Why do gay men hate women ??

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Haruuka on Wednesday, May 9, 2018 and has 55 replies.
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First of all I’m not homophobic, ok?



I just notice this, it’s weird

A lot of gay men - I mean a loot- hate women ?


Why ???


Why do they hate women ?


I’m not talking about “love” and “to have” something for somen like straight men..

I just don’t get it ?? Why the HATE !?
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.

I have a friend who hates women except for a few, because I am one of his female friends.

He claims that they're b1tchy. And "all they want to do is drain the living fck outta you."
Not all gay men hate women.

However, the ones who hate women tend to have issues in the past with the women in their lives. e.g. overbearing and controlling mothers and/or sisters. So when they interact with women later, they tend to project their misogynistic views and disdain on to these other women.

My best friend's ex is one example. He would cuss at and be generally disrespectful to his own mother at family gatherings (mind you, his mother wasn't exactly a nice person either, but the level of disrespect he showed her was scary). He would comment about women's looks, weight, etc. and even tried his bitchy and condescending crap on me a few times. It forced me to stop hanging out with my best friend.

Fortunately my best friend saw the light finally, when his ex thought it was a good idea to verbally abuse my best friend's mother when she was staying with them for Christmas for 2 weeks. And then attempt to punch my best friend when he defended his mother. He dumped the ex on New Year's Day.
Posted by Echo
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.

I have a friend who hates women except for a few, because I am one of his female friends.

He claims that they're b1tchy. And "all they want to do is drain the living fck outta you."
On a side note, I wouldn't date women with that sort of mindset.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Not the ones I know! They give compliments so confidently it's refreshing. Unlike straight men who are clumsy af.
Some of them are good at hiding their misogyny.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Echo
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.



I have a friend who hates women except for a few, because I am one of his female friends.



He claims that they're b1tchy. And "all they want to do is drain the living trtrk outta you."



On a side note, I wouldn't date women with that sort of mindset. click to expand
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I dont think anyone would. Unless the person is the type to take the challenge
Posted by AstroPlus
Posted by Haruuka


First of all I’m not homophobic, ok?







I just notice this, it’s weird



A lot of gay men - I mean a loot- hate women ?





Why ???





Why do they hate women ?





I’m not talking about “love” and “to have” something for somen like straight men..



I just don’t get it ?? Why the HATE !?



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I’m sherious hahahaha
Posted by Echo
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.

I have a friend who hates women except for a few, because I am one of his female friends.

He claims that they're b1tchy. And "all they want to do is drain the living trtrk outta you."
But some of them never been with a woman


Maybe it’s mommy issue thing?
Posted by WittyGem88v2
Gay men love me wahahaha when I was in my teens, one of the people who taught me how to out makeup was a gay friend who now turned to be a celebrity makeup artist. He used to love experimenting on my face!


Awwww so cuuutttee
Posted by Ram416
Not all gay men hate women.

However, the ones who hate women tend to have issues in the past with the women in their lives. e.g. overbearing and controlling mothers and/or sisters. So when they interact with women later, they tend to project their misogynistic views and disdain on to these other women.

My best friend's ex is one example. He would cuss at and be generally disrespectful to his own mother at family gatherings (mind you, his mother wasn't exactly a nice person either, but the level of disrespect he showed her was scary). He would comment about women's looks, weight, etc. and even tried his cookiemonstery and condescending crap on me a few times. It forced me to stop hanging out with my best friend.

Fortunately my best friend saw the light finally, when his ex thought it was a good idea to verbally abuse my best friend's mother when she was staying with them for Christmas for 2 weeks. And then attempt to punch my best friend when he defended his mother. He dumped the ex on New Year's Day.


What the hell

This is so crazy 😳💔

Thank god he saw the light finally
It’s easy. I’m a woman and I hate women. They’re evil
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Not the ones I know! They give compliments so confidently it's refreshing. Unlike straight men who are clumsy af.


Straight men are an animals sometimes 😊👍🏻

But this gay man I know is VERY RUDE TO ME .. he call me names, it just make me feel bad

Posted by FishyDude
The only gay man I know in person is my step brother, although I'm not sure if he hates women.

If a gay man hates women, I would assume it's because a woman is more woman than him?
But he is not woman ? He still a man , just gay man? Or am I wrong ?
Posted by Prince_Pisces
I don't. However I have an issue with the fact that most women think of gay men as accessories that only exist to make them feel good and do their makeup, which is why I'm not usually interested in being nice or befriending most of them. If anyone is getting pampered it's me LOL!


I never think that way, ever

I thought that me and this gay man will be a very good friend, then he start to do a very rude thing, for nothing, I didn’t do any thing wrong for him, I even start to hate him .. and I don’t hate anyone
Posted by miriyahhh
It’s easy. I’m a woman and I hate women. They’re evil
Agree

But not all of them


I’m an angel lol ☠️
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (cockblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).
Posted by LethalFantasia
Man this thread saddens me. I love women, especially my BFF's. We grew up together. I always pay for their stuff to show appreciation to them for being there for me during some tough times. We don't hate women at all. But if it's like a job or a professional setting, then yes, we can be picky, because it's strictly professional.
Awwh don’t be sad ❤️

I just felt it’s so weird that he start a war with me for reason Sad

He is sagittarius by the way
Posted by Prince_Pisces
I don't. However I have an issue with the fact that most women think of gay men as accessories that only exist to make them feel good and do their makeup, which is why I'm not usually interested in being nice or befriending most of them. If anyone is getting pampered it's me LOL!


All my gay friends are not into that at all. They are rather masculine. More into gym and healthy eating.
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Echo
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.



I have a friend who hates women except for a few, because I am one of his female friends.



He claims that they're b1tchy. And "all they want to do is drain the living trtrk outta you."



But some of them never been with a woman


Maybe it’s mommy issue thing? click to expand
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That or sisters...
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (cockblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).
Not all women who go to gay bars are straight though. So it's unwarranted to hate on someone who goes to a gay bar just because she has a vagina.
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).


I have being in tons of gay bars in London and never had a problem. I was just one more of my gay friends and people were always super friendly.

Saying that I went to one in Paris with my straight boyfriend and some gay friends and the gay guys completely ignored me and just hit on my boyfriend without any shame or care in the world. Was just crazy. Lol, I was so so jealous 😂
Posted by FishyDude
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Posted by FishyDude
The only gay man I know in person is my step brother, although I'm not sure if he hates women.



If a gay man hates women, I would assume it's because a woman is more woman than him?





But he is not woman ? He still a man , just gay man? Or am I wrong ? click to expand



I could be wrong, but I believe in most gay relationships, you get a gay man who's the man in the relationship, and the one who is very feminine, but yes, the feminine one theoretically is still a man. click to expand
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You should try saying that to a gay couple. See what response you get.😈







I'm kidding! Don't say that. It comes across as ignorant with just a tinge of homophobia (unintentional) so yea don't do it.
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).


I have being in tons of gay bars in London and never had a problem. I was just one more of my gay friends and people were always super friendly.

Saying that I went to one in Paris with my straight boyfriend and some gay friends and the gay guys completely ignored me and just hit on my boyfriend without any shame or care in the world. Was just crazy. Lol, I was so so jealous 😂 click to expand
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Best friend and I experienced a level of misandry in Amsterdam when we went to a lesbian bar for drinks. The women stared daggers at him so we had one drink then left.

A bisexual male friend and I got kicked out of a lesbian bar over here in Singapore because "no men allowed". The part-time bartender didn't realise this until her boss showed up to kick us out. That bar has since closed down.
I don't think gay men hate women, most of the gays I know actually like women more than straight men, they generally are obsessed with a singer or actress like cher or britney spears. I imagine they love to go shopping and gossip with girls and all that gay shit.

There are probably women-hating gay men but it's not the norm.

Posted by Echo
If you meet the guys' who used to be straight and got their hearts broken by a women, you would understand that this situation could go on both sides for lesbians hating men.


lol men don't become gay because they had their heart broken by a woman.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (cockblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).



Not all women who go to gay bars are straight though. So it's unwarranted to hate on someone who goes to a gay bar just because she has a vagina. click to expand
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That may be true - but someties it takes just couple of bad apples to ruin your night. (: Btw, i'm not gay. I don't hang-out in gay bars. But i've bumped into this subject before - and i kept hearing the same complaints - over and over again. Logicaly speaking, they do have a point - if that's the case. Was standing-up for the right to privacy. Cause obiusly - this dosn't affect me in any way. 🙂
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Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (cockblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).





Not all women who go to gay bars are straight though. So it's unwarranted to hate on someone who goes to a gay bar just because she has a vagina. click to expand



That may be true - but someties it takes just couple of bad apples to ruin your night. (: Btw, i'm not gay. I don't hang-out in gay bars. But i've bumped into this subject before - and i kept hearing the same complaints - over and over again. Logicaly speaking, they do have a point - if that's the case. Was standing-up for the right to privacy. Cause obiusly - this dosn't affect me in any way. 🙂 click to expand
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From queer person's POV it's total understandable. Queer women hate it when straight men (especially those who pretend to be gay) invade their private community space.
I don’t hate women i just hate dumb bitches...

You know those dumb cunts who shiver everywhere they go because they’re cold but refuse to take a jumper with them because they refuse to cover up their tits and expects everyone to sit in a hot office so they can keep their Ta tas warm.

Or those bitches who put their bags on the seat next to them? so inconsiderate!!

I reeealy can’t stand light weight dumb bitches who can’t hold their alcohol....

But I think the main reason gay guys don’t like chicks is because of jealousy...

Straight boys and girls get to grow up in high school which is supposed to be the key factors in your life and they get to have relationships etc, there’s always a girl who has a gay friend and he’s always inbetween who tags along and has to live his relationship life vicariously through the girl or his straight friends and watch his straight crushes date girls etc...they miss out in high school.

So when a gay guy grows up he over compensates and feels that now he is in the prime of his life and so he is making himself a priority and not cis women
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).


I have being in tons of gay bars in London and never had a problem. I was just one more of my gay friends and people were always super friendly.

Saying that I went to one in Paris with my straight boyfriend and some gay friends and the gay guys completely ignored me and just hit on my boyfriend without any shame or care in the world. Was just crazy. Lol, I was so so jealous 😂 click to expand
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Yeah, but you're a women (part of the problem 😀). The complaints are usualy made by gay men - in relation to straight women (: not the other way around).

http://www.newnownext.com/michael-henry-straight-people-in-gay-bars/08/2017/

"The only time I've ever been groped in a gay bar was two years ago. During pride weekend, my hubbo and I were dancing close, arms around each other' shoulders. My eyes were closed enjoying the sweet moment of totally being myself with my love of 18 years (we'd been through times where we had to lie to hotel clerks and say we were brothers in the very early years, for safety reasons.)

Out of nowhere, we were slammed into each other by the hands of a straight, drunk woman in each of our asses. Her fingers straining through the fabric of our shorts towards outer butt holes. She yelled at us to kiss, and when my husband get calmly told her to back off, (I was furious and ready to throw punches) she yelled at us and to her friends about us being no fun, and told us we really weren't good looking anyway, etc."

Awwww! "Girls just wanna have fun" - why can't gay men understand this... 😏
Posted by Ram416
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (cockblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).





Not all women who go to gay bars are straight though. So it's unwarranted to hate on someone who goes to a gay bar just because she has a vagina. click to expand





That may be true - but someties it takes just couple of bad apples to ruin your night. (: Btw, i'm not gay. I don't hang-out in gay bars. But i've bumped into this subject before - and i kept hearing the same complaints - over and over again. Logicaly speaking, they do have a point - if that's the case. Was standing-up for the right to privacy. Cause obiusly - this dosn't affect me in any way. 🙂 click to expand



From queer person's POV it's total understandable. Queer women hate it when straight men (especially those who pretend to be gay) invade their private community space. click to expand
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See, you do understand. (:
Posted by neves
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).



I have being in tons of gay bars in London and never had a problem. I was just one more of my gay friends and people were always super friendly.



Saying that I went to one in Paris with my straight boyfriend and some gay friends and the gay guys completely ignored me and just hit on my boyfriend without any shame or care in the world. Was just crazy. Lol, I was so so jealous 😂 click to expand



Yeah, but you're a women (part of the problem 😀). The complaints are usualy made by gay men - in relation to straight women (: not the other way around).

http://www.newnownext.com/michael-henry-straight-people-in-gay-bars/08/2017/

"The only time I've ever been groped in a gay bar was two years ago. During pride weekend, my hubbo and I were dancing close, arms around each other' shoulders. My eyes were closed enjoying the sweet moment of totally being myself with my love of 18 years (we'd been through times where we had to lie to hotel clerks and say we were brothers in the very early years, for safety reasons.)
Out of nowhere, we were slammed into each other by the hands of a straight, drunk woman in each of our asses. Her fingers straining through the fabric of our shorts towards outer butt holes. She yelled at us to kiss, and when my husband get calmly told her to back off, (I was furious and ready to throw punches) she yelled at us and to her friends about us being no fun, and told us we really weren't good looking anyway, etc."

Awwww! "Girls just wanna have fun" - why can't gay men understand this... 😏 click to expand
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I suppose it is all about respect.

I wouldn’t do that that to anyone, gay or straight.

I know my friends don’t feel like that about me but they may feel it about other women. Not really sure now.

When I go to gay places I am part of a group of gay guys and I have always felt more than welcome by everyone.
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Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).



I have being in tons of gay bars in London and never had a problem. I was just one more of my gay friends and people were always super friendly.



Saying that I went to one in Paris with my straight boyfriend and some gay friends and the gay guys completely ignored me and just hit on my boyfriend without any shame or care in the world. Was just crazy. Lol, I was so so jealous 😂 click to expand





Yeah, but you're a women (part of the problem 😀). The complaints are usualy made by gay men - in relation to straight women (: not the other way around).



http://www.newnownext.com/michael-henry-straight-people-in-gay-bars/08/2017/



"The only time I've ever been groped in a gay bar was two years ago. During pride weekend, my hubbo and I were dancing close, arms around each other' shoulders. My eyes were closed enjoying the sweet moment of totally being myself with my love of 18 years (we'd been through times where we had to lie to hotel clerks and say we were brothers in the very early years, for safety reasons.)

Out of nowhere, we were slammed into each other by the hands of a straight, drunk woman in each of our asses. Her fingers straining through the fabric of our shorts towards outer butt holes. She yelled at us to kiss, and when my husband get calmly told her to back off, (I was furious and ready to throw punches) she yelled at us and to her friends about us being no fun, and told us we really weren't good looking anyway, etc."



Awwww! "Girls just wanna have fun" - why can't gay men understand this... 😏 click to expand


I suppose it is all about respect.
I wouldn’t do that that to anyone, gay or straight.

I know my friends don’t feel like that about me but they may feel it about other women. Not really sure now.

When I go to gay places I am part of a group of gay guys and I have always felt more than welcome by everyone. click to expand
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The thing is - we live in times (at least - in the modern parts of the world / casue we still have societies with primitive way of thinking/behaving) - when women can get away with a lot (: priviliged - if you will 😛). And some women - beign well aware of this fact - abuse it... 😒 I don't know about gay bars - but i've been thorugh this more than once in the usual bars, as in: women grabing men's asses - as if it's an all you can eat buffet. You can tell from their reaction - that they've done this quite a lot - to the point where it became a part of their routine (kinda like shaking hands). Stray men - usually don't make a big thing out of it (and probably - that's why they keep doing it / used to getting away with it 🙄) - but i can see how the same type of behavior could annoy gay men.

Now it's also true that - only some women do that. So no, it's not a common thing for the majority. One could say - most women are indeed more respectful - or way to shy to act like that (till they get drunk - then all hell breaks loose 😁).
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).


Aha... I got what you saying neves

But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah

But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it
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Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).




Aha... I got what you saying neves

But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔
But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah

But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand
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Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐
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Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand



Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand
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I believe it's one of the former British colonies (Asian, either predominantly Muslim or otherwise). Over here it's not illegal to be gay, BUT gay sex is still illegal. There was even a point when they contemplated making lesbian sex illegal as well but it never happened (because in their minds lesbians don't exist). So if you're staying in a flat with your partner, and you have a nasty assed neighbour, they can report you for having gay sex. At that point, whether or not the police decide to enforce that law, is entirely up to them.
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Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand





Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand



I believe it's one of the former British colonies (Asian, either predominantly Muslim or otherwise). Over here it's not illegal to be gay, BUT gay sex is still illegal. There was even a point when they contemplated making lesbian sex illegal as well but it never happened (because in their minds lesbians don't exist). So if you're staying in a flat with your partner, and you have a nasty assed neighbour, they can report you for having gay sex. At that point, whether or not the police decide to enforce that law, is entirely up to them. click to expand
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That sounds both ironic and hypocritical. I mean, they're trying to enforce their "so called moral standards" on others - by acting immoral themselves. We are who we are and yet - if your individuality - doesn't fit with their social expectations (or maybe - cultural is the best word) - then it's regarded as a... sin. 😒 Some religions make me wanna puke. Just a means to an end (a form of control).
Posted by neves
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand


Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand
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No it’s not a primitive country, it’s very very religious country ):

Yeah.. maybe you’re right .
Strange, I don’t see it.

My bestie is gay and all his friends are straight women just about. Ime the gay community has been incredibly welcoming and open minded no matter who you are, gay-straight-bi-trans-alien. It don’t matter.
Posted by Juliiette
misogyny in gay men is not more common. it's just that the straight one won't be mean to you cause maybe he will want to treetrunk you some day.
so you’re saying that all gentlemen are like this just because of sex? 🤭😂
Posted by LadyNeptune
Strange, I don’t see it.
My bestie is gay and all his friends are straight women just about. Ime the gay community has been incredibly welcoming and open minded no matter who you are, gay-straight-bi-trans-alien. It don’t matter.
Not sure if it's a gay Asian male thing, but a lot of the gay men here tend to be transphobic and biphobic, and in some cases, also dismissive and misogynistic towards queer women. Not sure why, with the latter, since a lot of us can hardly be considered a threat to them.

Posted by neves
Posted by Ram416
Posted by neves
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand





Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand





I believe it's one of the former British colonies (Asian, either predominantly Muslim or otherwise). Over here it's not illegal to be gay, BUT gay sex is still illegal. There was even a point when they contemplated making lesbian sex illegal as well but it never happened (because in their minds lesbians don't exist). So if you're staying in a flat with your partner, and you have a nasty assed neighbour, they can report you for having gay sex. At that point, whether or not the police decide to enforce that law, is entirely up to them. click to expand


That sounds both ironic and hypocritical. I mean, they're trying to enforce their "so called moral standards" on others - by acting immoral themselves. We are who we are and yet - if your individuality - doesn't fit with their social expectations (or maybe - cultural is the best word) - then it's regarded as a... sin. 😒 Some religions make me wanna puke. Just a means to an end (a form of control). click to expand
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I can't speak for the other countries where they have dominant religion - but Singapore is a secular countries. It's just that our govt. chooses to keep some very draconian laws from the 1500s.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by LadyNeptune
Strange, I don’t see it.

My bestie is gay and all his friends are straight women just about. Ime the gay community has been incredibly welcoming and open minded no matter who you are, gay-straight-bi-trans-alien. It don’t matter.


Not sure if it's a gay Asian male thing, but a lot of the gay men here tend to be transphobic and biphobic, and in some cases, also dismissive and misogynistic towards queer women. Not sure why, with the latter, since a lot of us can hardly be considered a threat to them.
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It’s gotta be part of the culture... that mindset.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by LadyNeptune
Strange, I don’t see it.

My bestie is gay and all his friends are straight women just about. Ime the gay community has been incredibly welcoming and open minded no matter who you are, gay-straight-bi-trans-alien. It don’t matter.


Not sure if it's a gay Asian male thing, but a lot of the gay men here tend to be transphobic and biphobic, and in some cases, also dismissive and misogynistic towards queer women. Not sure why, with the latter, since a lot of us can hardly be considered a threat to them.
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This is true for Asia. Experienced it even in the workplace. Asian gay men hating both straight AND gay women.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
I don't. However I have an issue with the fact that most women think of gay men as accessories that only exist to make them feel good and do their makeup, which is why I'm not usually interested in being nice or befriending most of them. If anyone is getting pampered it's me LOL!
Take your pants off now! Where is that belt...where is my glasses...shit!!! Lol
Posted by Ram416
Posted by neves
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand





Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand


I believe it's one of the former British colonies (Asian, either predominantly Muslim or otherwise). Over here it's not illegal to be gay, BUT gay sex is still illegal. There was even a point when they contemplated making lesbian sex illegal as well but it never happened (because in their minds lesbians don't exist). So if you're staying in a flat with your partner, and you have a nasty assed neighbour, they can report you for having gay sex. At that point, whether or not the police decide to enforce that law, is entirely up to them. click to expand
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Aren’t they supposed to be caught in the act? Who cares what noises coming out of people? They might watched porn...what a stupid shit! Lol
Posted by Haruuka
First of all I’m not homophobic, ok?

I just notice this, it’s weird
A lot of gay men - I mean a loot- hate women ?

Why ???

Why do they hate women ?

I’m not talking about “love” and “to have” something for somen like straight men..
I just don’t get it ?? Why the HATE !?
How do you get to the point when everybody hates you? Seriously!

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Ram416
Posted by neves
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by neves
As far as i know - this happens mostly in gay bars (gay men finding women highly disagreable). No surprise there tho. I mean, women in gay bars - are basicly - intruders. Beats the purpose of a gay bar (a gay men's world /a place where gay men go - for some men on men action - or to delight their eyes with other men). Thus, in such a place - women are in the way (chickenblocking), and also quite obnoxious - from what i read (since those women are straight - some of them display their atraction for some gay men - directly and obnoxiusly - something they would never try in a normal bar).







Aha... I got what you saying neves



But in my country we don’t have gay bars, not even one, they hide themselves cuz it’s illegal to be gay 💔

But in our work area we know about gay men, we keep it kind of secret , so yeah



But this gay man in my work is not respectful at all, I just don’t get it click to expand





Which country is that (sounds like one of those places from the primitive sides of the world)? 🤔 If being gay - is illegal there, then... it's quite likely - that some those people repress a lot of stuff on a daily basis - and that can manifest externally - through antisocial behavior (like the one you noticed). Just a logical deduction - can't say for sure... 😐 click to expand



I believe it's one of the former British colonies (Asian, either predominantly Muslim or otherwise). Over here it's not illegal to be gay, BUT gay sex is still illegal. There was even a point when they contemplated making lesbian sex illegal as well but it never happened (because in their minds lesbians don't exist). So if you're staying in a flat with your partner, and you have a nasty assed neighbour, they can report you for having gay sex. At that point, whether or not the police decide to enforce that law, is entirely up to them. click to expand


Aren’t they supposed to be caught in the act? Who cares what noises coming out of people? They might watched porn...what a stupid shit! Lol click to expand
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This country has very weird, old-fashioned laws. People don't mind their own business.The police visited the home of a friend of mine and his partner, telling them that someone reported a violation of Section 377A (the law that makes homosexual sex acts illegal). The police had my friend go down to the station to make a statement, they said just to follow procedure. Nothing seriously bad happened to him, but he felt it shouldn't be happening at all and he suspected it was one of the neighbours who reported to police.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Speaking of gay men and women LOL!
This is not cool 💔

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka

First of all I’m not homophobic, ok?



I just notice this, it’s weird

A lot of gay men - I mean a loot- hate women ?


Why ???


Why do they hate women ?


I’m not talking about “love” and “to have” something for somen like straight men..

I just don’t get it ?? Why the HATE !?


How do you get to the point when everybody hates you? Seriously!
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Mmmmmm are u asking your self here, using me as excuse


Posted by Prince_Pisces
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Speaking of gay men and women LOL!



This is not cool 💔
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I just want to know who the hot guy getting out of the car is LOL! click to expand
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Loool you’re so funny 😂😂
Posted by Taniwha
Because women don't respect emasculated men.
I respect men and women as long as they’re respectful to me
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