Why are we such hypocrites?!

You invest thousands of dollars to get size Double E breast implants or azz injections, yet you accuse guys of being shallow & wish someone would see you for who you are on the inside & not just the outside? Hmmm ironic

You wear 2 pounds of makeup, 6 pounds of weave & 10 pounds of fake eyelashes, yet you're constantly complaining to your girlfriends about how you want a man who will accept you for who you really/naturally are? Hmmm ironic

You give up the cookie the 1st night & yet you're wondering why you end up getting friend-zoned or only get as far as "Friends with benefits?" Hmmm ironic

You're terrified of a man thinking your possessive, clingy & crazy yet you're constantly going through his things, Facebook stalking him, calling/texting him 100 times when he won't answer & throwing tantrums all b/c he occasionally want to hang out with someone other than you?? Hmm ironic

You want a man who will be faithful, yet of all the guys in the world you could be choosing, you end up choosing the 1 guy whose got a rep for cheating & being a player? lol Hmmm ironic

You want people to stay out of your relationship & out of your business, yet you're the 1st person on Facebook/Twitter airing out all of your business and/or calling all of your friends/family the minute something happens? Hmm ironic

You're complaining that online dating sucks & that you can't find anyone online, yet the pictures in your online profile include you being half naked or in compromising positions? Hmm ironic

You claim you're tired of being hurt & settling, yet you fix the problem by settling?! lol hmmm ironic

You claim all guys are "this" or "that" w/o realizing that saying that implies that you've tried them all out, which def. can't be considered attractive to a good man. Hmm ironic

You want a guy to take you seriously & take you home to his mama yet he's already got 6 naked pictures of you in his phone that YOU sent & you've only known him for less than 6 months? Hmm ironic

You want a nice quality guy who loves God, won't see you as a sex object & who will treat you with respect, yet you go "guy shopping" at clubs, bars, & everywhere where "love/relationships" are the LAST thing on a man's mind?! hmmm ironic

You want a man who won't abuse you yet you constantly say silly things like, "Oh it was just a small slap, nothing major." Hmmm, ironic!

You say you want love & your own man but yet you're always playing the role of "side chick" or having eyes f

You say you want love & your own man but yet you're always playing the role of "side chick" or having eyes for/going after somebody else's man! Hmm ironic?

Oh come on!!! Get it together ladies! If love is what you're really after, know that some of you have some F'd up ways of going about getting it!!! If you invest in the bullsh**t within yourself or men, you'll get bullsh**t as a result! Stop it with the hypocrisy!!! It's killing you & your love life!

lol oh & don't even get me started on eyebrows! You want everyone to think you're happy yet you drew your eyebrows on with a permanent marker, in a straight line O_O

Rightttttttt

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10lbs of fake eyelashes? dafuq are they made of, lead?

lol

Posted by krysrenee7
You say you want love & your own man but yet you're always playing the role of "side chick" or having eyes for/going after somebody else's man! Hmm ironic?

Oh come on!!! Get it together ladies! If love is what you're really after, know that some of you have some F'd up ways of going about getting it!!! If you invest in the bullsh**t within yourself or men, you'll get bullsh**t as a result! Stop it with the hypocrisy!!! It's killing you & your love life!

It bleeds over to others as well.
Decent guys can get pretty jaded because they see the crap you listed a lot. Turns them off in general.

Never did any of that shizzle. Maybe because I never had Facebook/Twitter Facebook/Twitter 😭 @ list automatically cut to half!

But if a guy truly likes you, he'll accept you with all your extra 18 lbs of fakery. The thing is to do you, your personality should be the thing that's original about you & if a person is going to mis-judge you based on what they see on the outside then they are not worth it either in my book.

People have 'types' & maybe some guy out there does like z cup boobs & all that other stuff you listed, Krys...so the future doesn't look too grim for our phony sisters. Rock your weave girl if that's what you really want because guys do actually give 2nd looks to the "fake girls". You don't often see them drooling over some bald headed girl, they like the extra stuff.

Btw, all the girls that are seen as sex symbols & all these guys run after & even propose to ARE fake as hell. Kim K is a good example. I don't see many worship the likes of Alek Wek, even though she is VERY original. LOL! Men of substance are rare & it's not fair to put the blame only on the ladies. It's the battle of the PHATTEST ass out there, truth be told.

Posted by kraft
I saw that bitch @ Walmart.

We were in line and I was trying to avoid eye contact.

I put up a thread on that (Walmart)

Posted by feby16aqua
People should just do what makes them happy.

This.

I have friends who won't even leave the house without full make-up on whereas I rarely wear it. They don't judge me on my choices and I don't judge them. To each their own.

There are bigger problems in life if you ask me.

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Btw, all the girls that are seen as sex symbols & all these guys run after & even propose to ARE fake as hell. Kim K is a good example. I don't see many worship the likes of Alek Wek, even though she is VERY original. LOL! Men of substance are rare & it's not fair to put the blame only on the ladies. It's the battle of the PHATTEST ass out there, truth be told.

Hey, there are plenty of natural phat asses.

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In other parts of the world maybe 😛 I don't know man, but most American asses look man-made to me. .not all ofcourse...I'm sure there are FEW exceptions here & there though 😛

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lol oh & don't even get me started on eyebrows! You want everyone to think you're happy yet you drew your eyebrows on with a permanent marker, in a straight line O_O

Rightttttttt

Because filling in your eyebrows is a sure sign of depression.

I dunno. I think I'd eat a bullet if my shit looked like this...

Is that a mug shot?

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Definitely. o_O

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Btw, all the girls that are seen as sex symbols & all these guys run after & even propose to ARE fake as hell. Kim K is a good example. I don't see many worship the likes of Alek Wek, even though she is VERY original. LOL! Men of substance are rare & it's not fair to put the blame only on the ladies. It's the battle of the PHATTEST ass out there, truth be told.

Hey, there are plenty of natural phat asses.

In other parts of the world maybe 😛 I don't know man, but most American asses look man-made to me. .not all ofcourse...I'm sure there are FEW exceptions here & there though 😛

On television yeah. Majority of those are fake. Nonetheless there are plenty of glucosed dimpled asses where I look.
And please, this is coming from someone who thinks brazilian butts are fake. 😛

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LMAO @ glucosed. I was just kidding with you, I'm sure the everyday girl on the street has God given ASSets. Btw I saw a thread CC posted on the Taurus forum about Tahiry & Joe, I've never heard of them so I googled. OMG at her ass! I mean, if you do enhancements they should at least look natural otherwise it's a dead giveaway...what's the point? Her ass is waaay too big for her size. They both look good though & I think I've developed a crush on Joe lol...that voice *swoons*

Posted by Synapse
Why don't women who want an ass just do squats?! DO THOSE SQUATS!

Maybe they want one that claps or wobbles. I imagine an ass got by doing squats will be hard & won't give applaus much.

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lol oh & don't even get me started on eyebrows! You want everyone to think you're happy yet you drew your eyebrows on with a permanent marker, in a straight line O_O

Rightttttttt

Because filling in your eyebrows is a sure sign of depression.

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LMAO!

I'm fully aware that some men actually like or at least don't mind makeup, weave, etc.

The problem is that some men don't! And I find it ironic that the women who go to extremes to change from their natural state just so happen to be attracted to men that prefer things more natural.

Hey, I'm all for women doing whatever the hell they want! I wear makeup & have worn weave before! BUT I'm not gonna go chase after a bunch of guys who can't stand that stuff, then get mad when they friend-zone me lol

There's nothing wrong with using things to enhance beauty. That, in my opinion isn't the problem. The problem is when you go try selling ice to an Eskimo & then get mad when they're not buying it lol

You can't put yourself in a situation to appeal to players, but then get mad when players is all you end up with! You can't carry yourself in a way that usually attracts sex-feens & then be mad/wonder when you keep finding guys who only want you for 1 thing!

I'd rather pay money to take my azz to the gym for a nicer figure vs. paying some doctor thousands of dollars for cosmetic surgery that may or may not breed the results I want!!

If you go to the gym & do ab workouts for 1 full year, you are f'ing guaranteed to have a 6 pack minimum! lol

But if you go to a cosmetic surgeon, there's no guarantee that you'll get those results or hell, even make it out of the operating room!

Sheeesh!

I'm just saying!!

If you go pay $ 10K for a F'ing boob job, that means that you want others to notice your boobs right?!

Well if that's what you want, why get mad when guys can't seem to stop noticing your boobs?! Hypocrisy right?!

If you want sexual attention that's fine, but own that! And if that's what you want, don't be surprised when that's what you get!!!

I don't think that's buying into the whole sexists thing going on in society! Hell, women put more pressure on themselves to be perfect than men do. Women define their worth by appearance sometimes more than men do! But the minute a woman gets bad results, she then wants to turn around & blame the bad results on men w/o ever taking responsibility for her OWN role in why she's attracting the complete opposite of what she wanted!!!

Mini skirts, size E boobs & butt injections.....how do women not see that this about them will dramatically INCREASE their chances of finding someone who only sees them for these things?!

Idk about you, but I'm not gonna go invest thousands of dollars into something that I don't want others to see!!!

If I want you to see it, it's b/c I don't mind you focusing on it. And if I don't want you to see it or focus on it or use that in terms of how you perceive me, then I just simply won't go F'ing investing thousands of dollars in it to begin with lol

That's like the rich guy being upset that people consider him rich, & therefore want to use him for his money, when he's chosen to buy a 35 million dollar home! He bought that home not b/c he needed it or b/c his life depended on it. He invested in it to show it off b/c something in him wants others to see that & judge him for it (even if the judgment is in a good way). So when he starts attracting gold-diggers, how silly would he be to be confused like a deer in headlights when gold-diggers is primarily what he attracts?!

Sure, there's always gonna be that down to earth girl next door that comes a long & sees past all his money, but that is the exception, not the rule!

1st impression are lasting impressions, sometimes

Whatever you put on the forefront in big writing is what people will notice & focus on the most!

If you carry yourself in a way that says, "LOOK AT ME! I'VE GOT A HUMONGOUS ASS!" then don't be mad when guys start asking you for naked pictures!

If you're gonna go carrying yourself like a crazy person, don't be surprised or mad when people start to perceive you that way!

Perception is reality! Yes, there is always a real person under the surface, BUT perception is reality! Which is why you have to be careful about what you put out! Don't wear a shirt that says, "WEAK" if you can't handle people thinking you're weak!

How you carry yourself has to match what you want from others!

A hoe can't expect to be treated or perceived like a housewife.

A crazy woman can't expect for the men who DON'T like crazy women, to be attracted to her!

A girl whose shallow enough herself to define her worth by the size of her boobs or the length of her hair can't then be unfair & go call a guy shallow b/c he's choosing to define her worth in those ways too!

Hypocrisy is hypocrisy no matter how you slice it!

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Btw, all the girls that are seen as sex symbols & all these guys run after & even propose to ARE fake as hell. Kim K is a good example. I don't see many worship the likes of Alek Wek, even though she is VERY original. LOL! Men of substance are rare & it's not fair to put the blame only on the ladies. It's the battle of the PHATTEST ass out there, truth be told.

Hey, there are plenty of natural phat asses.

In other parts of the world maybe 😛 I don't know man, but most American asses look man-made to me. .not all ofcourse...I'm sure there are FEW exceptions here & there though 😛

On television yeah. Majority of those are fake. Nonetheless there are plenty of glucosed dimpled asses where I look.
And please, this is coming from someone who thinks brazilian butts are fake. 😛

LMAO @ glucosed. I was just kidding with you, I'm sure the everyday girl on the street has God given ASSets. Btw I saw a thread CC posted on the Taurus forum about Tahiry & Joe, I've never heard of them so I googled. OMG at her ass! I mean, if you do enhancements they should at least look natural otherwise it's a dead giveaway...what's the point? Her ass is waaay too big for her size. They both look good though & I think I've developed a crush on Joe lol...that voice *swoons*

Yeah she do got a phat one! I'm like 😕 everytime I see it. Good for Joe though. Virgos love dat ass! 😛
Come to the Darkside Watercup. 😄

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LMAO. Virgo guys are gorgeous, but I don't think a relationship would work. It'll just fizzle out. The way I see it it's like they like being chased & are moody. I don't have time for any of those things. They're still VERY tempting though...look at the Joe guy, Idris, Luda *drools* Hell, even that comedian guy makes me wanna touch myself 😛 I forgot his name lol.

LOL @ x-ray vision. You sure are ass crazy, PHV.

lol

Posted by feby16aqua
It can become a feeling though of not being able to keep up. I'm glad there are men out there that like and appreciate natural. It's refreshing.

I have met all of my x's when they where looking their worst... or so they say they where... normally make up less... and so on...

I did not care I normally see through all this kinda stuff... it can scream insecurity... I am a natural fan... for the most part... I say for the most part because I never realized how many x's I dated with fake boobs until I counted... It was never my motivation though...

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Posted by robyn808
curious to see how far 30lbs of deception could get this woman....

Hahahahahaha! Now see, I bet you that if a guy was attracted to the made up version of this woman, he'd run like hell when he finally wakes up to her 1 night when all that makeup is resting on her pillow!

And she'd be somewhere pouting like, "What?! What'd I do" when the guy runs out of the backdoor! Girls like this are the 1st ones to say, "Omg no one likes me for me!" And it's like um, YOU don't even like you for you! As made apparent by the 30 pounds of makeup you're wearing! wtf

So again like I said...the hypocrisy

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Posted by krysrenee7
Idk about you, but I'm not gonna go invest thousands of dollars into something that I don't want others to see!!!

If I want you to see it, it's b/c I don't mind you focusing on it. And if I don't want you to see it or focus on it or use that in terms of how you perceive me, then I just simply won't go F'ing investing thousands of dollars in it to begin with lol

You are an idiot. Point blank period.

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So I'm an idiot b/c I won't go spend $ 20K on breast implants b/c I'm comfortable with my OWN damn boobs & don't feel the need to make them bigger so that a man will like me?!

lol I don't think I'm the idiot here

Put that 20K in a damn trust fund for your kids instead of in a surgeon's hands to make a man, that may still not even like you at the end of it all, like you!

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curious to see how far 30lbs of deception could get this woman....

Hahahahahaha! Now see, I bet you that if a guy was attracted to the made up version of this woman, he'd run like hell when he finally wakes up to her 1 night when all that makeup is resting on her pillow!

And she'd be somewhere pouting like, "What?! What'd I do" when the guy runs out of the backdoor! Girls like this are the 1st ones to say, "Omg no one likes me for me!" And it's like um, YOU don't even like you for you! As made apparent by the 30 pounds of makeup you're wearing! wtf

So again like I said...the hypocrisy

What about your hypocrisy? You and everyone else here is saying she has no value without it. At least she's might be good enough to fuck with it.

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Um, not even 30 lbs convinces me. That wouldn't convince me at 2:29 AM.
Maybe she should try 100 lbs of deception.

I made it VERY clear in the beginning of this thread that I was all for women doing whatever the hell they wanted to do!

The point was that if you DON'T want someone to define you based on your looks (as made apparent by the fact that that's all you showcase), then don't measure your own worth by looks if you don't want others defining you by your looks! THAT is the hypocrisy!

I'm NOT talking about the women who get cosmetic surgery for other reasons. Don't change the subject. I'm talking about the women who's primary intention on getting cosmetic surgery is to get more physical attention from men. You have to be careful what you ask for. If that's not truly the kind of attention you were seeking, then........

You're twisting my words on purpose to fit whatever it is YOU wanna believe. Don't just pick out 1 thing out of a whole paragraph & tweek/change it to mean what you want it to mean!

I didn't say that no one would want the natural version of this woman. I said there are 2 kinds of guys: 1. The guy who is just fine with the natural version & 2. The guy who isn't, thus explains why he'd only talk to her if she looked like the "made up" version.

And if this woman wants a man to accept her for who she is naturally, then she oughta showcase who she is naturally! How can someone accept you for who you are if who you are is something they never see?!

Do you guys realize that you're arguing with me b/c I'm saying that if you want to appeal to the guys who prefer a more natural look, you should probably be more natural?! How does that not make sense to you?!

If you wanna appeal to the kinds of guys who want you for more than sex, it's probably not smart to carry yourself as if you were trying to attract the kind of guy that is all about sex. How does that not make sense to you?!

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If you carry yourself in a way that says, "LOOK AT ME! I'VE GOT A HUMONGOUS ASS!" then don't be mad when guys start asking you for naked pictures!

Next you're gonna tell us a woman who dresses slutty is asking to be raped too, right?

2 different things. 2 completely different topics. You're trying to change the subject

How a man perceives you is 1 thing. How a man decides to violate your personal space is another thing entirely! Stop reaching!

Perception & action are 2 different things! Pay attention! This thread isn't about action! It's about perception! It's about women wanting 1 thing but doing the wrong thing to go about getting it.

It's no different than me encouraging someone to dress professionally if they want to increase their chances at being taken seriously & getting the job! If you want to be perceived as professional, you've got to walk in with a good resume, not good boobs. And if your gonna walk in with half of your chest hanging out, don't be mad when you don't get the job! How does this not make sense to you?! Have you been taking those bath salts again, darling—!

Posted by Arietteheart
You have issues with women.

Who does?

If a man walks into a job interview with his pants sagging, his clothes dirty & gives no eye contact, is anyone REALLY gonna feel sorry for him or be surprised when he doesn't get the job?! Give me F'ing break!

If a man goes around slapping women on the azz, should he be surprised that he's not necessarily attracting the down to earth Christian daddy's girl?! I mean come on!

If you're the kind of person that doesn't care how you're perceived, good for you. But many people DO care & if you are serious about attracting a specific type, it's only fair that you've gotta appeal to that specific type if you want your chances of snatching them up to be high.

If you want the part, you've gotta play the part! That is real life! Never said it was fair! But this is true in life, not just love! The women who constantly debate this are usually single & are still trying to figure out why!

*If you wanna be known for your personality, showcase your personality, NOT your boobs on the 1st date!
*If you wanna be perceived as professional, carry yourself like a professional, & not like a bum
*If you wanna be perceived as secure, you can't act like an insecure crazy woman & then expect for people to consider you secure! Not gonna happen!

"Why are we such hypocrites?!"


Define "WE"

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Exactly? What the fuck kind of psychologist is she to say no one will want the "natural" version of this woman even though by her definition, the natural version is enhanced because she drew her eyebrows on.

The one who plays a psychologist on DXP. Just go with it..it's interesting to watch.

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Perception & action are 2 different things! Pay attention! This thread isn't about action! It's about perception! It's about women wanting 1 thing but doing the wrong thing to go about getting it.

I'm paying attention. Define WE and what group of "women" are you talking about?

Ok. Maybe that one on the right I might pass off to a non-discriminating friend I don't care too much about...
I know. I'm shallow and cruel.

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wow robyn do you use photoshop? that's pretty good.

Yeah, that was a pretty good job.

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Posted by krysrenee7

Perception & action are 2 different things! Pay attention! This thread isn't about action! It's about perception! It's about women wanting 1 thing but doing the wrong thing to go about getting it.

I'm paying attention. Define WE and what group of "women" are you talking about?

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Use your imagination. The only one pretending to be a psychologist is you. You've been trying to psycho-analyze me from the beginning, yet ironically you complain when others do this.

Since you're Mr. Psychic & know it all, how about you figure that out.....While you're doing that, I'll be in the kitchen preparing your bath salts too

So I'M the bad guy b/c I said that all the men on earth wouldn't want to talk to the natural version of this woman?! lol

Find me 100 guys who'd hit that! If you can't, then shut up!

Find me 1,000 guys who wouldn't be turned off if she went from looking like the woman in the 3rd image to the 1st image in the morning?! *I'll wait............*cricket*..........

Posted by FrostAndBite
The real irony is that most men I know don't care nearly as much about how a woman looks compared to how much other women do.

I said that already lol

But I got attacked when I said it....*Hands you a helmet*

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Posted by FrostAndBite
The real irony is that most men I know don't care nearly as much about how a woman looks compared to how much other women do.

I read stuff on here most days and I think women must seriously overestimate the thoughts that go on in our head. They're incredibly basic and few in number.


I don't really think women care that much about what men think though. We're just the "cover" for them to get their revenge on other women 😛

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Posted by FrostAndBite
The real irony is that most men I know don't care nearly as much about how a woman looks compared to how much other women do.

I said that already lol

But I got attacked when I said it....*Hands you a helmet*

Most of your posts contradict this... you have this theory about how "guys think this" "guys think that"...


We don't think any of that, it's not nearly that complicated or well thought out as you make it to be.

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You're just 1 person in the world, & so am I. My experiences with men & what I know about them may be 100% different from yours. Doesn't mean I'm wrong, nor does it mean that what I know doesn't apply to others other than you

I've met plenty of men who agree with some of the things I say. You just don't happen to be 1 of them. It's cool though. I respect your difference in opinion =P

You're right guys! Love, women & men are so simple!

That's why there are 1 billion books about it!
That's why there's some 500 threads about it on this site
That's why there's 5 billion songs about it
That's why there's 200,000 Psychologists/Therapists who specialize in this area alone
That's why there are 30 million women who are single & don't know why
That's why there are 50 million guys who still can't figure out women
That's why the divorce rate is higher than the rate for which people are even getting married
That's why so many of YOUR relationships don't work out (as made apparent by your threads asking for advice about what? Some love interest!)

But you're right guys...love is soooooo simple lol *Contemplates drug testing all of you

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Posted by FrostAndBite
The real irony is that most men I know don't care nearly as much about how a woman looks compared to how much other women do.

I read stuff on here most days and I think women must seriously overestimate the thoughts that go on in our head. They're incredibly basic and few in number.
I don't really think women care that much about what men think though. We're just the "cover" for them to get their revenge on other women 😛

Lol! Yes.

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wow that's alot of thought that goes into what women think, very complicated stuff. Lol. The simplicity of men.... very true.

The girl in the third image isn't hot either.

None of them are.

And if I found an equally ugly guy, you wouldn't be interested in him either

And if I put make up on him, you'd be disappointed in the morning too.

So...

Point being everyone has aesthetic standards and there's nothing wrong with that.

@Tizani: Fair enough *Shakes your hand*

I never ever say that all women/men are 1 way. If I'm talking about sluts, what I'm saying only applies to that breed of woman & not all women. If a person reads my thread about sluts & assumes I'm talking about all women, that's on them!

So when I say that the women who define their OWN worth by using enhancements to do so, I'm not talking about every single woman whose ever had breast implants. I'm only talking about the women whose intention absolutely IS to gain more prospects in men. And when I see women like this, I cringe every time they complain about men defining their worth based on looks when they themselves define their worth by looks. Can't have it both ways.

But apparently, DXP is filled with people who think it's unfair when a slut (for example) can't seem to find a good man.

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Posted by FrostAndBite
The real irony is that most men I know don't care nearly as much about how a woman looks compared to how much other women do.

what do you guys care about?

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Whoa, wait! Why are you asking?! For someone whose always challenging anything I have to say, I'd have thought that you'd have already known the answer to this question! I thought men were so simple?! If so, why don't you already know the answer to this question?! Ugh I'm so disappointed 😢

Posted by krysrenee7
You're right guys! Love, women & men are so simple!

That's why there are 1 billion books about it!
That's why there's some 500 threads about it on this site
That's why there's 5 billion songs about it
That's why there's 200,000 Psychologists/Therapists who specialize in this area alone
That's why there are 30 million women who are single & don't know why
That's why there are 50 million guys who still can't figure out women
That's why the divorce rate is higher than the rate for which people are even getting married
That's why so many of YOUR relationships don't work out (as made apparent by your threads asking for advice about what? Some love interest!)

But you're right guys...love is soooooo simple lol *Contemplates drug testing all of you

This only applies to those who buy those books, see those therapists, listen to those songs all the time, ect ect...

which i do not.

If you are having trouble.. well.. that's your journey.