Stopping a Wedding

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Undine
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STOOOOOOOP! I've just done your DNA profile and I'm 99.99% sure you are about to marry your twin!!

Haha, no way! It's too late now.... Go eat some wedding cake and let those people party. A marriage can be annulated if there are serious grounds for it, see below. But if there aren't and you try to ruin their day, just because, then you know what you are....(probably a Scorpio ex, lol).

https://www.gov.uk/how-to-annul-marriage

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Posted by ChowBBM
Posted by saggurl88
No, people avoid red flags on purpose and the person objecting looks like the asshole.



There is always divorce.



I don't mind seeing the heavily pregnant side pieces that do it though! They should!


What if your side piece gets married?
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That is actually the only situation I remember publicly if someone stopping a marriage



Of course he was a boomer



He sent his side piece this letter on her wedding day



BE MINE ... AND MINE ALONE, and I WILL BE YOURS AND YOURS ALONE! I LOVE YOU FOREVER, I LOVE YOU FOR ALWAYS. AS LONG AS I'M LIVING MY TWEETIE YOU'LL BE!"



I don’t remember all the details



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Personally no. I'm the type of person who you can tell not to touch the burner because it's hot, and I'd do it anyway to find out for myself. So in this case even if it was someone close to me, I feel they have the right to find out for themselves. Now after the fact if they kept putting their hand on the burner over and over and never learning, I would find them weak and useless. Which I would instantly disown them and feel nothing by doing so.

In some type of fictional world like a movie script where they end up about to marry a murderer who wants to kill them for all their money/ wealth and I'm the only human who knows, yet no one believes me or will do anything about it then yes. I imagine I'd go into detective mode and dig up a bunch of proof on my own, then right at the last second would object and bring up all the proof. Everyone would be so astonished, and the police would drag him or her away. Then I would be seen as the hero, then credits would roll. Actually that sounds like a good plot for a book or movie. A man or woman is about to marry an actual killer, and only one armchair detective can potentially stop it.
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It really depends on how important that person to me. In the past when I haven’t seen so many broken marriages I would repeat what everyone is saying on this thread. But if you care about friend or family, wouldn’t you tell them not to step on that land mine if you could see what was going to happen and they couldn’t. In hindsight I live with some regret for not speaking up, but these people at least had some nice children out of their mistake, so there is something positive that came out of a negative situation. But I definitely would speak up if I were I had the chance to relive those same moments because it could hurt that person for a good ten to twenty years.
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Posted by MysteriousHeart
Yes, I would have done it if my brother had decided to go through with the marriage to his ex fiancĆ©. She not only tried to put a wedge between him and our family by telling him lies about us etc. But she constantly was giving him ultimatums and was talking to/seeing her ex behind his back. Even got him to propose to her by telling him if he didn’t propose by such and such month she was going back to her ex. Luckily my brother wised up and broke things off with her. It was after he quit his job and moved with her across the country where he knew no one and had no job lined up, but better late than never I guess. That relationship broke him though. He moved back home here depressed, unemployed and broke because she basically spent all his savings on her and the move.


Wow🄲

Dare I ask about her Astrology?
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Posted by Raminheartz
It really depends on how important that person to me. In the past when I haven’t seen so many broken marriages I would repeat what everyone is saying on this thread. But if you care about friend or family, wouldn’t you tell them not to step on that land mine if you could see what was going to happen and they couldn’t. In hindsight I live with some regret for not speaking up, but these people at least had some nice children out of their mistake, so there is something positive that came out of a negative situation. But I definitely would speak up if I were I had the chance to relive those same moments because it could hurt that person for a good ten to twenty years.


ā€œNice children out of their mistakeā€

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Nope. It’s their choice. Who am I to make their decision for them? Live and learn!!

But you MUST giggle insideā€¦šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤”šŸ˜‚
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I was a bridesmaid in one wedding. I had warned her not to marry him. At least do counseling before… well they did and the counselor told them to at least postpone the wedding if not cancel!!! Still went through with it… I swear I think my eyes were rolling at the vows !! Lmao But it was their choice. They’ve had huge struggles but seem happy now. 10 years later!! Another one all of us who attended were taking bets how long it would last šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ I think it was 10 years or so.

Again not my choice. Talk to them before not after. Standing up is so controlling & making decisions for people. Not your place!