On… and off… and on…

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by DK on Wednesday, May 25, 2022 and has 25 replies.
Did you ever have someone in your life you’re repeatedly bumping in to and who is kind of an on and off affair throughout your life?

There’s that Aries girl I know since I don’t know how many years. Whenever she has a breakup I find her on my doorstep, and whenever something goes wrong in my life she appears too out of seemingly nowhere. Together we are a quite explosive mixture but though we do care about each other we just don’t bring out the best in each other. She seems to be attracted to the darker side of my personality which I struggle to get away from as I don’t want to repeat the errors of my past. And so, we always part again. I guess we are somewhat like a drug to each other though, and like comets always approaching each other again after some time of journeying into the unknown.

Do some of you know such too?
No not like you’ve described it but people that orbit around my life, popping up again after years. I know they’ll never be anything significant.. more like a reminder of the past and why I’m where I am and doing what I’m doing today
Posted by DK

Did you ever have someone in your life you’re repeatedly bumping in to and who is kind of an on and off affair throughout your life?

There’s that Aries girl I know since I don’t know how many years. Whenever she has a breakup I find her on my doorstep, and whenever something goes wrong in my life she appears too out of seemingly nowhere. Together we are a quite explosive mixture but though we do care about each other we just don’t bring out the best in each other. She seems to be attracted to the darker side of my personality which I struggle to get away from as I don’t want to repeat the errors of my past. And so, we always part again. I guess we are somewhat like a drug to each other though, and like comets always approaching each other again after some time of journeying into the unknown.

Do some of you know such too?
Where are both your Moons?
Posted by DK

Did you ever have someone in your life you’re repeatedly bumping in to and who is kind of an on and off affair throughout your life?

There’s that Aries girl I know since I don’t know how many years. Whenever she has a breakup I find her on my doorstep, and whenever something goes wrong in my life she appears too out of seemingly nowhere. Together we are a quite explosive mixture but though we do care about each other we just don’t bring out the best in each other. She seems to be attracted to the darker side of my personality which I struggle to get away from as I don’t want to repeat the errors of my past. And so, we always part again. I guess we are somewhat like a drug to each other though, and like comets always approaching each other again after some time of journeying into the unknown.

Do some of you know such too?
You guys are probably just a crotch for each other until you find what you’re really looking for
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Posted by DK

Did you ever have someone in your life you’re repeatedly bumping in to and who is kind of an on and off affair throughout your life?

There’s that Aries girl I know since I don’t know how many years. Whenever she has a breakup I find her on my doorstep, and whenever something goes wrong in my life she appears too out of seemingly nowhere. Together we are a quite explosive mixture but though we do care about each other we just don’t bring out the best in each other. She seems to be attracted to the darker side of my personality which I struggle to get away from as I don’t want to repeat the errors of my past. And so, we always part again. I guess we are somewhat like a drug to each other though, and like comets always approaching each other again after some time of journeying into the unknown.

Do some of you know such too?


Where are both your Moons?
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I have an Aqua moon. And hers is Gemini.
Welcome to Mercury Rx my friend.

Welcome to Mercury Rx my friend.

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Posted by DK

Did you ever have someone in your life you’re repeatedly bumping in to and who is kind of an on and off affair throughout your life?

There’s that Aries girl I know since I don’t know how many years. Whenever she has a breakup I find her on my doorstep, and whenever something goes wrong in my life she appears too out of seemingly nowhere. Together we are a quite explosive mixture but though we do care about each other we just don’t bring out the best in each other. She seems to be attracted to the darker side of my personality which I struggle to get away from as I don’t want to repeat the errors of my past. And so, we always part again. I guess we are somewhat like a drug to each other though, and like comets always approaching each other again after some time of journeying into the unknown.

Do some of you know such too?


Where are both your Moons?


I have an Aqua moon. And hers is Gemini.
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I just knew by the thread title you have an Aqua moon....
One of my exes gets with women and then it goes so far and he can’t be in it any longer. He hasn’t had a functional rship for over 15yrs....

Aqua Moon.

Posted by MyStarsShine

One of my exes gets with women and then it goes so far and he can’t be in it any longer. He hasn’t had a functional rship for over 15yrs....

Aqua Moon.


Is that the Irish guy? I remembered such from long ago. That’s why I thought you were in Ireland.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

One of my exes gets with women and then it goes so far and he can’t be in it any longer. He hasn’t had a functional rship for over 15yrs....

Aqua Moon.


Is that the Irish guy? I remembered such from long ago. That’s why I thought you were in Ireland.
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No its the father of our Son.

We were together for years...

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One of my exes gets with women and then it goes so far and he can’t be in it any longer. He hasn’t had a functional rship for over 15yrs....

Aqua Moon.


Is that the Irish guy? I remembered such from long ago. That’s why I thought you were in Ireland.


No its the father of our Son.

We were together for years...
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Don’t know what to say. Having a child with someone is a whole different quality. I’m sorry to hear that.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

One of my exes gets with women and then it goes so far and he can’t be in it any longer. He hasn’t had a functional rship for over 15yrs....

Aqua Moon.


Is that the Irish guy? I remembered such from long ago. That’s why I thought you were in Ireland.


No its the father of our Son.

We were together for years...


Don’t know what to say. Having a child with someone is a whole different quality. I’m sorry to hear that.
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Thanks

He wasn’t strong enough to stay and face it. He confessed to me last night he should have fought harder...

Its interesting because my Grandad was born the same day and my father called him a coward😬
Yes & that’s why I finally blocked the Cap. I cannot have this continuing on. Every time he’s lonely like clockwork.

I’m also aqua moon lol
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Yes & that’s why I finally blocked the Cap. I cannot have this continuing on. Every time he’s lonely like clockwork.

I’m also aqua moon lol
Aqua Moon thread 😃

Where’s Cap’s Moon Roo?
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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Yes & that’s why I finally blocked the Cap. I cannot have this continuing on. Every time he’s lonely like clockwork.

I’m also aqua moon lol


Aqua Moon thread 😃

Where’s Cap’s Moon Roo?
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He’s a Virgo moon.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Yes & that’s why I finally blocked the Cap. I cannot have this continuing on. Every time he’s lonely like clockwork.

I’m also aqua moon lol


Aqua Moon thread 😃

Where’s Cap’s Moon Roo?


He’s a Virgo moon.
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Quincunx to your Moon which means you don’t get each other emotionally. Nearly as bad as my ex’s Moon squared to mine 😬
No, my exes try but I don't let them come back. My ex hubby just asked me if he could move back in with me. NOPE

It messes up my progress of finding someone permanent and better suited for me.

So now I stopped doing that. I used to get maintenance sex from them, but now even that is a bad idea. I just want to cut it off completely. I'm learning as I'm going.
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Yes & that’s why I finally blocked the Cap. I cannot have this continuing on. Every time he’s lonely like clockwork.

I’m also aqua moon lol


Aqua Moon thread 😃

Where’s Cap’s Moon Roo?


He’s a Virgo moon.


Quincunx to your Moon which means you don’t get each other emotionally. Nearly as bad as my ex’s Moon squared to mine 😬
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That would be accurate.

Yes. I had this with a Sagittarius Man he was my security blanket. My landing zone when things got rough. He was my happy place when things were great. He was easy. He didn’t bore me.

Alas, the timing was never in our favor.

He did help me heal some old wounds tho
I will always go back to my Leo ex, even if I marry someone else.

We’ve had so many ups and downs. It’s hard to forget that type of a history. It was almost like marriage for me.

Can you see future with Aries girl? I think you should maybe go for it, since there is familiarity.
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I will always go back to my Leo ex, even if I marry someone else.

We’ve had so many ups and downs. It’s hard to forget that type of a history. It was almost like marriage for me.

Can you see future with Aries girl? I think you should maybe go for it, since there is familiarity.
Who knows, you may find someone who will make you forget that Leo. One never knows. I’d not be happy to marry someone though who just sees me as a second choice.

The Aries and me is a dangerous combination. She misses who I was but I don’t want to return to my old habits. I hurt a lot of people in the past.
A cancer. We dated years ago. I really wanted to be with him when I was younger but he was fresh out of a relationship and didn’t take me seriously at all. So I let it go. He’s ready now and has been for years but the feelings are gone for me. I put him in the friend pile but we’re each other’s blankets and it actually makes me sad. We both need to move on and find people who want what we want.
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I will always go back to my Leo ex, even if I marry someone else.

We’ve had so many ups and downs. It’s hard to forget that type of a history. It was almost like marriage for me.

Can you see future with Aries girl? I think you should maybe go for it, since there is familiarity.


Who knows, you may find someone who will make you forget that Leo. One never knows. I’d not be happy to marry someone though who just sees me as a second choice.

The Aries and me is a dangerous combination. She misses who I was but I don’t want to return to my old habits. I hurt a lot of people in the past.
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In what way did you hurt a lot of people?
Posted by borednbeautiful

I will always go back to my Leo ex, even if I marry someone else.

We’ve had so many ups and downs. It’s hard to forget that type of a history. It was almost like marriage for me.

Can you see future with Aries girl? I think you should maybe go for it, since there is familiarity.


Mehhh, I thought the same at some point, but then life happened 🤷🏻‍♀️