I'm sure we all have been there. Our boyfriend, husband or the man we're dating looks at another girl in front of us. She might be walking by or standing nearby.
Sometimes I don't know how to react when this happens so I wanted to ask others how do you react??
I'm not talking about a quick glance but stare for a few minute or longer or even turning their head.
I am well awared that men are visual creatures, therefore my reaction is to ignore it and stay quiet. I'm not going to act like a jealous freak.
Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything? Because even though I act as if nothing happened sometimes my mind starts to wonder and I start to think:
"If I wasn't his gilfriend, would he aporoach that girl?" Does he think she's hotter than me?"
So how do you react and does it make you feel bad/insecure? Like if the girl was prettier or younger than you???
Be honest please.
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Apr 29, 2018Comments: 4021 · Posts: 3656 · Topics: 89
Depends if I notice her first
Im okay with noticing
Its another to gawk and check her out
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Dec 28, 2018Comments: 411 · Posts: 513 · Topics: 7
I start checking her out too
I can appreciate another woman’s beauty . Sometimes I have girl crushes
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Aug 05, 2012Comments: 3275 · Posts: 1092 · Topics: 26
If I find the person attractive, I'll look as well and tell him. Chicks are hot too.
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Jan 11, 2011Comments: 21016 · Posts: 11559 · Topics: 83
I'm usually the one pointing them out 🤷🏼♀️
It honestly depends on my mood.. there's been times where I didn't care and then there's been times where I'm like "reallllly? 😐".
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Aug 14, 2018Comments: 14362 · Posts: 2599 · Topics: 87
Guys usually don't do that when they are with me..... and if they do notice another woman it is usually a quick glance and then their eyes are focused back on me. If I do notice them looking then I might comment on it like "she's pretty" or I'll look her over and just make it apparent I've seen her and go "hmm". If they comment on another woman I will comment back and we will discus it and talk about if she would fuck the both of us....hell sometimes I'm the one who notices.
If a guy is blatantly checking out other women when he is with me...I'll ghost his ass. I don't have time for that kind of bullshit.
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Sep 13, 2013Comments: 800 · Posts: 826 · Topics: 6
Don't play bisexual for your man's respect lmaoo
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Feb 23, 2013Comments: 22238 · Posts: 25616 · Topics: 84
I never cared. If he saw something or I saw something that was eye catching, we would be hitting each other’s arms saying “Look at that or Did you see that?”
It never went further than that.
It wasn’t a big deal.
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Sep 26, 2012Comments: 1648 · Posts: 8572 · Topics: 67
Maybe I’m an idiot but I tend to go for guys that are really just into me- maybe it’s a Leo thing.
If they look I don’t care either but it’s not actually an issue that comes up.
Like, I attract men that keep their eyes to themselves or on me. Simples.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
I’m more observant then him so chances are I spotted her first and directed his gaze that way.
Haven’t encountered this yet, the stare that’s obnoxiously long or whatvs. But if I did and felt disrespected by it it’s prolly because our sex has dropped off, or not spending enough time together or getting attention from him.
My point is the root problem is not really him seeing another woman as attractive, it’s me not feeling secure with our relationship for one reason or another.
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Sep 25, 2019Comments: 40 · Posts: 358 · Topics: 19
Nah its. I am the one who usually checks out women then tell him, "isnt she beautiful?" To only be answered, "i dont know"
But this morning he told me that our neighbor's daughter is very beautiful but thats it, I m just, oh yeah, i ve never seen her..
I sometimes told him, look at that guy is cute!
So its something normal for us.
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Sep 03, 2016Comments: 36233 · Posts: 40739 · Topics: 321
It's normal to look at other people...everybody does it, if you don't do it when you're with your woman or man, you'll do it when alone. It's rude to drool over other people when you're with your loved one though ..