WHERE ALL THESE LOVESICK PUPPIES COME FROM?

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Enoch
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Seriously I joined this site a while back and ALL I read is people complainin about their failed relationships wussup man? WHY YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU NEEDA ASK INTERNET FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE—? Funny thing is some chick named Damnata if DXPNet was real? Well, I'm sure put lotta trust in it since you askin "What should I bout this Virgo boy or that Leo girl? C'mon y'all got nothin else goin on other than chasin after some fool who don't care bout you in the first place— DXpnet a place for buncha lovesick losers?
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Posted by Enoch
What I'm sayin is if you got relationship problems, work it out yourself why get on the internet askin for advice? Its not even good advice! Hire a psychiatrist, Leave the internet for more progressive minds. If you need to ask for advice from a site that you don't trust, you shouldnt be in a relationship!!!



That's how you feel about the subject, and that's fine. I'm not the type to ask for any kind of advice on the netz either, unless I'm really stuck and see no other options, and that's happened to me once. There's just no need to call people "losers" because they're asking for advice on a site that encourages asking for advice. Maybe it's really helpful to some. What works for them might not work for you, yaddi yaddi yadda...

The stories will always be one-sided, you're right about that.




I believe that most people ask for advice, not because they want to hear advice, but because they need someone to talk to. Or just get some things off their chest, write them down, and they can't do that irl for whatever reason. If advice is given to them, they'll still probably do whatever they want anyway.
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Not everyone has the resources or the motivation to go to a counselor, etc. Especially, if they have a quick question about their s/o. DXP is an astrology based site composed of a community of people who all share an interest and some knowledge about astrology in general and as a means to help better understand others. Consequently, people who find this site use that site's purpose to their advantage. Lol. As they should. They come to get advice and understanding about their s/o as conceptualized through their astrological sign.

People who are unwilling to listen are a bit frustrating, but out side of that you cant get upset for people using the site in way that is most beneficial for them. You use the site to meet your needs and others do the same. Makes sense to me.
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Posted by Scruffy
Posted by tiziani
It's unavoidable really. Woman-dominated site. You can't even a Man Cave forum without women posting there and making it about sex. After a while you just learn to appreciate your environment.



There's The Powder Room for chicks who aren't cool with hanging in The Man Cave. Just sayin'...




It is what it is. Like I said, I learned to appreciate DXP for the reality it is. People needing someone to just listen for the most part.


If the main purpose of this site was always to really learn about different ways of thinking, then you would be able to have threads where men were allowed to post and discuss and come to their own conclusions. Possibly for the benefit of everyone, might I add. But does that happen? No, because priorities are elsewhere.
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Well damn....
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Posted by Theatrum
Posted by Enoch
What I'm sayin is if you got relationship problems, work it out yourself why get on the internet askin for advice? Its not even good advice! Hire a psychiatrist, Leave the internet for more progressive minds. If you need to ask for advice from a site that you don't trust, you shouldnt be in a relationship!!!



That's how you feel about the subject, and that's fine. I'm not the type to ask for any kind of advice on the netz either, unless I'm really stuck and see no other options, and that's happened to me once. There's just no need to call people "losers" because they're asking for advice on a site that encourages asking for advice. Maybe it's really helpful to some. What works for them might not work for you, yaddi yaddi yadda...

The stories will always be one-sided, you're right about that.




I believe that most people ask for advice, not because they want to hear advice, but because they need someone to talk to. Or just get some things off their chest, write them down, and they can't do that irl for whatever reason. If advice is given to them, they'll still probably do whatever they want anyway.
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I find it useless, waste time, waste of energy and worst of all it just makes me thinks of MY fucked up relationships, which I want nothin to do with!!!
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Posted by Enoch
Posted by aquasnoz
Enoch have you ever considered DXP just isn't for you? What were you expecting? A place to talk about cigarettes and cars only? How did you even find this place dude?

Why don't you go on facebook and bitch about how everyone likes to tell you about their lives.

...Well then better topics like that Annunaki article you got on here, shit was enlightening at least.
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Probably not DXP's cuppa tea tho. Hate to say it but think Doctor Phil, think of DXP as a giant therapy session lol. Like even saying that I'm probably going to offend someone.
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Posted by cakereshkigal
Posted by Enoch
Posted by Theatrum
Posted by Enoch
What I'm sayin is if you got relationship problems, work it out yourself why get on the internet askin for advice? Its not even good advice! Hire a psychiatrist, Leave the internet for more progressive minds. If you need to ask for advice from a site that you don't trust, you shouldnt be in a relationship!!!



That's how you feel about the subject, and that's fine. I'm not the type to ask for any kind of advice on the netz either, unless I'm really stuck and see no other options, and that's happened to me once. There's just no need to call people "losers" because they're asking for advice on a site that encourages asking for advice. Maybe it's really helpful to some. What works for them might not work for you, yaddi yaddi yadda...

The stories will always be one-sided, you're right about that.




I believe that most people ask for advice, not because they want to hear advice, but because they need someone to talk to. Or just get some things off their chest, write them down, and they can't do that irl for whatever reason. If advice is given to them, they'll still probably do whatever they want anyway.

I find it useless, waste time, waste of energy and worst of all it just makes me thinks of MY fucked up relationships, which I want nothin to do with!!!




You can always ignore it.

The world doesnt revolve around you, that includes DXP.

If you don't like seeing some threads, then scroll away.

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You cant just scroll cuz every thread is the same darn thing, except first it was an first an Aquarius and then all of a sudden the stars re-align, the Taurus snuffed her on the face, instead of thinkin gee I should snuff him back, she comes cryin on the internet!
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Enoch
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Posted by cakereshkigal
It's so easy to throw advice here and there. Everything is easy if you're the obsever. You're not in that person's situation, so you'll never understand. Be grateful, cookiemonster. Because once upon a time you had your own issues you had to deal with as well and you dealt with it your way.

We've done that, seen that, been there, seen fire and rain but its about rechargin and gettin back on your feet.
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Posted by cakereshkigal
It's so easy to throw advice here and there. Everything is easy if you're the obsever. You're not in that person's situation, so you'll never understand. Be grateful, cookiemonster. Because once upon a time you had your own issues you had to deal with as well and you dealt with it your way.

We've done that, seen that, been there, seen fire and rain but its about rechargin and gettin back on your feet.



Let them do it on their own.

We're not going to do the same things at the same time.

Good for you if you're life is so great and that you're back on your feet. You did it at your own pace.
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Where does it say that "life is so great?"
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Posted by Enoch
I like Damnata's post about where she ask if all this DXP shit is real, yet she still posts on here regularly. How do I know YOUR real— Blamin all ya psychological problems on a Virgo boyfriend who don't even exist!!!



Ofc I post, it's funny as hell to me. I am not sure if you're referring to me with the Virgo boyfriend though.

People take this site way too seriously..which is one thing in itself and it's their prerogative. To expect others to take it seriously as you do it's madness to me.
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Enoch
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Posted by Damnata
This is a relationships site though. And some Astroloy on the side.



Astrology is cool, but when people come online and ask "Does he Like Me?" Or "What are some topics to talk about with a Leo Girl?" Or "Why he Call no more?" WTF. TALK TO THEM! Why you askin buncha online strangers for no freakin reason! You want something? GET UP AND GET IT! Thinking and plottin online aint gonna get ya nowhere. And then you ask whether DXPnet is real? Well, it IS real since you trust it enough to post ya own version of Titanic,Romeo and Juliet everyday!
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Posted by natural25
Not everyone has the resources or the motivation to go to a counselor, etc. Especially, if they have a quick question about their s/o. DXP is an astrology based site composed of a community of people who all share an interest and some knowledge about astrology in general and as a means to help better understand others. Consequently, people who find this site use that site's purpose to their advantage. Lol. As they should. They come to get advice and understanding about their s/o as conceptualized through their astrological sign.

People who are unwilling to listen are a bit frustrating, but out side of that you cant get upset for people using the site in way that is most beneficial for them. You use the site to meet your needs and others do the same. Makes sense to me.

You cant help but notice that questions people ask are just dumbass questions: "What topics do Leo girls like talkin about?" smh. "Does he Love me?" "Why is he Staring at Me?" "This Leo girl is cute, what should I do to get her?" LOL. Are you fuckin serious— ALL these simps on here make me sick. Now, I dont have any problems with havin relationships (Been there, done that and lookin for more) but do you REALLY need to come ask us ask instructions on how to talk to a girl? Your father was THAT much of a DEADBEAT?
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Posted by tiziani
I only brought it up as an example of the general theme that was mentioned in the OP. I'm just talking about motivation for being here, not saying people should not post anywhere they like.

There are plenty of other examples, which I'm guilty of obnoxious posting myself. Just yesterday natural made a thread addressed to Pisces Men. I posted. Because the topic had been a matter of discussion for me and my friends this whole week. That was selfish of me. There was just a Scorps only thread in the Scorp forum just now, and I posted because what PR said was so powerful it resonated with me.


Anyway my point is if I told myself I was here to learn when I first joined DXP, I know that motivation had slid down my priority list as time passes. As long as you're having fun and not hurting anyone though, I don't see the problem.



It's ok. I didn't mind. Lol. 😉
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Enoch
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Will you go out with me?

I'll pretend to like you, get you all goo-goo ga-ga, then dump you. Then we can both partake on the lovesick posts. You can call me a bitch and I'll call you a dickwad. It will be fun.

Been there, done that, had it happen to me after 4 years, people died on men, but hey, its all bout rechargin ya batteries n gettin back on the field. You cant beat yourself senseless over 1 person, when there are billions of other to conquer!!! Sick of my generation, shoulda been a baby boomer.
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOL. That shit probably is baggy by now. He may just kill himself cause he been acting real suicidal for the past few years. Idk why the fuck he so upset.

The nigga from the hood, rich, been making hits since I can remember, had a few good looking women he could brag to his kids about fucking, has a clothing line and a shoe line, and he still complaining.

That nigga cray..

You can only get so far when Devil got ya soul but it DID inspire classics like College Dropout, Late Registration, even Yeezus aint shabby when you gotta turn up...so hail the craziness cus they was sayin same shit bout Pac,now EVERYONE on HIS dick like couple of hoes, even Diddy n Hov lol. Funny how that goes!
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Yeah that's true. Pac got all kinds of fans now, lol. Nonetheless, I never thought Pac was crazy...in a psychiatric sense. Pac had a mission. Kanye just being a Bitch. I like his old shit really, yall can have his new shit. Now and later. And I was never a fan of Diddy nor Hov though Hov got more than a few old hits I can bump to. Just like Kanye.

Put Pac n Kanye together n you got another Outkast (thug n nerd) like Big Boi n Andre 3000.
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Naw. I think it was the gemini effect making all that sound. Him being lost for words was the result from mary jane and I bet he thought the whole thing was quite artistic.

...Its lonely to be at top of the world.



Only when you don't share.

Puff puff pass.
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Puff puff pass? See how the wind change direction? Get a bag of cookies,chips n orange juice ready, you'll need em!