Sexodus

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by SirHorns on Sunday, February 1, 2015 and has 143 replies.
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My generation are the beautiful ones,?? he sighs, referring to a 1960s experiment on mice that supposedly predicted a grim future for the human race.
After overpopulation ran out of control, the female mice in John Calhoun??s ???mouse universe?? experiment stopped breeding, and the male mice withdrew from the company of others entirely, eating, sleeping, feeding and grooming themselves but doing little else. They had shiny coats, but empty lives.
???The parallels are astounding,?? says Rupert.
If what they say is true. Then we're the only sane people left. Dammit why?
Now I can see why this radical feminism is truly evil. It's nothing more than driving us all to be divided and separate and living in misery to our eventual extinction when we all kill each other off. Why has our country and the rest of the world let this evil manipulate them in the shadows. And then people have the nerve to call someone a rapist apologist or misogynist for thinking any differently to live with someone's unrealistic expectations. I can see why gave up and personally I think I'd honestly give up if I knew there wasn't any hope. I have ADD but I never took ritalin or adderall for it. It's serving as a blinder for the reality in front of us. What if we truly are the only sane people left in the world and everyone else is living the dream while we're tuckered into bitter reality that we can't have anything until those who live the dream are unplugged and made to face the reality. I don't know anymore.
I can finally see why now I got criticized by those idiots. Because some of us are speaking the truth on the matters. They know we know but they want to keep the blinders on everyone else and not let them be unplugged to now that radical feminism is nothing more than evil, and maybe along with the entire feminist movement. And the men who're quick to take sides with them betrayed themselves and they're just as blind as the rest. Because those mens right activists actually call them out for their stupidity and hypocrisy and actually want equal rights. Dear god, everything's a matrix now. Why would a woman wear a shirt that says I bathe in men's tears? I wouldn't walk around wearing a shirt that says I bathe women's tears because that's just stupid and make's anyone look like a jerk or stuck up bitch. I think we should work towards removing the blinders and earmuffs and make people see the bullshit and hypocrisy of this modern feminist movement if things are as they say they are.
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Now I can see why this radical feminism is truly evil. It's nothing more than driving us all to be divided and separate and living in misery to our eventual extinction when we all kill each other off. Why has our country and the rest of the world let this evil manipulate them in the shadows. And then people have the nerve to call someone a rapist apologist or misogynist for thinking any differently to live with someone's unrealistic expectations. I can see why gave up and personally I think I'd honestly give up if I knew there wasn't any hope. I have ADD but I never took ritalin or adderall for it. It's serving as a blinder for the reality in front of us. What if we truly are the only sane people left in the world and everyone else is living the dream while we're tuckered into bitter reality that we can't have anything until those who live the dream are unplugged and made to face the reality. I don't know anymore.


What? This is random.
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How so? I just don't know anymore maybe I'm seeing truth in one eye and seeing the dream in the other.
Sexist
Posted by Rabbit
I've actually been suspected this for a while now. I'm conflicted over the causes, but it seems many males just don't put any effort into females any longer.


I see this too.
The instinct to reproduce is there but the way we go about it..yeah idk. I don't think it's as easy as..we reached a total level of laziness in life. I can't see their choice not to pursue and focus entirely on careers as wrong either..many have been burned and all around people seem to not give a fuck about each other. So why invest at the end of the day? I can get this pragmatic mindset.
I still think feminine influence in a man's life is soothing. I was thinking of people who were involved in mass shootings..I never saw a girlfriend speak up about how happy they were or even a girlfriend in the picture at all. I don't know, might have helped or might not have anything to do with it.
Happy men I know are partnered up with great women.
I think it starts with kids in high school getting into heavy relationships. It seems to get worse every generation.
Side thought, I cant wait for the future. At this rate of fashion all the women will be in futuristic/overly slutty clothing.
Anyway when kids get into heavy relationships from 13-17 it pretty much ruins the experience they will have once their lives and minds are actually ready for the experience at 18-22.
Before they know it their 25 and don't want sex, don't want love, or anything of the kind. They turn to drugs, videogames, delusional social media, filling the empty voids and feeling like life is complete.
Mars in Scorpio has to be the most predictable placement ever.
Posted by tiziani
Sniper writing his dictatorial manifesto in the making. I love it.

Dictatorial manifesto?
Posted by PVandJellay
The longer I'm on dxpnet, the more I consider lesbianism. Men are weird creatures.

Every human is a strange creature of it's own.
Posted by tiziani
Just take out a divorce insurance policy, you will be fine.


They said the same with prenups
Then courts decide not to honor them.
Think I'm exaggerating or making it up? There was an actual case where an older woman raped a teenage boy, got knocked up and actually got to sue him for paternity.
I wish I could make this shit up. Actually no, I don't even want to think about this sick crap.
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Posted by PVandJellay
The longer I'm on dxpnet, the more I consider lesbianism. Men are weird creatures.

Every human is a strange creature of it's own.
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Lesbians are the group most likely to become alcoholics.
So if you do, go sober. You don't wanna get hit on at AA meetings.
Posted by tiziani
Well I'm not here to tell you or anyone that insurance companies won't screw you over if given the chance. But that is the nature of insurance. You look out for your own.

We can't be raising generations of men just being crybabies talking about "this happened to me! they didn't look out for me!"
There has to at least be some general ability to go out and get what you want without expecting it to be spoonfed to you.


So if the game is rigged, they should just play anyway? Crying about dating being hard is not the main thing.
When they use their rational minds, they see the culture is hostile to their kind. Further more, women now have more costs then benefits to deal with/date/marry. Sure you say there are good nice women out there, and there clearly are, but doesn't change the facts.
Tiz, tell me, with men dropping out, wouldn't it make it easier for men who "man up and deal" to compete and secure sucess in society? These dudes aren't jobless or anything, just not dedicating most of their time to chasing women.
What's wrong with that?
Posted by Rabbit
I've seen mid-20s guys turn down their Victorias Secret bag wielding girlfriends invitation to come stay the night because "the IU-Purdue game is on, though" and/or "I just bought the new Madden".
SMH


That's the life of dudes with lower sex drives.
You can scream now.
Posted by SirHorns

After overpopulation ran out of control, the female mice in John Calhoun??s ???mouse universe?? experiment stopped breeding, and the male mice withdrew from the company of others entirely, eating, sleeping, feeding and grooming themselves but doing little else.


I think the millenials are safe

Posted by SirHorns
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Posted by PVandJellay
The longer I'm on dxpnet, the more I consider lesbianism. Men are weird creatures.

Every human is a strange creature of it's own.


Lesbians are the group most likely to become alcoholics.
So if you do, go sober. You don't wanna get hit on at AA meetings.
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Laughing

The dreaded 13th Step.
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Now I can see why this radical feminism is truly evil. It's nothing more than driving us all to be divided and separate and living in misery to our eventual extinction when we all kill each other off. Why has our country and the rest of the world let this evil manipulate them in the shadows.


True.
But it isn't just radical feminism that is driving
a wedge between groups of people--
not by a long shot.
Posted by tiziani

There's nothing wrong with that - I don't chase women either.
Look being made fun of for what you believe in is just a part of life. Yes when you absorb that fact and reap the reward of sticking by your beliefs (knowing they can help other people) yes success does come to you in immensely easier fashion after a while. I can't tell you that, though, you'd have to see for yourself.


Huh? I still date women. However I'm not ignoring the fact how fucked they system is. If other dudes feel its not worth it, so be it. Where does being made fun of for my beliefs come from? I need to elaborate on that to address it properly.
Of Mice and Men
Posted by KVZZMIR11

Wut?
Majority of mid-20 college grads I know are getting married, and leaving home.
What YOU are talking about is primarily among the less educated.
This is a concern because children of less educated parents are hit with double disadvantage---their parents uneducated as well as them growing up in less ideal circumstances.
America is witnessing the birth of a new aristocracy. The top quartile of citizens are going to college, getting married with people of their own station, waiting until marriage to have children, getting divorced less and they are doing great.
Meanwhile the other 75% engage in EXTREMELY irresponsible sexual and reproductive behavior and their children suffer for it.


So if 75% of the families of society are broken, disfunctional or non-exsistant, what happens to that society?
In any case, the idea of celibacy until marriage causes most to recoil in fear and incredulity. Absolute and permanent abstinence is unrealistic and unhealthy (and most likely will lead to other perversions to satisfy sexual needs and desires.) Then we enter the eunuch...
Posted by tiziani
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by tiziani

There's nothing wrong with that - I don't chase women either.
Look being made fun of for what you believe in is just a part of life. Yes when you absorb that fact and reap the reward of sticking by your beliefs (knowing they can help other people) yes success does come to you in immensely easier fashion after a while. I can't tell you that, though, you'd have to see for yourself.


Huh? I still date women. However I'm not ignoring the fact how fucked they system is. If other dudes feel its not worth it, so be it. Where does being made fun of for my beliefs come from? I need to elaborate on that to address it properly.


It came from -
"they see a culture that is hostile to their kind"


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Well when all society can do is bitch at them to do what it wants and not what they want, if they stopped caring, what power does the shaming and ridicule have? None. They see the rewards aren't worth it or think that their lives spent on their hobbies is better than doing what dad and grandpa did.
Thinking people only really care is due to declining birthrates worldwide and unstable world economics. This doesn't inspire hope in a strong future workforce that will sustain the society.
Posted by LilyBlossom
In any case, the idea of celibacy until marriage causes most to recoil in fear and incredulity. Absolute and permanent abstinence is unrealistic and unhealthy (and most likely will lead to other perversions to satisfy sexual needs and desires.) Then we enter the eunuch...


Porn.
Hook up culture.
Prostitutes.
Escorts.
...none of these lead to families, hence why we're supposed to hate them.
There are humans that can remain celibate through life. Rare as hell, but its possible.
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by Rabbit
I've seen mid-20s guys turn down their Victorias Secret bag wielding girlfriends invitation to come stay the night because "the IU-Purdue game is on, though" and/or "I just bought the new Madden".
SMH


That's the life of dudes with lower sex drives.
You can scream now.
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Having interest that go beyond sexual pleasure is very attractive. Of course, if they were compatible (I.e. at the same point in life with cohesive priorities), she would either have joined him in watching the game in IU Purdue underwear and an oversized jersey or he would have watched a replay to join her at her place.
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by LilyBlossom
In any case, the idea of celibacy until marriage causes most to recoil in fear and incredulity. Absolute and permanent abstinence is unrealistic and unhealthy (and most likely will lead to other perversions to satisfy sexual needs and desires.) Then we enter the eunuch...


Porn.
Hook up culture.
Prostitutes.
Escorts.
...none of these lead to families, hence why we're supposed to hate them.
There are humans that can remain celibate through life. Rare as hell, but its possible.
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It's arguable as whether or not they lead to families...as one may call "baby mama" and "baby daddy" "families" but the "broken" kind... Broken families are destructive to society.
Posted by Rabbit
Men in their early to mid-20s (at least when I was near that age) didn't have low sex drives...they were always interested in a warm wet place on a woman to hide their ding dong.
Yes...watching a game was fun or playing video games was fun, but you didn't pass up time with a chick for it.

This is a chicken or the egg scenario:
Did men become lazy fucksticks first and women are now dealing with a bunch of disinterested douchenozzles?
Or did women turn into a bunch of self absorbed thundercunts and men just decide to give up?


Wanna say around the same time there was movements to make the sexes less attractive to the other.
Also wanna say a few perma victim histrionic women managed to make it harder for their entire gender to get and keep men these days AND be trusted.
Posted by PVandJellay
The plight of millennials. This sounds like a 30 and under issue. After the 80's babies, there was just a shift in reality. Ironically that was around the same time Nintendo became a hit. Throws video games into the fire pit. I think us 80 babies were the last generation that actually played outside and had to entertain ourself with imagination alone. Less technology, less social media telling us we're all victims, more socializing. Maybe millennials are jus disillusioned...for no good reason.

(sigh) (Throws Xbox 360 into a fire pit.)
Yeah, we did play outside on the streets. All day long. I don't see it happening anymore.
I really believe the first generation of sociopaths is heading our way because they are incapable of understanding social dynamics or body language or anything. They isolate themselves into a world of their own. There is no more interaction. When I was a child I didn't have the option to immerse myself in videogames and not interact with other kids. Even those I didn't get along with, we lived and we pushed through it.
I also don't want to be grim because I'm an optimistic person by default. It's also said we should judge the person according to the times they live in. So we cannot judge millenials or other generations based on what was our time when we grew up. Basically everything I said in the first paragraphs would be guesses based on my experience growing up, which happened in a different decade.
I know I posted this before but it bears mentioning it again:
http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html
Posted by Rabbit
Men in their early to mid-20s (at least when I was near that age) didn't have low sex drives...they were always interested in a warm wet place on a woman to hide their ding dong.
Yes...watching a game was fun or playing video games was fun, but you didn't pass up time with a chick for it.

This is a chicken or the egg scenario:
Did men become lazy fucksticks first and women are now dealing with a bunch of disinterested douchenozzles?
Or did women turn into a bunch of self absorbed thundercunts and men just decide to give up?


I don't relate to the plight as I am not looking for a man for the sake of non marital relations. But, in my opinion, there just aren't many good, healthy, and wholesome examples of strong familial units. A man, growing up with a deadbeat dad or a womanizer, had no point of reference for how to treat a woman. A woman, growing up with an unavailable woman or one who is sassy and promiscuous, had no education on what it is to be a good wife. Men still seek sex to the degree they rape women or boys. Sexual violence and its variety are at amily epoch. Knowing how to interact with the opposite gender, unlike physical sexual desire, is not instinct. It needs to be taught, learned, and practiced.
*unavailable mother
Posted by KVZZMIR11
Basically society has male children crying "why can't I find a good woman" and female children crying why can't I find a good man."
No one wants to grow up.
If they DO manage to grow up and learn self-restraint, and self-reliance, they will not have an issue.



Here is the thing. Both genders work. Thing is they aren't settling down or make disfunctional/unstable enviroments for their kids. If they bred anyway.
Point is, self reliance isn't much of an issue so much as giving incentive for them to "grow up" over just being hedonists.
Monti:
"But it isn't just radical feminism that is driving a wedge between groups of people--"
Soul:
"... drugs, videogames, delusional social media, filling the empty voids and feeling like life is complete."
me:
what about those in primary school who don't want to climb the trees and rocks as we did in our childhood?
Last degrees of Pisces Age preparing us for the Age of Aqua?
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WhatsApp?
I bought board & card games for my niece. But he wanted only to play PC games. And yeah he is not that slim.
You guys do realize millenials still have to go outside and participate in society, right?
Its not so much tech as younger generations not wanting to keep a mate or having no clue how to have healthy relations, since disfunctional ones WAS the standard model for most.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
I bought board & card games for my niece. But he wanted only to play PC games. And yeah he is not that slim.


Yeah...have fun trying not getting pinned as a fat shamer.
Children see. Imitate. Products of their upbringing.
Posted by tiziani
So older generations had no clue how to have healthy relations. Clearly tech and going outside isn't the problem.


Environment isn't conducive to getting the desired results from them.
Instability in economic sectors mixed with political weakness mixed with weak family influence and almost nothing to bring the society together....yeah its everyone for themselves basically.
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by tiziani
So older generations had no clue how to have healthy relations. Clearly tech and going outside isn't the problem.


No but if young men are giving up on dating, clearly they need to get out more.
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When you go to lezzyland, date a millennial girl.
...okay no, I like you. Date Gen X.
"talk you into a 110 percent mortgage together"
ok, my english is not good enough to understand this. But this reminds me of my impression that people have a lot of you-must-be-this-and-that-otherwise-you-are-this-and-that. they are loud and noisy. Little respect.
Nobody talks to the others as if they need them. They talk so as if others owe them a perfect being.
But I know I am a softy and sometimes the victims function better with whip than with freedom and free will. I really don't know...
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by tiziani
So older generations had no clue how to have healthy relations. Clearly tech and going outside isn't the problem.


No but if young men are giving up on dating, clearly they need to get out more.


When you go to lezzyland, date a millennial girl.
...okay no, I like you. Date Gen X.
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What's up with Gen X? Were they really any different in terms of social interaction?
Posted by Fox
I'm ok for a millennial lass!
HMMPH!


You have a Cap Moon.
Not being self reliant and responsible is almost impossible for you. Your moon won't allow it.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"talk you into a 110 percent mortgage together"
ok, my english is not good enough to understand this. But this reminds me of my impression that people have a lot of you-must-be-this-and-that-otherwise-you-are-this-and-that. they are loud and noisy. Little respect.
Nobody talks to the others as if they need them. They talk so as if others owe them a perfect being.
But I know I am a softy and sometimes the victims function better with whip than with freedom and free will. I really don't know...


Its crime to need anyone for anything really, you are owed nothing.
???This cynical as hell mentality is replacing as long as you tried mentality.
Neither promotes a health interdependent society from thriving and growing.
Posted by Redbull
The dating world goes round. its not like all have dropped out or anything. It is what it is


Its the fact a noticeable amount is what has everyone angry, scared and confused.
Even saying their reasons outright rationally, people just ignore them and say their version of what's wrong with them and what they need to do to get laid basically.
"Its crime to need anyone for anything really"
against the nature what you say.
we need people and we should be humble for that.
typical fight between OP and dxper:
1. OP Comes here and Need People.
2. OP has lots of conditions how he/she should be handled.
3. dxper needs OP cause why do they put time into it?
4. dxper brings lots of conditions how OP should live the thread and life and all.

everybody needs others, bur don't want to be considerate to them.
The most important tool for our species to survive:
Posted by KVZZMIR11
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Now I can see why this radical feminism is truly evil. It's nothing more than driving us all to be divided and separate


The article on OP was written in London, i.e. Europe.
Also, Europe is more feminist than United States, so if what you say was true, it would indicate that " materialism," "consumerism" and "collectivism" of United States is the bigger evil than feminism.
Which I agree with, and it effects both men AND women.
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Wait really? Well in that case I don't have much to worry about for the time being. (sigh of relief) But I agree it's a issue that should be seen by many. But luckily I actually keep contact with people and do try to date. But tbh as been said I'm just not the mood and I rather get a lot of things in my life figured out before I date again. Though if I do get with anyone I just wanna make sure they don't add to the problems and not interfere with them at least let me figure them out on my own. Feels better then someone who gets too close for comfort only to leap away when they see how bad it is.
"easier to connect with other people. "
easier connect with more and more people. Look, what IS sends to the whole world. Was it 40 years ago possible? Or all the IG hoeness. Child pornography. double and tripple dating files waiting for you on your cloud.
The more info to be processed, the more unfocused we are. brain brain brain. eyes, fingers... scattered .... unfocused ... confused ... deranged
Posted by DwellingOnMove
typical fight between OP and dxper:
1. OP Comes here and Need People.
2. OP has lots of conditions how he/she should be handled.
3. dxper needs OP cause why do they put time into it?
4. dxper brings lots of conditions how OP should live the thread and life and all.

everybody needs others, bur don't want to be considerate to them.


I'm confused. I date. What else has been demanded of young males in this thread?
Have sex with their girlfriends when they buy skimpy clothing?
...can you point out what conditions I demand?
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by DwellingOnMove
typical fight between OP and dxper:
1. OP ... needs people.
2. OP has lots of conditions how he/she should be handled.
3. dxper needs OP cause why do they put time into it?
4. dxper brings lots of conditions how OP should live the thread and life and all.

everybody needs others, but don't want to be considerate to them.


I'm confused. I date. What else has been demanded of young males in this thread?
Have sex with their girlfriends when they buy skimpy clothing?
...can you point out what conditions I demand?
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you took it to a wrong context. I was refering to this : "Its crime to need anyone for anything really". I took dxp as example.
(sorry, it was my fault. Too much input creates confusion)
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