Trust on dxp

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Cancan26 on Monday, May 1, 2017 and has 47 replies.
How much trust is it on dxp...

Think about it... People that you let into your real lives on facebook... Who have access to your life...

People who exposes likes

People who save pics

People who exposes PM's

People who give out your real info

People who tell your real secrets

How many people on this website could expose you? How many people on this site do you trust....

I personally know a couple of you ..that I have friended on face book

I talk to couple of you in chat daily and you really know me...who know things about my real life..

One person I have poured my whole life story too in the PM's (nothing dirty) just been very vulnerable...

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Even if your super careful now you weren't always....
There's a few on here that I trust immensely.
I don't trust anyone
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Posted by Cancan26
How much trust is it on dxp...

Think about it... People that you let it too your real lives on facebook... Who have access now to your life...

People who exposes likes

People who save pics

People who exposes PM's

How many people on this website could expose you? How many people on this site do you trust....

I personally know a couple of you that I have friended on face book

I talk to couple of you in chat and you really know me...

One person I have poured my whole life story too in the PM's (nothing dirty) just been very vulnerable...

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Even if your super careful now you weren't always....
shifty crab is shifty.
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I can't help myself lmao....i just can't help myself
When you like making new friends but your a naturally suspicious

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Posted by EvilHare
Trust no one.
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Posted by LePetitFisk
Whaaaaaaat. Who's exposing likes?? lmao.
I saw some threads where they were screen shots of likes... Is nothing sacred... Lmao
Posted by Ixion
Crab paranoia is a thing.


I don't even blame cancer bit for this ..i blame my scorpio moon...

I am not a great judge of character either... I used to think I was but time has proven. Me wrong over and over again...

*Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none*

 William Shakespeare



i don't trust you Cancan lol
Posted by NemDeux
when is merc retrograde over again?


May 3rd

Posted by AerialView
i don't trust you Cancan lol
Angry dis makes sad but I guess you gotta give trust to get it
Posted by EvilHare
You're all shady as fuck.

I've added a few people on other social media who I deem LESS shady, though.
I feel so bad for feeling like this... But I can't help feeling exposed.. To those I have already trusted and those I want to trust in the future... Sad even though no one has done anything to me...
Posted by Ixion
Scorpio moon paranoia is a thing.
Fixed
Posted by Effervescent
I don't fully trust anyone on the internet.

But it was because of bad experiences online in the past. Like dude, my FB was found and some creepy weirdo exposed all my personal information.

I even get sketchy about going on tiny chat and my voice being recognized. It's hard to trust people on the interwebs.

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+1

You know we've both been there.

It's really sad to see how careless people are about that and all gung ho about oversharing. People have been brainwashed into doing this and we're seeing less common sense in what's shared and how easily people are given information because people seem to think that any type of sharing is okay online.
I have circles of trust.. most of you I don't trust, others that I have on fb I trust, for the most part, those I have met or spoken to on the phone have 100% trust... that's A very small amount.

I understand Cancan, being open about who you are outside of dxp, in the wrong hands could do some real damage.

Hug
Posted by tiziani
I understand why you feel that way Cancan. You've said in the past you don't like feeling deceived.

I personally feel the place is fine. I don't exactly lead an interesting life so I don't know what anyone would be exposing. Plus my real life isn't on facebook. It's just a bunch of watch and travel pics, plus some actors I hired to be my friends so I could snare you into a Ponzi scheme.
LaughingLaughingI laughed so hard at thay ponzi scheme
Posted by justagirl
I have circles of trust.. most of you I don't trust, others that I have on fb I trust, for the most part, those I have met or spoken to on the phone have 100% trust... that's A very small amount.

I understand Cancan, being open about who you are outside of dxp, in the wrong hands could do some real damage.

Hug
You know the first thing I thought when I was reading this is... Why haven't you talk to me on the phone like a big ole babyLaughing... Those that I have already befriended I know I can trust...
Posted by LePetitFisk
ADD ME ON FACEBOOK, CANCAN!! Then I'm gonna treat your friends list like my own personal Tinder n shit.
I really was gonna add you on face book then like the avatar you disappeared when the world needed you most

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I still plan on adding you... With my sideways crab walk it takes me forever but since you brought it up

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Will you be my facebook friend
i'm way too ridiculous to be taken seriously on any interactive level, including face-face.

most people just think i'm a drunk hobo and leave me alone, to be honest.
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Posted by Cancan26
Posted by LePetitFisk
ADD ME ON FACEBOOK, CANCAN!! Then I'm gonna treat your friends list like my own personal Tinder n shit.
I really was gonna add you on face book then like the avatar you disappeared when the world needed you most

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I still plan on adding you... With my sideways crab walk it takes me forever but since you brought it up

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Will you be my facebook friend
lol. I would, but i shut my FB down some time ago.

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Smart girl! ... Smug

Some people have thousands of friends on Facebook who can see everything so why people all of sudden get suspicious of dxp a bit strange. And correct me if I'm wrong but you look at other people's stuff facebook when you're not even friends right?

Things are more personal here though in terms of details about girlfriends/boyfriends/crushes (it's how most people find this place and register) And the anonymity here naturally makes people reveal more about their personal lives than normal. Which is fine to a certain degree as long as you accept the criticism that normally comes, which again because this site is mainly anonymous, that criticism is usually full blown and a bit harsh.

I mean I'm not going to drop names here but there are some people on exp (This has always been the case here btw) that really wash their dirty washing in public... link every sock.
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Some people have thousands of friends on Facebook who can see everything so why people all of sudden get suspicious of dxp a bit strange. And correct me if I'm wrong but you look at other people's stuff facebook when you're not even friends right?

Things are more personal here though in terms of details about girlfriends/boyfriends/crushes (it's how most people find this place and register) And the anonymity here naturally makes people reveal more about their personal lives than normal. Which is fine to a certain degree as long as you accept the criticism that normally comes, which again because this site is mainly anonymous, that criticism is usually full blown and a bit harsh.

I mean I'm not going to drop names here but there are some people on exp (This has always been the case here btw) that really wash their dirty washing in public... link every sock.
I personally don't have thousands of friends on Facebook only people that I know..

Also what I place on face book is very controlled

The anonymity of this place does make people reveal things faster than they should in my opinion and that causes people to be "exposed" over and over again...

I personally have trust issues... Simple as that so I am always weary of new people whether on dxp, Facebook, on real life
It doesnt matter i am an open book

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There is a solution in my opinion.

If you have someone on dxp who you have shared an enormous amount of personal and private things and are a little bit worried whether he or she will reveal that information to other dxp members, either in the forums or in pm's, then what you'd need to do is solidify that bond and trust in real life. Meet them in person and that make the trust impenetratablw, because they've seen you, it's real, it's physical and they know you and the other person is real as well all the stuff you have shared. Because at the end of the day, even if you trust someone on here 100 percent and you haven't met them in person, that person is still just a username and avatar.
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Posted by justagirl
I have circles of trust.. most of you I don't trust, others that I have on fb I trust, for the most part, those I have met or spoken to on the phone have 100% trust... that's A very small amount.

I understand Cancan, being open about who you are outside of dxp, in the wrong hands could do some real damage.

Hug
You know the first thing I thought when I was reading this is... Why haven't you talk to me on the phone like a big ole babyLaughing... Those that I have already befriended I know I can trust...
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Awww Hug I can call you if you want, I just respect that you are very private so never brought up that subject.
Posted by Ixion
Posted by justagirl
Posted by Ixion
Scorpio moon paranoia is a thing.
Fixed
It ain't either or...definitely both and. This coming from a man who has two Cap friends with scorp moons an ex with a scorp moon and two cancer exes and several cancer women that I have "talked" to.
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Lol ? it is both for sure!

*waits for the cancers to tar and feather her*

Posted by NemDeux
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Posted by NemDeux
when is merc retrograde over again?


May 3rd

ok. tx.
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No problem

Two more days to go!

If you are on my facebook, or have my cell phone number, I trust you.

If you don't. Nope.
Bunch of creeps
Why do people keep mentioning exposing likes??? If it is what I think it is then.... wow.
People who exposes likes: Do you mean people who write out every person that liked their post? I 've never seen this, and would honestly be surprised if i did.

People who save pics: I bet lots of people do. My Leo sun secretly hopes people save mine ♥

People who exposes PM's: I did this once. It wasn't that serious, but still mentioned something from PM in a thread. I rarely PM anyway, and consider myself not good at it.

People who give out your real info: I've seen a few people do this. There really isn't a need to say names though. Most people who do/did it are known for it, and others you just don't want to fuck with in general.

People who tell your real secrets: As a Scorpio moon these type of people are a myth in my life. In other words, my friend circle is tight. My secrets are tighter.

People who tell your real secrets: Look above

How many people on this website could expose you: Depends on how good at hacking they are. Even then they would only gain my useless internet history, which people likely already know. Nothing new. My real secrets die when I die.


Posted by Soul
People who exposes likes: Do you mean people who write out every person that liked their post? I 've never seen this, and would honestly be surprised if i did.

People who save pics: I bet lots of people do. My Leo sun secretly hopes people save mine ♥

People who exposes PM's: I did this once. It wasn't that serious, but still mentioned something from PM in a thread. I rarely PM anyway, and consider myself not good at it.

People who give out your real info: I've seen a few people do this. There really isn't a need to say names though. Most people who do/did it are known for it, and others you just don't want to fuck with in general.

People who tell your real secrets: As a Scorpio moon these type of people are a myth in my life. In other words, my friend circle is tight. My secrets are tighter.

People who tell your real secrets: Look above

How many people on this website could expose you: Depends on how good at hacking they are. Even then they would only gain my useless internet history, which people likely already know. Nothing new. My real secrets die when I die.


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And such a sweet heart...
Posted by Cancan26
How much trust is it on dxp...

Think about it... People that you let into your real lives on facebook... Who have access to your life...

People who exposes likes

People who save pics

People who exposes PM's

People who give out your real info

People who tell your real secrets

Where troll and alt accounts greatly outnumber real accounts, no way! 0 trust. I'm surprised there hasnt already been stories of people losing $ $ .



On the bright side, there is something nice about anonymity making it easier to disclose, knowing you can stay anonymous

Posted by Soul

How many people on this website could expose you: Depends on how good at hacking they are. Even then they would only gain my useless internet history, which people likely already know. Nothing new. My real secrets die when I die.
Expose you how, with your dxpnet account? Like your private messages? Or hacking into more things?

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Posted by Soul

How many people on this website could expose you: Depends on how good at hacking they are. Even then they would only gain my useless internet history, which people likely already know. Nothing new. My real secrets die when I die.
Expose you how, with your dxpnet account? Like your private messages? Or hacking into more things?

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My dxp account is already open to the public, so basically my computer. For me if it were personal information I wouldn't post it on dxpnet. Like i wouldn't post my email or credit card number on dxpnet, but a hacker could figure those things out.
Man.. no one's tried to "expose" me. I don't even get dick pics.

Either I'm basic as fuck or there's a secret pervy password to the Internet that came in a cereal box my parents were too Quaker oatmeal to buy.
Posted by tiziani
A bad day for trust on DXP.
eh?

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Posted by tiziani
A bad day for trust on DXP.
eh?

full government names and facebooks posted, multiple bannings, suspected catfish accounts, the whole works

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I missed the good stuff, thank god...

Posted by whosays
People even want my mother's occupation on DXP

I'm like maybe I should call my mother and be like hey ma what do I tell people on the internet your occupation is

My father wanted to talk sense into CC.

Posted by Damnata
Posted by whosays
People even want my mother's occupation on DXP

I'm like maybe I should call my mother and be like hey ma what do I tell people on the internet your occupation is

My father wanted to talk sense into CC.

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Goddamn Virgos lol ??

Being a Scorpio, my intuition can sense who I can trust or not.. The people I've gotten to know only through post and PMs are trustworthy in my opinion.. All you trolls and fakes get NO love! Sorry!
Posted by Damnata

That video is 91 seconds long. People this days - don't have that much attention span. Straight Face

To sum it up...

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And Yeah - i trust them. They're goodhearted and trustworthy people (as far as I'm concern). Just because i met them online - that doesn't make it any different than the people i know from the physical world.