why you felt so strongly about it,that's it....I really just created this thread too be funny with the female thread!! But you know men can't have a thread in peace,without the big bad women of dxp coming in and tryna change shit up!! Hahaha ..🙂

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by DonAmanMarat
If anything you should be turned off by yourself...

Women will be and always act, react based on the MEN in her lifetime.


You can't expect a WOMEN to get her shit straight...if you've been a loser for YOUR entire life!

BE A LEADER, NOT FOLLOWER!

Once again, another one of DON's finer moments of hitting the nail on the head... thank you DON!

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Don didn't hit shit on the head!! Everybody is untitled too their opinion ...so if don don't have no turn off in women...he should've kept the lil bullshit to himself ..🙂

I don't consider yardwork a mans job size zero lol

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by aime7

Posted by AVG
Some women like being submissive ....leave amine alone..haha..

Haha exactly... do they want a submissive wimp for a partner?

So in your world, it's either one or the other? You see relationships are power-struggles?

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Yup.

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by AVG
We didn't really ask for your 2 cents..haha..😉

Given the number of men who so generously chimed in on the women's turnoff thread, I figure requests aren't mandatory for participation in this thread, either.

😄

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. I really didn't read the women's thread,but I'm sure the men weren't tryna make the women seem like the opinions they were making was the worst shit in the world!! 🙂

I hate brown nose motherfuckers!!

Posted by AVG
I just wanted too know why you felt so strongly about it,that's it....I really just created this thread too be funny with the female thread!! But you know men can't have a thread in peace,without the big bad women of dxp coming in and tryna change shit up!! Hahaha ..🙂

Meh, satire read too much like real life.
Pissed my Saturnian nature off.

They just want attention/amusement. Nothing new. -shrugs-

Posted by AVG
I hate brown nosing motherfuckers!!

All actions have consequence. In the end, they'll pay the price and reap what they sow.
Reality cares not if they thought it was a good idea at the time or not.

Posted by GreyRobe
i hate clingy and overly emotional type of women. I also hate women who are disloyal and greedy. My ideal woman would be passionate, confident and loyal. I need someone who has staying power and has great passion for me and for life in general. I think all men want a women we can be proud of at the end of the day. I also love women who have a good sense of humor and like to have deep discussions on a variety of topics.

i would say something like earthy/fire with some air is my ideal type of chick. water is good but in little doses.

Cancer Sun/Taurus Moon
Leo Mars/Cancer Venus?
That work for you?

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by AVG


😄

. I really didn't read the women's thread,but I'm sure the men weren't tryna make the women seem like the opinions they were making was the worst shit in the world!! 🙂

And what exactly makes you so sure of that?

Matter of fact, there was plenty of defensiveness coming from men in that thread, guys who believed women had no right to hold them to expectations(many of which were actually basic, obvious standards i.e. no control freaks, no dirty slobs need apply).

You don't seem to take it too well when others question or disagree with the points brought up in this thread, AVG.

Whether the one challenging the responses is a fellow guy like DonAman, or female DXPers, you're all "...then don't reply! stay out of this thread! nobody asked you!" as though they're conspiring against you & making personal attacks.

It ain't THAT serious..




. I know it ain't that serious,so why do women make it?)

I'm done attacking,so carry on...😉

Posted by Impulsv

It's an easy life to lead when ull never take responsibility for ur actions or decision . Were is the courage in that?

None to be found.
To me that seems more childish than liking candy or cartoons.