Posted by sierraleooneAquarius
what's your rising sign?
Posted by LittleFairyPastors, teachers, coworkers, lovers, family members.
It's called the world we live in. You are just more aware of it than other people.
Posted by JustALeoMakes me want to be single.Posted by LittleFairy
It's called the world we live in. You are just more aware of it than other people.
Agreed! This world is just a messed up place and you get creeps and jerks who ruin it for everyone else.click to expand
Posted by piscesmoon2I'm just sick of it! I feel the same way. I've been hit on by all of the above in my other post and I try to stay positive and be nice but it makes me want to be so mean and unapproachable to the point I would kill.
Of course all I can say is men have learned it is ok because woman keep choosing the same... bottom line... society was created some how by the rowmodels of that they grow up around. So the only way it changes people actually have to do a better job raising there kids... watching content that encourage that kinda attitude. Society has made this Behavior exceptable... not only that some guys buy into it because men are successful about it. It is the whole pick up artist thing. It is not cool to have one woman but to try to have as many as you can... women though they seem to be eating it up these days.
I think the world is finally starting to wake up but who knows... no think we are going back to dark ages now.
Piscesmoon
Posted by Montgomery(2) family members has been molested or abused and I don't talk to the rest of my family.
Anyone in your family have a similar problem?
Posted by JustALeoPosted by AccountzNothing wrong with being single, learn to love yourself and realize you never need anyone in your life. You just make it a choice to allow someone in your lifePosted by JustALeoMakes me want to be single.Posted by LittleFairy
It's called the world we live in. You are just more aware of it than other people.
Agreed! This world is just a messed up place and you get creeps and jerks who ruin it for everyone else.
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Posted by piscesmoon2It's never the victims fault. That would be kind of like saying Jews kept choosing genocidal countries to live in.
Of course all I can say is men have learned it is ok because woman keep choosing the same...
Posted by piscesmoon2
Of course all I can say is men have learned it is ok because woman keep choosing the same... bottom line... society was created some how by the rowmodels of that they grow up around. So the only way it changes people actually have to do a better job raising there kids... watching content that encourage that kinda attitude. Society has made this Behavior exceptable... not only that some guys buy into it because men are successful about it. It is the whole pick up artist thing. It is not cool to have one woman but to try to have as many as you can... women though they seem to be eating it up these days.
I think the world is finally starting to wake up but who knows... no think we are going back to dark ages now.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2
Of course all I can say is men have learned it is ok because woman keep choosing the same...click to expand
Posted by bawlikestogomooWhy r they attracted to ppl with smiling faces?
Pervs are attracted to people with smiley face avatars. Use your real picture to deter them.
Posted by AccountzThey will have a go with anyone ....but what they want from women or children is different from what they may want from men ..or from their workplace.Posted by bawlikestogomooWhy r they attracted to ppl with smiling faces?
Pervs are attracted to people with smiley face avatars. Use your real picture to deter them.click to expand
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!click to expand
Posted by AccountzIt runs in families. And in institutions. Once you haveone issue in an institution its best to leave. And religious leaders are notorious.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
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Posted by AccountzChances are all the good men won't hit on you. They will give the impression they want little to do with you, but will still speak to you in a genuine way.Posted by piscesmoon2I'm just sick of it! I feel the same way. I've been hit on by all of the above in my other post and I try to stay positive and be nice but it makes me want to be so mean and unapproachable to the point I would kill.
Of course all I can say is men have learned it is ok because woman keep choosing the same... bottom line... society was created some how by the rowmodels of that they grow up around. So the only way it changes people actually have to do a better job raising there kids... watching content that encourage that kinda attitude. Society has made this Behavior exceptable... not only that some guys buy into it because men are successful about it. It is the whole pick up artist thing. It is not cool to have one woman but to try to have as many as you can... women though they seem to be eating it up these days.
I think the world is finally starting to wake up but who knows... no think we are going back to dark ages now.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesNo heat..but some people are born into dangerous environments. Bad families bad parents with bad friends who choose bad schools....life will get better as she gets older ..Posted by AccountzIm going to get a lot of heat for this but idgaf.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
How is it that every single person on your life does this.click to expand
Posted by AccountzPosted by Montgomery(2) family members has been molested or abused and I don't talk to the rest of my family.
Anyone in your family have a similar problem?click to expand
Posted by AccountzWhat part of it is a blessing though!!?
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesI've actually had the encounters the only one that did it indirectly was a family member but when I say indirectly I mean secretly trying to feel me out and see how I would react to it. I didn't describe everything because it's very personal to me and even when I said what I said above I felt like that was too much. Some of those things my closest family or best friend knows nothing about. I was just expressing myselfPosted by AccountzIm going to get a lot of heat for this but idgaf.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
How is it that every single person on your life does this. Could it be you are misinterpreting things? You say "indirectly" a lot.
Bit if you arent misinterpreting it would you consider therapy? You need to find out why you are always a victim.click to expand
Posted by AccountzPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzIm going to get a lot of heat for this but idgaf.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
How is it that every single person on your life does this. Could it be you are misinterpreting things? You say "indirectly" a lot.
Bit if you arent misinterpreting it would you consider therapy? You need to find out why you are always a victim.click to expand
Posted by MontgomerySome say it's my Venus in AriesPosted by AccountzPosted by Montgomery(2) family members has been molested or abused and I don't talk to the rest of my family.
Anyone in your family have a similar problem?
That's worse for sure.
Just venturing a guess here, but I know I've
learned plenty of behaviors, both good and bad,
from my immediate family.. perhaps you are
kind to people who give off that vibe without
realizing it?
Not wanting to be rude?
Some say there's a spiritual element to things
like this, as well... but it could just be that they
see something in you that makes them target
you, specifically, and unfortunately, it's often
naivete or the appearance of naivete.
But you're picking up on it somehow, so that's
good... esp if you've got kids . :/
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AccountzWhat part of it is a blessing though!!?
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's exactly why I don't now. I don't trust anyone even children of both sexes or older kids around my child. I feel like bubble boy smh. And on a side note is ur name Daniella? Ur profile pic looks like a lady I've seen beforePosted by AccountzPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
Don't leave your kid alone. Family member or not. It's the people closest to you that will hurt your babies.
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Posted by LostPisces
A lamb and the wolves... you have to say enough, not easy if alone in this society.
Posted by LostPiscesI think I understand...when someone oversteps say enough and if alone in society u will want to belong so u will go along with it to fit in?
A lamb and the wolves... you have to say enough, not easy if alone in this society.
Posted by AccountzNope, I'm not the one.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's exactly why I don't now. I don't trust anyone even children of both sexes or older kids around my child. I feel like bubble boy smh. And on a side note is ur name Daniella? Ur profile pic looks like a lady I've seen beforePosted by AccountzPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by AccountzPlease elaborate
I hate this so much it's like a bless and a curse because I can be aware but it's sickening to me. Even perverted ppl trying to be around my child! Like wtf is it?!?!? It has been this way my whole life even when I was in middle school I encountered a rapist & a pedophile!!!
A cousin in law came on to me and even his uncle. In middle school my bf tried to rape me. Multiple teachers coming on to me from middle school to college. A married pastor over stepped his boundaries etc. I'm thankful that I can sense it but I hate the fact that they tried to get over on me and to even think those thoughts towards me or the thought to cause me harm makes me want to kill. Family member (blood relative) tried to come on to me in an indirect manner and also tried to take my child somewhere and requested that no other family members could come and he would use an uber etc.
Don't leave your kid alone. Family member or not. It's the people closest to you that will hurt your babies.
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Posted by AccountzPosted by LostPiscesI think I understand...when someone oversteps say enough and if alone in society u will want to belong so u will go along with it to fit in?
A lamb and the wolves... you have to say enough, not easy if alone in this society.click to expand
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