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Mar 16, 2018Comments: 1531 · Posts: 2269 · Topics: 51
Ok, I’m seeing two men at the same time (without sex and all)
Just talk and dating blah blah
The first one is the gemini (yeah the same fking man) lol
He is kind of evil, like he is really aggressive and always do things in his way, it’s so rare for him to think about my feelings, or even his own feelings
Always about ideas and stuff, but when he sometimes open up I see clearly that he have feelings for me
He is dark man and really really sad
Deep and smart
And everyone who knows me know that I love him anyway
But I don’t know how this happened I just start dating sagittarius man, he is really really the opposite
Like wow
He is happy man, he is always nice to me and help (in everything.. he even cook!
The thing is I’m embarrassed about how much they are opposite each other
The sag start to work with me (taurus mars lol)
And he really really help me
I never thought that I will be in a situation like this, even tho I was before in love with two men, but in the past they knew about each other, and asked me to choose between them, and I choose the gemini over the old sag.
But the new sag is more caring and more helpful, and he give me all his time
They define the good guy and the bad guy
And I feel like I know from the start that I will always love the gemini more than anyone /:
I even choose him over my first love
Is that it? We women love bad guys?
Because I see clearly that my heart is always feel warm around that crazy gem
But with the sag I feel it’s fun and happy date, but that’s it
I don’t feel anything else
I asked myself is this because the gemini actually love me more, and change me in a really deep way?
🤷🏻♀️
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Mar 24, 2019Comments: 8 · Posts: 361 · Topics: 22
Bad boy act only good for short term. Long term lead to thing being toxic and heartbreaks. That’s not real love if someone constantly keep hurting you. ( from my experience)
Bad boys bring the excitement and unknown. Crazy challenges you never thought go through.
Good guy long term. He will be dedicated and understanding to your needs. Love you unconditionally. He will uplift and support u to be better and strive for the best.
Because our heart yearns to experience the heartbreak. Everything else is a wishful thinking.
To be more precise, we all want to get to the bottom of our love and other person"s love. But forget that depths are dark and scary.
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Jan 23, 2018Comments: 702 · Posts: 2127 · Topics: 4
No, less than smart women like bad guys.
I'm not into bad guys, but they are the ones that always fall for me.
I guess I'll wind up stuck with a bad guy because ultimately, I prefer someone who will sincerely love me.
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Feb 23, 2013Comments: 22238 · Posts: 25616 · Topics: 84
Without sex? 👀 Seriously?
This is why I can’t juggle 2 boyfriends. I wouldn’t be able to go back a forth with them either.
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Jan 23, 2018Comments: 702 · Posts: 2127 · Topics: 4
Even-keeled is where it's at though.
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Aug 04, 2015Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Bad guy is a Prince Charming if he is good to you. I hope that’s what OP means.
If you love a guy who is bad to you - you are stupid!
If he is good to you - who cares about anything else? Lol
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Aug 03, 2013Comments: 445 · Posts: 897 · Topics: 38
In the end only a good guy can win your heart.
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Feb 03, 2018Comments: 314 · Posts: 1443 · Topics: 31
Usually they just say the words that we always want to hear and try to relate to us in a spiritual and emotional level.
We are more focused on the situation of "sparks" but not really focusing on the logical sense that this guy might be just saying shit just temporarily
Because we confuse mean and bad with masculine and manly.. and we confuse sweet and good with feminine, that's why we tend to get attracted to "bad" boys
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Mar 10, 2018Comments: 0 · Posts: 1045 · Topics: 9
It's just your trauma bonding talking.
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Apr 25, 2019Comments: 108 · Posts: 601 · Topics: 13
Because its all chemicals in the brain that tell you to. We like bad boys because they're interesting and we think we can change them but they never do. For long term good guys are the best from experience.
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Because approval is sweeter when it comes from someone who doesn't give it away easily.
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Jan 27, 2019Comments: 2 · Posts: 1548 · Topics: 27
Bad guys are for secretly bad women.
Seems to me, you're only going to hurt the Sag. Why be with the Sag if your love is for the Gemini you keep holding onto? Not fair at all.
Either heighten your standards and be all in with the Sag or keep 'em where they're at and be with the Gem.
Poor Sag ❤️
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Mar 10, 2018Comments: 0 · Posts: 1045 · Topics: 9
But honestly there must be just something about that special bad boy, because I just got with the same type of guy, I usually get feelings for: sweet and funny, but very different from me and not looking for something serious. And I did not feel a thing for him. I just wanted to get mine and then he could leave. He stayed and chatted and wants to see me again, but I don't feel it.
He is the exact same type, but some guys just get under your skin. I still can't let go of some sort of feelings for a cap guy, nd I can't be normal towards him, and I think he's the worst while simultanously I just really like him and want to get with him. I don't know what it is, some people just... You just feel something special for them I guess 🤷🏼♀️
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Mar 16, 2018Comments: 1531 · Posts: 2269 · Topics: 51
Thank you, all of you
I wish that I have time like before, to reply to everyone 😔💔
Love you guys so much, I didn’t know really what was gonna to happen to me, if I didn’t have this place to vent in
Maybe I will be crazy or something:/
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 1876 · Posts: 16918 · Topics: 108
Tbh most intelligent women don't want a bad guy. He is a dick, and wants nothing from you. Also will do little for you. Only weak women want a true bad guy. Those type of women likely play the victim, while also having a huge ego. Thats why weak less intelligent women attract shitty men. How many likes and support comments does one person need to get to stop being trash and actually change? I'm not fooled one bit.. No sane minded women would want a shitty unstable lover. Normal women want good men or women in their lives. At the least a balanced lover.
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Feb 08, 2015Comments: 88 · Posts: 2780 · Topics: 55
Imo it‘s the everlasting desire of a woman to change a man and proof to herself that she can change a man no matter how „bad & cold“ he was because that proofs how „good and worthy“ she is. That‘s delusional! Its more an ego thing mixed with being a little desperate. Been there done that and learned from it.
Good luck!