Saying vs Doing

How do you feel about people who say a thing and do the other (usually the exact opposite)?

I like a girl who does this.

It's a problem.

But she's really cute.

in fact, that's actually quite a problem too.

No backbone

A fake

Posted by Saturnlady
How do you feel about people who say a thing and do the other (usually the exact opposite)?

Hi ya..

Grrr this behaviour pisses me off!

My husband does this kind of thing!

For example. .He has this weird thing where when I say No to something I really don't want happening, he behaves as if I said Yes! ?!

It's weird! ?!

So he will listen to me say how I feel about a situation, and will respond by saying 'Ok. ' This makes me think he's understood I'm not happy. So I then think he will behave accordingly to me saying No. Eg the situation won't happen unless we are both happy. Not just him.

But instead he behaves the opposite! It's like I said Yes!

It's so irritating and confusing! It took me years to work out what he was doing and why he was being weird - from my perspective.

Hope my post makes sense.

I don't like it when someone says one thing and does the opposite. But I guess that's because I say one thing and actually follow through with that same thing x

Don't allow them to treat you that way

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I like a girl who does this.

It's a problem.

But she's really cute.

in fact, that's actually quite a problem too.

you mentioned her cuteness one time but the word 'problem' two times. It should tell you something.

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Saturnlady
How do you feel about people who say a thing and do the other (usually the exact opposite)?

Hi ya..

Grrr this behaviour pisses me off!

My husband does this kind of thing!

For example. .He has this weird thing where when I say No to something I really don't want happening, he behaves as if I said Yes! ?!

It's weird! ?!

So he will listen to me say how I feel about a situation, and will respond by saying 'Ok. ' This makes me think he's understood I'm not happy. So I then think he will behave accordingly to me saying No. Eg the situation won't happen unless we are both happy. Not just him.

But instead he behaves the opposite! It's like I said Yes!

It's so irritating and confusing! It took me years to work out what he was doing and why he was being weird - from my perspective.

Hope my post makes sense.

I don't like it when someone says one thing and does the opposite. But I guess that's because I say one thing and actually follow through with that same thing x

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he sounds like he is a tyrant

Posted by Saturnlady

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I like a girl who does this.

It's a problem.

But she's really cute.

in fact, that's actually quite a problem too.

you mentioned her cuteness one time but the word 'problem' two times. It should tell you something.

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yeah, basically we are both problematic.



no one wins.

i love her though.