Pot Luck

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by LillyPetal on Thursday, December 17, 2015 and has 49 replies.
You guys...I smoked weed last night for the very first time.

Long story short: boy meets girl, boy secretly writes phone number on gir's class schedule, boy shares Moldy Peaches music, art, and gummy bears. Girl decides to text boy after midnight, boy invites girl out, boy and girl go for a hike, have long talks, then walk through the woods and see deer. Boy and girl rest on the leaves, boy offers weed, girl accepts, boy teaches woman how to smoke, girl chokes, boy smokes, girl chokes, boy asks girl to close eyes before she takes a big puff, boy says not to open them until he says, boy teaches girl about "shotgunning" the "spliff," girl parts lips as instructed, boy breathes into girl's mouth as she inhales, girl feels incredible tingles and doesn't choke, boy tells girl to open eyes, girl wants to keep them closed, boy is okay with that, boy and girl enjoy the night.

The End
And this happened during our walk as we looked up at the stars:

Me: "Do you believe in astrology?"
Him: "I don't m, no. But I do believe the phases of the moon have influence on us in complex ways."
Me: "I see...hypothetically, if we were to discuss astrology, what sign would you be?"
Him: "I'm not sure to be honest. All I remember is that I'm a mix of one thing and another. I think I'm sag?"
Me: "When's your birthday?"
Him: "September 22nd."
Me: "..."
Posted by elllesque
lol @ I think I'm sag?

it would be funny if he had a sag moon.

I swear, I don't know what it is about Virgo men and Scorpio men. I mean, I do understand Virgo because I like them and the universe is conspiring to help me, but Scorpio attraction is inexplicable to me.

This guy is special, though. He is artistic, and sensitive, and caring, and observant. He goes quiet during conversations, the way I do, because he's processing things. This means that silence between us is understood - not something to be apologized for or to feel awkward about. He does this thing where he pulls me towards him. It's as though he won't allow me to distance myself like I always do. I don't know.
Posted by BlackMamba
aren't you like 26?

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Awww

It's like you're 17 lily
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I'm essentially just really experiencing life. To be honest, that's what I'm most afraid of. He's too young. He, like many people, thought I was 22. When I told him my age and I found out his, we were both surprised. I began to feel panic. I covered my face and said, "I'm a cougar! You're a baby!" He was very calm. "You're not a cougar. It doesn't bother me. I don't like girls my age; I've tried it. Trust me. You act older, but you look much younger."

I feel very responsible for all of this. But he told me not to over-think. I don't want to over-think.
Posted by engagement_hotdog
what's wrong with the convo? can't expect other people to know astrology.

me and my pisces brother.

him: why did you get a tattoo of a bul
me: coz i'm a taurus
him: is that like dad
me: no he's a sagitaurus
him: what's that website you always post on? is it like 4chan?
me: err... yes it's exactly that

My favorite part was that he had no clue. It was so endearing. The "..." At the end was because I couldn't believe it was another Virgo in my life. You know how I feel about Virgo.

We drove for a long time last night. It's already our inside joke that we both like to get lost because we hiked off the trail and lost our way. Then we lost his car in the dark. Then, we got lost as he tried to drop me home. He said that while he'd normally be frustrated at getting turned around, he enjoyed getting lost with me. It was honestly a scene out of one of those indie romance movies. We ate Taco Bell in his car because it was the only place open that late that we could find. We got ambushed by a dog that attacked us both with kisses and we got tangled together because the dog was on a leash tied to a log. My quirks - he seems to find them endearing. It was a day filled with mini-adventures. I woke up happy; I walked to work smiling.
The universe is conspiring.
Posted by VivaciousScorpio
He'll definitely be bragging about bagging an older chick

VivaciousScorpio, when I was in danger of overthinking, I asked him what his sister (who is 32) would think. "I don't know, she'd probably high-five me and congratulate me. I don't give a f***. What my family things is not an issue for me. But obviously it is for you. My brother would be jealous."

He later told me (while driving around trying to drop me home): "You should see the text I sent my friend after meeting you. I said all of these things about you."
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Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by BlackMamba
aren't you like 26?

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Awww

It's like you're 17 lily

I'm essentially just really experiencing life. To be honest, that's what I'm most afraid of. He's too young. He, like many people, thought I was 22. When I told him my age and I found out his, we were both surprised. I began to feel panic. I covered my face and said, "I'm a cougar! You're a baby!" He was very calm. "You're not a cougar. It doesn't bother me. I don't like girls my age; I've tried it. Trust me. You act older, but you look much younger."

I feel very responsible for all of this. But he told me not to over-think. I don't want to over-think.

Live a little :p
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Yes. I'm doing just that. Unlike the Scorpio whom I was never truly comfortable with, I enjoy the Virgo's company. I won't overthink. I texted him today to tell him I had a thought. "Tell"
Me: "I've never been to the museum here. But I want to go with you. Will you go with me?"
A minute felt too long, and I began to overthink "is that too dorky?"
Him: "It's perfect."

He looked up the times and arranged for us to go Tuesday next week.
*hugs Ands* Sige na!
this is cute :-) congrats on the lovely evening!
Posted by AbbyNormal
this is cute :-) congrats on the lovely evening!

Thank you!! Believe it or not, I thought of DXP. Tiz posted an Astrobyn quote that I read. I tend to read things and then process them for a long while after. It was her quote about decisions in one moment not defining who you are in the next. I held onto that, and I allowed myself to truly be in the moment. It felt good to turn my mind off. I felt free.
We're going to need a birth time.

He might be a LEEB. Straight Face


Which is fine, just saying....
Big Grin
Posted by Montgomery
We're going to need a birth time.

He might be a LEEB. Straight Face


Which is fine, just saying....

TAKE THAT BACK!!!! @.@

He definitely has a corny side. I chalk that down to his Leeb bits. I can find out his birth time at some point if I remember to ask him. But, so far, the descriptions of Sept. 22nd Virgo fit him perfectly.

In retrospect, none of this matters because he's him. :3 #cornyIKnow
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by AbbyNormal
this is cute :-) congrats on the lovely evening!

Thank you!! Believe it or not, I thought of DXP. Tiz posted an Astrobyn quote that I read. I tend to read things and then process them for a long while after. It was her quote about decisions in one moment not defining who you are in the next. I held onto that, and I allowed myself to truly be in the moment. It felt good to turn my mind off. I felt free.
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perfect. that's the best kind of being. im imagining the feeling now and it sounds... well--lovely! lol good to hear your practically applying self-evolving... introspection is constant in my life as well and those AHA! monents are so precious... this will always be a memory in your toolbox to visit back to when you need to be filled with joy and possobilities. :-)
...and the virgo mind fecking begins.


From what I've read...

It's always beautiful in the beginning, always this amazing connection, then ...... (crickets)
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Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by AbbyNormal
this is cute :-) congrats on the lovely evening!

Thank you!! Believe it or not, I thought of DXP. Tiz posted an Astrobyn quote that I read. I tend to read things and then process them for a long while after. It was her quote about decisions in one moment not defining who you are in the next. I held onto that, and I allowed myself to truly be in the moment. It felt good to turn my mind off. I felt free.

perfect. that's the best kind of being. im imagining the feeling now and it sounds... well--lovely! lol good to hear your practically applying self-evolving... introspection is constant in my life as well and those AHA! monents are so precious... this will always be a memory in your toolbox to visit back to when you need to be filled with joy and possobilities. :-)
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I appreciate you. Truly, thank you. ❤
And don't become a stoner at your age.
Posted by Greentea
...and the virgo mind fecking begins.


From what I've read...

It's always beautiful in the beginning, always this amazing connection, then ...... (crickets)

Honestly, I won't even be mad at him. I cannot muster any ill feelings towards this VirgLeeb (Leebgo?) The same with my Virgo ex. When I think of my ex , every fiber of my being is wishing him health, love, success, sleep, and happiness - even though it's not with me. No matter what, all that matters are these moments right now. I was thinking today, I asked myself "will the hurt be worth it?" And I adamantly thought, "yes." I haven't thought like that in a very long time now. But VirgLeeb, he reminds me to be brave in his own way.
Posted by Greentea
And don't become a stoner at your age.

A spliff now and again does not a stoner make.

Shotgunning is an amazing feeling. One person breathes out, and you breathe in, mouth a centimeter apart...Normal LillyPetal would be fixated on the germs and lung damage. Strange LillyPetal isn't fixed at all.
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Posted by Montgomery
We're going to need a birth time.

He might be a LEEB. Straight Face


Which is fine, just saying....

TAKE THAT BACK!!!! @.@

He definitely has a corny side. I chalk that down to his Leeb bits. I can find out his birth time at some point if I remember to ask him. But, so far, the descriptions of Sept. 22nd Virgo fit him perfectly.

In retrospect, none of this matters because he's him. :3 #cornyIKnow

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Exactly.

I think Leeb would be interesting, though-- instead of being your opposite, it's

more the other side of the coin.



More importantly ... where'z his moon?
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by Montgomery
We're going to need a birth time.

He might be a LEEB. Straight Face


Which is fine, just saying....

TAKE THAT BACK!!!! @.@

He definitely has a corny side. I chalk that down to his Leeb bits. I can find out his birth time at some point if I remember to ask him. But, so far, the descriptions of Sept. 22nd Virgo fit him perfectly.

In retrospect, none of this matters because he's him. :3 #cornyIKnow


Exactly.

I think Leeb would be interesting, though-- instead of being your opposite, it's

more the other side of the coin.



More importantly ... where'z his moon?
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I don't know yet. Perhaps I will gradually discover these things. At the same time, I'm wondering if I want to know? Self-fufilling procecy et al?
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by Greentea
...and the virgo mind fecking begins.


From what I've read...

It's always beautiful in the beginning, always this amazing connection, then ...... (crickets)

Honestly, I won't even be mad at him. I cannot muster any ill feelings towards this VirgLeeb (Leebgo?) The same with my Virgo ex. When I think of my ex , every fiber of my being is wishing him health, love, success, sleep, and happiness - even though it's not with me. No matter what, all that matters are these moments right now. I was thinking today, I asked myself "will the hurt be worth it?" And I adamantly thought, "yes." I haven't thought like that in a very long time now. But VirgLeeb, he reminds me to be brave in his own way.
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i love where your head and heart are at, lady :-)
What the fuck did you smoke? You know what...don't.
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by engagement_hotdog
what's wrong with the convo? can't expect other people to know astrology.

me and my pisces brother.

him: why did you get a tattoo of a bul
me: coz i'm a taurus
him: is that like dad
me: no he's a sagitaurus
him: what's that website you always post on? is it like 4chan?
me: err... yes it's exactly that

My favorite part was that he had no clue. It was so endearing. The "..." At the end was because I couldn't believe it was another Virgo in my life. You know how I feel about Virgo.

We drove for a long time last night. It's already our inside joke that we both like to get lost because we hiked off the trail and lost our way. Then we lost his car in the dark. Then, we got lost as he tried to drop me home. He said that while he'd normally be frustrated at getting turned around, he enjoyed getting lost with me. It was honestly a scene out of one of those indie romance movies. We ate Taco Bell in his car because it was the only place open that late that we could find. We got ambushed by a dog that attacked us both with kisses and we got tangled together because the dog was on a leash tied to a log. My quirks - he seems to find them endearing. It was a day filled with mini-adventures. I woke up happy; I walked to work smiling.

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Rabies!!
Posted by tiziani
Oh dear, there'll be no hearing the end of this from Robyn now.

I feel love for Robyn. Kanye has got nothing on The Robyn. You two seem very close, so give her a big hug from me.
@Ands, LOL! I just realized I said the wrong thing! I meant to say "salamat!" Why didn't you correct me??

Although, "Sige na" does work rather well. *rubs chin*
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Sounds like a movie ive watched...something like nik and noras playlist or daydream nation

YES. I couldn't stop thinking that all night - how it wasn't real. But I think it's the realist I've experienced with someone and from within myself in a very long while. Maybe this is how life is supposed to feel - everyone who says they love life, they understand this and allow themselves to live it inspite of life's setbacks. I tend to fixate on the negative and hold on to that as being the truth - reality. Perhaps because the pain is so palpable. But what I felt last night was just as palpable so, following my logic, shouldn't I believe it to be just as real?

This morning, he texted me, "Last night was real" just as I was waking up and thinking "was that real life?"

It's like when you ride a swing and jump off when you reach the highest point, all the while looking up at the sky. I'm so corny today. But maybe life IS corny.
People who dont believe in astrology should die.
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Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Sounds like a movie ive watched...something like nik and noras playlist or daydream nation

YES. I couldn't stop thinking that all night - how it wasn't real. But I think it's the realist I've experienced with someone and from within myself in a very long while. Maybe this is how life is supposed to feel - everyone who says they love life, they understand this and allow themselves to live it inspite of life's setbacks. I tend to fixate on the negative and hold on to that as being the truth - reality. Perhaps because the pain is so palpable. But what I felt last night was just as palpable so, following my logic, shouldn't I believe it to be just as real?

This morning, he texted me, "Last night was real" just as I was waking up and thinking "was that real life?"

It's like when you ride a swing and jump off when you reach the highest point, all the while looking up at the sky. I'm so corny today. But maybe life IS corny.

I think i need to puke lol
Sorry, keep smoking pot because thats how i felt about life once i started
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I definitely wanna try it again. But I don't think it was the pot. I think it's the energy we share between us. It carried through this entire day - pot doesn't last that long, right?
Right. smile
Posted by Montgomery
Right. smile

LOL, Monty. Coming from you, this can be interpreted many ways. :p

When you straight-faced my comment about missing Zumba in my other thread. I thought, "I know Monty." I then eventually ended up going out and doing dance fitness.
Posted by LillyPetal
I swear, I don't know what it is about Virgo men and Scorpio men.

Both are inconjunct/karmic to your sun.
Posted by Greentea
...and the virgo mind fecking begins.

do you jaded dreamkillers ever get a rest?
Posted by engagement_hotdog
Posted by LillyPetal
@Ands, LOL! I just realized I said the wrong thing! I meant to say "salamat!" Why didn't you correct me??

Although, "Sige na" does work rather well. *rubs chin*

sige na= give love a chance! Tongue
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:p
Posted by Damnata
Posted by LillyPetal
I swear, I don't know what it is about Virgo men and Scorpio men.

Both are inconjunct/karmic to your sun.
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I honestly have no idea what that means. Might you explain, por favor?
Posted by starwars
no way one of 'the 22 sep virgo bitches' would act like that, im sure he has a libra moon. I need birth details, gotta find the moon of the holy 22 sep virgo! LOL

enjooooy the journey! smile

Erm, thanks? Lol. What do you mean by "holy 22 sSept. Virgo?" I'm missing something.
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Posted by Greentea
...and the virgo mind fecking begins.

do you jaded dreamkillers ever get a rest?
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LOL!

I've never been jaded by a virgo. I can be just as cold, if not colder.
Please don't turn this thread into a UFC fighting ring of forum posts. Inhale the cannabis, exhale the slapabish.

Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by Damnata
Posted by LillyPetal
I swear, I don't know what it is about Virgo men and Scorpio men.

Both are inconjunct/karmic to your sun.

I honestly have no idea what that means. Might you explain, por favor?
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We each get 2 sun signs that are quincunx/inconjunct to ours.

To figure out which - look at your opposite sign. It's 2 signs standing on one side of it and another. Your opposite is Libra so Virgo and Scorpio are yours. This can go beyond sun sign and can be applied to moon etc too (maybe not pluto cuz we're talking necromancers there). But for Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars specifically.

How people respond to inconjunctions depends on their chart but with mine (since I have Sun/Moon inconjunct)...it's the best frequency bar none. Charts that have my sun inconjuncts in them (aries and aqua) or my venus (sag, aqua) or moon (scorpio, virgo) or mars (aries, virgo) are good for me. No wonder the 2 signs I dates most are Aqua and Aries.

Opinions differ on it.

"Quincunx – 360 divided by 12. The quincunx continues the story of the 3 (Trine), 6 (Sextile), 12 (Quincunx). So really it should be counted as a soft aspect. But as you see with the 1 (Conjunction), 2 (Opposition), 4 (Square). Life as we get older gets more complex and carries ever more baggage and karma. The quincunx is simply a reflection of that evolution. It’s meaning is a little ambiguous and seems to derive from the fact that signs in quincunx share neither element, gender or mode. They are thought to not see each other at all, like they don’t even register on each others radar. Therefore the danger of the quincunx is in it’s passive-aggressive quality. A niggling friction inside that you can’t quite figure out. Once you do work it out, then the quincunx can become very powerful indeed. On the positive side the quincunx works like dissonance in music. It is getting two unlikely items working together like a dream, like a jam and cheese sandwich. The quincunx is a sophisticated resolution of differences. It’s also alchemical, almost miraculous because it brings together a kind of harmony where you wouldn’t expect to find it. The quincunx is also known as a karmic aspect and could be why it appears so often in synastry. When the quincunx is worked on and resolved, that internal irritation, the grit in the shell, makes pearls"
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by Montgomery
Right. smile

LOL, Monty. Coming from you, this can be interpreted many ways. :p

When you straight-faced my comment about missing Zumba in my other thread. I thought, "I know Monty." I then eventually ended up going out and doing dance fitness.
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Nah.. I just meant no-- it doesn't last that long.

And

Good. smile

You were turning all that negative energy in on yourself...


You have a lot of mental energy, I've noticed. o.O
Okay, there's a twist. It turns out, I misheard him! His birthday is this coming Tuesday, Decrmber 22nd. So that means he's either a sag or a cap.

We planned our museum trip for Tuesday (before I realized it was his birthday), but he wants to stick to our plans because "that's exactly how [he] want[s] to spend it."

At the end of our third date, he hid a gift in his overhead mirror/sun shield compartment. When I reached up to pull it down and a chocolate bar wrapped in red fell in my lap. It was cocoa with chili and cherries, "chocolove." He said, "There's a love poem inside, but I doubt it will sufficiently express my feelings for you." I thanked him and was very touched.

I got him a box of Faber Caster drawing pens for his birthday, and I will get him a card and write for him. I want to get him a leather pendant necklace, but I'm not sure if doing too much is a bad thing. I usually go all out with presents, and I know if I see things I know he would like, I'd wanna get it for him.

He told me we are dating, that he's my boyfriend.
We hold hands and interlock fingers, and I actually enjoy it instead of feeling uneasy.

How quickly life changes.
*cacoa
*accurately express
*get them
*Castell

Goodness me >.
Posted by tiziani
You probably shouldn't post about being happy on DXP. It's bad sport.

When I said happy, I meant the miserable and angry kind of happy. Pssht! Things get lost in translation online. You know how that is...



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awww lily's so cute when she has a crush. at this rate she'll get so socially awkward because of this virgo and get even more irresistible to him.
......When you have not yet realized that lilypetal is ands
awww and's finally proven he's gay then
Posted by LillyPetal
And this happened during our walk as we looked up at the stars:

Me: "Do you believe in astrology?"
Him: "I don't m, no. But I do believe the phases of the moon have influence on us in complex ways."
Me: "I see...hypothetically, if we were to discuss astrology, what sign would you be?"
Him: "I'm not sure to be honest. All I remember is that I'm a mix of one thing and another. I think I'm sag?"
Me: "When's your birthday?"
Him: "September 22nd."
Me: "..."

as the plot of the film ..) I see the stills with this dialogue))