No social media - red or green flag?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by ATGR on Sunday, March 24, 2024 and has 17 replies.
If you were interested in someone and they didn’t have social media would that be a red flag to you? Or a green flag?
Doesn’t matter to me as long as they’re good people and not toxic. I do notice they’re lest superficial or concern about being on the bandwagon which I appreciate.
Green

Posted by slug
Not bothered either way 🤷‍♀️
This. It’s okay to have an account here and there, but not post excessively.

Does dxp count for anything? 🤭
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by slug
Not bothered either way 🤷‍♀️


This. It’s okay to have an account here and there, but not post excessively.
Does dxp count for anything? 🤭
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I’m selectively not counting DXP. 😆
I've dated/known men who have no social media. Most shady guys I've ever known. Every single one of them have been cheaters. Then there are the guys who have social media but don't post a lot. They are just as bad cause they only share the bare minimum and also cheaters. They won't share they are dating anyone but their post consist of things they are doing with their gf but they act like they are there alone. The guys who share a lot usually either have a gf or a wife or they are single.

This has just been my experience. I'm sure there are exceptions but I haven't run into those people yet.

So yeah I'd say no to little social media 🚩cause wtf are they hiding.
both lol
Green
Green flag all the way for me!
Green flag all the way for me!
Posted by hoeflation
But anyway there is no darker secret than being a DXP poster so does it really matter then 🤣
The truth that dare not speak its name.
Green flag. Some people just like privacy. And a lot of young people don't use Facebook? I dunno. They think it's for boomers 🙃
Green! I deleted my FB after transitioning out of real estate Industry and created a secret IG so people wouldn't find me.
Green flag, that means they're likely interesting. Doesn't mean there won't be other red flags lol
Green

I prefer someone who isn’t glued to their phone.
Posted by SeaLion
I've dated/known men who have no social media. Most shady guys I've ever known. Every single one of them have been cheaters. Then there are the guys who have social media but don't post a lot. They are just as bad cause they only share the bare minimum and also cheaters. They won't share they are dating anyone but their post consist of things they are doing with their gf but they act like they are there alone. The guys who share a lot usually either have a gf or a wife or they are single.
This has just been my experience. I'm sure there are exceptions but I haven't run into those people yet.
So yeah I'd say no to little social media 🚩cause wtf are they hiding.


I’ve noticed this too!

Posted by jazzykid
Green
I prefer someone who isn’t glued to their phone.
Yes it’s a real turn off 🥴

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