The death penalty would be too kind

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Deedee86 on Friday, August 11, 2017 and has 41 replies.
Last week I made a thread about this story but new details have come out and it gets even more heartbreaking.

This story is all over my local news. It happened about 30 minutes away. I will post a couple links but they don't even cover half of it. Every day, there is a new story.


June 30 an 11 year old girl is found dead.

The next day, the cause of death was announced as cardiac arrest and it was declared a murder


A few days later, an arrest was made. It was the father of her half brothers. It was announced that she died while he was raping her.


Cause of death was changed to asphyxiation by a pillow. She also had blunt trauma to her head and other body parts.


A second man was arrest and charged with rape and murder. He was the live in lover of the first man.


At the felony hearing it is revealed that the semen of the second man was found on the girl. There are seven people living in a tiny trailer including 4 children. Someone had to hear something! The girl was living there for the summer and had often stayed there for long periods of time. Child porn is found on the computer. The first man charged tries to place blame on one of his sons until DNA is revealed.


The biological mother speaks to the media. She hasn't seen the girl in 3 years and that was only for 5 minutes at a wal mart. She gave up custody 9 years ago because she is a heroin addict.

Her Facebook is open. She is married to a woman and has been for years but also has posted about loving her previous husband and spending 5 years in jail. She claimed that she knew the daughter was being abused for her entire life.

Maybe I would feel bad for her until she was arrested that night at the county fair on a warrant. Plus she wore a shirt that said "killing it" to the felony hearing. She has a total of 7 kids, 2 by the murderer. There was no mention of the other 4 but she has contact with none of them.

Foster mother was a friend of bio mom and living with the brother of the accused killer. She is supporting the accused until more details come out. Maybe she is in shock but she doesn't believe that he could do it.


Horrible crimes happen every day but this one is really weighing heavy on me. That poor little girl. Her last moments of life were fighting her rapist. It seems that every adult in her life failed her. The death penalty seems too kind. They need to be tortured slowly.
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Sounds like one of DonJohn's erotic fantasies.


Way too bizarre for me. Why would they rape a girl if the father and the second man were lovers?? This is like Shameless gone wrong or something. Too bizarre for me.


Burn them at the stake, I say.
Ugh I'm disgusted.
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Sounds like one of DonJohn's erotic fantasies.


Way too bizarre for me. Why would they rape a girl if the father and the second man were lovers?? This is like Shameless gone wrong or something. Too bizarre for me.


Burn them at the stake, I say.
I don't think they were gay, I think they were sexual deviants. Men, women, children.....maybe even the farm animals.

Im scared to hear what will come out next. There were other children in that house.


And I don't care if I sound judgmental but the bio mom at the hearing in leopard print leggings and a "killing it" shirt was just tacky and trashy as hell.


She knew her daughter was being abused but did absolutely nothing? She was an addict and criminal so I understand why giving her up was for the best but I don't understand why you wouldn't report the abuse.


And where the fuck were CPS? The girl was in foster care. Aren't they supposed to be checking up on her? She was technically a ward of the state. Why did they ok her spending extended periods of time with her killers? 7 people in a 2 bedroom trailer either her being the only female....how was that ok?
Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Is it possible that there is a root cause? A cycle of abuse? Trauma? Projection? Lack of support/guidance?

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There's always a cause. People who are happy or at least content with their life don't feel the need to escape reality by abusing drugs or alcohol or sex. For them to reach such a point where raping a little girl would give them gratification in any way, you can imagine how fucked in the head they must be at this stage.


As far as lack of support or guidance goes, they are full-grown adults. They should have the mental capacity to recognize that this isn't the way to live. Support workers aren't psychic. They had to ask for help or at least be forced to get help by the skank ex wife, but she was too far gone as well.
Posted by GetMisted
The father won't get the death penalty.




Birth father doesn't seem to exist. A name is mentioned in the obituary but he hasn't been spoken of yet. I wonder if he's ever been in the picture or if he just left his daughter to be raised by animals


http://www.allotsego.com/jacelyn-oconnor-11-morris-would-have-entered-6th-grade/
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I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Is it possible that there is a root cause? A cycle of abuse? Trauma? Projection? Lack of support/guidance?

There's always a cause. People who are happy or at least content with their life don't feel the need to escape reality by abusing drugs or alcohol or sex. For them to reach such a point where raping a little girl would give them gratification in any way, you can imagine how fucked in the head they must be at this stage.


As far as lack of support or guidance goes, they are full-grown adults. They should have the mental capacity to recognize that this isn't the way to live. Support workers aren't psychic. They had to ask for help or at least be forced to get help by the skank ex wife, but she was too far gone as well.
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Because the little girl was in foster care, CPS is supposed to make periodic visits of her residence. I don't know how they could approve of her summer living situation unless it was kept hidden.

Posted by Deedee86
And I don't care if I sound judgmental but the bio mom at the hearing in leopard print leggings and a "killing it" shirt was just tacky and trashy as hell.


She knew her daughter was being abused but did absolutely nothing? She was an addict and criminal so I understand why giving her up was for the best but I don't understand why you wouldn't report the abuse.


And we're the fuck were CPS? The girl was in foster care. Aren't they supposed to be checking up on her? She was technically a ward of the state. Why did they ok her spending extended periods of time with her killers? 7 people in a 2 bedroom trailer either her being the only female....how was that ok?
She wore a "killing it" shirt? What a piece of scum....


That poor little girl..... Sad


All involved should die and as you state Dee........slowly


Fucking disgraceful
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
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Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



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Posted by Deedee86
Posted by GetMisted
The father won't get the death penalty.




Birth father doesn't seem to exist. A name is mentioned in the obituary but he hasn't been spoken of yet. I wonder if he's ever been in the picture or if he just left his daughter to be raised by animals


http://www.allotsego.com/jacelyn-oconnor-11-morris-would-have-entered-6th-grade/
I meant the father of the two boys. The one that called 911
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It depends what else comes out.

Who knows what happened to that poor girl.

NY doesn't have death penalty anyways. I think Pataki tried bringing it back but the courts kept shooting it down.

I hope he gets prison justice.


Did anyone ever watch the documentary "my brothers keeper"?

When I moved out to the country I had to rent it because it was filmed about 20 minutes from me and 10 from this current murder. It's a completely different world that I ever knew existed.


The documentary was about three brothers that lived together. They are older, maybe 60's. One ends up being accused of murdering the other. During the trial, it came out that they were having sex with each other. I can't remember many details but they lived in filth and the entire film had hillbilly to English subtitles.


We need to stop this from happening to any other man woman or child.


Surely we can intervene before it gets to this point. Talking in schools.
Father of the boys birthday is October 22
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Father of the boys birthday is October 22
He does not deserve a birthday or a name.
And bio mom is July 18
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Is it possible that there is a root cause? A cycle of abuse? Trauma? Projection? Lack of support/guidance?

There's always a cause. People who are happy or at least content with their life don't feel the need to escape reality by abusing drugs or alcohol or sex. For them to reach such a point where raping a little girl would give them gratification in any way, you can imagine how fucked in the head they must be at this stage.


As far as lack of support or guidance goes, they are full-grown adults. They should have the mental capacity to recognize that this isn't the way to live. Support workers aren't psychic. They had to ask for help or at least be forced to get help by the skank ex wife, but she was too far gone as well.


Because the little girl was in foster care, CPS is supposed to make periodic visits of her residence. I don't know how they could approve of her summer living situation unless it was kept hidden.

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Yeah well they're supposed to do a lot of things, but I'm sure they have 100 excuses as to why they didn't do their job.
Obviously no one cared enough or dared to find out more about this girl and find out what was going on if she went to school...there would be signs.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Is it possible that there is a root cause? A cycle of abuse? Trauma? Projection? Lack of support/guidance?

There's always a cause. People who are happy or at least content with their life don't feel the need to escape reality by abusing drugs or alcohol or sex. For them to reach such a point where raping a little girl would give them gratification in any way, you can imagine how fucked in the head they must be at this stage.


As far as lack of support or guidance goes, they are full-grown adults. They should have the mental capacity to recognize that this isn't the way to live. Support workers aren't psychic. They had to ask for help or at least be forced to get help by the skank ex wife, but she was too far gone as well.


Because the little girl was in foster care, CPS is supposed to make periodic visits of her residence. I don't know how they could approve of her summer living situation unless it was kept hidden.

Yeah well they're supposed to do a lot of things, but I'm sure they have 100 excuses as to why they didn't do their job.
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Corruption.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.



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I disagree. In this case the abuse is so extreme as to warrant a lot of covert behavior and lying. I don't think it would be useful for these men.


I do think teaching people how to live and raise kids a few generations back and keeping it up with every generation might be useful.


The truth is ...some people make evil decisions. We cant lie to ourselves ....even if it seems unbelievable ..investigate it.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.



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In my experience they merely use all chances of help in an opportune way to manipulate. They must admit they can never ever be trusted.
Posted by Arielle83
It's cuz any ahole can breed no matter what they do in their life


They're all on meth and junk and live in a trailer and eat shit food. They have nothing but to take advantage of children. That's their sick fetish.
The child may not have been even wanted. In fact usually they are not. Unplanned.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.



In my experience they merely use all chances of help in an opportune way to manipulate. They must admit they can never ever be trusted.
Our experience doesn't make us reach the same pov.



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It's only fear that limits me ..I would do anything to prevent this I know you would too.


It's that gnawing feeling int he gut like you are hanging from a ledge and can't let yourself go ...INCASE.



My gut is afraid. I don't know how to stop things like this ....
You talking about mentally sick people here. They are unfortunately exist. Dealing with it? Hard!

But is it impossible?
And yes! Death penalty would be not enough.
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Posted by xghy
Posted by Montgomery
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.



In my experience they merely use all chances of help in an opportune way to manipulate. They must admit they can never ever be trusted.
Our experience doesn't make us reach the same pov.



It's only fear that limits me ..I would do anything to prevent this I know you would too.


It's that gnawing feeling int he gut like you are hanging from a ledge and can't let yourself go ...INCASE.



My gut is afraid. I don't know how to stop things like this ....
Part of it is not dealing with the actual problem.


It's hard to speak about a situation when you can be on either side of the fence one day.


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I don't think its situation you can be either side of the fence on.
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Posted by Arielle83
It's cuz any ahole can breed no matter what they do in their life


They're all on meth and junk and live in a trailer and eat shit food. They have nothing but to take advantage of children. That's their sick fetish.
The child may not have been even wanted. In fact usually they are not. Unplanned.
Of course
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Anyhow ..i think it's so sad. But just make sure to keep our energies ..ok...it can be disturbing to read these things.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.


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You mean men that are abusers?


I'm sorry, I'm not certain what you mean, exactly.


:/
Posted by Deedee86
Posted by GetMisted
The father won't get the death penalty.




Birth father doesn't seem to exist. A name is mentioned in the obituary but he hasn't been spoken of yet. I wonder if he's ever been in the picture or if he just left his daughter to be raised by animals


http://www.allotsego.com/jacelyn-oconnor-11-morris-would-have-entered-6th-grade/
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jesus christ. what is wrong with these people?? it's like some inbred backwoods mental deranged individuals. i agree with you about torture.
Posted by Deedee86
Did anyone ever watch the documentary "my brothers keeper"?

When I moved out to the country I had to rent it because it was filmed about 20 minutes from me and 10 from this current murder. It's a completely different world that I ever knew existed.


The documentary was about three brothers that lived together. They are older, maybe 60's. One ends up being accused of murdering the other. During the trial, it came out that they were having sex with each other. I can't remember many details but they lived in filth and the entire film had hillbilly to English subtitles.


where is this going on? what state and county?

this really awful.

it's like they never got any education and love, or were just thrown into the gutter to live.


i never heard of this ever. I'll look it up.


edit -- this?

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Posted by Deedee86
Did anyone ever watch the documentary "my brothers keeper"?

When I moved out to the country I had to rent it because it was filmed about 20 minutes from me and 10 from this current murder. It's a completely different world that I ever knew existed.


The documentary was about three brothers that lived together. They are older, maybe 60's. One ends up being accused of murdering the other. During the trial, it came out that they were having sex with each other. I can't remember many details but they lived in filth and the entire film had hillbilly to English subtitles.


where is this going on? what state and county?

this really awful.

it's like they never got any education and love, or were just thrown into the gutter to live.


i never heard of this ever. I'll look it up.
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Central NY. Less than an hour from Syracuse.


Birth mom has a public Facebook.

https://m.facebook.com/mandy.oconnor.965?tsid=0.9417727251308978&source=result


She made a pot for sympathy and is getting flogged for it.

I almost felt sorry for her. Almost......


Posted by Deedee86
Birth mom has a public Facebook.

https://m.facebook.com/mandy.oconnor.965?tsid=0.9417727251308978&source=result


She made a pot for sympathy and is getting flogged for it.

I almost felt sorry for her. Almost......


there's something wrong with her that she left her child to be with 6 people who are watching child porn in a trailer?? she is a selfish woman..

if she can sleep at night.. i dont know.

if these people were good people then it's different but i can't believe she didnt know what type of people they are.

Posted by LittleFairy
Obviously no one cared enough or dared to find out more about this girl and find out what was going on if she went to school...there would be signs.
it seemed no one cared.


it's better not to bring a child into this world to suffer this much.
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Posted by Deedee86
Birth mom has a public Facebook.

https://m.facebook.com/mandy.oconnor.965?tsid=0.9417727251308978&source=result


She made a pot for sympathy and is getting flogged for it.

I almost felt sorry for her. Almost......


there's something wrong with her that she left her child to be with 6 people who are watching child porn in a trailer?? she is a selfish woman..

if she can sleep at night.. i dont know.

if these people were good people then it's different but i can't believe she didnt know what type of people they are.

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In her interview that I linked above she stated that her daughter sustained long term abuse.

She knew and did nothing!


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Birth mom has a public Facebook.

https://m.facebook.com/mandy.oconnor.965?tsid=0.9417727251308978&source=result


She made a pot for sympathy and is getting flogged for it.

I almost felt sorry for her. Almost......


there's something wrong with her that she left her child to be with 6 people who are watching child porn in a trailer?? she is a selfish woman..

if she can sleep at night.. i dont know.

if these people were good people then it's different but i can't believe she didnt know what type of people they are.



In her interview that I linked above she stated that her daughter sustained long term abuse.

She knew and did nothing!


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this is just making me sick to my stomach.


i am with faery's comments earlier. we need to keep our energies intact. This is really very disturbing.

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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.
Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.


They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Idk... there are plenty of depraved abusers who


aren't strung out, I imagine.


It's probably been going on in that family for


generations-- likely they were abused


themselves, and their parents before them.


It's evil.



This is why it's necessary to have more crisis centre for men. A safe and open place for them to go without the social stigma.


I know it's a little off topic but just came to mind.


You mean men that are abusers?


I'm sorry, I'm not certain what you mean, exactly.


:/
Males who were abused. The cycle of abuse is there, not always the case of course.


I don't think I can elaborate without going off topic.

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Worse has happened here than OT, but fair


enough... nice to see someone who respects


the OP.


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