
What is that thin line between a needy person and a friendly person? How do you differentiate?



Posted by andstrollbotYour thread? Which one 😐
Is this a spinoff from my thread?

Posted by andstrollbotNah! Not really
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/people-that-say-hi-to-everyone-lonely-6709464/

Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with

Posted by andstrollbotWell,that he is!Posted by newloveFriendzoned?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confusedclick to expand

Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWow this one's good...in detail...i like it
Needy:
-Wants to know your every move.
-Always asking stupid questions like "what do you love about me?"
-Texting or calling back to back when they don't get an immediate response from you.
-Always pouts or complains when you want to spend some alone time or time with your friends.

Posted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
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Posted by andstrollbotThis is my exact thought...but why would he do that?Posted by newloveHe is trying to get to the baezone and then he back pedaledPosted by andstrollbotWell,that he is!Posted by newloveFriendzoned?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
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Posted by NemiliciousWe'll keep in touch 😛Posted by newlovePosted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
Ohhh boy. Lol. Im reminded of those awkward "lets stay in contact" moments .....yeahhh let's not.
Well, maybe it will all pan out.
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Posted by andstrollbotWhat's that? 😐Posted by newloveAsc scorp 91? LolPosted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
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Posted by andstrollbotSame wedding story eh? 😛Posted by newloveNvm I thought you were a previous posterPosted by andstrollbotWhat's that? 😐Posted by newloveAsc scorp 91? LolPosted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
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Posted by blackphaseI guess that line exists when you are in "get to know you more" phase...anything you say or do can be considered as a friendly gesture or it can give " i need attention" vibes
I didn't think there was a fine line there.. two completely different things.
In being friendly you don't care or aren't effected by the attention you receive from another.. In being needy you require it and obsess about it.

Posted by NoSmart move! 😛Posted by newlovePosted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
I think he wanted to see if you would respond to him, when you ignored him he tried to play it cool to get back as if he didn't mean anything behind itclick to expand

Posted by andstrollbotYou don't like attending them or you don't get the chance to attend ?Posted by newloveYesPosted by andstrollbotSame wedding story eh? 😛Posted by newloveNvm I thought you were a previous posterPosted by andstrollbotWhat's that? 😐Posted by newloveAsc scorp 91? LolPosted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
I've never been to a wedding as an adultclick to expand

Posted by andstrollbotA thought too deep!Posted by newloveAny event that marks the passing of time I will pass on.Posted by andstrollbotYou don't like attending them or you don't get the chance to attend ?Posted by newloveYesPosted by andstrollbotSame wedding story eh? 😛Posted by newloveNvm I thought you were a previous posterPosted by andstrollbotWhat's that? 😐Posted by newloveAsc scorp 91? LolPosted by NemiliciousWe met few months ago...cousin's wedding...stayed there for 4days,we both talked a lot...exchanged numbers last dayPosted by newloveWhat are the circumstances of this aquaintancy? How did you meet/exchange tel numbers?Posted by NemiliciousI'm not sending any signals at all...have been busy though,so replying to every texts have not been possiblePosted by newloveNot clear which signals you are sending?Posted by NoThere's this guy who texts me random stuff,always initiates convos,funny and stuff
the needy person is so fucking annoying, pain in the ass, and tend to be hell whiny
the friendly person is a nice one and you can hang out with
Few days ago he sent me something that sounded a bit needy so i ignored it...he texted me again to say that he was not flirting with me and the text was totally platonic,i told him its cool...again he's texted me today random stuff
What is he? Insecure,needy,friendly...so confused
Sometimes he just tells me,you are so busy,i hope i'm not bothering you
I've never been to a wedding as an adultclick to expand
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