Moody

So, I have no idea what my deal is, but this past month, I'm moody as hell. If I don't care for the conversation at hand with whomever it is with, I'll respond with a short answer and just walk away. My good friend invited that girl over again who drank all my wine that I posted about in a different thread, and when he was on the phone with her, I told him to tell her to bring her own wine to drink. He looked at me like that was the rudest thing ever, and I told him it's rude to not only come over once empty handed and drink all my wine, but even more so twice...which is exactly what she did AGAIN.

At work, I don't want to talk to anyone, so I avoid eye contact. I guess in a nutshell, I'm a straight bitch to people right now. If they say something that I don't care for, I'll snap back with a reason. Usually I'm easy peezy, and fun all the time... now, look out people, you never know when that charming smile of mine will turn into a roar.

What is you sun/moon?

Ive seen you post before, I just don't know much about you.

Hello Montgomery. I am an Aquarius Sun and a Cancer moon.

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Hello Montgomery. I am an Aquarius Sun and a Cancer moon.

Oh that's interesting.

I imagine you would have some conflicting emotions or personality traits.

I can understand that-- but the wine thing... that would aggravate me even if I was in a good mood.

Give me fair warning, I'll go get you one (or two) of your own-- or be a dear and bring the next round yourself.

:/

Ok, I thought maybe I was a bit tough regarding the wine thing. The first time she was invited over, it was kind of last minute, ok fine, but she didn't even save me one glass. The second time she was invited over, she had plenty of time to have gone by the store and get herself some wine. However, she didn't, and she drank my wine and finished the bottle again. If she were my friend, I wouldn't be so bent out of shape about it, but I hardly know her. I told my friend it's simple manners, why am I the bad guy for wanting her to bring her own wine. I'm tired of buying myself wine, to only have her drink it all and to have to buy myself more, when I don't even care for the girl. Ugh, still a sore subject.

Yes, I sometimes find that I have 2 personalities, and can only imagine how confusing it can be for some people. One minute, detached and it appears that I could care less... the next, full of emotion and sassy. However, these days, the sassy seems to be dominant.

Are you trying to be nice for any reason? Why are you making yourself out to be the bad guy. If some girl I don't even know raids my stash and drinks my shit, I'd kick her out immediately.

Hi aquasnoz: Yes, I see your point; however, I'm usually the happy go lucky drink whatever you want, do whatever you want, life is too short for me to get bent out of shape over wine type. Instead, it's the latter, I'm annoyed as hell, even now. I guess I feel like the bad guy, because my two friends looked at me like a crazy person when I told him to tell her to bring her own wine so she doesn't drink all mine again. Yes, I said it with sass, but that's how I felt.

Then may I suggest you're feeling moody because you're letting others trample over your kindness? Friends don't just take from you, they give back to you as well, not that I'm saying I understand your friendship dynamics.

You may also be an enabler for freeloading behaviour just a thought.

aquasnoz: That very well could be possible. Perhaps I have reached my limit, if you will, and am now rebelling 😉

I don't know much, if anything, about the Saturn and Jupiter action going on, but that could be it also if it effects moods :-)