Moulding chameleon

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Orchidee on Thursday, July 27, 2017 and has 38 replies.
Would you date a woman or man who has no interests or individuality of their own.

I'm currently dating a guy who tells me "me too" everytime I share an interest of mine with him. He doesn't mention what his interests are. Even when I ask, he averts the topic. I feel like this guy has no personality of his own and just moulds himself into whatever the girl he likes is interested in. Even when we go out, I'm always picking where I'm going and he's open to wherever I take him. I feel like I'm dating a teddy bear that tags along with me to everything I want to do.
Boring
Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Posted by Astrology101
Posted by Orchidee
Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
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That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Posted by Impulsv
Is he really into you?

Might be like don't swear the little things

It doesn't matter
He's that ultra hopeless romantic who basically bends to the liking of his gfs. From what I gather from his stories, it seems like he was also "really into

his exes" that he was going along with what they wanted to do.

Posted by The_Ands
Find me the girl version
Damn! You basically want to date yourself?

Posted by Astrology101
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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
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No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


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Find me the girl version
Damn! You basically want to date yourself?

Not me

I'm a dick

But someone agreeable
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You're essentially just talking about yourself and this person is just a yes person that validates you. Where's the love?

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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

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Libra

Posted by Impulsv
I tend to be this way atthat star when I'm really into someone

That's onceeveey ten years lol

But i see it like it doesn't matter where we go

I do havehobbie n interest but I don't feel it makes a huge difference were we go to eatlol
I'm assuming just at the beginning only right? Even at the beginning, I would like to know the experiences and the world of the person that I'm getting with. All he wants to do is mould into me so badly that I feel like I'm dating an obsessive copycat.

He's met my family and friends and has hung out with me and my friends. The only thing is I have yet to meet his friends. I feel like he doesn't have friends. Does discuss any friends

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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

They don't like clashes and agree to everything. Piss him off.. you will see the agreeableness go out the window.

Be unfair. Should unleash the monster underneath. ??

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Good plan. I'm going to piss him off to see what lies beneath that agreeable facade.

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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

lol I'm libra stellium
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Guess astrology is onto something. I'm a libra moon and I have people pleasing skills too but this guy is overthe top. Maybe it's a libra sin thing

That is totally creepy and weird.
Yea I have a lot of hobbies and interests so I'd prolly have a lot in common with just anyone haha
He might be a serial killer. Keep your eyes open ?
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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

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No and stop promoting no standards.

Posted by GC02
Can I ask why your dating him, if you dislike him so much?
Because I'm attracted to him physically. But I also want substance. We're in the initial stages where you get to know one another and what I'm discovering is he has no personality. So I won't be dating him for long.

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Posted by Astrology101
Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

Tiz gets it @Astrology101
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No! People with no personalities usually go along with everything while secretly resenting things they didn't want to do, but were too cowardly to say it. We hung out last week and afterward he seemed upset about something. Like a typical passive mould, he didn't want to go where I suggested but didn't say a thing. He ended up going with me only to sulk about it later on. Pfft.

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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

Tiz gets it @Astrology101
Yeap apparently no one read that part where she stated she would not get in bed with a guy with no personality. ??
Haha it doesn't matter. "You never know" he's a daring dude

That's his personality. Not having one would be acting different and over thinking it.

He's just like "you like cereal? Me too, you're hot, let's bang"
Yeap maybe that is his personality. It is what it is.

But if she is gonna bang him because of his personality is still to be seen.

Sex is a great way to get to know someone , maybe not the best but definitely top 3
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Wow! Some serious thirsties on my post. Not everyone hits the sack without knowing someone.

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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

No and stop promoting no standards.

I don't even know what that means. Hey it's your thread.

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I'd clarify but it's quite obvious you have no standards when it comes to dating.

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Posted by bumboklatt
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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

She said she wouldn't go to bed with a guy with no personality. It's in page 1.

She could change her mind.. you never know.
Oh right, my bad.

See you liked her giving a teddy bear nick... that's what she wants too...

Lil bit of his personality.


Maybe his personality is to mould though lol

Anyway pure speculation, I'm sure they'll come to an arrangement.

Yeap could be that. Maybe his personality is the agreeable kind.

Could be anything.

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Yes! He's very agreeable and I don't know who's attracted to that?! It baffles me. If I wanted to date myself, I'd remain single.
Posted by EvilHare
He sounds like he puts the kitty on a pedestal.
He definitely does based on the stories I've heard of his exes.
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Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by Astrology101
Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
Oh
He's focused on what he wants. Maybe he will get somewhere
He's getting nowhere..

If you go by what the OP is saying.

He's going to yes land. Alone.
She might have sex with him out of pure resentment or to see if he breaks in bed, you never know.

Tiz gets it @Astrology101
Yeap apparently no one read that part where she stated she would not get in bed with a guy with no personality. ??
Haha it doesn't matter. "You never know" he's a daring dude

That's his personality. Not having one would be acting different and over thinking it.

He's just like "you like cereal? Me too, you're hot, let's bang"
Yeap maybe that is his personality. It is what it is.

But if she is gonna bang him because of his personality is still to be seen.

Sex is a great way to get to know someone , maybe not the best but definitely top 3
Also a great way to get attached to someone you don't want to be attached to..

Also a great way to realize the person bores you..

Also a great way to catch diaeases..

Also a great way to be a fuck toy to someone while he/she doesn't open up...

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LOL. I can't believe you had to spell the obvious out to him.

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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

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HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
That's exactly that. He's so into her/the new bit that he's going to say/do anything that keeps her around.

Watch him flip a bitch in 3-4 months and decide he's not that into her. Libra or not, dudes who do this shit are ones to avoid.
Posted by Orchidee
Would you date a woman or man who has no interests or individuality of their own.

I'm currently dating a guy who tells me "me too" everytime I share an interest of mine with him. He doesn't mention what his interests are. Even when I ask, he averts the topic. I feel like this guy has no personality of his own and just moulds himself into whatever the girl he likes is interested in. Even when we go out, I'm always picking where I'm going and he's open to wherever I take him. I feel like I'm dating a teddy bear that tags along with me to everything I want to do.
Nah, that'd drive me crazy.
Posted by The_Ands
I just wanna bang all day and order pizza

Me too

Marry me
Will you eat pizza while banging?
I can't stand this trait in people

Some people seem to love it though. Especially in social groups

It's so annoying
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Posted by Impulsv
Is he really into you?

Might be like don't swear the little things

It doesn't matter
He's that ultra hopeless romantic who basically bends to the liking of his gfs. From what I gather from his stories, it seems like he was also "really into

his exes" that he was going along with what they wanted to do.

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I am the same way and it's not because I have no personality. DUH??? ?

If I fell for man who plotting to rub bank - I would work with him on how to...

If henis in sport - I would cheer him on the bleachers and learn all names of his teammates and rules of the game.

If he will paint - I will hold his brushes...

But if I don't like him - I wouldn't even spend his money...if he begs me...?
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Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
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Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

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Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

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People pleasers are the worst though. That passive aggressive shit, along with just going with everyone without voicing their issues, it just all festers and you get a really hostile, resentful person who just goes around acting like the world is so shitty to them. The reality is that they just need to speak the hell up and say "no" once in awhile.

This dude is likely being a huge freaking kiss ass because he wants to get his dick wet. Things will be fine and dandy for awhile, but then he'll flip a bitch on you.

But what you basically pointed out is red flags ahoy.

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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
That's exactly that. He's so into her/the new bit that he's going to say/do anything that keeps her around.

Watch him flip a bitch in 3-4 months and decide he's not that into her. Libra or not, dudes who do this shit are ones to avoid.
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The fact that his relationships last a year, only, I'd say he's someone who likes the honeymooner phase of the relationship and once things settle down and reality sets in, he leaves.

He introduced me to his family and it seems that he introduces all his gfs to his family in a short period of time, like within 6 months. I just feel like I'm nothing special and one of many.


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Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

People pleasers are the worst though. That passive aggressive shit, along with just going with everyone without voicing their issues, it just all festers and you get a really hostile, resentful person who just goes around acting like the world is so shitty to them. The reality is that they just need to speak the hell up and say "no" once in awhile.

This dude is likely being a huge freaking kiss ass because he wants to get his dick wet. Things will be fine and dandy for awhile, but then he'll flip a bitch on you.

But what you basically pointed out is red flags ahoy.

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It seems like you're an expert on these type of men because everything you said here is true. He complains all the time about everyone in his life. He's very resentful of his life and how it's turned out. Nothing is ever his fault and no responsibility for his actions.

I'm keeping myself detached and curious to see when he'll flip a switch with me.

Posted by Azlann
I can't stand this trait in people

Some people seem to love it though. Especially in social groups

It's so annoying
Dating people like that is like having your own personal fan that you carry around who validate you amongst people.

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Posted by bumboklatt
He just wants to bang

What a trooper
That's exactly that. He's so into her/the new bit that he's going to say/do anything that keeps her around.

Watch him flip a bitch in 3-4 months and decide he's not that into her. Libra or not, dudes who do this shit are ones to avoid.
The fact that his relationships last a year, only, I'd say he's someone who likes the honeymooner phase of the relationship and once things settle down and reality sets in, he leaves.

He introduced me to his family and it seems that he introduces all his gfs to his family in a short period of time, like within 6 months. I just feel like I'm nothing special and one of many.


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Yeeah, that's a typical MO of an immature/emotionally fucked up Libra guy. I went through the same thing with one and I was constantly having to hit the brakes with the guy.

But overall, anyone who moves that fast is not one to be trusted.

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Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

People pleasers are the worst though. That passive aggressive shit, along with just going with everyone without voicing their issues, it just all festers and you get a really hostile, resentful person who just goes around acting like the world is so shitty to them. The reality is that they just need to speak the hell up and say "no" once in awhile.

This dude is likely being a huge freaking kiss ass because he wants to get his dick wet. Things will be fine and dandy for awhile, but then he'll flip a bitch on you.

But what you basically pointed out is red flags ahoy.

It seems like you're an expert on these type of men because everything you said here is true. He complains all the time about everyone in his life. He's very resentful of his life and how it's turned out. Nothing is ever his fault and no responsibility for his actions.

I'm keeping myself detached and curious to see when he'll flip a switch with me.

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I've had my experience with Libras my whole life, whether it be family, friends, or dating. It was getting really freaky weird how many were in my life.

I've also spent time reading topics in the Libra forum and it all starts to sound the same after awhile, which is a shame. Overall, Libra guys aren't bad per se, but the dating pool is polluted with immature, emotionally fucked up individuals who bring out the worst traits of their sign. Libra guys who are like this fit all these things you've described.
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Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

People pleasers are the worst though. That passive aggressive shit, along with just going with everyone without voicing their issues, it just all festers and you get a really hostile, resentful person who just goes around acting like the world is so shitty to them. The reality is that they just need to speak the hell up and say "no" once in awhile.

This dude is likely being a huge freaking kiss ass because he wants to get his dick wet. Things will be fine and dandy for awhile, but then he'll flip a bitch on you.

But what you basically pointed out is red flags ahoy.

It seems like you're an expert on these type of men because everything you said here is true. He complains all the time about everyone in his life. He's very resentful of his life and how it's turned out. Nothing is ever his fault and no responsibility for his actions.

I'm keeping myself detached and curious to see when he'll flip a switch with me.

I've had my experience with Libras my whole life, whether it be family, friends, or dating. It was getting really freaky weird how many were in my life.

I've also spent time reading topics in the Libra forum and it all starts to sound the same after awhile, which is a shame. Overall, Libra guys aren't bad per se, but the dating pool is polluted with immature, emotionally fucked up individuals who bring out the worst traits of their sign. Libra guys who are like this fit all these things you've described.
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Damn shame because he's physically very attractive. What a waste of perfectly good looks.

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Posted by Orchidee
Posted by Astrology101
Tell him you want to try something risque... and if he says me too... make him do it. ??
I won't be headed to the bedroom if he keeps up with this no personality of his.

Say bungee jumping.. or sky diving. ??
That's a good idea. Since I know he fears heights, I know he won't say "me too" this time. LOL

Would you date someone like this?

Is that the only thing he says?... I'd just mimic and annoy the hell out of him ... if he keeps repeating me.
No,he talks about other things, more like complains about his life than sharing what he likes to do. It's like he doesn't like to do anything but complain and wallow in self-pity. And when I talk about my interests, he gets all fascinated and says me too to all of them.


Oh no... now I feel sad.

What's his sign?

Libra

HAHAHA.

Omg, I read the first post and was about to just respond "this sounds like a Libra."

Decided to wade through comments first.

You might want to run. This ish isn't going to get any better.
Yeah, it's getting worse by the minute. I'm going to be breaking it off.

People pleasers are the worst though. That passive aggressive shit, along with just going with everyone without voicing their issues, it just all festers and you get a really hostile, resentful person who just goes around acting like the world is so shitty to them. The reality is that they just need to speak the hell up and say "no" once in awhile.

This dude is likely being a huge freaking kiss ass because he wants to get his dick wet. Things will be fine and dandy for awhile, but then he'll flip a bitch on you.

But what you basically pointed out is red flags ahoy.

It seems like you're an expert on these type of men because everything you said here is true. He complains all the time about everyone in his life. He's very resentful of his life and how it's turned out. Nothing is ever his fault and no responsibility for his actions.

I'm keeping myself detached and curious to see when he'll flip a switch with me.

I've had my experience with Libras my whole life, whether it be family, friends, or dating. It was getting really freaky weird how many were in my life.

I've also spent time reading topics in the Libra forum and it all starts to sound the same after awhile, which is a shame. Overall, Libra guys aren't bad per se, but the dating pool is polluted with immature, emotionally fucked up individuals who bring out the worst traits of their sign. Libra guys who are like this fit all these things you've described.
Damn shame because he's physically very attractive. What a waste of perfectly good looks.

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Right?

It's a shame when a personality destroys someone's looks.