My life just got weird
This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Soul on Saturday, April 22, 2017 and has 33 replies.
I mean like 100 times worse then it already was. All I can do is look up into the sky and ask the planet's why they have aligned this way? What kind of test am I taking this time? Why?
Basically my Capricorn ex and her bf moved in right next to me. So what's the big deal? She absolutely loves me but I can't be around her. She is like the worst person on the face of this earth for me. Her and her bf are perfect which is great. I've passed her up many times because I just can't deal with her fucking drama, need for attention, and huge friend circle. Every time I'm around her she somehow tricks me, and before I know it I'm fucking her and leaving a trail of drama in my wake. She wants me to come over and hang out with her and her bf...
This is when shit gets insane though. Right across from me is another Capricorn female. Idk what her bf is, but that bf is also the ex of my Capricorn ex. Both cap woman despise each other. So my neighborhood is just a clusterfuck of drama. It was already kind of weird living across the street of the woman who's dating the guy who dated the girl I previously dated, but now that exact girl is right next to both of us! I like drama when it's not my own, but right now I down even want to go home. I'm truly afraid and paranoid of what's to come.
Basically my Capricorn ex and her bf moved in right next to me. So what's the big deal? She absolutely loves me but I can't be around her. She is like the worst person on the face of this earth for me. Her and her bf are perfect which is great. I've passed her up many times because I just can't deal with her fucking drama, need for attention, and huge friend circle. Every time I'm around her she somehow tricks me, and before I know it I'm fucking her and leaving a trail of drama in my wake. She wants me to come over and hang out with her and her bf...
This is when shit gets insane though. Right across from me is another Capricorn female. Idk what her bf is, but that bf is also the ex of my Capricorn ex. Both cap woman despise each other. So my neighborhood is just a clusterfuck of drama. It was already kind of weird living across the street of the woman who's dating the guy who dated the girl I previously dated, but now that exact girl is right next to both of us! I like drama when it's not my own, but right now I down even want to go home. I'm truly afraid and paranoid of what's to come.
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Is it possible to be normal friends with your ex?
Did she know that you lived there? that shit is wierd & fucked up if she did.. imo
Things were so quiet and peaceful. I was hidden and safe. Now I'm exposed and honestly afraid. She's the type that gets what she wants. She's persistent and clever. I can't do shit because nothing works. Hiding doesn't work, intimidation doesn't work. She's the fucking devil and my parents love her! I want to go to the bar or somthing but decided the other day to quit drinking. But idk where to go. I need to wait till sundown, but she invited me to come over for a fire and met her bf and catch up. I'll have to wait till late night but where? I'm literally sitting in the parking lot of Wal-Mart because idk where to go. And even if I avoid her tonight that's only one night. What about tomorrow or the next day? Or the days after that? I'm going to have to move away but where? I have nothing to go on, I'm broke. I'm trapped. No control over what's happening. I'll have to just zone it out. Be mature and as peaceful as possible. Not fall for anything stupid. I'm stronger then that now. I have full control over my situation. Ah I feel a bit better won't lie.
Posted by justagirlShe didn't. I noticed her first. Just all chance. Also the house she moved into is the same house my grandparents lived in when I was a baby. I have a ton of baby pictures in the same house she moved into.
Did she know that you lived there? that shit is wierd & fucked up if she did.. imo
Posted by Souldam dude...Posted by justagirlShe didn't. I noticed her first. Just all chance. Also the house she moved into is the same house my grandparents lived in when I was a baby. I have a ton of baby pictures in the same house she moved into.
Did she know that you lived there? that shit is wierd & fucked up if she did.. imoclick to expand
I can't imagine it being based soley on coincidence if she stil has feelings for you, and there was hella drama.
You really don't think there was anyway she could've gotten your adddress?
I'd go home, but don't say anything if there is any attempt to communicate or hang out with you. Keep in eye out. Creepy AF.
You really don't think there was anyway she could've gotten your adddress?
I'd go home, but don't say anything if there is any attempt to communicate or hang out with you. Keep in eye out. Creepy AF.
Posted by SoulTBH, i would just tell her that you don't think its a good idea.wish her the best and cut it off. there is nothing that says you have to be friends with an ex.
Things were so quiet and peaceful. I was hidden and safe. Now I'm exposed and honestly afraid. She's the type that gets what she wants. She's persistent and clever. I can't do shit because nothing works. Hiding doesn't work, intimidation doesn't work. She's the fucking devil and my parents love her! I want to go to the bar or somthing but decided the other day to quit drinking. But idk where to go. I need to wait till sundown, but she invited me to come over for a fire and met her bf and catch up. I'll have to wait till late night but where? I'm literally sitting in the parking lot of Wal-Mart because idk where to go. And even if I avoid her tonight that's only one night. What about tomorrow or the next day? Or the days after that? I'm going to have to move away but where? I have nothing to go on, I'm broke. I'm trapped. No control over what's happening. I'll have to just zone it out. Be mature and as peaceful as possible. Not fall for anything stupid. I'm stronger then that now. I have full control over my situation. Ah I feel a bit better won't lie.
Posted by justagirlI don't want to piss her off. You don't understand. Pissing her off is the last thing anyone should do. I just have to be civil. Be cool, but don't fall for bs. Who knows maybe her bf is a cool guy. The fact is my own weakness is giving me a sense of strength. I believe I can make a chaotic situation normal.Posted by SoulTBH, i would just tell her that you don't think its a good idea.wish her the best and cut it off. there is nothing that says you have to be friends with an ex.
Things were so quiet and peaceful. I was hidden and safe. Now I'm exposed and honestly afraid. She's the type that gets what she wants. She's persistent and clever. I can't do shit because nothing works. Hiding doesn't work, intimidation doesn't work. She's the fucking devil and my parents love her! I want to go to the bar or somthing but decided the other day to quit drinking. But idk where to go. I need to wait till sundown, but she invited me to come over for a fire and met her bf and catch up. I'll have to wait till late night but where? I'm literally sitting in the parking lot of Wal-Mart because idk where to go. And even if I avoid her tonight that's only one night. What about tomorrow or the next day? Or the days after that? I'm going to have to move away but where? I have nothing to go on, I'm broke. I'm trapped. No control over what's happening. I'll have to just zone it out. Be mature and as peaceful as possible. Not fall for anything stupid. I'm stronger then that now. I have full control over my situation. Ah I feel a bit better won't lie.click to expand
Posted by EvilHareThat's what makes it worse. People are fucking wack around these parts lmao
Sounds like a typical day in WV to me...
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Posted by SoulYou are going to do what you are going to do. Someone getting pissed off over asking for respect of your boundaries is pretty fucked up.Posted by justagirlI don't want to piss her off. You don't understand. Pissing her off is the last thing anyone should do. I just have to be civil. Be cool, but don't fall for bs. Who knows maybe her bf is a cool guy. The fact is my own weakness is giving me a sense of strength. I believe I can make a chaotic situation normal.Posted by SoulTBH, i would just tell her that you don't think its a good idea.wish her the best and cut it off. there is nothing that says you have to be friends with an ex.
Things were so quiet and peaceful. I was hidden and safe. Now I'm exposed and honestly afraid. She's the type that gets what she wants. She's persistent and clever. I can't do shit because nothing works. Hiding doesn't work, intimidation doesn't work. She's the fucking devil and my parents love her! I want to go to the bar or somthing but decided the other day to quit drinking. But idk where to go. I need to wait till sundown, but she invited me to come over for a fire and met her bf and catch up. I'll have to wait till late night but where? I'm literally sitting in the parking lot of Wal-Mart because idk where to go. And even if I avoid her tonight that's only one night. What about tomorrow or the next day? Or the days after that? I'm going to have to move away but where? I have nothing to go on, I'm broke. I'm trapped. No control over what's happening. I'll have to just zone it out. Be mature and as peaceful as possible. Not fall for anything stupid. I'm stronger then that now. I have full control over my situation. Ah I feel a bit better won't lie.click to expand
Just hope you dont get wrapped up in chaos dude.
Posted by Capri__unicornI wish this wasn't true. My heart is still inside my stomach. I just have a nervous sinking feeling. Maybe this is a sign I need to move away. Explore more of my country, or even the world.
This sounds too messy to be true. Good luck
Posted by ColdFire17Pretty much.Posted by SoulOnly if you don't wanna fuck each other anymore
Is it possible to be normal friends with your ex?click to expand
Or if they're too far away to reach you except
by phone...
... or text. :/
Time to move bro
Posted by EvilHareThank God it was the ex with no kids or addictions and not the ex with a heroin addiction and 3 kids. I would literally live in the woods under a tarp. I wish that was a joke or sarcasm too.Posted by SoulYou didn't mention anything about meth, heroin, or oxy, so at least you've got that going for you.Posted by EvilHareThat's what makes it worse. People are fucking wack around these parts lmao
Sounds like a typical day in WV to me...
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Posted by Capri__unicornLeo. I tend to not like watching people I've dated with other people. I feel it's long gone now, but there have been a few times where being just friends was the only reason we were hanging out, but then out of no where we're naked and playing in the shower or something. The flame feels relit, but in reality it was nothing more then a random spark. By then everything around us is on fire though. Her and I have been a recipe for disaster since day 1.Posted by SoulI've been in some pretty weird situations, but I've learned to fully submerge myself in them to reduce the awkwardness. I'd be cordial and go about my business. If you're not comfortable being around her and her bf say that! "Hey thanks for the invite but given our history I think it's best we just keep it cool". If she's the type of cap I am her pride will stop her from pushing the issue. I don't think moving is a bad idea but will you move everytime you run into an uncomfortable situation? This could be a once in a lifetime coincidence or it could happen again. What's your sun sign btwPosted by Capri__unicornI wish this wasn't true. My heart is still inside my stomach. I just have a nervous sinking feeling. Maybe this is a sign I need to move away. Explore more of my country, or even the world.
This sounds too messy to be true. Good luckclick to expand
Posted by nanobyteYes. Nothing more. Idk why I freak out about things so much. Its nothing. I should stop being such a nervous worrier. I just can't believe fate would lead me to such a weird point. But that's all it is really. Just a random though very odd point in my life.
Just tell her that you don't want to get involved? That you aren't interested in being in contact and want things to be civil since you are neighbors, but you are neighbors now and nothing more?
Posted by KoniuchaaNo kiDding!
Ugh, neighbors are the worst
I can't look away from your train wreck....
Posted by DistilledTbh, I just spend the last hour in Wal-Mart parking lot puffing one. A nice fresh $ 13 Ashton. I'll admit I feel much more sane the prior to it.
Damn.
I know ya quit drinking... Maybe a cigar in this case cuz you got a long minute.
That's some shit.
Posted by TheLibraMudraIf I was Her bf I'd be packing up as we speak. Idk why her bf doesn't care a single bit whatsoever that she's talking to me. That's why they are perfect together. She can't be changed or controlled, and he isn't bothered by her.
I'll never understand the need to hang out with my ex and current SO in the same space lol
Posted by TaurusinTexasWhen it comes to train wrecks I've quite literally been served a raw cock.
I can't look away from your train wreck....
Posted by DistilledGood advice. It's probably best to gather my thoughts and formulate a decent way to approach this. Also an Ashton is just a good cigar. It's not Cuban or anything, but they are $ 13 a piece fresh.Posted by SoulGonna be a long night. I'd suggest a run cuz adrenaline. Maybe a sleepover at a buddy's if possible. Walmart depressing as fuck.Posted by DistilledTbh, I just spend the last hour in Wal-Mart parking lot puffing one. A nice fresh $ 13 Ashton. I'll admit I feel much more sane the prior to it.
Damn.
I know ya quit drinking... Maybe a cigar in this case cuz you got a long minute.
That's some shit.
Can't solve anything in one night though.
It's your home too though. Awkward as it is. Just lay it down if need be when the time comes. Seems like no friendship there, but not for me to say.
Things play themselves out. Neighbor shit really there is not much to say.
What are Ashtons?click to expand
Maybe time for a sex change, bit drastic but at least then you won't be recognised lol
Your poor old Scorp moon must have reached its highest levels of paranoia
Your poor old Scorp moon must have reached its highest levels of paranoia
Posted by blackphaseIf you can't beat em out crazy them lol!
Shit son! I'd ignore them all. Get a blow up doll, prance around and treat her like your girlfriend.. They will all think you are beyond fucked and leave you alone
Posted by GetMistedI'll be honest she was at 140 back when I dated her. To make a long story short she's 220 now.Posted by SoulHave sex with all the women an call it even
I mean like 100 times worse then it already was. All I can do is look up into the sky and ask the planet's why they have aligned this way? What kind of test am I taking this time? Why?
Basically my Capricorn ex and her bf moved in right next to me. So what's the big deal? She absolutely loves me but I can't be around her. She is like the worst person on the face of this earth for me. Her and her bf are perfect which is great. I've passed her up many times because I just can't deal with her fucking drama, need for attention, and huge friend circle. Every time I'm around her she somehow tricks me, and before I know it I'm fucking her and leaving a trail of drama in my wake. She wants me to come over and hang out with her and her bf...
This is when shit gets insane though. Right across from me is another Capricorn female. Idk what her bf is, but that bf is also the ex of my Capricorn ex. Both cap woman despise each other. So my neighborhood is just a clusterfuck of drama. It was already kind of weird living across the street of the woman who's dating the guy who dated the girl I previously dated, but now that exact girl is right next to both of us! I like drama when it's not my own, but right now I down even want to go home. I'm truly afraid and paranoid of what's to come.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineI won't lie, I freaked the fuck out there for a bit. I didn't know how to really react, feel, or think. I'll explain what happened when I get a break from work. Lets just say I didn't make it back into my house unnoticed.
Maybe time for a sex change, bit drastic but at least then you won't be recognised lol
Your poor old Scorp moon must have reached its highest levels of paranoia
The two Cap women that don't like eachother will probably try to kill each other.
Stay away and in your zone. Don't fear her but have clear boundaries.
Stay away and in your zone. Don't fear her but have clear boundaries.
Posted by lnana04I don't know or have connections with Capricorn number 2, other then her current bf and I dated a few of the same women in the past. One of them was the Capricorn I personally was worried about when I made this thread.
The two Cap women that don't like eachother will probably try to kill each other.
Stay away and in your zone. Don't fear her but have clear boundaries.
Daaaaamn! Right on your doorstep. I'd be having panic attacks-no escape! Good luck my friend.
The thing about the Capricorn across the street from me was during winter a new car was coming to her house, and this guy was always strapped with a pistol on his side. One day the black car left, and the old bf in the white truck showed up. Then the black car came back while the white truck was still there, and 10 minutes later the cops showed up. Then the black car never came back, and shes been back with the guy in the white truck ever since. So the Capricorn I don't associate with across the street already has had drama happening, let alone now the woman she can't stand lives right next to her, and that woman dated her bf for 2 years. Which that guy is a total ass hole and lazy af. I'm surrounded by crazy people!
Anyway just for the people still reading this crap if any this is what happened the night I came home. Basically I said fuck being afraid to face this situation and drove home. I'll admit I was hoping they wouldn't be outside having a fire, but as I turned on my street I could see the flames. I was like well time to face her and her bf and try to make this a little awkward as possible. I parked, got out of my truck, and started walking towards the fire. Let me add she and her bf wanted and expected me to stop by prior to this. She told me through text while I was hiding. Anyway my ex said "Yay!" and jumped out of her chair. I said howdy neighbours! Then was attacked by a hug. I shook her bfs hand and told him it was nice to meet him, then introduced myself. Luckily I'm a pro at weird situations, though I tend to question myself and the situation to extremes at first. It's funny because people tell me I remind them of a body guard or bouncer because I'm tall and stocky. If only they knew I'm likely more afraid of them. I mean I sat in the parking lot of Wal-Mart for 3 hours hiding from my ex ffs.
I told myself I would only stay for a few minutes just to be kind as a sign of peace, but she talked me into hanging out. They ordered pizza, and had some drinks. I said fuck it then went to my place and grabbed a chair then came back to the fire. Her bf is a super chill and passive guy, and we got along great honestly. We all started chatting and catching up, and she was talking loud as fuck mind you. Just so many crazy stories and not to mention that damn attitude. A few times I just thought to myself this is why I could never date you. She is the type that can't be changed or controlled, and I never liked her for the way she was. Once I found out I couldn't change her I was out. He on the other hand doesn't care at all, and does like her for her. That actually makes me feel happy to see them both meshed and happy, and also gives me hope for myself in the future of finding someone I mesh with. I stopped over at 10, and didn't leave till 1. I actually had a lot of fun chatting and catching up, so I honestly feel a friendship between us all is possible. If anything just to hang out and be social. I'm really glad I stopped by and decided to make a weird situation seem normal. I feel the effects of that night will make a much better future then if I would have just kept avoiding my problems.
I told myself I would only stay for a few minutes just to be kind as a sign of peace, but she talked me into hanging out. They ordered pizza, and had some drinks. I said fuck it then went to my place and grabbed a chair then came back to the fire. Her bf is a super chill and passive guy, and we got along great honestly. We all started chatting and catching up, and she was talking loud as fuck mind you. Just so many crazy stories and not to mention that damn attitude. A few times I just thought to myself this is why I could never date you. She is the type that can't be changed or controlled, and I never liked her for the way she was. Once I found out I couldn't change her I was out. He on the other hand doesn't care at all, and does like her for her. That actually makes me feel happy to see them both meshed and happy, and also gives me hope for myself in the future of finding someone I mesh with. I stopped over at 10, and didn't leave till 1. I actually had a lot of fun chatting and catching up, so I honestly feel a friendship between us all is possible. If anything just to hang out and be social. I'm really glad I stopped by and decided to make a weird situation seem normal. I feel the effects of that night will make a much better future then if I would have just kept avoiding my problems.
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